Have u ever tried to salvage a relationship after u send a hate letter to ur lover or had an exchange of insults or even after u cheated on ur partner? What was ur strategy?
It all started last year when I was having serious problems at home with my husband. He also was having trouble at home and so we sort found comfort in each other’s company. I decided to separate and live on my own. Then I tried to work things out with my husband again but there was no success. He sort of fixed things with his wife but continued the affair. I now realize I have fallen in love with him and know I need to let go….but I can’t. And when I tried in the past, He always called me and tells me he needs me and loves me. He has kids and I would never ask him to leave home ( i am a mom myself) but I know that when I try again to stop seeing him I won’t be able because he will not allow it. He is so sweet and gives me the strength to keep going. Sometimes I wish we could go back to been friends and for none of this to have happened. Now im madly in love, What can I do?
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Im already in the process of divorce and it hurts. My kids are with me all the time( when im not working, I do have two jubs..), I would never leave them behind. And they seem to be happier too. Thanks for ur answers. I’vemade mistakes but who hasn’t?…
Well, after reading everyone’s response and some insults, i have just informed him that its over. I only hope Im able to go through with it, It hurts an awful lot. Thanks again for the reality check from all of you.
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well, we were in love for nearly three years,he promised me in about 900 letters he wrote me since then,promising he would never let me down. We were living far from each other,but he was the man of my dreams,I did every possible thing I could to love him,but he recently betrayed me ,he is working in China and his new gf is Chinese. I don’t know what happened.He sold me so cheap and now he just insults me on the phone and says I should not bother him with my calls. We were going to marry,but now he says he does not love me,and never wants to marry.
What do you think?Should I stop thinking of him the way he did?
How can I prove how much I love him?
Should I go and never forgive him for that?
I am Iranian,muslim,and from a strict family,but I prefered him to my parents.He is Beligian and does not believe in God.
But I love him,we did not have significant cultural differences.
And more I always say we should be eager to accept differences.
What can I do now?I really need a man .
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I have told my boyfriend everything about me. There is not a question about me he cannot answer. But, he never tells me anything about himself. He is 12 years older than me and is divorced from a 13 year marriage. He often makes comments about his ex-wife, and makes insults towards her husband of 3 years. I truly believe he in love with her, but he denies having feelings for her at all. He refuses to tell me anything about himself at all. I finally brought up to him that I think he is blocking people to ensure he does not get hurt. I told him he can have the same confidence in me as I have in him. He said he will never tell me anything. I just feel like all of these hidden feelings he has is really hurting our relationship. He continually analyzes me, yet he refuses to let me in at all. He can never be honest or serious and I really feel like he doesn’t really want our relationship to go any further due to him being hurt in the past. I don’t need to have intimate details of his past, but I need to know that he trusts me the way I trust him. I feel like he doesn’t even have real feelings for me because he doesn’t want to be hurt again. What can I do to get this to work out? Or is there anythign at all?
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