so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months and we really love each other but i always think that hes cheating on me with his ex girlfriend. they were toghther for a year and then they broke up. they talk on instant messaging sometimes. and he says that they are just friends and stuff but i dont know i really do love him and i dont want to break up with him and i want to ask him but im not sure. what should i do ??? thanks!!
they were too young, immature and self centered to make a real go at it and ended up divorced but had a daughter together. it was a bitter divorce and in an argument he threatened to sue for custody. she made up a bunch of lies to the police had his arrested and make sure he couldn’t have visitation let alone custody.
4 years ago he met and married me. then last year he was searching on face book and got in contact with the ex again. He got to talk to his daughter on the phone, started sending Christmas presents. That’s all good and well, I’m happy for him. But him and his ex have started chitter chattering on the phone, text messaging for hours, instant messaging on line, and emailing. He knows it bothers me. I have told him over and over again the only correspondence he should have with her is about their mutual child together. especially because she is unmarried without even a boyfriend. it is easy to fall in love again when two people who have been married before start talking with this level of intimacy. Her father has been sick, almost died, she kept calling him for the should to cry on. Her brother just died a few weeks ago and again, was on the phone with him for hours.
Then it hit. she told him she misses him. her mother got on the phone and told him he is still considered her son. my mind is going freaking wild. He knows how I feel. but he doesn’t seem to think he’s doing anything wrong so he don’t care he’s going to continue "being her friend" meanwhile she’s forming an attachment. his pastor has told him he’s treading on dangerous ground and so has his best friend. His best friend even told him it doesn’t matter if their is nothing wrong with it if it bothers your spouse this much then he needs to put his current wife’s feelings first and its wrong based on that merit alone. So my questions on the situation…hard to pick just one…am I overreacting? is this marriage worth trying to save or should I just take my cats and leave? CAN it even be saved or is he headed toward being reunited with her? he says he’s not but he does nothing to discourage her advances.
Does no contact when you want your boyfriend back work? He broke up with me last Saturday because I confessed a lie to him and he said that once he fixed himself up we could try again but I am starting to not believe that. We went no contact until I called him Tuesday to check on me and he never called back. I just told myself that it is over and I didn’t try to call or email again. I am accepting the break up and the possibility that we may never get back together again. Does he miss me? Am I doing the right thing by moving on? We talked at least 4 hours a day and were on the computer instant messaging all through the day while we worked. I can still see his status on face book and it still says in a relationship and his instant message program still shows our picture together. Does he just need time to regroup? Will he come back out of his man cave? Am I doing the right thing by preparing for the inevitable future without him?
People make mistakes and I made a huge one. I am not perfect and I came to him with the truth. He didn’t find out from anyone else or have an inclination that I lied to him. I wanted to be mature and fix the situation between us and if he can’t forgive me or doesn’t want to be with me through the tough parts and the thick and thin, then maybe he wasn’t the one for me. I should be able to come to my partner and tell my partner the good, bad and ugly about me and he has the choice of accepting me or not. The partner that accepts me for who I am with all of my flaws is the partner for me.
Does no contact when you want your boyfriend back work? He broke up with me last Saturday because I confessed a lie to him and he said that once he fixed himself up we could try again but I am starting to not believe that. We went no contact until I called him Tuesday to check on me and he never called back. I just told myself that it is over and I didn’t try to call or email again. I am accepting the break up and the possibility that we may never get back together again. Does he miss me? Am I doing the right thing by moving on? We talked at least 4 hours a day and were on the computer instant messaging all through the day while we worked. I can still see his status on face book and it still says in a relationship and his instant message program still shows our picture together. Does he just need time to regroup? Will he come back out of his man cave? Am I doing the right thing by preparing for the inevitable future without him?
People make mistakes and I made a huge one. I am not perfect and I came to him with the truth. He didn’t find out from anyone else or have an inclination that I lied to him. I wanted to be mature and fix the situation between us and if he can’t forgive me or doesn’t want to be with me through the tough parts and the thick and thin, then maybe he wasn’t the one for me. I should be able to come to my partner and tell my partner the good, bad and ugly about me and he has the choice of accepting me or not. The partner that accepts me for who I am with all of my flaws is the partner for me.
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