How do you win your ex boyfriend back?

Can You win your ex boyfriend back?

Ok so me and my ex dated off an on for awhile. He went into the marines, and wrote me TONS of love letters which i never responded to.

I tried calling after he graduated and a week later he apologized and said that he was upset that i never responded so he basically tried to “punish” me. I went through this huge confession that I still loved him and yada yada. Now that ive confessed he basically has been trying to piss me off by making me jealous.

He tells me the marines have taught him not to “feel”. and hes no longer jealous that I have a boyfriend. Obviously hes playing games with me because he was “upset” because I didnt write and now he doesnt feel anything?

Yeah right, then after I told him I was going to dinner with my boyfriend he says he rented a hotel room with a jacuzzi and is going there with his new gf, in which he texted me at midnight to tell me he had awesome sex. (which im sure hes lieing because who texts their xgf when their with their new gf to tell them they had sex? thats just disrepectful to you new gf.

Tonight, after he claims that he’ll probably “forget” about me at marine combat training, I told him to stop kidding, and that i really know he loves me. He told me I have a problem and that he was going out with his new gf, (no name given!) lol.

So now, im hurt, and decide to tell him I was joking around and just wanted to make him THINK I liked him. He calls me and tells me to stop acting like a 3 yr old and getting pissy jealous and tells me hes going out on a date and hangs up. Im upset, and kind of want to win him back, if not, really HURT him.

I know its stupid and im playing games, but talking to him doesnt work, I need to know how to manipulate him. any ideas? PLEASE NO SMART ALECK REMARKS! If he wants to play dirty, so will I.

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Firstly, I do not want any answers that are like "You’re an a**hole" or "Forget about the past" ect.

BTW – There’s a tl;dr version

I have always had a big crush on this girl, since I was like 11. She was one of the nicest people I have ever met in my life. We started dating around November of last year, and I’d enjoy everyday of her. I would always write her poems and love letters, and such. And she would always make me happy. And I never met anyone like her. It felt like she was like my soul mate, in some ways.

Than are relationship went down hill, her so called "best friend forever", hated my guts with a passion. And now I believe it was due
to "jealousy", in my honest opinion. She would always make up nasty stuff about up me, and tell her I was so called "cheating on her". I never did.

Eventually, we broked up around 3 times, due to this little brat. The 3rd time was it. After, that I did alot of stupid sh*t. And I acted like a complete a**hole and d**chebag to her. Something I regret.

Than she went out with her so called "true love", who only loved her because of her boobs. It didn’t last too long, it lasted for around 3-5 weeks.

Ever since she broked up with me in Febuary, she went out with around 8 guys, which I think is really odd and whorish. And I did go out with some other girls too, but I never really find them as amazing as her.

She currently has a boyfriend, who is my best friend. I do not plan to ruin this relationship for him, because I’m not your typical "teenager". My friend isn’t really commited to her, because he told me he wasn’t going to stay with her for long.

What can I do at this point? I just feel empty inside.

tl;dr version:
I met a dream girl, her bff ruined it. She is with someone now, who probally won’t be with her very long. How can I get her back?

I would also like to add, that she still may like me. She stills txt me everyday, and we talk on the phone every now and than.


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