I ended it because we were fighting a lot, we decided to still be friends.
It’s been almost a month.
We’ve hooked up a couple times. He told me many times he cared for me and still loves me, etc, etc, but everytime I bring up getting back together, its awkward for us and we get distracted.
Last night I straight up talked to him about it and he doesnt know and he’s confused. His main points were he still has feelings for me but he doesnt know if its gonna be the same cuz its weird going back out with an ex.
I know I want him back, but he’s not sure, he’s 50-50.
Is he really over me and just saying that so he wont hurt me? Or is be playing the cool badass who doesnt care?
My and my ex where together for like 3 years when we got together she had a 3 year old son and is 8 now. By the time of the break up he was calling me his step dad, and the kid really loves me. Well i cheated on my ex and we broke up, crushed his heart that i wasnt there all the time, but i still saw him not as much as i should but i was there. Well now that i have more free time i can see him more. I pick him up once a week from school and take him back to my house and we do his home work, cook dinner, watch tv, play games and talk. Normally its jus me and him, my new girlfriend usaully leaves wheile he is there and has never meet him out of respect, she never wanted him to feel weird. Well i talk to him about her, and she even bought him his own spider man plate for when he comes over, well he asked to meet her. So yesterday she stayed home with me and was there with him. He had a great time, she even went and bought monolpy for us all to play since i dont have any board games for him… They talked and he really liked her, when me and him were jus in the store he pointed to a chcocalte heart and said "why dont you buy this for your girlfriend i think she should will like it"…. So i’m driving him home like cool they both had a great time he was so happy he was like next week i’m beating both of you in monolpoy.. Well when i tell his mom that she was there she got MAD. She said that i disrespected her, she said i should of told her first and let her decide.. Like decide what?? You know i’m a good father figure( better that his real dad but thats another story) but she is second guessing my descion. I know the only reason she does not want her around is cause i cheated with her. They also got into a fight 3 years ago, my ex showed up at me and my girlfriends place and started a fight with her… I jus want peace is she wrong for not waitning her around isn’t this childish??? He loves me i love him, he has a good positive time with me and thats whats important right?? Shouldnt we do whats best for the kid not what makes her boar float??? Side note i don’t smoke in the house when he is there, i barley curse in front of him i dont drink beers in front of him, like some people(her) but yet she says she has to decide how she is gonna proceed with this, lol…. HELP
ALRIGHT WEL A WHILE BAK I WAS WIT THIS ONE GUY WICH I FELT IN LOVE WITH =/
THING STARTED GOIN BAD AND WE BOTH JUS GAVE UP…
HOWEVER I LOVE HIM STILL…ITS BEEN A FEW MONTHS BUT I JUS CNT FORGET HIM…I TRIED SO MUCH TO FORGET HIM BUT I JUST CNT =( HE KNOWS I LOVE HIM BUT IDK IF HE WOULD GET BACK WIT ME=? WAT CAN I TEL HIM SO HE WOULD UNDERSTAND N MAYBE GET BACK…I JUS WANT HIM TO REALIZE I LOVE HIM..BUT HOW?PLZ HELP =( I FKN LOVE HIM
me and my boyfriend were together for like 5 or 6 months. everything was going great. and we spent a great friday night together then he ignores me all week till thursday. and the first thing he says is "i am not the same anymore, i dont fell the same bout you, i think we shud jus b friends". its been about a week now since it happened and i want him back so much but i dont know what to do. we have been talking off and on but yet nothings happened am i making it worse by talking to him. please help what do i do. i need him
Well yesterday was my ex-boyfriend’s birthday and we didn’t talk, we just argued and we fight a lot. And it seems like sicne we brok up las week he’s having the time of his life. How can I just walk away from a 2 year relationship jus like that? I gave up all my friends for him so basically we were each others best friends and we hang out everyday, and the next day how can I just deal with not having him there and just going my own path doing my own thing. it’s so scary just facing everything alone because I became so attach and depended that he’ll always be there for me. basically i am trying to ask is how can one day we be so loving and sh*t and at the end of the night we argue and break up and when the next day rolls around, how can I just get up and move on and live my own life now. i feel so depress and I can’t even focus in school or work anymore. everything i do reminds me of him and I can’t seems to shake him off. i love him and i wish we can be back together but he said no =(
