My ex-girlfriend is insane, what should I do!?

I’m afraid that my ex-girlfriend is trying to get some sort of revenge on me. I mean, I don’t completely blame her, but I’d rather find a way to get out of this situation. Here’s the backstory:

I was kind of a jerk for a long time to my ex-girlfriend. I repeatedly cheated on her, treated her like crap and when I broke up with her I told her to just go get a life and leave me alone for now on.

So yeah, maybe I’m kind of a dick, so what? That’s life, you know? But last week she called me up telling me about certain pictures she has of me. I don’t want to talk about what are on those pictures since its really embarrassing and there’s no point in anyone knowing. But the point is that she is trying to use those pictures as blackmail to get me to do whatever she wants. What you all need to understand is that if the people at my work see those pictures I am completely out of a job (since what I’m doing in those photos are kind of illegal… it really is a long story). She’s friends with a couple of the guys I work with, so that really scares me.

So I agreed to come over to her place a couple of nights ago, figuring that whatever she wanted me to do so that she could get even, it couldn’t be that bad. What she had me do kind of freaked me out though.

She wanted me to put on one of her old costumes, which happened to be this sort of slutty Alice In Wonderland outfit and model it for her. I was completely shocked at how completely weird that request is and I refused at first, but then she showed me proof that she had some of those photos digitally backed up online. So I went ahead and put on the costume, pretending it was funny instead of just freaking me out. She also put full makeup on my face and had me wear hosiery and a wig. After having me do some pretty weird stuff like dancing, singing and acting stuff out for her, she eventually let me change back into my clothes and go home.

So up until last night I was kind of relieved that she had finally had her revenge and we were totally even. But she called me again last night to tell me that she wants me to come over next Saturday to do similar things with one of her friends there.

I couldn’t sleep at all last night and I’m really stressed out about this. I don’t want to have to keep going over there so that she can get her kicks out of dressing me up like a girl, but there’s no way in hell that I can let her show those pictures to anyone, especially not my coworkers. I’ve thought about taking legal action or something, but I’m really worried about the fact that what I’m doing in those pictures is illegal. A part of me thinks maybe it might be worth it to just let her do this for a while and hope that she’ll get bored of it or just let it go.

Her revenge is retarded anyway, since I don’t feel any worse about all of the things I did to her. In fact, I’m more glad that I caused her all that pain now. Sure, she was innocent in the situation before and it does make me kind of a bad guy for doing it, but she’s not the innocent one in the situation now.

So what should I do? Is there a way to keep her from doing this, or should I just let it happen and hope that she’ll get bored?
Help!
*edit*

Like I said, I don’t regret anything I did to her, so you can call me an ass if you want but your probably just as crazy as she is.

If you realized how embarrassing the whole night was, you might change your mind. It wasn’t just because I looked and felt ridiculous, it was because I looked a little too much like an actual girl with all of that on. Any guy in here would be able to understand how messed up it is to feel like your masculinity is being stolen away from you. Sorry if you chicks can’t understand.


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I’ve asked this before, but the chicks on here are almost as crazy as my ex lol. Anyways, I’ve got a serious problem on my hands.

‘m afraid that my ex-girlfriend is trying to get some sort of revenge on me. I mean, I don’t completely blame her, but I’d rather find a way to get out of this situation. Here’s the backstory:

I was kind of a jerk for a long time to my ex-girlfriend. I repeatedly cheated on her, treated her like crap and when I broke up with her I told her to just go get a life and leave me alone for now on.

So yeah, maybe I’m kind of a dick, so what? That’s life, you know? I’m a little sexist against women, but anyone who isn’t sexist is just fooling themselves. So last week she called me up telling me about certain pictures she has of me. I don’t want to talk about what are on those pictures since its really embarrassing and there’s no point in anyone knowing. But the point is that she is trying to use those pictures as blackmail to get me to do whatever she wants. What you all need to understand is that if the people at my work see those pictures I am completely out of a job (since what I’m doing in those photos are kind of illegal… it really is a long story). She’s friends with a couple of the guys I work with, so that really scares me.

So I agreed to come over to her place a couple of nights ago, figuring that whatever she wanted me to do so that she could get even, it couldn’t be that bad. What she had me do kind of freaked me out though.

She wanted me to put on one of her old costumes, which happened to be this sort of slutty Alice In Wonderland outfit and model it for her. I was completely shocked at how completely weird that request is and I refused at first, but then she showed me proof that she had some of those photos digitally backed up online. So I went ahead and put on the costume, pretending it was funny instead of just freaking me out. She also put full makeup on my face and had me wear hosiery and a wig. After having me do some pretty weird stuff like dancing, singing and acting stuff out for her, she eventually let me change back into my clothes and go home.

So up until last night I was kind of relieved that she had finally had her revenge and we were totally even. But she called me again last night to tell me that she wants me to come over next Saturday to do similar things with one of her friends there.

I couldn’t sleep at all last night and I’m really stressed out about this. I don’t want to have to keep going over there so that she can get her kicks out of dressing me up like a girl, but there’s no way in hell that I can let her show those pictures to anyone, especially not my coworkers. I’ve thought about taking legal action or something, but I’m really worried about the fact that what I’m doing in those pictures is illegal. A part of me thinks maybe it might be worth it to just let her do this for a while and hope that she’ll get bored of it or just let it go.

Her revenge is retarded anyway, since I don’t feel any worse about all of the things I did to her. In fact, I’m more glad that I caused her all that pain now. Sure, she was innocent in the situation before and it does make me kind of a bad guy for doing it, but she’s not the innocent one in the situation now.

So what should I do? Is there a way to keep her from doing this, or should I just let it happen and hope that she’ll get bored?
Help!


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Went to mediation with my ex because I want to increase my parenting time?

Currently, I have 1 and 1/2 days with my two children, so I filed a motion with the court to increase my parenting time. The judge sent us to mediation. After talking with the mediator for 2 and a half hours, he sent a report to the court recommending I increase my parenting time to 3 1 /5 days (so about half) with my children. He even ended up calling my ex a drama queen and she needs to stop. As well as using derogatory remarks against me on public forums with her friends, which he included on his report.

Naturally, my ex is not agreeing to this. She thinks I should have hardly anytime with our children because "they are always crying to here about how much they hate it over here" and blah blah blah.
Well I don’t see this. In fact, when I see my kids they run to me with big hugs and smiles. We play games and spend quality time together (which to me, 1 and a half day is just not enough, I love my kids) They don’t seem at all intimidated. Sure, they get in trouble and get restriction and are given healthy food at dinner and not have a over abundance of junk food. They are expected to clean their rooms and help with chores around the house. But heck, what kid wouldn’t complain about that? I did when I was a kid. Are these the things our kids are crying about to their mother when they go back to her house? Are they being quized so she can make remarks about me on puplic forums about how much of a jerk I am? I wonder.

All I want to be is a father and have more time with my kids so that I can be a part of their growng up. I do not go about complaining about my ex on public forums (I do go to counseling to do that)

So my question is, can she actually prevent me from getting my increase even though we have a mediators report? I do everything I am supposed to be doing, I house them, feed them, clothe them, make sure they do weel in school, go to school events, and spend time with them. Her only complaint is what she and the kids talk about me. Which I think she should not be doing because she is not a tir party to this. She has a lot of hostility towards me and of course if the kids bring up one thing, she can repond to them making it ten times worse.



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Allrite, here is some advice that may help. Discalimer: Things can be different with every person…..read this story to see how i did it then ill give tips.

Me and my ex were in love and dated 6 months, we drifted apart and she started liking this guy she dated 2 times in the past. She started dating him. He was still the jerk he always was even tho he said he changed and she thought he did. He still plays people cuz hes a heartless jerk. But he cheated on her after like a week and a half. Well after that happened we started talking more and slowly working things out. Well she barely had a connection with me or was attached to me and still kinda liked this Dante kid cuz shes more physically attracted to him than anything. Well she is dome with his crap she tries to stay away from him and shes back with me, we are closer than ever. We are pretending like we didnt break up for a month cuz we dont wanna start over and stuff….But things are pretty good with us. There has been a little drama and its been a little hard at a couple times cuz of Dante and stuff…..this Dante kid has been trying to get her to like him again and hes been a dick to her tho on and off….shes sick of him and basically he is causing drama by talking crap about me and trying to fite me, and she dont wanna see us fite. So she felt in the middle cuz of him….but I told him to back off and stop, shes no longer worried about it. She said she wants to be with me and ework things out with me and that this summer will be way better cuz we wont have to put up with the high school bs and im graduating and shell be in school still, itll make it easier cuz we wont be stuck in the same school with dumb drama. But she loves me again and its going really good and i love her….we learned things we need to change from the past to make it better.

TIPS:Don’t give up, Don’t be too pushy give them some space….in the mean time fix things about yerself like work out lose weight get a job get a car dress better (i did things like this and i feel way better and i lost 20 lbs. She used to feel like I was too needy but Im not anymore I learned to have a little independece), dont depend on her or NEED her, love her, be there for her, even if she doesn’t like you that much just be there for her especially when other people aren’t then shell realize you really care, work on things that maybe bothered her before, let things be on her terms until shes ready to commit, she needs space and she is the only person who can truly control that space so give it to her. Don’t take things too fast when u get back together, have discussion on what things to change and just how u both feel about yer relationship and how you will handle different situations. One last tip, if you violate her space or things start to go wrong then back off and give her time to think (if you dont think about it and try not to care so much and to not worry and most likely things will turn out.)

It took alot of work to get my ex back, but that jerk is out of the picture, she loves me and wants to be with me and trusts me completely….even when things were really bad, they. If you wanna get someone back then dont give up, follow yer heart and u can listen to advice but go truly with what your heart wants you to.

I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!



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