Me and my ex-boyfriend were together for 5 months and we broke twice because he thought i wasn’t happy in the relationship and when he asked me back out he told me it was because he was afraid that i was getting so close to his heart. we were having a great time until the day b4 New years Eve 2008 i went skating with my friend and he husband and husband’s brother and we were hanging out. i put myself in a stupid situation because i went drinking with her and her husband’s brother kissed me. when i told my boyfriend i was still alittle drunk and he was angry but we just went to sleep when i came over to his house that night. then the next day on new years eve he came over 2 my house and broke up with me. he said it was the only rule he’s ever had was not cheating but honestly he’s a hypocrite because he used 2 cheat on his girlfriends, he just never cheated on me. so it was a terrible breakup because i was stunned, i was trying 2 explain and he was trying to leave my room and i kept trying to keep him there to listen 2 me. i m overly sensitive which he should know that and i understand that he’s been hurt before but i want him to know that i love only him and i just want to make him happy, i mean he has nothing and he said i was the best thing that happened to him and he’s the best thing that happend to me. so then a couple weeks ago i went to hangout at his house cuz his friends are mine and he told me it was hard to be around me cuz he kept looking at me and these guys had bet on me and to assure him that i wasn’t there to annoy him i told him i wasn’t looking at him or bothering him and he said he wasn’t mad at me he just wanted some time. then he left the house and i slept there. then last friday i went over his house to apologize and he said he didn’t want to talk and he ignored me and stayed in the kitchen the whole time. i told me friend there that i wasn’t gonna be back for a while maybe a month so that he can heal properly. i just figured if i came over he’d want me back like last time because when we broke up he said he would prefer me not coming over to the house as much because we’d end up back together like last time. but i do want him back. i’m just afraid that time will make him not love me or want me anymore. what should i do?
p.s. people have told me that he needs time and others say that i should move on because i deserve better and honestly i know i deserve better because i my ex is a hippy who’s life ambition is to smoke pot and chill but he does want to make something of himself one day he just doesn’t know how and i want to help him. I love him so much, i’ve been depressed and in my room the whole week.
btw, i also stopped the guy and told him i wanted to go home. My ex just wonders why i put myself in that situation when i should’ve just come home. i just wanted to have alittle fun with my friend that i hadn’t seen for a year and she was married now and all grown up. i told my ex that i pushed the guy away because i did, the guy just tried to take advantage of me.
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MY EX AND I WERE DING FINE UNTIL SOME CHICK FRIEND POPS UP TALKING CRAP YES ON MYSPACE COMMENTS. BEEN TOO FLIRTY AND DIS-RESPECTFUL LAST FRIDAY OCT 3RD I GO TO SEND A MSG THEN IM DELETED FROM HIS PAGE, I WAS A LIL TOO DRUNK RIGHT AFTER, SO I HIT HIM UP ON YAHOO MSGR AND WENT OFF ON HIM. HE SAYS I DUMPED HIM WHICH IDON’TT REMEMBER. THEN HE GOT MAD ANS SAYS IVE LIED TO HIM SINCE DAY ONE. WHATEVER NOW THIS CHICK HITS ME UP SAYIN HE TOLD HER HEDON’T'T WANT ME. BUT HE HITS ME UP SAYING HE WANTS ME BACK AND MISSES ME SO MUCH. WHO AM I TO BELIEVE?? AND HOW DO WANTNT HIM BACK?? I MISS HIM… BUT RIGHT NOW HE IS STATIONED IN NORTH CAROLINE [HES A MARINE] AND HE COMES TO CALI THE 22ND OF THIS MONTH TO SEE ME , I DUNNO
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My man got mad at me last friday because he was talking about his past relationships and I said calm down.Than he said he was frustrated. He did not want to talk anymore and He said I will see you saturday. I called him back and he would not answer and he finally answers, but did not say anything to me and I heard him say I don’t want to talk to her. Than his room mate told me he stormed out of his apartment and never came back. He never came back for his cell phone. I was suppose to see him last saturday and I never heard from him. I never heard from sunday too. Monday does not count because we have a break from talking. I don’t know when I will hear from him again. I don’t know if he dumped me by not calling me for two days.
I still love him so much. I don’t know what to do.
He got mad at me when I said calm down
I call him and text message him
He is 21 years old
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We dated for three weeks and something, but we’d been best friends for a while. But the thing is, i’m the “school-clown” kind of girl, and he’s really shy.
I felt like we were back in elementary school, to be honest. but anyhow; we just had a lot of problems with the whole shyness thing. and i was about to go to sleep one night and i realized that i didn’t really want to be with him anymore… or so i thought? because the next day when i broke up with him i felt like crap. I couldn’t believe what i did. I spoke to him about a day after; apologizing to him.
But he said he didn’t want me back, and i just told him i could wait for him until he ever changed his mind. =| Last friday.. i guess he “moved on”, he’s dating his best friend.
She’s a grade lower than us, and they’d always be hanging out with her when we were dating.
What should i tell him? Should i keep waiting for him?
I know i made a wrong choice and I really want him back, ut i don’t want to keep living in the shadow of my mistake!
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I finally got back together with my boyfriend after 3 month long break
he had let his ex wife and ex gf get in the way
they both are hysterical demanding women but older than him and rich and powerful
he got mad at me when i was upset over him being late or canceling dates because of reasons ot do with them.
he was very hurt when i asked for a break.
since then he did a lot to be my friends and we dated again (no sex)
i know that tomorrow he is moving into a hous ein the same town as his ex . he said its to be closer to his son (but he has his son 50-60 % of th etime already)
he sold the house that he currently lived in and gave 50% to his ex wife as ordered by the court.
he also added her onto facebook
no problem but then i noticed he blocked me from seeing or posting on his wall (i can still see links/status updates)
and on top of that deleted my photo comments about his son and also my older comments on his status.
i confronted him and he said its to avoid drama.
finally i noticed he is developing a webpage for his ex sister in law who is a popular interior designer.
he and i had a very nice normal conversation last friday night
i had one bad piece of news to tell him though.
one of my roommates who suddenly left my house had been getting tons of mail from IRS ….
finally an open piece of mail came to me weeks ago.
turns out she hasn’t paid a small maount of taxes in 1993 and 2003 and theyve been adding in penalties and looking for her ever since.
well oddly 1 week ago the irs also also contacted me. i didnt work in 2007 (taking care of dying parent and renovating m house)
and i was kind of freaked out.
so i tol dmy boyfriend about it.
he said to calm down and that it isnt abig deal and that heck he once had a lien on his house from IRS for 90000 ( !!!)
so we talked some more and he said for me to not stress and that he had just seen the new movie julie and julia with his son.
he said i should cook for him again soon sinc eim so good at it.
and thats IT !
i called him and texted him sunday and nothing
The last i ever heard from him was nearly 7 days ago.
is he fine ?
yes he has updated his twitter all week
he is on facebook and aim as i type this question.
he updated his facebook to say he is proud th emovies he is producing are getting a lot of attention.
and speaking of twitter i uploaded ne pics of myself yesterday to my facebook.
on his twitter he made fun of people who take photos of themselves and called them vain friendless loosers (losers- spelling isnt his strong suit)
he is suddenly bitter and hateful of me ?
should i just delete him off everything and never speak to him again ?
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