Im 21 and have been engaged for a year and was with my fiance for 4 years. I lived him so much and did want to marry him i just wanted a long engagement as i wanted everything to be perfect. Last thursday myself & a few of his friends traveled to Europe to see my dad who is in a band touring. The weekend was really awkward and i felt like i didn’t know him at all. He almost acted like i wasn’t there and then last night when we where at the hotel he started questioning me about wedding stuff, and i was so tired and was really after enjoying my night at the concert and he was hell bent on making me feel upset for making him wait on marriage. We have had a few arguments over the past 2 weeks but last night he let rip at me and then said he wanted to end things with us even though he loves me to death he doesn’t want to wait too long to get married, it was like a screaming match with us. He really wanted to try hurt me and said thanks for the free gigs worth staying for. I love him so much but maybe us breaking up was for the best. I left the hotel and when to my mom & dad’s hotel and have continued traveling with them. He has tried ringing me but i haven’t answered him. Any advice on this would be great. Should i ask him to work it out or just be single & free? Thanks
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Im 21 and have been engaged for a year and was with my fiance for 4 years. I lived him so much and did want to marry him i just wanted a long engagement as i wanted everything to be perfect. Last thursday myself & a few of his friends traveled to Europe to see my dad who is in a band touring.
The weekend was really awkward and i felt like i didn’t know him at all. He almost acted like i wasn’t there and then last night when we where at the hotel he started questioning me about wedding stuff, and i was so tired and was really after enjoying my night at the concert and he was hell bent on making me feel upset for making him wait on marriage. We have had a few arguments over the past 2 weeks but last night he let rip at me and then said he wanted to end things with us even though he loves me to death he doesn’t want to wait too long to get married, it was like a screaming match with us. He really wanted to try hurt me and said thanks for the free gigs worth staying for.
I love him so much but maybe us breaking up was for the best. I left the hotel and when to my mom & dad’s hotel and have continued traveling with them. He has tried ringing me but i haven’t answered him. Any advice on this would be great. Should i ask him to work it out or just be single & free?
Thanks!
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Hello,
I came across this forum looking for some information. I wanted to just basically get everyone’s opinion about the whole situation. My gf has been living with me for about 2 months, she has recently found out she is pregnant. I believe she is about 2 months or so pregant. My gf cheated on my in December with her ex bf….I am scared she is still seeing him because he may possibly be the father, if they place the pregnancy conception back to the end of December. Over the past week my gf has became very distance, we haven’t had sex for a week. She treats me bad. Last Thursday she was gone all day up there where she is from, she came home and told me she felt fine. I came home from work and she said she was sick. I also noticed strange stains in her underwear (like they had been soaked) She cheated on me before badly and I wouldn’t put it past her again. I wonder if she is keeping her ex in the picture because he may be the father? Help!!! Thanks in advance for your opinion
She has lied to me before many times. I have even recently been using some "unconventional" methods to try to find out the truth. I have been placing a tape recorder in her car and using a program on my PC to log her activity. The worst thing was when her 7 year old nephew said she was talking to her ex. I don’t know how a kid could possibly come up with this….unless he did hear or see something. Despite all she has done to me in the past I do love her, I kinda feel like she is using me for a place to live and she is gonna keep lying to me until I blow up. She even acts like she doesn’t care about us at all anymore. I just wish she would tell me if she is seeing him so I won’t end up catching a disease. She told me in an argument the other day that "she doesn’t need me" This is a girl that is supposed to be having my baby….*sigh*
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Alright so my girlfriend and I broke up not this past Thursday but last Thursday. Her reason was she was struggling in school, and she had so much going on in her life that she just couldn’t be with me right now. However she did tell me how much she loved me, cared about me, and wanted to be with me again.
It was hard at first but then I started giving her space. We stopped talking other then saying goodnight a couple times to each other. But then I hear randomly at work a guy tells me that she has been sleeping with another guy, this guy happened to be this dudes step brother. So obviously I am rattled and frustrated, and a few guys were bugging me about it trying to get me more mad so I would find this guy and rip him apart.
However I find out that this guy has a girlfriend, and wants nothing to do with my ex girlfriend. He has not been saying they slept together. Its been her apparently trying to breakup him and his girlfriend because my ex can’t have him. Or at least that’s what this dudes girlfriend is thinking.
However my ex told me there was not another guy, said it was nothing like that. And she was already broken up with me she had no reason to lie she has before she was always upfront. And I told her if there is another guy just tell me and I will back up. And she said no I want you, just can’t give you that attention right now.
My ex has been gone for the long weekend with her family. But she ended calling me up, when I was angry about this telling me we will finally talk on Monday. So that’s when I am going to figure it all out. But how do I approach this situation? I don’t know whats worse actually sleeping with another guy, or telling people your sleeping with another guy.
I am a couple years older then this guy, and I have to say much better looking, bigger, stronger, more of man. If I were to get in this guys he might crap himself. I have like 6 inches and 70 pounds on him.
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My ex gf used to be head over heels for me but I really really messed up. She used to love me like a crazy but after I messed up, the feelings went away. She says she still loves me but it’s different now you know? The spark and the passion is gone, it’s like a friend love now. We discussed it over and decided to break up for now. This happened last Thursday.
She said she doesn’t want to lose me and she still wants me in her life, so we decided to be friends. Kinda like best friends. We were great friends before we started dating until I fell in love with her and made her mine. She said she is not moving on just yet and wants to see where this friendship goes. She has interest in getting back with me, but like me, she wants that old love and passion back. I always have been sweet to her so sweet talk is not working =/ How can I make her fall in love with me again, and make me her love me like she used to?
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