Are you wondering what to say to save a relationship? This articles gives you some very useful and practical tips on how you can keep being with your heart’s chosen one, even though you have been through a lot of problems together.
Whether you want to save your marriage or are talking about saving a long distance relationship, you need help. You could try marriage counseling or even doing a course like relationship rescue. But for most of us, we don’t want to air our dirty laundry in public; even if it is with someone who has heard it all before or at least something similar.
We want to cure our relationship woes in private. How do I know? Why would there be shelves full of books on dealing with relationship problems if we were all ready to use counselors. There is a billion dollar industry involved in producing books, DVDs and courses on how to fix your own partnership issues.
This would not exist if there weren’t loads of people willing to pay good money for these products. Unfortunately while there are some great books out there some of the material produced will do more harm than good. So you need to be careful what you read and whose advice you listen to.
Men and women are wired differently. It is not just cultural but physical differences in our brain that we are trying to overcome when communicating with members of the opposite sex. On average women have a more developed hearing and language center in their brain which may explain why traditionally they make better communicators.
Men are programmed to fight first and ask questions later. This again is a result of genetics and not a judgment on men. You can perhaps understand why it is difficult to discuss the problems you may be experiencing. But you have to learn how to communicate properly or you will either end up alone or even worse, incredibly lonely while still involved in a relationship.
A great partnership means that you have to share common interests. You have to be able to trust each other and have the facility to discuss how you are feeling without being worried about retribution. You both have to be allowed to be honest even when what you are saying is not what the other person wants to hear. This is not the same as you have the right to hurt one another. Wanting to inflict emotional pain on your partner is not one of the hallmarks of a successful relationship.
Does anyone know any quotes or songs about a long distance relationship where you cant be together and even though the guy promises he will remember you he moves on and finds a new girlfriend , and about me being better then her and him not trying hard enough for me to stay
Ok…im 17 and my fiance was 16, we were in love and we had a long distance relationship, we were in love, we were on and off for a year and 3 months, we thought that if we were together that long and we were madly in love with each other then we might as well get engaged, well me and her have been having alot of troubles, alot of them, everyday were arguing about something stupid and we both know it but we continue to do it, well now she decides that she wants to break up, and thats it the best for us to end it now.
I still love her and want to be with her for the rest of my life but what should i do if she wants to end it and i dont, she told me before that if we have been together for this long then theres no reason for us to break up becuase we were meant for each other and she said hat she was never gonna break up wit me and that was like a couple of weeks ago and now all of a sudden she wants to break up.
Does she still want me? Should i let her go or wat should i do?
We were dating in a long distance relationship for 2+ years and engaged for 15 months…There wasn’t any infidelity in the relationship.Communication was great.It was the long distance and time of waiting that we could be with one another that brought the relationship to an end…
Me and my ex have been broken up since the 23rd of January.He hasnt spoke to me,called or contacted me.Its as if he has forgotten me completely.I had made a mistake begging for him back,and making myself feel less than i am.That only made me feel worse.You cant force someone to love you.Two days after the breakup i asked him if he still loved me,he said no he didnt,which really hurt,because how can u possibly forget someone soo quickly.I mean we spent 9 full months together doing everything.He was my best friend.He was my first true love,which i heard takes alot of time to get over.I had made some mistakes of my own.I have disrespected him several times,made him feel as if he had to choose between me and his family,distracted him from God.this all happened when i was selfish and too confident in the middle of the relationship.My sister had told me If he really loved you he would have pushed and never gave up on the relationship no matter what.She is now married to a man that she says puts up with everything she says and does,because he loves her.His reasons to why he broke up with me were You never changed,we werent going anywhere,and i feel that God wants me to be single,and focus on him.I respect that,but i mean seriously i do not deserve this hurt,and do not believe it.His ex-girlfriend before me he had visited her in Ohio before we were dating last last christmas.It was a long distance relationship,he had payed 200 dollars plus the christmas gifts.when he arrived she had broke up with him,and had flirted and talked to one of his best friends.He had missed her from what he told me,but that is absolutely ridicolous.5 months into that relationship by phone and email and he still spoke to her,and 9 months with me and no contact whatsoever.im confused.I mean yeah i gave him emotional hurt i didnt see,but i still holded on to him and kept going strong.i had lost my dog and i begged him when he could to pay half of my new one and i would pay half.All i could do was apologize and make him see that i did not want his money or materials soo i returned them back to him.all i wanted was his support and love.from s guys perspective,do u know if he will come back,and is hiding his feelings right now?or should i just move on and let it go?why do you think he discontinued talking to me?Is he thinking bad things about me that he didnt see and telling everyone?It hurts to feel like you are the bad person.
Thank you soo much everyone for your answers.it helped.one more thing is age a problem.i mean im 17 and hes 19.im in high school hes out.i see love as a risk you have to fight for.love is not harmful nor excusable.i still do love him and miss him alot.it sucks when memories come at you like knife in your brain.its almost march when we first started talking.its almost april 17 when we first met:(.this couple of months are going to be like hell.he had another excuse that he doesnt have time to be in a relationship.in my opinion there is time for everything.its dedication,determination,sacrifice,and love what we need.i wonder how he is doing.i wonder if he still loves me even though he said he didnt.i wonder if he cares.I never knew i could fall in love with him.we were completely different.
Are you wondering what to say to save a relationship? This articles gives you some very useful and practical tips on how you can keep being with your heart’s chosen one, even though you have been through a lot of problems together.
