I know i’m doing the right thing but it’s still really hard. It’s been 2 1/2 years and it’s just not working but I still love him. Advice please? It wasn’t a bad break up or anything, I just need encouragement that people out there have gone through the same thing and are okay 
We married 1 1/2 years ago. He was 23 I was 18. We got married because I was pregnant.
Ok so i’m 20 years old now with a 11 month old baby. I finished high school and my intention was to go to college but I was having problems at home and on top of that I got pregnant so We moved in together.
I still love my husband and he loves me, we have had some problems but we are working on our marriage, we are trying to make it better day by day. Ok so lately I’ve been wondering if I really want to be living this life, I’m just turn 20 years old and i’m already stuck home doing chores and taking care of a baby. I love my daughter with all my heart but sometimes I wonder if my husband is the right gut for me. A lot of times I find myself wondering What if I had gone to college maybe I would have found someone that was more like me. someone that had the same goals as me. Somtimes I miss going out with my friends and having a good time , I sincerly really miss the single life! I feel like I missed out on so much. My husband was my first and only boyfriend and he is the only man I’ve dated. I feel really bad because I don’t want to make a stupid decision and hurt my daughter in the long run. I would like for her to grow up with her daddy, his a good man and very loving towards my daughter, she’s his world.
So my question is; how do I fall in love with my husband all over again? It’s not that I don’t love him it’s just that I don’t find him intresting anymore…’
Thanks in Advance!
Here’s my story: My pregnant wife hates me. My wife and I used to make out for literally hours and cuddle (never had sex b4 we got married) for about 6 months before we got married and she seemed to have a lot of reasons why she wanted to marry me, she used to tell me she loved me all the time.
I got her pregnant on our honeymoon Feb. 6th 09, and she was so happy and we found out after about 5 weeks that she was already pregnant. One day she came in to the room and it was like she tried to force herself to kiss me and I could tell she didn’t enjoy it the same as before, she stopped letting me cuddle her, she stopped telling me she loved me, she also went off of her Paxil (anxiety) for the baby.
I was on Paxil as well. Pretty soon I was fighting for our marriage and she was thinking about divorce, I got us into marriage counseling and got her onto Zoloft, it helped but not enough. Her only reason for divroce is that she doesn’t love me and that I irritate her and I smell etc.
I have been fighting this for months and she has allready asked me to leave and I did just that and have supported her in making sure she has enough food and gas etc. It seems to me that the only reason gives me for wanting divorce is just her not having proper feelings, other than that we have alot in common and we don’t argue much at all, I’ve never yelled at her.
She really is set on divorce though…
Im in love with someone who lost their wife to a tragic car accident 3 years ago, he had married once and it ended in a bitter divorce and then he met his second wife who was tragically taken away from him, he has dated several women since and almost married the last woman he was with. He said he is in love with me but he can only put his heart through so much. all i want is advice for loving someone who has gone through so much heartache, even if i don’t end up being more to him i want to fill his life with happiness while im a part of it.
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