I have been trying to win back my ex boyfriend. He flirts with me all the
time and wants to hang out with me. First off, let me mention that he broke
up with me in November. We avoided eachother almost all November. I found
out from one of his friends that he broke up with me because I was being too
"clingy". After I heard that I asked my ex to meet me somewhere to talk. He
agreed. I told that I felt like he didn’t trust me, so that’s why I started
to hang out with him more in order to prove to him I’m loyal. It was
interesting cause after that he said he felt like that I didn’t trust him
either, so since late November to now we have gotten along really well. Even
though I know we "just friends" it doesn’t feel like that to me because like
I said he flirts with me and hangout with me alot.
I remember a few days ago we were talking about our friends, and he was
surpised when I told him one of our friends is back with that guy again. He
told me he thinks it’s impossible for people who were dating and then broke
up, dating AGAIN. So, then I said, "Would you ever get back with your ex?"
He said, "That would be very hard for me to do." Then I said, "Oh." He
replied, "But don’t worry I still love you."
Okay, basically what I want to ask if you ever get the chance is, what does
it mean when he says,"That would be very hard for me to do?" Does that mean
I have no chance in getting him back? Plus I’m having a Valentine’s Party
this weekend and I hope I can use my party to somehow get him back. Can you
help me?
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I went out with this guy in Aug. 2009, and we had two very nice dates. On the second date he took me to his best friend’s house where I also met his brother and sister. After the date, he alluded to staying over, and I declined. He emailed me once and called me once after with excuses why he couldn’t further pursue the relationship…lack of funds and the 2 hour drive could be too much. I told him I was willing to come up also, but I still didn’t hear from him. There’s nearly a 20 year age difference, but I’m attracted to his intelligence and how he thinks.
So, today (5 months later), he emails me the following:
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Hi ___! You probably didn’t expect to hear from me, but this is _____ in New York. Sorry for not keeping in touch. I was so swamped with various projects (conference presentations, teaching, job applications) dramas (death of my father in November) and travel (Korea in late November) that I have had really no time for socializing or romance. Now I am less stressed and more alive again. Possible to meet again?
I hope you are well.
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Should I even consider seeing him again?
PS – I’ve noticed on the dating website that we met on that he logs on.
Thanks,
WannaKnow
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In late November my wife announced, out of the blue, that she does not love me anymore. She is planning to move out in Mid March. Our 11 year old straight A daughter, like my self, thought everything was fine in our home. My wife finnishes school in May with a degree as a Rad Tech / Xray. We have been together for 21 years. She will be 43 in July and I turned 53 on Christmas Day. She is very beautiful and i remain very fit and healthy. When we met she was only 20 and had a 5 year old son that I raised from that point with her. He lives in Las Vegas. He is so upset that he is moving home to Ohio and wants to move in with me. My wife will not agree to conceling and will only say that she wants out. There are many things that I could and would do differently if she would stay but I can think of nothing that rises to the level of wanting to break up our family and marriage. Help!
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