I want a purity ring……?
My mom says that I should just use any ring but I want one that says something like "True Love Waits" I have just read a great book and all of the book all of the girls were christian and wore purity rings and after a little research I realy want one I have already promised to save myself till marriage (i did a long time ago) I am 13 and have no way to get money but REALY REALY want one I want my friends to ask and me to tell them I am saving myself for marriage How can I get the money for it, and I dont just want it to be there I want to have a special time with god read a few passages and pray do you know of anything I could read or anything I want this to be a special thing between me and God
Ive been broken up with my ex for years, to the point when the last time we were officially together we were just kids. I threw out everything that had to do with him, all the pictures, all the notes, all the songs. Now I just feel crazy. I thought all that was the steps you needed to take to make someone go away, to not think about them anymore. It’s like some weird drug, I get this desire to call him up, to go see where he is or what he’s doing. If I ever do get a hold of him, I have this strange happiness for weeks on end.
Alright, so that much I could see someone saying, so go for it. But I have, and it just hasn’t worked out. Sometimes he tells me he feels the same way, sometimes he tells me he’s completely over it and I’m thinking about things long gone. It just sucks. I don’t know anyone in this kinda situation.
We broke up because basically I moved out of town for college. He wasn’t getting a job or doing much with his life. I kinda needed to focus and keep going and was getting brought down. But I mean were older now and he’s got a job and tells me he’s changed a lot,
So anyways here the deal. I tried to get him back, but the fact that I lived so far away was still a problem. He would talk to me for a day, then I’d go out of town and we’d never really get anywhere because either it left off on he loves me or he loves me not. Also, there was an episode about a year or so after the break up where he was doing something similar to me, trying to get me to come back and even break up with a current boyfriend.
It’s really been a mess. I’ve ruined a lot of his relationships and he’s ruined a lot of mine. This has been going on a really long time, and this whole time I’ve been wishing it would just go away. How the hell do you make these feelings go away?
Now, it’s a really big problem for me. After trying to get him back the last time and getting frustrated that it was going nowhere, I finally tried to just accept that it looked like I was alone on this and I needed to move on.
I’m dating this perfect guy who is the best thing ever for me. I’m pretty much always happy, progressive, and feel like I can work really well with the guy. My friends love him, my family loves him, and I love him. But for some really dumb reason I can’t figure out because of the internal WAR going on in my head, I feel the urge to call my ex. It’s probably about once a month at least. Sometimes more or less. But umm…thats KINDA a problem! How can I really, REALLY forget about this guy if nothing works? I tried talking to him about it and accepting it, and still felt the same, throwing all the stuff out, still felt the same, living in a different state, and "time healing" all didn’t work. What the hell? I need someone to exorcise him from my life. Is THAT a possibility?
What this really comes down to for me is logic vs emotion. Logic tells me that I have a damn good thing going, and I’m going to really screw it up and loose someone important to me if I even THINK about my stupid ex. Emotions tell me that I talk to this guy one day and I am glowing for the next two weeks. I get angry when I hear his name, when I hear about love and all that. I get angry and then I call him because I can’t stand it. I seriously blush a little if his shoulder touches mine. But you can’t trust emotions, emotions change. Logic doesn’t change. Somone who is always there for you, always supports you no matter what and WILL tell you how they feel about you is way more important than an old flame who burns away all happiness.
If I weren’t with my boyfriend, I would still be trying to get him back for sure. If I never met him however, I would be the happiest person in the world for sure. I wrote a list of pros and cons to both and it was literally equal. Btw, he has a girlfriend, and what he HAS said to me is basically almost exactly the same as what I’m saying. He loves her and can see marrying her, but he can’t watch love movies with her without getting angry or thinking its stupid.
This is, surprisingly, the short version of this story.
To anyone who look a year or more to get over a failed relationship, how do you look back at it now?
I would appreciate anyone answering this who has taken a very long time to get over a failed relationship or marriage. How do you view what happened now, when you look back at the relationship and the break-up? I would especially like to hear how you feel about the aftermath, the year or so that you took recovering from it, do you feel you wasted part of your life or did you need to go through it, did you learn something from it all? Was there an outcome for you, is your life better or worse and how do you feel about the person who hurt you? Do you pity them or do you feel nothing at all for them? Sorry for all the questions but I would just like to know how you feel about the situation, looking at it in hindsight? Thank you to anyone who answers.
My mom says that I should just use any ring but I want one that says something like "True Love Waits" I have just read a great book and all of the book all of the girls were christian and wore purity rings and after a little research I realy want one I have already promised to save myself till marriage (i did a long time ago) I am 13 and have no way to get money but REALY REALY want one I want my friends to ask and me to tell them I am saving myself for marriage How can I get the money for it, and I dont just want it to be there I want to have a special time with god read a few passages and pray do you know of anything I could read or anything I want this to be a special thing between me and God
I’m married and my husband works out of town. We’ve kept a long distant relationship for a long time now. Things seemed to be up and down for awhile and now I can’t get him to even talk to me on the phone. I desperately don’t want to lose him and I’m losing hope of us staying married. I don’t know if there is any hope for us anymore. How can I win him back?
He worked out of town when I met him a few years ago. We got married and he wanted me to quit my job and go to college. So, I did. I spoke to him over 3 weeks ago and he wanted me to get back into a job and so I have been applying with very little luck. He hasn’t been sending enough money for the bills and didn’t give me fair warning of the change of money in the deposits to come. There is a child involved and bills. I am hurt by what he is doing but I understand why he wants me to work to help out on the bills. I just understand why it is happening like this and what I could do to get him to talk to me about this.. I wonder if it is his pride or he is fed up with being in this family.
So this past year has been very rocky for my husband and I. I was at my husbands military christmas party and one of his lady co-workers seemed to be acting very strange. I felt funny about it. When we drove home I asked my husband about it. I also asked him how he felt about her. He casually said, "he was close to her, No really close to her". I about dropped my jaw at him saying that so openly. I talked to him about it and asked him what he meant and he said, "we’re just friends close friends from being in the same platoon together for so many years." I still didn’t feel very good about it, So I got snoopy. (No Im not proud of it) But glad I did. I found in his e-mail that he left open on accident that he was e-mailing her and asking to have lunch with her at drill weekends. He was e-mailing her regularly. The e-mail did just seem friendly – not sexual or anything, but he would say maybe we can have lunch this weekend. Then I found he was also signed up for a Adult web site. Which REALLY HURT. I have always loved my husband and been faithful to him so this was a blow to me. Because I had already forgave him for cheating on me when we lived over seas in Italy. He went to school (in the military) and on his off time he would go to a bar and drink with another Navy guy and was sitting with two ladies which over the five weeks turned into dancing and kissing. I was so hurt the first time because I was pregnant at the time and far from all my family. Took a long time to get over but he promised it would NEVER EVER happen again. So to get back to the recent…..I am having a hard time dealing with all of this again. He swearer’s he did nothing with the lady from the military other than a dinner and talking at lunch and swearer’s most of the time other people from the platoon was there.
But then I found out he was flirting with ladies on Myspace, man things just kept getting worse. I was going crazy. I even found a saved phone number from an old girlfriend. He said they messaged each other on classmates and then later looked her number up and saved it in his work phone, but that he never used it. How do I trust him. He has given all his codes to me and swearer’s I am his only one. But I know Cheaters will lie till they go to their GRAVE. So I am always on my toes. We have been to counseling a few times, it did help, But I am still having a hard time…..He promised me the first time he cheated he would never be with a lady alone again, but then he went to dinner with her and lied to me about it, He says, He lied to me because he knew i’d be mad and there was nothing to the dinner, but friendship.
He gets very mad at me when I bring up his past, or when i tell him I don’t trust him. He just doesn’t get what he has destroyed. We are very very close as a couple, (I know that sounds weird) But we are always holding hands, kissing and everyone tells us how cute we are as a couple and wish they could find a relationship like that. Yes our sex life is GREAT also. At least everyday and usually more than that. Yes we have four kids. Yes we have to be creative. We have been married 19 1/2 years now. But I just don’t know what to think. Does he really love me, Why do men flirt with women "IF THEY LOVE THERE WIFE’S SO MUCH" I JUST DON’T KNOW IF I CAN EVER TRUST HIM AGAIN. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART. But I feel like things will never be the same again. We have a week or two that goes great and then all my frustrations come back from a flash back. How does one EVER REALLY know if someone is Truly sorry????????? I wish I could really know if he love’s me. I cry often, but he doesn’t know it. I cry because I miss (the KNOWING my husband LOVED ME) It’s a feeling I wish I could get back.
I haven’t told anyone about all this (except the counselor) and I have to always acted like my marriage is great to our family etc. I don’t want everyone to know what he has done. One its embarrassing for me and I don’t want anyone to think badly of him. I know that’s sounds stupid. But You gotta understand I LOVE HIM and I don’t want him hurt in anyway. We have enough pain between us dealing with it than to involve others. Also another reason is our son went though Cancer for a year and We’ve had enough pain, so involving others just would add to it. This is way I am sharing it here. I need to get it out. I know he doesn’t want to loose "US" when I mentioned leaving him he feel apart crying begging me not to leave. He is constantly tell me that he love’s me and never has Cheated since Italy with the Kiss. He tells me he didn’t realize the things he was doing recently was going to hurt me or that I would call it cheating. But I am so confused & not sure if I can trust him. Guys what are some signs that a guy is really sorry. HELP!!!!!!!
too gooey, right?
The second time around
Will it ever happen
Will I know when
Will the earth move
Will my body roar
Will I know what to do
Will there be October leaves
Or a blanket of snow
Or fresh spring flowers we watch grow
Will there be music
Will there be dance
Will I be given a second chance
For another romance
To come my way, someday?
You’ve been gone a long time
But something keeps me true
To you
And I think and I ponder
And I wonder and wander
And know that deep down
There is only one
and it was you
So, forget the leaves,
Forget the snow
Forget the music
Let it all go
Forget the dance
We had a beautiful one
There is no chance
Of a new
Simply because of you
We dated for almost 6 years. he started seeing someone 2 weeks before we actually broke up and got into a relationship with the other woman soon after. They dated for about 5 months until he decided that she is such a negative person and almost suicidal. He kept in contact with me halfway through their relationship then we finally hung out and he started to feel regret and slowly let her go but she would take drugs and threaten to kill herself if he left her. He had to stick around a bit longer and pretend to be her boyfriend until he could get past her negativity and leave her alone.
It has been almost 7 months since he ended his relationship with the negative girl & we’ve also been talking. We just recently discussed why he cheated and went through that phase. However, I still feel angry and disgusted that he had sex with her even though we weren’t together. I guess it’s because we were each other’s firsts and there was no one else. I don’t know how i’m going to get past this & trust him again.
I want to know why guys cheat after being in a long relationship then all of a sudden go back to us. How do I know he really regrets his mistake? I want to take him back, but not too easily… I just don’t know if what he’s showing me now is worthy of taking him back. How did you get your ex-girlfriend back after you cheated on her?
He gave me 4 promise rings that I wore almost everyday & I gave them back to him when we broke up. He wears one with my name on it everyday on his pinky. It even left a tan line on his finger. I told him that I couldn’t hold on to them for as long as we don’t have a relationship.
He’s taking me out on an official date this thursday to watch Goapele. She sang our song: Closer. I have a feeling that he’s going to ask me to be his girlfriend w/ the rings I gave back to him. As sweet as the setting may be almost perfect, I’m not sure if I am ready…
I dont want to take him back too soon to think that i’m that easy. Is 7 months a long time?
okay, this is probably gonna be really really long. sorry! but bare with me if you’re whiling to help.
but, my boyfriend and i broke up about two weeks ago, and like 3 days ago, i got a text from my best friend, sha. he’s a guy, and we’ve been friends for a really long time. so anyway, he texted me and was like, "hey, i’m really bored, and i’m gonna drive by your house in a little bit, want me and my friend to pick you up?" and i was like, "yeah, come pick me up."
so i snuck out of my window. haha.
and when him and his friend picked me up, it was like, 12?
and i’ve never met matt before,
and when i saw him,
he was really really cute. (:
but then on the way to matts house,
matt pulls over and is like, "i need to tell you something."
and he turned around, and is like, "i’m married, and i have a kid. but my wife don’t care if i cheat."
and i’m like, "oh…umm…okay?"
but when we went to sha’s house,
we all sat on the couch and talked for an hour or so, then…
matt was like, "sha, may i kiss her? she’s just too cute not to kiss."
and i was like, "matt, you’re married!"
and then matt was like, "she don’t care though."
and then sha was like, "yeah, man." and we ended up makin’ out,
and then sha tries to join in!!!
and i stopped right there, because i never done anything like that,
and i’m NOT into that.
so then sha and matt took me home at about 4:30?
and i had to get ready for school,
so i went to school,
and then i get a text from sha that says, "hey, we’re havin’ a party tonight, wanna come?" and i was like, "yeah. pick me up after school."
so, they get me after school,
and when we get there,
matt keeps looking at me and is like, "come here." and i get up and he gets up and walks towards me and gives me a really big hug. and is like, "i wanna apologize for not giving you a hug last night."
and i was like, "awwh, it’s okay…"
so when all of sha and matt’s friends arrive,
matt keeps looking at me,
and when i look back, he turns away really fast.
and he found reasons to touch me,
and he came up once and put his arms around me while i was turned around,
and he whispered in my ear, "follow me."
so i turned around,
and we went in his room,
and he shut and locked the door,
and i was like, "yes?" lol.
he was like, "what? can i not invite you in my room to talk to you?"
so we lay on his bed for a while, and we start talking and stuff,
and i want to turn on the tv, so he hides the remote,
and he starts tickling me,
and then all of a sudden,
we look at each other and start makin’ out.
then we had sex… ):
and i feel really bad,
because i knew he was married,
but it was the heat of the moment,
and i really really like him.
he acts like he likes me too though…
but his wife is NEVER around.
or his baby for that fact…
so could he just be lying to me?
but i’m just so confused.
and last night before i left,
he kept hugging me and stuff,
and i thought he really liked me,
and now i’m really sad…
will someone tell me what to do…IN A NICE WAY?
please don’t leave me any comments saying that i’m a home wrecker or a whore or something.
i know what i did was wrong.
so please,
no mean comments, ok?
btw, he’s 18 and i’m 16.
so he’s not old. lmao.
just so you know.
thank you guys for helping me…
i really need some of your help.
i need to know what to do!
i’m really confused! ):
Ok, here’s the thing, a few weeks ago, my best.my ex best friend was going of with one of our other friends, he and her were very close and seemed to be great friends, although he wasn’t a best friend to us, he had known us for a very long time.
Anyway, my friend kept going to lunch with him and told me, "you can come if you want!" so i did, because i’d only just finished this major essay and i was finally free, i also have friends that i like to hang around with, and they usually come with me when we get lunch, so we all went to meet her, this boy and this boy’s best friend and we all sat down on the same table. While i got chatting to the boys best friend, (another friend we’d known for a while,) MY best friend suddenly got up and left with the boy, I’d asked her, "oh are you going?" and she’d said, "yeh, we are!" She seemed moody so i decided not to test her temper.
After a while, i found that she’d always sigh if i came near to talk, and she seemed to want to be close to this boy all the time and seemed to forget my existence completely, so i asked one of our friends in a text, "what should i do? Have i made her angry somehow?" and that friend said, "shall i tell her hwo you feel, i mean, i think i should tell her since she’ll probably yell at you," so i agreed and my friend texted her, telling her about our conversation.
Suddenly, my best friend didn’t text me like she usually did, and all my friends were saying she seemed pretty pissed, so i texted her the following day saying, "hey, have we fallen out?" and my best friend replied saying, "Tell me how you feel!" at first i was a bit hesitant because i knew w’ere this would lead. Anyway, in the end i told her all about my feelings and this is what i said :
Hmm, where to start, ok then, firstly, it seems unfair that you cast all my other mates aside when you finally want to talked to me, you blame them for everything when its not at all their fault,
its yours! your the one that goes off with other’s without informing me, and you always judge me.
I mean, you don’t tell me at all about your problems, you tell (and i said the boys name) I mean, aren’t we meant to be best friends? You go freely with everyone yet get in a mood with me, furthermore, you had a massive go at me for saying that "I thought your ex was a nice guy!" I’m a lesbian for gods sake its not like i was saying i fancied him!! You treat all my other friends like trash and im not having it at all. You also put me down endlessy, saying to me, "your ugly, you have no friends and your boring!" Firstly, even if your joking, it is not funny, secondly, i may have not been partying recently because I HAVE WORK to do, which i’m over now and finally, i have heaps of friends! After that, i explained to her how horrible she’d been to me, threatening me with our friendship if i didn’t tell her what this girl thought of her, then when i did, she told the girl about it and i was hated, while she made the girl a great friend!
I ended by saying, "you know what, i think we’ve both given up on our friendship, and i’m sorta glad, i dont want to be best friends with you, because i have friends who are better."
She replied saying
Maybe I go of with the boy because you go of with your other friends, I should be able to talk with my best friend when i want, but your always with them, and i can’t talk to you. There are things i don’t want them to know and even though their your friends, they’re not mine. Yeh, they are in the same class taking the same lessons but you shouldn’t ditch me to go with them, (I actually dont though, she’s lying,) The boy, ( i won’t say his name) has been a better friend than you ever have been and i dont think we like each other anymore, to be honest, i dont even remember calling you that stuff, also, this has happened all my life, i hate it! I clearly don’t need you as a friend!"
Then i said, "good luck with your new best friend and she replied saying, "sams not a new best friend, he’s been it for a while, i just never told you!"
I didn’t yell at her, i never have done and never will, Anyway, all my friends are saying she was in the wrong and that she;s f***** up, but still, i miss her and we’ve been together for ten years so, while i’m happy that im not so close to her, it would be alot easier if we could talk without her walking away, whats worse, is that i’m known as "The mom," of the group, i look after our little group by mothering the boys and making sure they don’t get into fights, and with the girls i help with they’re work, have lunch and help out in they’re relationships, sadly, i’ve been away from them so that i can stay away from my ex best friend and already two boys have been injured and one refuses to come back to the bikesheds, 3 of the girls were bitching about one boy and they hate each other, and lots of freaks have come to hang around the group and its unbearable, but i have to stay away or else the’re will be a massive fight! So :
1. Wha
heres the deal, i had feelings for a girl a long time ago and was close to acting on them, but then i moved. i dont know if i like the girl anymore but i am not sure, it always bugs me and has affected my other relationships. i want to move on…i think, but i have not been able to. ive asked her about her feelings but i never get an answer. i really dont wanna be a stalker but i keep obsessing over this girl and i cant stop until i get closure. please i need all the advice i can get i just need answers.
We been married for 10 years and have a 10 year old daugter who has been the glue the whole time since Ive been a stressed out bitter self reichous jerk who brought many hurtful words to my wife for a long time now.
I have just had an epiphany and am madly in love with her again and can see all of my mistakes and for 3 weeks now have fixed them all except for the anxiety and insecurity of loosing her which is effecting me in every aspect of my life now but, I am now a changed man and at least my daughter will benefit for the rest of her life. She is alrady got plans to leave soon as she has enough savings to go and despite all my efforts to be romantic or just to make her feel special she kinda just rolls her eyes when I try most of the time. I have been the most respectful and fun Ive ever been to her and I think she is enjoying it.
Im not trying to find a way to have sex with her I just want to stand proudly becide her with her love till I die!
Any advice will be apriciated
i want my x boyfriend back i am 14 and we were going out for a long time and than he broke up with me and as a new gf now but i really wnat him back or someone nice guy where do i get one. and one who lives in my state i live in mn i really want him or a new one help me i really need it and all the guys at school are ass…. plz help : ( i really need it
Ok, this game has been out for awhile…and there must be a cheat code., or AN EASY way to access a vase or something to get majic coins…We are about ready to sell it and get our money back, due to the work involved in just gettign the coins..without the rejuvenator, we would have given up a long time ago..
Can someone give me step by step instructions…for my daughter, so we can get the object (and don’t tell me to make the guy go upstairs and take the stairs away with the majic box..that is worthless)
WE have downloaded familes that have a lot of coins, but once you evict them, they loose their coins…this game kinda sucks…truly
I want my husband back!
My husband left 7 months ago but didn’t file for divorce until 4 months later. He told me he wouldn’t come back no matter what I said or did. The back story: We met almost 19 years ago when I was dating another guy. He and I hit it off immediately but because I was in a relationship, we had to be “just friends”.
For a year and a half he followed me around as I did things with friends and invited him along, in addition to him showing up and calling me at work a lot to “check on our computers” (since he was our computer repair guy). My boss said we never got that kind of service from him before I started working there. He’d take me out as “friends” when my boyfriend was working or out of town, etc., and we always had a blast.
As soon as my then boyfriend and I broke up, my now husband was there to catch me when I fell. The blinders came off of my eyes and I finally saw what a wonderful guy he was and I fell for him, hard. We dated, moved in together months later, lived together over a year and then married. We were a couple for 17 years and we’ve been married for 15 years, plus the 7 months we’ve been separated. About 4 years into the marriage (about 7 years after we were were a couple) I started rescuing dogs and placing them in new homes whenever possible, until the homes started drying up.
We had as many as 12 dogs (and a cat) at one time. When he left me we still had 9 dogs (and the cat). He told me he left because I wouldn’t get rid of the dogs as he kept asking me to do, and that I was emotionally abusive to him and treated him like a doormat. I disagree, and I reminded him of how I had been in a severe depression for over 5 years, and that’s why I couldn’t part with the dogs then, because I needed them more than they needed me (I hadn’t been feeling the love from him for a long time, but they made me feel loved).
Since he left (saying he wasn’t coming back no matter what I said or did) I told him I’d get rid of the dogs and go back to marriage counseling, but he said it’s too late. Later, I found out he told his best friend (who’s also my best friend) that he would have gotten rid of the dogs the next day if I left him and they were his dogs.
When he left he said he wasn’t coming back, no matter what I said or did, but I still tried to find the dogs homes one by one, in case he would change his mind seeing that I was able to let them go now. He told the friend he didn’t think I was serious about placing them.
Anyway, now that 1 dog has been placed and 2 have since died, and the others will be placed very soon, he’s saying it no longer matters because he’s just not coming back.
Now he says his counseling is helping him learn about himself (from the marriage counselor we had both been seeing, but that I had been seeing with him but had left for good reason), and he says if he would have known himself then the way he does now, he wouldn’t have gotten married. This from the guy that followed me like a puppy dog for a year and a half, while I was with another guy, and even dated my roommate at my request so he could spend more time with me (he told me this a couple of years after we were married).
I don’t know what to believe now. He wanted me, waited for me, married me and now says he knows himself better and wouldn’t have married me. All this was said AFTER I got rid of the dogs that he said he wanted me to get rid of (the ones that were supposedly the main reason he left me over, in addition to my supposed emotional abuse of him). I feel he thought I was emotional abusive because he kept things inside and I always tried to get things out in the open. He hates conflict of any kind, because of his parents’ tumultuous relationship during his childhood.
Is there any hope for us? Does anyone out there know what’s really going on inside his mind (and NO, he’s never, ever been unfaithful, ever, me neither), and how I can reach him? He’s VERY prideful and doesn’t want to admit to ME that I hurt him by not letting go of the dogs and that he felt I didn’t love him enough and loved them more than him (which was NEVER true).
He’d tell me that in the past, but I didn’t think he was serious. Now he’s told friends that too, but he won’t tell me now that it’s part of it (mainly the biggest part of it according to our friends, and to me). Please help if you can figure him out and have answers for me. And please hold the negative and mean comments, I’m very emotional right now and raw, and I don’t need that kind of thing, trust me. All legitimate helpers with possible helpful answers are much needed to reply.
Thanks.
In November of 2008, I met the best thing that ever happened to me. We met online and fell for each other quickly. We had a great relationship with a few bumps in the road. I was more than your average boyfriend. I cooked her dinner and sometimes we would cook together, bought her dinner, bought her roses on occasion just to say I loved her, helped her financially if needed, and did all of the little things that mattered. She has had a troubled past when it comes to guys. Because of that issue she was very insecure. I always plead and swore that I wasn’t going to leave or cheat on her. About 5 months into our relationship she met a new guy from her work. She had a lot of guy friends that I didn’t mind her seeing at all, but this guy was different. After a week of knowing her he offered to pay hundreds of dollars worth of car maintenance for her car. He offered to pay for a new tattoo, took her our for breakfast all of the time. I knew what he was trying to do, and I demanded that it stop. We argued for a long time over what was going on and I was given the jealous and insecure label. She ended up cheating on me nad leaving me for him around our six month mark. I was devastated. She told me she wanted me in her life still, but I denied the offer. She would still send me text messages but I would ignore them because I was bitter. I gave her a diamond necklace for Christmas, and a watch for valentines day that she ended up giving back to me when she left. I also returned the promise ring that I was going to present to her on our six month anniversary. I wanted to prove to her that I would stay honest, commited, and true to her until we were ready to be engaged in the future. Her relationship with the new guy didn’t last long at all. They only "saw" each other for a few weeks. Months went by and we didn’t really speak to each other. About 3 months ago I decided I needed to get over her and move on. I deleted her off of my facebook to begin the process of healing. About a week ago I received a message from her on facebook asking why I deleted her off. I thought, "Why should I respond?" So I ignored her. She responded again and was upset that I didn’t respond. She told me that she still wanted me in her life and wanted to be friends. She told me that the guy she was dating at the time was cheating on her, and told me she was sorry for hurting me. She told me she understood if I didn’t want to talk to her. I responded back and told her how I felt about what she did, and told her I would think about being friends. She responded back and told me she worried about me a lot and thought it would be nice if we went out to lunch sometime. A few days went by and I accepted her offer for friendship. She was fine with it, and told me she only wanted to be friends because she had just broke up with her cheating boyfriend and wasn’t ready for a relationship. I told her I understood, and I wasn’t ready for one either. I decided to be a nice guy and I told her that if she needed someone to talk to for comfort I would. She sent me a text and thanked me for my thought, but there was nothing anyone could do. She had to get over it herself. She told me she wanted to have lunch and I told her that would be fine and to let me know when. She was okay with it, and wanted to start a conversation. I had to cut it short because I was going to bed, but I told her I would talk later.
Does my ex realize what she had lost, and slowly wants to come back to me? I do love her still, and I would give her a shot if she proves that she has changed. Ladies..what do you think..does she want me back? If she doesn’t, why would she want to talk to me again after her breakup? I thought I had women figured out, but I was dead wrong.
My boyfriend and I were together for a year and 3 months.. and for the most part, we were completely happy, the whole relationship.. To be honest, I was in love with him before we even started dating. So, obviously.. I care alot for him, and I have for a long time now. We spent pretty much every day of the summer together, and we got alot closer over the past 4 or 5 months.. we had one of those relationships that all our friends were jealous of, and everyone wanted to be like us.. just because we were always happy together. Well then, out of nowhere.. he just breaks up with me last Sunday night and says that he doesn’t feel like he’s in love with me anymore. I know it’s not true.. because, when someone loves you, that’s something you know. I think he just needs some time, but this hurts so freaking bad! Can anyone tell me what I can do to get him back faster? I need this guy in my life.. he is my world, and I’ll love him forever! =/
I like to play computer games online like counter strike 1.6 and left4dead, it has had its toll on my marriage and its rocky now.My wife says that shes not in love with me but she still loves me.I just gave my computer away to show this time i was serious and have started to do the little things again like run her a warm bath at night when she got home from work it has only been 3 days since the last falling out but the last 2 days whith her have been great and i hope getting rid of it will help show her that will she come back around or is it to late? i acted like a child and got what i deserverd,but i can say she is the best person that i have ever known. we still talk and are going to church on sunday together which we havent done in a long time .just this time it seems we are on the edge.am i doing the right things know?what else can i do besides rem. the little things?
well sorry everyone i thought i was on the right track but i guess i wasnt she said that she was just pertending and that it aggervatied her to be here so we are going our seprate ways
I am a seventh grader. I have liked this girl for a long time. We have been friends for a long time. Recently I got a haircut and she liked it a lot. I was told she liked me so I asked her out and we went out for a couple of days. She texted me this morning saying that we were too good of friends to be dating. She also said that she was afraid that us dating good ruin our friendship. How can I win her back?
I broke up with my wife a few times before we even got married. We patched things up, and then we married.Then we decided to end the marriage a few times, but decided not to each time.
Then she moved back to her home country, and we split.
A few months later, we decided to try things again, and I moved over to her country and we tried things out. We couldn’t make things work, so I came back here. But… I wouldn’t be at ALL surprised if in 6 months or a year she calls me and asks for another chance. Honestly, I would probably say yes.
Have you ever been in such a situation? I love this woman so much, but when we’re together problems always arise; even so, I CAN’T live without her. I need her. It is twisted, but I think it will go on like this for a long time. It prevents me from moving on and finding someone else, but a very big part of me doesn’t WANT to move on and find someone else!
I think it’s safe to say I am madly, completely in love with this woman. Can you relate?
iv been invovled in magic for a long time now. i amaze many people and get great reactions. My only problem is i mainly do cards. I want to try to get away from cards a little and do other types of magic. What i want the most is illusions. Now i understand no one can give me Criss Angel Type illusions but a source where i can find good some what amazing illusions. And if not anyh tips in making up my own illusions would be gold advice like ways to find methods into doing an illusion
thanx
Well I Have Been Crying A lot since yesterday , and this morning i woke up with my eyes swollen,and since i have been crying today , tomorrow i am going to wake up with my eyes swollen, and i need to get rid of them because tomorrow i am going to see a friend i haven’t seen in a long time and i don’t want to show up with swollen eyes.
I’ll give u some background. We used to date for about 1 year and 3 months. This was a long time ago probably like 2 years ago. We didn’t have a bad breakup because we r still the best of friends. I am one of her closest friends and she is my closest friend. I really care bout her and love her. How can I get her back?
My wife and I have been married for over five years. I recently put her in rehab for alcoholism. For the year prior our relationship had been deteriorating mainly because of the alcohol but also because I had become very demanding and less of a friend to my wife.
She has been in rehab for 3 weeks and every Saturday she gets to leave for 3 hours. The last 2 Saturdays I have been implementing a book by Homer McDonaId that I read on how to save a marriage and it seems to be working. My wife started crying when I dropped her off today because she wanted to be with me.
She called me this evening and said she has not felt about me the way she did today in a long time. She then said she may want to sleep in the spare room when she comes home for awhile and act as though we are dating…I think this is not a good idea for me personally because I miss my wife and also want sex.
Can anybody think why this may be a good idea?
we used to be together since long time ago and we broke up 4 years ago and i still love her and we met soon and i dont how i said that!. i said that i really love her and i never forgot her and she said that she is confused! and we r talking but as firends. how to get her back??????????
i tried to ask but she always says im the best person she have ever met but she dont have feelings anymore towards me or anyone
alsoo i thought that she well not talk to me and be far but we always talk but i dont know what to say
