Is it normal to think that your husband and his mom are sharing feelings about you behind your back?
For the longest time now, I find fault with how my MIL raised my husband, how she and my husband’s other sisters use my husband for favors, and how they pretend that they like me.
When we’re all together, his mom says that he blows all of his money. She also says taht she wishes she could go back to school, but she can’t because she’s a single, working mom. My husband says comments like "You hate them, they hate you." Whenever I mention how I don’t like them/ what they’re doing. He tells his mom that I think they hate me, and she denies it. I’m fed up with whatever is going on behind my back. My husband claims that they don’t talk shyt on me, but I think everyone does at one point in time. I even heard my husband say that his mom said, "What’s up her ass?" When we got in a fight at her house, and he said that she stated, "What, can’t you stand your wife?"
Sometimes it feels like a constant battle for my husband. Why can’t I have him to myself? When we first were married, we had a nice 1 bedroom apartment, we spent a lot of time together, he didn’t talk to his mom (she was a b!tch and threw him out) and I felt like I had peace and didn’t have to worry. Now that I had a baby and lived with them for 4 months (moved out in Feb. things just keep getting worse though) it’s like a living hell, no matter how far I live from them!
Are they gossiping about me? How do I find out??? Their phone conversations are usually 3 minutes or less at any given time, but he does go to her house once a week to talk or do favors for her.
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I want my ex Boyfriend back.
So me and my ex were dating for a year, he was great for the longest time, then he became detached and i was being clingy, and we fought all the time, so we eventually ended it, we didn’t talk for three weeks and it killed me, but eventually i emailed him and he responded, and i did again too.
He didn’t talk to me for three days after that, but now he has been regularly IMing me whenever im on and he is too.
I like being able to talk to him, but he has this other girls he likes, I simply want him back, the other girl won’t be an issue, but what do I do to show him that we were right for each other, and we just needed the break? how do i get him to want me back?
What do i say and do as we IM ?
* 37 minutes ago
* – 4 days left to answer.
Additional Details: Well actually the other girl would totally help me out i f i needed it!
He doesnt know, but anything at all that the other girl can do to make him miss me, because she would do anything!
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Now I know that happiness goes on
Thats where you found me
When you put your arms around me
I havent been there for the longest time
Oh, oh, oh
For the longest time
Oh, oh, oh
For the longest
Im that voice youre hearing in the hall
And the greatest miracle of all
Is how I need you
And how you needed me too
That hasnt happened for the longest time
Maybe this wont last very long
But you feel so right
And I could be wrong
Maybe Ive been hoping too hard
But Ive gone this far
And its more than I hoped for
Who knows how much further well go on
Maybe Ill be sorry when youre gone
Ill take my chances
I forgot how nice romance is
I havent been there for the longest time
I had second thoughts at the start
I said to myself
Hold on to your heart
Now I know the woman that you are
Youre wonderful so far
And its more than I hoped for
I dont care what consequence it brings
I have been a fool for lesser things
I want you so bad
I think you ought to know that
I intend to hold you for the longest time
its september tomorrow =)
this is Billy Joel – The Longest Time btw,…..
perhalps….
because…its kinda an inside thingy….its an inside joke that goes with another inside joke =)
its Vietnam btw and its kinda an odd reason….. I did it for John Lennon alrighty…. seeing as tomorrs the first of september and that means he will be back soon….
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There would still be music left to write
What else could I do
I’m so inspired by you
That hasn’t happened for the longest time
Once I thought my innocence was gone
Now I know that happiness goes on
That’s where you found me
When you put your arms around me
I haven’t been there for the longest time
I’m that voice you’re hearing in the hall
And the greatest miracle of all
Is how I need you
And how you needed me too
That hasn’t happened for the longest time
Maybe this won’t last very long
But you feel so right
And I could be wrong
Maybe I’ve been hoping too hard
But I’ve gone this far
And it’s more than I hoped for
Who knows how much further we’ll go on
Maybe I’ll be sorry when you’re gone
I’ll take my chances
I forgot how nice romance is
I haven’t been there for the longest time
I had second thoughts at the start
I said to myself
Hold on to your heart
Now I know the woman that you are
You’re wonderful so far
And it’s more than I hoped for
I don’t care what



