I’ve asked this before, but the chicks on here are almost as crazy as my ex lol. Anyways, I’ve got a serious problem on my hands.

‘m afraid that my ex-girlfriend is trying to get some sort of revenge on me. I mean, I don’t completely blame her, but I’d rather find a way to get out of this situation. Here’s the backstory:

I was kind of a jerk for a long time to my ex-girlfriend. I repeatedly cheated on her, treated her like crap and when I broke up with her I told her to just go get a life and leave me alone for now on.

So yeah, maybe I’m kind of a dick, so what? That’s life, you know? I’m a little sexist against women, but anyone who isn’t sexist is just fooling themselves. So last week she called me up telling me about certain pictures she has of me. I don’t want to talk about what are on those pictures since its really embarrassing and there’s no point in anyone knowing. But the point is that she is trying to use those pictures as blackmail to get me to do whatever she wants. What you all need to understand is that if the people at my work see those pictures I am completely out of a job (since what I’m doing in those photos are kind of illegal… it really is a long story). She’s friends with a couple of the guys I work with, so that really scares me.

So I agreed to come over to her place a couple of nights ago, figuring that whatever she wanted me to do so that she could get even, it couldn’t be that bad. What she had me do kind of freaked me out though.

She wanted me to put on one of her old costumes, which happened to be this sort of slutty Alice In Wonderland outfit and model it for her. I was completely shocked at how completely weird that request is and I refused at first, but then she showed me proof that she had some of those photos digitally backed up online. So I went ahead and put on the costume, pretending it was funny instead of just freaking me out. She also put full makeup on my face and had me wear hosiery and a wig. After having me do some pretty weird stuff like dancing, singing and acting stuff out for her, she eventually let me change back into my clothes and go home.

So up until last night I was kind of relieved that she had finally had her revenge and we were totally even. But she called me again last night to tell me that she wants me to come over next Saturday to do similar things with one of her friends there.

I couldn’t sleep at all last night and I’m really stressed out about this. I don’t want to have to keep going over there so that she can get her kicks out of dressing me up like a girl, but there’s no way in hell that I can let her show those pictures to anyone, especially not my coworkers. I’ve thought about taking legal action or something, but I’m really worried about the fact that what I’m doing in those pictures is illegal. A part of me thinks maybe it might be worth it to just let her do this for a while and hope that she’ll get bored of it or just let it go.

Her revenge is retarded anyway, since I don’t feel any worse about all of the things I did to her. In fact, I’m more glad that I caused her all that pain now. Sure, she was innocent in the situation before and it does make me kind of a bad guy for doing it, but she’s not the innocent one in the situation now.

So what should I do? Is there a way to keep her from doing this, or should I just let it happen and hope that she’ll get bored?
Help!


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so theres this boy that I had class with at the start of the year. I didnt like him more than a friend but during our class together he flirted with me so much and he would always do cute little things (Im a sucker for a sweet talker) about a month passed by and one of my best friends had a party. well I showed up late and he immediately came over to me and started talkin. He ended up pulling me on to the dance floor and we grinded on each other (haha, I know, I know) for most of the night. A few weeks pass and I really started to fall for this guy. He was sending me so many signals that he liked me too and sooner or later I had the biggest smile on my face once class ended. About a month before the semester ended I was completely head over heels for this guy and it was obvious to my other classmates (who always joked w/us about liking each other) that we had something there. We even flirted during class periods in the hallways, I mean it was obvious to me that this guy liked me!!
okay, so the class came to an end and he had a party at his house, which I went to… and he just acted distant for some reason, but I just brushed it off like it was nothing. So now, the class is over, right? and its second semester… I ALWAYS see him in the halls during passing period and Ill even see him outside of school almost everyday. and he doesnt say ne thing to me. not one word. I dont know what happened!!! once in a while he’ll glance and smile at me, but other than that nothing! I dont know whats wrong?! I try to act like I dont see him sometime because I dont want to come off as that crazy stalker type of girl (LOL) but it just kills me inside! I just dont know what to do… we never talk and if we do make eye contact in the halls, which is like everyday, we both quickly turn away! my friends always tell me that when im "not looking" he looks at me. I just dont know what to do! I like him SO much & I just dont know what happened!
sorry its soo long, I just needed to get it off my shoulders, hahaha. what should i do? Im so heartbroken and upset and I just have no clue what to do! PLEASE HELP!

****any heartbreak quotes that would work good with my situation?!


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Are there people out there that has any of their relationship broken because of this election? I think its stupid to ruin friendships or whatever because of this presidential elections. Just because you want a diffrent candidate.

This have not happen to me but i heard stories and its stupid to me. You want what you want.
yeah it does get heated. cause people vote for people on stupid reasons LOL

People will never agree on politics and religion.

I can understand if the person has no morals but I am taking about a good friendship.


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(I’ve gotten many many emails about this recently, so I decided to post it around a little bit, on here and other forums, feel free to do so yourself. I actually encourage it, I got an email about 5 mins ago from a girl in her mid-20s thinking about killing herself, but read my post, and she said it made her realize life is worth living. it seems people enjoy it even if nothing like this happened to them ^^;)

I posted this last night just venting and trying to think things through a little better, I tend to think better when I can write/type out my thoughts, heh. But people asked me to re-post this…. read till the end.

I changed a few things to make the story a little more clear, also, but it’s pretty much the same story as last night.

Ok so there’s this girl that I’ve known for about 3 weeks(well, 3 weeks exactly today, yey new years! lets call her D by the way) and how we met was a little… unique.

I’m not going to make it all dramatic and super detailed(well I’ll try not to, It’s a habit I have since I like to write lol), but what happened was I was coming out of a store, my ride was late so I took a walk and I noticed a girl about to get raped in an ally nearby, needless to say I wasn’t going to ignore it and let it happen, and coming back from being in the peace corps for 2 years being with shaolin monks(I realize that may sound a little silly to some, but we were helping them repair various things, grow food, stuff like that. they taught us martial arts in return =]) I was feeling pretty cocky, too. I ended up getting shot twice and stabbed three times, I got out of the hospital just 4 days ago, doctors were surprised at my speedy recovery(they used a different word, but said something like determination or something had a lot to do with it)…. not going to go into much more detail about that, too confusing.

Anyway, while I was in the hospital, D and I got to talking and apparently she is afraid of men, also hates them. However, she said I’m the only one she isn’t afraid of/hates. She’s 21 I’m 20, she was raped by her father from ages 10-14 according to her, and got emancipated shortly after her aunt found out and she has lived with her ever since. She said that she feels safe around me, and she wants to start moving on with her life and asked if she could move in with me. Her aunt is fine with it and she likes me, heh they trust me and hardly even know me, makes me pretty happy. Ok getting a little off topic… time to get back on topic.

Despite everything that has happened to her, I really like her, like really really like her. However I’m not even going to try and force anything on her for the time being, because she has been through enough, and the last thing she needs is someone who she hardly even knows but trusts, try and "come on" to her. But I’m patient and I’m really excited to have her around, hopefully we’ll be able to be together someday. If not, then I don’t mind being her friend for the rest of my life either, I can tell she’s going to be a really special person to me for the rest of my life, girlfriend/wife or friend, doesn’t matter.

Basically a lot has happened these last 3 weeks and typing it out and telling people with total anonymity is helping be think things through a bit better, I dunno, I’m just confused, shocked, really happy, and just fgjfadjfhda at the moment.

Also, ignore my answers on here from about 2 weeks ago, my ex-roommate thought it’d be funny to "troll" yahoo answers on my computer while I was in the hospital, I guess you can figure out why he’s my ex-roommate now. =P I guess I do owe him a little bit though, otherwise I wouldn’t have thought about using yahoo answers.

I received quite a few emails from women who had been victims of rape, and they said my story was inspirational to them, so they sent me their msn and I sent mine back, I mean my story helped people? that makes me feel pretty good! I hope this helps more people, too.^^; I got back from the mall with D just a little while ago and she was clinging on my arm so hard but it was pretty cute, she’ll be moved in by jan 6th and I hope it goes well, things are moving pretty fast.

When I signed on I got a huge amount of messages within like 30 seconds asking me a whole ton of questions, thank yous and stuff like that. I had a lot of people asking me to re-post my story so they can show friends/family, so here you go. =) Also a lot of you were asking me what happened to her dad, as I told you on MSN, he got life in prison, he got charged with A LOT of stuff. The people who tried to rape her are probably going to get life, they got charged with a lot of stuff too, but we’ll see.

P.S. anyone thinking about joining the peace corps, I really loved my time in asia and I have many friends who plan to be there for 6+ years. If you’re the kind of person who can give up 2 years of your life to help other people then you will not regret joining, no matter where they send you.

P.P.



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I will always and forever have my ex girlfriend back … and I know she will always have mine …

She broke up with me for no clear reason last month … but she wants be to REAL TIGHT with me still … she told me : "I don’t know if you let ur friends talk about me.. but I would never let a guy come up to me trying to disrespect you or what we had.. and thats my word."

While we were together .. we always said it was going to last forever, because we liked each other for a whole year, and we never argued or anything … we were like soulmates .

But a month after breaking it off with me..she finds a new guy [a past dude she went out with two years ago.] , and they dont even talk much .. but she always signs on when I’m on and puts up these away messages saying "I’ve made alot of mistakes in my life … I need a change."

We don’t talk as much, but she always IMs me about something random.. [ ie : stop photoshoppin ur pics loser. lol ]
and she took my side when me and her friend was having a playful arguement .. what is her deal ? She doesn’t like her other past ex boyfriends .. so why does she still cling on to me with dear life ?

Heres a convo we just recently had :

Her: thns 4 hiiten me baq
Me: uh oh. what i do.
Her: u didnt im me baq~
Me: if i dont IM you back. then im either doin suttin or Matt is on. lol. my b
Me: u signed off when i came back
Her: ooo
Her: nd i commeted ur pic the other day nd got nuutttin!
Her: THANK YOU
Me: iight. i’ll comment.
Me: =]
Her: sureeeee! after i complained
Her: lol
Me: lol. whoopss.
Her: i do look mad spanish with my hair like that
Her: right
Me: nah
Her: yes!
Her: i hate lookin spanish lmao
Me: too bad u dont look it.
Me: lol.
Her: lmao good thats shat i like to hear



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