i want to win my ex back,we broke up on good terms, we broke up over a misunderstanding on both parts. but because we argued a lot near the end her feelings changed for me, i think she still has some,
ive told her how much i love her and want to be with her.
I really want to do something really cheesy and sing a song to her to try get her back.
the one at the monet am think is miley cyrus goodbye?
what you think? p.s look at my pervisous question to see the misunderstanding
Goodbye is good
try Snow Patrol-You Could Be Happy
Maria Mena- I am On Your Side
Sir Mix-A-Lot – I like big butts ( Official Music Video )
My boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago saying we wanted to be friends and we were fighting. I still loved him and asked him that day after if this is what he wanted and he said yes. We’ve seen each other multiple times around campus but have no said anything or called each other, etc. I got the nerve to im him 2 nights ago and said hey and we talked for about 10 minutes casually. It went well and he said he’d talk to me soon. Last night on facebook I put my status as
"Updating my ipod, any song suggestions?"
He NEVER puts up a status but I noticed an hour after mine was up his said "signed, sealed, delivered!"
That is the Stevie Wonder song and the lyrics match us perfectly. He has been online since so I was wondering do you think he’s trying to tell me something? Is this a sign? What should I do/how should I act? We will see each other at a Christmas party later this evening.
Alright, so 2 nights ago I broke up with boyfriend of 2 and a half years. Obviously I still care for him and love him, but he was verbally abusive and he definitely took me for granted.I made it clear to him that I didn’t have any intention on staying with him.. and NOW he cares. The endless phone calls and texting, telling me how he wants me to take him back, and that he’s "changed." He has had endless chances with me, and he didn’t ever take my feelings into perspective until it was too late.
Yesterday, we met up because I had left my ipod at his house. He walked and talked with me, and he cried the whole time..I feel awful for hurting him but I can’t stand being in an unhappy relationship. I ended up changing my FB status to some alexisonfire lyrics, and as soon as he saw them, he texted me telling me he was glad I wanted him back.. also, he has threatened many times to take his own life if I don’t get back together with him. I called his house and informed his parents.. they said to continue doing so if he doesn’t stop. Also, we were supposed to go to prom together.. and now he wants to go as "friends," this sounds like a bad idea to me.. does anyone else think so too?
What can I do to make it clear that I don’t want to be with him, or be in a relationship for that matter,without driving him over the edge? Thanks in advance.
Im 15 years old and have been made fun of ever since the start of middleschool. I can rember how in elementary school everyone in my grade i was friends with. all the girls and the boys. about 8th gradish when my best friend moved away my life turned to shit. i had no friends for the longet time and nvr realised til then how many ppl hate me. I was outcast. i got made fun of for being quiet and for having a high voice in like 5th and 6th grade. wtf? i dont understand y ppl are so cruel. i think about my friend everynite and just wish he would come back forever. i didnt love him in a gay way. i loved him tho like he was my family. Does anyone no how i can get over this? its been 3 years and it still upsets me thinking about this like rite now.
There are not many options for me for friends. nerds jocks preps. im none of those. im just like a loner punk in my school. i listen to my ipod everywhere to blur out every1 and ignore them. i just wnt to be left alone. i dont need alot of friends. just ways to keep my self esteem fro getting any ower. although it is the lowest it van possibly be
no one understands how hard it is to move on. i hung out with him everyday and we were best friends. it was devastating to me when he moved. i feel like im in a dream or its all just a joke and i cant wake up.
id rather keep my head down so people wont know its me and wont make fun of me.
when my friend left he took a part of me with him. so u can imagine how i feel. im not afraid to admit it but the day he moved for the next 3 days i cried and im a man. i loved my friend like a brother so i cant move on
My husband is turning into a bit of a flake and I’m not sure how to deal with it.?
My husband is 39, I am 36. We are grown adults. He is a police officer that has been removed from duty awaiting a hearing (I won’t get into the details, but he is innocent, he just needs to go through the process of clearance.). He does however have the option to ride a desk until the hearing date at which time he could return to patrol. The hearing date has been cancelled twice and he has been off duty now for over a year. The case just isn’t big enough to take priority in the court system. No date is booked yet again for the hearing. It’s all up in the air.
The stress of awaiting trial and the possibility of riding a desk has been bothering him a great deal lately and he hasn’t been able to sleep at night, so he plays on line from bed with his ipod and wastes the night away, and then sleeps all day (he has not chosen to ride a desk at this point as he fears he will get harassed by colleagues based on his experience at the desk before he was ordered home with pay because it was a toxic environment). He talks my ear off when I am trying to get to sleep and he doesn’t realize that I cannot just stay in bed during the day if I don’t get enough sleep. I have to go to work. I love him to death, but it’s getting too much.
Yesterday he asked if I wanted to meet for coffee during the day and asked what time. I said no later than 3:30. He then texted me and said he couldn’t make 3:30 – that he was running late. What the hell had he been doing since I left the house at 8am?! Um…my guess is sleeping. The man has ALL the time in the world and he can’t get somewhere on time.
He keeps telling me he won’t play on line when trying to sleep and that he’ll get up a the same time as me in the morning to get into a routine, but it never happens.
He’s all talk. I don’t’ know what to do. I’ve tried to talk to him about it, but he throws it back at me saying that if he wasn’t talking to me and preventing me from sleeping, I would still be up late watching TV or something. He just doesn’t get it.
Help!!!
The spark has definitely NOT gone from the relationship. We do lots together when I am not working, but I do work. Someone has to bring home the dough! He IS in counselling. He IS depressed. I am doing everything I can for him, but he also has to fricking do something for himself.
