How do I get an Ex Boyfriend Back?

Please Serious Answers Only, I am in need of some real and honest help.

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days before Christmas. He says he is not happy with me, and we are not meant to be. I know he loves me, and he even said he still does, but it’s somthing he has to do.

We met on Jan 1st to talk and swap things. I wrote him a heartfelt letter and read it to him. He really had no emotion at all. I totally ruined my chances with him because I begged for him to not leave me, but I felt that it was the last chance I would ever see/talk to him at all. I was devastated.
We agreed to be friends, but i told him i just dont know if i can do that.

I have been really calm about everything lately, we casually talk on aim and hes actually pretty nice to me. But then yesterday somthing was really bothering me, so I brought it up. He was fine with the first statement, but when I said somthing else he totally ignored what I said. I feel that I just ruined my chances of ever talking to him again! I went ahead and apologized over message and I told him that I agree with the breakup, i know it’s for the best. I even went to say that I had some good news that I would like to share with him sometime…(which I thought would spark interest).
But he didnt respond to the message. So then I said " Well im going to get off here, have a good day" :) . I waited a minute and still no response. Now I feel completely stupid!

Did I ruin my chances of getting him back with that message I sent him? What do I do know? Do i just totally ignore him and wait to see if he ever says anything? Now I feel that I lost all hope, I know we are meant to be together, and we were even getting along this past weekend…what the heck do I do know? All hope is gone!

Have any of you went through breakups and got your ex back? If so, HOW?


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when i first broke it off i knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that i hoped she would change and we could work it out. of course i was down and missed her like crazy. but after a little while i felt better and like i was ready to just move on. Now the last few days shes been callin alot and we hung out a couple time (no kissing or anything though,just talked and chilled) and she says how upset shes been and she doesnt wanna loose me and that she’ll change her ways.

I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. im really stuck. sometimes i think just go and move on she wont change. then i think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good. like i said we start communicating more again and even hung out. I went over her house the last two nights, but i left and went home. i normally slept there everynight. she gets upset bc of course things are wierd and i wont even kiss her and stuff. i want to so bad but i know that not a good idea.

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Ok so a couple weeks ago I broke up w/ my ex bc i caught her talk to her ex boyfriend multiple time and not just “hey how are you’ but things like I love you, I miss you, one time she even told him that she was single.

And she talk to other guys just bc she likes the attention, she admitted that.

I just grew so tired of it, it was so wrong and unfair. She says its all because her first boyfriend messed her head up so bad so now she craves attention from guys because he never gave her any.

But after a couple of time of pouring my heart out and tellin her how much that she hurt me by sayin those things to her ex boyfriend, she continued to do it so I had to break it off.

When I first broke it off I knew that would be only way for her to realize things and that I hoped she would change and we could work it out. Of course I was down and missed her like crazy, but after a little while I felt better and like I was ready to just move on.

Now the last few days shes been callin alot and we hung out a couple time (no kissing or anything though,just talked and chilled) and she says how upset shes been and she doesnt wanna loose me and that she’ll change her ways.

I just dont know what to do she seems so sincere but still. I’m really stuck, sometimes I think just go and move on she wont change, then I think maybe she will change and im pushing away something good.

Like I said we start communicating more again and even hung out. I went over her house the last two nights, but I left and went home. I normally slept there everynight. She gets upset because things are wierd and I wont even kiss her and stuff.

I want to so bad but I know that not a good idea.

She says she knows she has some issues and is scheduel to go see a pychiatrist (prob wrong spelling).

Since breakin it off was the last option, just don’t know if I should give it one last chance to see it worked to change her.


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