Today me and my boyfriend got into another huge fight and he said that he can’t have me and him being together because he says its hurting him…..he means the way I treat him. He’s more of a PDA kind of guy and hes saying that he wants me to be the girl that I am over text ( which is cute and sexy and flirty). I’m willing to do anything to get this guy back as the guy that I love. Please help me!
Im 14 and I really need help…..I want him back so badly….If you’re around my age and/or have had a similar problem to mine please leave me your email address (optional) if I need further assistance on the matter.
Thanks
I’m 18 years old.
I really like my girlfriend, we have been together now for over three weeks. I asked her to be my girlfriend on our first date, which was on valentine’s day. Every day that goes by I keep wondering when the next time I’m going to be hanging out with her is exactly. I get excited whenever I’m going to be seeing her again. She loves picking on me and telling me that I fail haha. Me and her talk a lot and we like to take turns asking each other questions like when we talk online, as a sortof way to get to know each other more and more and because it’s fun and we use it to flirt sometimes. One question she asked me was if I was in love with her, I told her that I wasn’t there yet but I felt like I was falling for her at a steady pace. She said okay and I asked her how she felt about me, and she said that she doesn’t know if she’s falling for me, but she likes me and she likes kissing me. I told her that it might seem bad since I’d be a step ahead of her if I’m falling for her and she isn’t falling for me, and she said "or we can be at the same level =)", reminding me that she said that she doesn’t know if she’s falling for me yet but could be blindly.
How will I be able to tell if she’s falling in love with me? And how do I know for sure that I am?
Please help
And no rude answers please
this all happend four months ago. I cheated on her and i regret that, but ny girlfriend and i got back to together after that. two months later that situation kept bothering her. she thinks she can’t trust me anymore. I want her to trust me again but i dont know what to do
At the beginning of the year I met this really sweet, hot guy in my algebra class and he would help me with my math. We would stare at each other all class and flirt alot and he would tickel me. Then I found out he was a Satanist and I’m a Christian so I told him we could only be friends. Then I couldnt stop myself and I told him I still really liked him. Then he told me he loved me (texted this tons of times in a row) then he started saying how he missed me and wanted to kiss me, etc…. then he told me that if we were alone together that he wanted to have sex with me. We never even started dating but I called him a prick and never spoke with him. Well at least till this month a few weeks ago. He still stared at me alot and showed all signs of liking me and I couldnt take it anymore so I e-mailed him saying that I miss him and to email me back. He did saying he hates me and never liked me and that he only opens up to certain people and that id never be one of them. Then I cried so much and emailed him back swearing at him and saying I never wanted to talk to him. He sent one back saying the same thing and to never talk to him again. So the other day I walked past him with my guy cousin to make him jelous because I was hurting so much and a few minutes later someone saw him crying. His friend is friends with me and he told me that the guy was really upset because he saw me walking by with my cousin and he thought it was my bf. Now I feel horrible. The other day I passed by him and his friends and he said "Hey Anna!" The way he used to when we were flirting and stuff (so really friendly) I said Hi back and looked sad. But if he talked to me is this a sign he misses me? the other day he walked up to me and started talking alot but I was on my phone and when I got off he was gone…… Then today he walked up to me and started talking fast and I said What? then he said oh I was just messing around. Im confused Do you think he still loves me?
I live in houston, tx. We’ve been arguing a lot lately but I want to make it up to her and show her how much I actually love her. So please help!
if you’d like to help me plan something please email me at anthony6dup@yahoo.com. thanks
Matt is my neighbor(boy next door). I have known him since forever and he is a big part of my life. We hate each other but also like each other?
He is cute, funny, sweet, smart(sometimes), athletic, and caring. I dream about him and fantasize. I need him. He is not perfect. I know that. He can be a total jerk but once he touched my arm and it was electric. I love him. Help?
Husband filed for divorce but has not taken the steps to try and finish it. I’m still in love…help!?
We’ve been separated for a while…we have 2 young children together. He filed for divorce 7 mos ago but has not taken the steps to finish it. It seems like he wants me to finish it for him since I have a lawyer and he doesn’t, but that shouldn’t stop him from moving on with the papers himself. We have nothing to divide or settle, really. I’ve filed for child support and was granted sole custody last week (filed these things way before he filed for a divorce).
I have been moving on with all areas of my life except in the love dept. I’ve gone back to school to work on a 2nd degree in the medical field and to also work on my MBA part-time. He on the other hand has not improved as much…deep inside I feel he is a great guy who has made some real bad mistakes (in our marriage) and I feel like we can, if we both put in the effort, to be a family again.
I don’t like feeling like I still love him but sometimes can’t help it because we were once together and we have kids together.
A good friend told me to make sure I have peace about any decisions I make regarding the divorce. My Pastor told me to let the divorce go on (the process) and to not get in the way of it. Well, my feeling like it’s all on him, it’s his decision because he is the one who filed it.
He’ll call once in a while and while I’d rather keep our convos strictly about the kids, he will go off topic discussing his life and asking questions about mine…but doing it in a way that makes it not obvious.
Sometimes, when my kids are talking to him, he’ll ask them where I am or what I’m doing. He may also tell them to give the phone to me, but most of the time I refuse to speak because it still hurts and I feel I would be well on my way to the road towards healing if I cut him off. I mean he can call the kids when ever he’d like, but I don’t think I can be friends with him and not feel anything for him at the same time.
What do you guys think about this? He said he wants someone who wants to do something good with their life and someone who is moving towards a positive direction..including someone who puts God first. And I’m thinking to myself (you HAD her…me…) I’ve even abstained from sex for almost 3 years because it is my belief that I only share my body with my husband.
Sometimes I feel like yelling at him and telling him "you’re looking for something that you already know!!!!!!!" But like others have told me…it’s just best to let it go, he will come back (and straighten up) if it’s meant to be…
what do you think?
it hurts to think I should personally cut him off…but then again it may help me to heal even better…
We haven’t seen each other in almost 3 years.
I’m planning to take a trip where he lives (with our kids) this summer. to also get a sense of closure…
He told me about 2 weeks ago that he does not have any animosity towards me (he was the one unfaithful in the marriage) and that HE is tired and wants to be free. Well, ok, well I feel like HE is the who filed, HE is the one who’s been living a single life. Why should I be the one to finish it? I know it is not good to stay in limbo for a long time. If this continues, I eventually will have to decide to finish it for him, but I don’t feel comfortable doing it now…
In addition, should I tell him how I feel? Or should I just leave things alone and let the chips fall where they may…
my exbf and i had been together for more than 2 years.then we broke up 6 months ago.the first few months were ok, we still hangout together,some friends would tell he maybe didnt want to lose me at all.he even told my parents he hopes that i still love him when he is prepared.he was very busy working and seldom finds time for himself so he said he is contented being alone right now.but because i love him,i pushed and chased him which he didnt want bcoz he needed space.i think he was given advices by some friends that if he has no plans of returning to me,he should stop texting or seeing me which he usually did a month ago.he said to me and to our friends, he has no plans of returning to me NOW but he can’t predict the future.who can tell the future?is there a chance that he would get back to me someday if i totally stop bothering him?will i still win him back?
Ok, there’s this guy that i dated for a month or so, and it was long distance, but i knew him in real life and saw hiim every month or so.
I broke up with him, and he was so upset. He kept calling me and everything, for the next 2 months. I then saw him 2 months later, and i fell for him hard. He had a gf, but he said he would break up with her for me because he loved me. We would text everyday all day, and then he told me he couldn’t be with me. He led me on. Things quickly got resolved, and he broke up with his gf and started texting me, and he wanted to hook up. But he would still say he loved me. We hooked up and it was actually romantic, with kissing and all. But he said we needed more time before we got back together.
One day, he totally stopped talking to me. He got his phone taken away, and we didn’t talk for a month.
When he got his phone back, he told me to lose his number because we needed time apart, although he called and texted me later that week.
We then got in a huge argument, which was my fault, for about 3 weeks. He wouldn’t accept my apology, then one day he randomly did. He began asking to hook up again, and it wasn’t romantic anymore.
This weekend, i drove to his house and we hooked up. He texted me yesterday asking if i got home ok, but then just stopped replying. He hasnt responded since yesterday afternoon, even when i ask if hes mad. Sometimes, our phone’s don’t deliver text messages from each other, so i don’t know if he’s getting them.
I’m still so in love with him, but he’s not so much with me. He usually goes in on and off phases with me..but i want him to come back to me permanetly. What should i do?=(
What bothers me is he doesn’t tell me he loves me. He never was a mushy man, he is very very masculine and always has a shield up. But he would say it maybe a couple times a week.
Now a day I will tell him "I love you" and he either nods or says "outstanding". He does not hold hands, he does not touch or play. We do not have sex very much. I come on to him almost everyday but he says "to wait till later", but when he is ready it is 1am -5am, and I like to sleep from 11pm -6:30am. Most nights if I go to bed before him he won’t join me. He would rather sleep on the couch. he says our bed hurts his back. But he blames me that we "never" have sex. (never meaning 4-5 times a week).
But sometimes he does the sweetest things. He will cook these huge gormet meals for me when I get home from my jobs/school. He does this 4-5 times a week. When he gets drunk he tells me he loves me, and sometimes he would grab me into his arms and dance and sing Sinatra.
But for the most part he doesn’t even look at me.
He is in the Navy and when he comes home from a couple weeks out to sea he won’t even kiss me he will just say " What do you want for dinner"?
I don’t know if he loves me anymore and I don’t know how to make him love me again.
He told me to get a second job even though I am a full time student, so I did. He wants his house spotless, so I clean constantly. I don’t know what else to do to make him happy. When he is happy I am happy, and I have not been happy for a long time.
What do I do? Oh, and he doesn’t believe in going to a marriage therapist. He thinks psychology is mumbo-jumbo. Even when that is the field I am studying.
PLEASE HELP!
Apparently I broke my boyfriend’s heart a month ago…and he did not tell me until a week ago. He is so forgiving! …I did not mean to hurt him…we have been dating for 2 months and talking for 5 months and until a month ago he would tell me "I love you" and lavish his love on me and I couldn’t say it back yet..it takes me a while to truly LOVE. this is my first relationship! Don’t get me wrong–I’m crazy about my boyfriend and could definitely love him some day. Anyways, I screwed up and asked him a month ago if we could not say "I love you" because I secretly didn’t believe that he could TRULY love me after a few months of talking and being newly official. I just wanted us to be careful! Anyways, he responded with "understandable," but ever since then, he has almost seemed to lose interest. he took it like a breakup almost internally he told me. he still treats me well..he said it will take him time to love again. can he EVER love me again?! I now realize how genuine he was!
I am in this relationship for 5 years now, and we have one child together and one (hers) from a different relationship. Over the years I have had anger problems, closed off, depressed, judgmental, etc. I have had a rough childhood, and now in the clear to make changes for myself. and the relationship. But my spouse/wife is saying she loves me but not in love with me. She says my anger/judgmental behavior makes it hard for her to express and tell me things because I used to angry or upset at anything she said.
I know I made mistakes to make this and is working on myself 100%. How can I make her see that I want this change and to fall back in love again???
HELP! THANKS
Hi peepz… i’m Philip and i’m in a very bad situation now….
i need help on my problem…
3 years back…. we we’re BF’s GF’s… but a year of being apart… she had already found someone else…
i’m here still being loyal to her… being sweet and anything i could possibly do to make her fall in love with me again…
but she’s keep on rejecting me cause she said that she can’t leave the man who she loves now…
why did she left me?….
i was attached to her in 3 years now…
it’s just nothing to her…..
i want an answer that may calm me down…
help me please… i love the girl and i want her to love me back again….
i had suffered enough of this….
i don’t want to leave her.. i’ll do anything just to get her love again….
help me please….
CHARISSE I LOVE YOU!!!…
