Went through a long break up. I knew it was coming, not a big surprise. Can’t stop thinking about it, and don’t have any friends available to hang out with since most of them have families and lives of their own. I don’t really wanna drink my sorrows or anything like that. So, what is the most effective way to move on after a failed relationship?
I finally got back together with my boyfriend after 3 month long break
he had let his ex wife and ex gf get in the way
they both are hysterical demanding women but older than him and rich and powerful
he got mad at me when i was upset over him being late or canceling dates because of reasons ot do with them.
he was very hurt when i asked for a break.
since then he did a lot to be my friends and we dated again (no sex)
i know that tomorrow he is moving into a hous ein the same town as his ex . he said its to be closer to his son (but he has his son 50-60 % of th etime already)
he sold the house that he currently lived in and gave 50% to his ex wife as ordered by the court.
he also added her onto facebook
no problem but then i noticed he blocked me from seeing or posting on his wall (i can still see links/status updates)
and on top of that deleted my photo comments about his son and also my older comments on his status.
i confronted him and he said its to avoid drama.
finally i noticed he is developing a webpage for his ex sister in law who is a popular interior designer.
he and i had a very nice normal conversation last friday night
i had one bad piece of news to tell him though.
one of my roommates who suddenly left my house had been getting tons of mail from IRS ….
finally an open piece of mail came to me weeks ago.
turns out she hasn’t paid a small maount of taxes in 1993 and 2003 and theyve been adding in penalties and looking for her ever since.
well oddly 1 week ago the irs also also contacted me. i didnt work in 2007 (taking care of dying parent and renovating m house)
and i was kind of freaked out.
so i tol dmy boyfriend about it.
he said to calm down and that it isnt abig deal and that heck he once had a lien on his house from IRS for 90000 ( !!!)
so we talked some more and he said for me to not stress and that he had just seen the new movie julie and julia with his son.
he said i should cook for him again soon sinc eim so good at it.
and thats IT !
i called him and texted him sunday and nothing
The last i ever heard from him was nearly 7 days ago.
is he fine ?
yes he has updated his twitter all week
he is on facebook and aim as i type this question.
he updated his facebook to say he is proud th emovies he is producing are getting a lot of attention.
and speaking of twitter i uploaded ne pics of myself yesterday to my facebook.
on his twitter he made fun of people who take photos of themselves and called them vain friendless loosers (losers- spelling isnt his strong suit)
he is suddenly bitter and hateful of me ?
should i just delete him off everything and never speak to him again ?
My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. Planning on getting married. He has always had trust issues, however said I was the only girl he ever trusted. Well, a few weeks ago, after I had just recovered from a Staph infection and hadn’t seen him for a week, he told me he was going to fix his car. He didn’t come home until 1am, had gone to a friends all night. The next morning I called and he didn’t seem to think this was a big deal at all. I was SO frustrated because I had previously explained to him how it hurts me when he just goes off without letting me know, I get worried. So I did the same, I went and disregarded his feelings like he had done mine and hung out with a few old guy friends that he HATES! Well I told him about it, he almost broke up with me… we made up. He found out more of the situation I didn’t tell him about, he agreed our love was strong enough to get through, but wants a week long break, still talking but not seeing each other because he was hurt by this.
I am really unsure whether this break will just give him time to get over me, or will really strengthen our relationship? He says that maybe a week long break will help us appreciate each other, but I told him I don’t understand how we can work on our relationship if we aren’t even around each other. Not to mention, we have already spent a week apart and that didn’t make him appreciate me at all, that is how the whole thing started. I apologized and admitted I was VERY immature about the whole thing, I had just reached a breaking point. I love him so much, I am just scared that this break is going to turn into a break up. He assures me that it won’t, but I just have a feeling….
I realize I was being very immature, but I was so upset and made an irrational decision. I know perfectly well that two wrongs don’t make a right. However, he had gone out all night after an entire week of him just dissapearing and not letting me know what was going on, saying he would call me at a certain time and calling me 5-6 hours after that. I have anxiety issues and get really worried about him when I can’t contact him and he said he was going to the store 5 hours ago and still hasn’t come home yet. I had told him daily about how it made me feel and why, I was sitting at home with a Staph infection and would wait for his call and he would just disregard the fact that he said he would come home and call me. Then, the day after I can start seeing him again, after a week of not seeing me, he leaves the entire day when we were supposed to chill and just never let me know. I was very worried and it made me mad because he knew I would be worried and upset and did it anyways.
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