I love my husband sooo much, We have stuck by each other’s side through the thick and thin. What are some ways to show him I love him and I will always love him..He knows I love him, but I want to be romantic.
I am not an addict but I need to have sex. I want to make love to my wife. She keeps on rejecting me for no apparent reason. She says she is just not in the mood. We still are very close. We spend a lot of time together. Everything is perfect except that we do not make love anymore. I have heard that some people just are uninterested in sex. Can you become uninterested in sex? How can I reignite the passion? Thank you!
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It’s been aprx 4 months now since my wife has told me she doesn’t love me. We don’t fight and get along fine. We have 2 boys in their teens.
She will not get intimate with me and says she must be "in love" in order to have sex. She is not pursuing another relationship, she got a new job that pays more then mine so she is comfortable if I were to leave.
We have 18yrs invested in our marriage. I’ve said some very hurtful things and took our marriage for granted but I’ve commited to make changes in myself and it feels like I’m making progress in our marriage but it’s still lacking intimacy. I plan on asking her to at least try on becoming intimate (even if we don’t go all the way) with me.
My question is. If she is not willing to try and become intimate should I give up or keep trying. As far as I know she is happy with the current arraigment.
PS. I am seriously considering paying a hooker to relieve my sexual tension to get me through this rough time. any thoughts?
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I will try and make this as short as possible. Few months ago, out drinking with one of my best friend he begins telling me how sexy he finds my wife, and tells me he would love to have sex with her. He probably expected to get punched in the shoulder, but I told him this has always been a fantasy of mine, allowing my wife to sleep with another man.
Although I have never told my wife, or anyone for that matter. My friend and I did not speak about it until a week ago, and I invited him over for dinner last night. I never thought anything would happen other than than some minor flirting, due to her personality. She is the typical business women, very serious, no nonsense and professional… basically does not put up with any crap. My wife was dressed very nicely, wearing a short black dress and black stiletto heels. I kept the drinks flowing, and the 2 of them started flirting heavily. He had his hands all over her and she was very responsive. I began making comments like you two need to get a room. Finally I said jokingly… you 2 should just get this over with and go in the den and have sex. I went in the kitchen to get another drink and I hear a door shut.
They had gone in the den together, and I just waited in the living room. A few minutes later I knew my fantasy was coming true, as I heard her beginning to moan. I waited a while and listened to her getting louder and louder and finally peeked in. He had her pinned up against the wall naked wearing only her stiletto heels, pounding her absolutely senseless! I went back into the living room and listened to her. I have never heard her moan and scream that loud, and it went on for almost 2 hours.
This morning she was concerned how I felt and i assured her it was a huge turn on for me and that i was fine with it. I asked her for details of the experience and she told me that she had more orgasms than she could count, and that he was so big he could barely fit inside her, but once he was inside it was the most amazing feeling shes ever had. I can not wait for her to do this again, and she agreed to do this often!
Should I just stop this now? I know I probably should, but really don’t want to!
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I love my man but since we have been together he has not really made love to me. Sex is wonderful when we do and he knows how to do it. I can’t make him understand I need touching and him getting me ready. He always just wants my to get him started and then has very agressive sex with me. Never gentle and loving. He is out of bed most of the time and very polite. Wondering if any men know how I can go about helping him understand my needs without upsetting him as I seem to do.
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