I broke up with my boyfriend of 22 months in October of 2009. Since then I have continued to break up with him 4 more times. Keep in mind, we haven’t been a couple since October. We’re not breaking up and getting back together and then breaking up. I broke up with him but he just won’t accept it. He even told him once that he thought we were just ‘taking a break.’ I never said that. I said that I didn’t want to be with him and that I never wanted to see/talk to him again. A least once a month since October he will call/ email/ text me, saying that he’s sorry and that he misses me. I have told him at least 6 times to leave me alone. I asked him nicely not to contact me any more and told him very rudely to leave me alone. I have told him that I have a new boyfriend ( I don’t have a new bf) , hoping that would deter him; it didn’t. Then I told him that I cheated on him with the new ‘boyfriend.’ That worked for a few weeks. Then he emailed me to say that he could forgive me for cheating if I would just take him back. I have cussed him out and said some pretty horrible things to try to get him to leave me along but a few weeks later he’ll contact me. I am looking for a job right now and I have a ton of resumes/ application circulating with my # and email address on them so I don’t want to change my number/email and miss out on a job interview. I don’t know what to do! He’s not threatening me or anything, its just really annoying and frustrating. Please help me!!
I’ve been screening my calls because he calls me from different numbers. Now I don’t answer any ‘blocked’ or unknown numbers. When I don’t respond to his emails/texts he keeps texting/emailing me until I tell him to leave me alone. Then I won’t hear from him for a month or so and then the whole cycle starts over again.
And I’m not going to give him a break, he lied to me and cheated on me. He deserves to feel like crap!!
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I’ve worked with her for 2 years and she left for 8 months and now she just came back. I was in love with her and she didn’t feel the same, so I was stuck as friend… which sucked. Then she left and it almost killed me being away from her. I eventually got over her after 3 months, but it really screwed up my life. I ended up losing 50lb in about 2 months. She just came back and although I’m not in love with her now I’m worried I will fall in love with her again. On her first day just hearing her voice was almost too much. I graduated from college and am looking for a job now. I’m currently just working at a student job that I had in college and will be leaving any time. Should I just quit now so that I avoid this whole situation?
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My husband of almost sixteen years has Marfan syndrome. He is 6’9" and very thin and is starting to get the concavity in his breastbone area and I can see the roof of his mouth thing happening because his teeth look subtly different.
We don’t have health insurance though I am actively looking for a job with insurance. He works remodeling houses (his dream – the only job he has had that he liked out of security and computers and other kinds of construction) for himself and comes home just dead tired after working.
I get it and I don’t mind it.
I just see him getting a tiny bit worse as the months go by and it angers me. I want him here to see our grandchildren and grow old with me.
I can’t imagine ever loving anyone else and I only want to be with him. We had problems then fought to save our marriage. If we then lose it over a genetic thing we can’t do anything about I don’t know if I will ever get over my rage.
We have three kids who so far do not have Marfan’s. Our son, 15, is 6’9" but given our heights that is not so weird. Our daughter and little son are not as hugely tall compared to their classmates but certainly are not short. And none of them has any symptoms of Marfan at all. Trust me I am grateful for that as that is a statistical miracle!
Just wondering if there are others out there with Marfan in the family scared for the future.
LOL. I can google and look at wikipedia. I was hoping to hear from family members, people with Marfan, and medical people about real-life experiences. Thanks, though, and I realize I didn’t make that clear in my question. 
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Three months ago, my wife and I got married. We were doing just fine. Until she started stripping. I wasn’t ok with it, but she started doing it with a friend. I was never ok with it, but I accepted it because I love my wife more than anything in this world. And it was her decision. But a little over two weeks ago, she had a break down after telling her dad what she was doing. She started blaming me for her stripping because of where I work. I dont make enough money where I work to comfortably support us. Which is why she started stripping. Before we got married, I had promised her I’d get a new job. But I kept putting it off. I had every intention of getting a new job, but I just put it off. And that happened a couple of times. This time, she left. She is staying at a friends house and has been ever since. Ive changed the way I do things. I use to be lazy, but Ive changed that. Im taking resposibility and doing things that I should have done a long time ago. I sold my truck, so 300$ a month goes back into our pockets. Ive been constantly been looking for a job. Got a couple different options coming up. one possibly with the school system. She wont come home because she is afraid I’ll quit searching for a job. And she doesnt trust me when I tell her that I promise to do everything I say im going to do. But after what Ive done, can you blame her? Saturday, she talked to me and said, she wanted an Anullment. But a couple hours later, she tells me that she is going to hold off on the anullement because she loves me. And I know she does. She said dont call or txt her. She’ll call me. She called me after 3 days. Today. She said she was calling to hear my voice and to see how the job search was going. ive been looking for a Fulltime job that pays more than minimum wage for over 2 weeks now. Its hard to find somthing like that. And believe me, ive been looking as hard as I can. I have a few connections and maybe able to get a job with the School System here as a Custodial/Maintanence engineer. I guess you could say, Janitor. Im in college but they are all online classes. Thank god. But i cant convince her to come home and let me show her how much ive changed. And im afraid that if I cant get this job fast, she’ll get tired and leave for good. I love my wife. I know ive made some mistakes in the past. But I am human. And i want to make up for all that. But How can I show her if she isnt home and I cant call her? Any suggestions?
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Im currently looking for a job as a Package Handler. Im 20 I live in Atlanta,GA they have a few UPS and Fed Ex’s around here but how do I apply and how do I get hired?
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