Well to start my ex girlfriend and I broke up at the end of October. I did not see or talk to her for two months when I e-mailed her about getting a cup of coffee she said that would be nice. She picked the time and the place.

When we met for coffee she said that it was good that we reconnect. She laughed at my jokes, and we talked for an hour, but I cut it off. I think that we could have talked for longer.

The following evening we went with our group of friends to celebrate a friends birthday. When she ordered her drink I said what she was going to order before she ordered it. She said that I scored some points.

During the night she told me about her New Years Eve and about some guy trying to get in her pants. (I think she was trying to make me jealous) She then went on to say that she was repulsed by this guy, and walk away from him.

During the course of the evening we had some flirty conversations.

Now am I just reading too much into things? Or are these signs that my ex want me back?



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I have a boyfriend, in case you’re wondering, and im not interested in my ex, even though we were best friends before we went out (quite a while ago that is now)
and now were talking again.. but in Science (we were researching so we were in an IT Room)
He was not next to me but the next one across and his friend was sitting next to me (on my right)and my ex asked his friend if they could swap seats, so then my friend Abbie (was sitting on my left) likes my ex and its obvious so she was flirting with him making jokes, moving behind me so she could touch his hand etc. And then he was including me in the conversation making jokes with me (i didnt reply much, i was too weirded out Lol :’) ) and then he rested his arm on my shoulder and was still joking and smiling and what not.. i managed to shake him off without saying anything mean. As i know he still was my best friend. Today in maths he walked past me and i was talking to my boyfriends bestfriend and he stopped, listening in to our conversation, and he guessed the whole story what we were talking about, and i said, "how did you know all that?" and he replied "im physic, see i can read your mind!" i said "well, if you can read minds, some of the girls in this room are screwed" (i meant my bestfriend Abbie and my friend Molly) and he knew what i meant, and then he suddenly said, *laughs* "yeah anoo, its quite funny listening to them" *winks at me* "guess what else?" "what?" "i also have XRay Vision" *winks at me again and puts his fingers too his temple and looks down at my body and smirks*
it was weird.. im glad were getting along, but what does his behaviour mean? Is he just trying to get our friendship back? or is he trying to flirt, or maybe.. is he trying to get on my boyfriends nerves? (they have NEVER liked eachother) thanks for the help x



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Ok… he’s my ex’s friend. He did a HUGE part in spraining my ankle. He wont stop doing really random and stupid noises in my face. He’s the one who influences my ex to mean to me mostly now… because he tells all the jokes about me (mean ones) and my ex laughs out loud… so, he’s done a lot of trouble… and I need to get him back so I can forget about him. Thats why i do revenge, if I do, I dont hold a grudge, as simple as that… anyways, any tips or advice?
and btw, idk where he lies, idk his number, the only way i get get back at him is at school


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Should I? Please, I need your help!

I was recently with my girlfriend ( of almost a year and a half), when she called her ex-girlfriend of 2 years. Oh the phone, its obvious that they still have something between them, but only because they were serious for 2 years.

Tonight i asked my g/f if she would mind if i text her ex. All of a sudden she got an attitude with me and was like, “I don’t see why you would want to talk to her.” I told her b/c i just want to know why she doesn’t like me. I have never been rude, disrespectful, or mean to this girl, and in the beginning of my g/f and my relationship the ex would make up any excuse ot lie to try to get us to break up.

I have never liked her ex, she was nothing but rude to me in the beginning of our relationship, and she was always telling my g/f that she wanted her back and she wanted to marry her. Luckily for me my g/f never fell for it.

I told my g/f i didnt like her talking to her ex in the beginning b/c it was putting a very hard strain on your relationship. The ex is capable to making my g/f in a bad mood , VERY QUICKLY. But she never stopped talking to her for longer than a month (either they would get so mad at eachother , or the ex would change her number).

Now they never talk b/c i told my g/f i didnt want her ex having her new cell phone number. Now she only calls her from my phone and when i am with her. She has also told her ex that if she ever wanted to hang out it would never be just them, i would be there too. i have never had a problem with that as long as im there. but its never happened.

I just want to talk to the girl, i have told my g/f that i dont need or want to start anything ( as she accused me of wanting to do), i just want to have a civilized conversation with the girl. me and her have talked through my g/f, but only to make jokes, me and her have never talked directly.

I need your opinion, should i text her. I am being honest about why i want to talk to her. Should i or not????


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OK. This is a REPOST of a question I asked today, because I put it in the wrong category, so I’m reposting it in the correct one.
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I’ve known this person since June 2008, and we started to date around November 2008.

Wait, I’ll call this person " Larry " because me and my friend deemed this person as " Little Larry Lies A Lot"

I used to think that Larry was funny, cute, and well, just really nice. We had a lot of good times and we have had a lot of inside jokes and whatnot. But, then, over time I started to lose some interest in Larry. At least, we were your typical couple, but, then, I think I lost most interest in Larry when he started to lie. He was literally saying lies like there was no tomorrow. [ NOTE/ I didn't see Larry too often, because he/she/it didn't live that close to me, so... ] It started off when they claimed to be in the hospital, and I believed that, since I’m slightly gullible. But, I started to HIGHLY doubt it, when Larry started to say that he was basically living in the hospital [ because apparently he broke his legs. ] for like. 75874375435878 months. And, so to make this story a bit shorter, here is a list of lies that Larry has fed to me [ and this list is not full ]

1. He told my friend, Roxas, that he graduated high school in Junior year, but when I met him he was going to Senior year. [ From what me told me. ]
2. Now, I later on figured out that he is apparently in college, and is getting a scholarship in NYC to become an author, when he can’t write very literately. [ I mean, the guy can't even spell " naked " ]

Well, I won’t write any more in case Larry happens to find this question.

Before I continue on, I’d just like to say that Larry and I have broken up AT LEAST nine times since December, just to make that clear.

Last week or so, Larry introduced me to Roxas, and I later found out that Roxas never liked Larry, she just wanted to sort of be nice, and not say anything.

A few days after I met Roxas, I almost felt like Larry was avoiding me, because he had been all day, and then apparently he was in a "black out" yet, his computer was still on, and I know for a fact that he does NOT own a laptop, so, I IMed him, and said something along the lines of : " You know what? You don’t have to lie if you don’t want to talk to me. Just tell me." And Larry responded with : " IF YOU CAN’T RESPECT THAT I’M BUSY 24/7 WE’RE GONNA BE HISTORY. BLAHBLAHBLAHBLAH " So, then I broke up with the jerk, because, I knew that if I were to stay any longer, I’d end up with a broken heart.

Well, on Sunday (or Saturday) [ yesterday or the day before last ] Larry gave my screen name to two strangers, both telling me to "Lay off". One of them is now my friends, and I figured out that the other one was not who she claimed to be [ which was Larry's new girlfriend, apparently to get me jealous, and it didn't work. ], but she’s still pretty cool.

And, yesterday, I found out that Larry posted a thread on Gaia online, with his conversation with Roxas posted in the first post. I found out about it, and gave the link to Roxas, and we both said that it was immature etc etc etc [ and some one else joined in, it was sweet. ]
But, then, some where in this topical rant, Larry said, "do not hate you, I do not love you like I did before because I have plenty of things to say to you that is left best said on AIM. If you really like to solve this issue between us, I can certainly talk to you over AIM, solve it, and be done with this thread..unless if I have others opinions that needed to be replied to. Other than that, I will just wait and chat with you for five minutes or so on AIM. If you don’t like to, then private messages. If you don’t like to again, suggest a place. Because this is a private area that even you would like best to be…not knowned right..? Anyways, again unblock me then we’ll talk. "

And, then someone else said, " WAIT! HOLD UP A SECOND! WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT!
I just read your response to uhm, -i’lldeletemynamebecausewe’reonyahoopeop… who I’m going to guess is [insertmygaiausernamehere]! You have no problem with taking ‘private’ discussions to public forums with everyone else, but for her you’ll be more then happy to speak over a private place? DUDE WTF" [ In case you didn't get it, Larry posted a PRIVATE conversation in a PUBLIC place. ] So, then, I told Larry, [ while he was begging for me to talk to him, we had this conversation over Gaia ] " Now that caps lock is well enough for you, I’m friggin’ done with you. You know why? Because you’re just too clever for me. If you ever want me to forgive you, I wanna see you on your knees, you’re going to have to beg."

I know that was somewhat harsh, but, if Larry thinks that he has to lie to me to try to impress me, I’d rather be harsh rather than nice. I’ve put up with all the heartbreaks, and I want to break the key [ that he has] to my heart.

So, do you think that it’s good that I dumped him [ even though it


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