My fiance and I have been dating for 3 years. I love her more than life, and asked to her marry me last Sept., she replied Yes and I was so happy. I thought we had the perfect relationship, we rarely even argued, and we were both very affectionate with each other. 2 weeks ago, OUT OF THE BLUE, she decided that " she can’t do this anymore, and she needs to find herself, she said that our relationship wasn’t a good fit, and that it is over. Needless to say, I thought I was having a bad dream and to this day I am still sick to my stomach, I have lost 15 lbs and haven’t had a good night’s sleep in 2 weeks. I love her more than anything and miss her so much, She emailed me a few times, but the emails were very cold and distant, NOT THE PERSON I KNEW, she told me that there was no other guy, but that she needs time for herself and wants to continue as the best of friends. She said that we can meet for dinner ina few weeks. I AM SO UPSET, What do I do? I miss her and want her back
She said that she wants me to be her male best friend, and that we have a close friendship. I don’t want a close friendship, I want an intimate relationship with her.
Does being friends, ever lead back into a relationship?
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My fiance broke up with me after 3 years together 2 weeks ago out of the blue, and honestly it is KILLING ME. She told me that she felt the relationship hit a plateau. But she also said that " I treated her the way a girl wants to be treated and she loves me more than anything and saw a future and lots of children for us. I have literally lost 15 lbs over this and havent slept in 2 weeks, I cry everyday over this, and I never cry. She told me that she "loves me as a person, and she wants me to be her best male friend." We have had an amazing and intimate relationship. She keeps telling me that there is no other guy, but she needs to find herself and her individuality. I can’t just be her friend, we had such an intimate relationship and an amazing sex life. Could she ever possibly come back??, I am so depressed over this.
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How can I recover from my worst heartbreak?
I lived my first real love experience in the past seven months .. I was away from home, abroad for studies . I met a guy there . We were good friends , always hanging out with each other .
He was from another country , had a fiancé or a girlfriend back home… but things started to change and soon it became a very intimate relationship …. he said he broke up with his girl , but soon they reconcilled , but it was too late for me to back off as I became too attached to him , though i tried to be away of him many times but I failed.
It was like an obssession .. I loved him in a crazy way .. at first the relationship was very intense but he started reminding me that everyone would be going his own way because there are many things seperating us .. nationality, religion and so on.
Now I am back home.brokenhearted I cry all the time, I don’t sleep at night.
He called me the first days I arrived but he wrote me an email telling me he is gonna get married soon .
I am sad & confused
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*Sigh* I was cooking salmon when my mother in law spray those dollar air spray on the kitchen. I stop cooking for her because she finds every fault on my cooking, so my husband told her to cook for herself. This is not the first time she did this to me and I am ready to give up on my marriage. She plays the I am sick with my husband, so she cant be by herself. I am thinking of leaving my husband because he told me he just cant leave her by herself because she is sick. My mother in law is 52, doesn’t work and just sit all day. Am I right to make such drastic decision or should I just stay with him and hope for the best?
P.S.
My husband and I doesn’t have any intimate relationship because this evil women sleep in front of our bedroom because she is scared.
she’s clinically depressed and maybe paranoid (it seems)
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husband had been having an affair with a woman that he met online. He had an intimate relationship with her and fell in love with her. To make a long story short, we decided to save our marriage but obviously it hasn’t been easy. Our communication with eachother is still very weak and intimately it just doesn’t feel right. After the affair, I tried very hard to liven things up between us but no matter what I did, he just wasn’t into it and sometimes wasn’t even interested in being intimate with me. When I finally approached him about it, he told me that he felt pressured and that he felt it should be something that happens naturally not something that should be forced upon into doing. I decided to back off, it’s been several months and nothing has happened between us. I feel depressed bc it seems he doesn’t want me at all anymore. I feel very undesirable as a woman! What bothers me is that with her he was very much alive and open sexually as a man but with me, he’s dead! Please help!
After the affair, I did recommend counseling for us but he didn’t want to do it. When I asked him why he had the affair, he told me that something inside of him had died and that he got curious as to what was out there but that he never stopped loving me. In the end, I gave him a choice. He chose me and told me that he loved me more than he loved her. He’s been spending more time with us (me and 11 month baby) and tells me that he loves me a lot but I’m not feeling it! We find ourselves together with nothing to say sometimes and as I mentioned previously, he doesn’t seem interested in being intimate with me anymore. I keep comparing how he was with her to how he is with me and it makes me feel awful inside. He felt liberated and carefree with her emotionally and physically. How can I compete with that! I don’t know what he’s going through because he won’t talk to me about it. I feel so alone and so hopeless as to what to do! It just seems like emotionally the affair has destroyed us!
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