Me and my fiance were together 2 years and just left Iraq together and moved to his hometown in Washington DC when we got out the military a few months ago. My fiance was the BEST the entire 2 years we were together. He treated me like such a gentleman and was always sweet and when we were in Iraq and found out I was pregnant he went out of his way to make me happy and comfortable all the time. Now we are in DC and I am 8 months…we just started not getting along and arguing all the time to the point that he has moved out and in to his aunts house. He goes with me to some of my appointments and still pays all the bills but he is not there for me emotionally at all anymore. He looks frightened when he touches my belly when its moving and he doesnt like talking about the baby anymore. All he wants to do is go out to parties and pretend like the baby is not on the way. It seems the further along I get the more distant he becomes. I miss him so much and it hurts that he is not here laying with me every night when I left my family all the way in St.Louis to move here and be with him…I have tried talking to him and pouring my heart out how I need him and he just says he needs time and that he will still be here for me. He says he is tired of my flipping out on him but I wouldnt flip out if he was there more. PLEASE HELP
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I have a new boyfriend now. I really like him. He treats me well and I can count on him when I’m down. But sometimes I do miss my ex boyfriend and still think of him. I really loved him and often compare him and new boyfriend. I haven’t seem my ex or talked to him on the phone for several months because he is in Iraq now. Is that normal that I miss ex boyfriend? and you guys miss your ex?
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My ex and I have been like Ross and Rachael on "Friends." Back and forth…well, he was stationed in Texas and we were still trying to work things out. Because I didn’t move down their fast enough, he met someone else and cheated on me for six months. He dumped me on my birthday, said he could never forgive me for the divorce…then six months later, I found out he’d been cheating and she was pregnant. She was also cheating on her husband who was in Iraq at the time. Nice huh? Well…some time has passed and he has decided that he wants me and the kids back. My son said, "Oh My God, you aren’t REALLY thinking of taking dad back are you?" I have to say, as pathetic as it is, I have thought about it. I hate myself for loving him still…What do I do???
You all are right. Not only that but I just got my dream job and if we were to get back together, that would require me to sell my home and leave my good job. I just wish I could hate him…it would make things so much easier.
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ok my now ex-fiance & I just broke up yesterday & he said it was cuz he is going to Iraq & does not wanna be thinking on me the whole time he is over there & end up getting killed cuz of it & he also is saying that he does not love me anymore but I this that he is lying there but the way he acts & he told my friends that he still loves me & he is wanting to get back togeather after he comes back from Iraq in a few years is there anything I can say to change his mind……………PLEASE help this man is the love of my life
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my husband is deployed,when he came home on R&R he got me pregnant then went back to iraq, i am due to deliver on friday and he will be home in july. im nervous because of how much my body has changed. he says he dont care but im nervous as hell. how would you be if you were in my shoes?
if it helps im 38 weeks pregnant right now.
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