About three months ago I lied to my fiance about texting one of my friend’s friend. I wanted to find out where people were going out etc. she was a girl. I didn’t tell her because I was scared she would get mad. Now, she told me that i had to quit drinking, go to therapy, and take medication. I love this woman with all my heart. we been together for 1 1/2 years. I would do anything for her. I have gone to therapy, taken medication for adhd, quit drinking, quit going out. I don’t talk to the "friends" i had when I was going out anymore. We have had some money troubles so i went out and got a second job. She has no job. I take care of everything. She now says, after all this hard work that I have done that she doesn’t want to be with me. She wants to be friends, but she can not promise anything as to working it out. What sucks is I was making so much progress. She also said she doesn’t want to have kids with me because i have 2 from previous and that it wont b special. What do I do?
all I want to say is..Sunji H,,,you are so wrong to even be on yahoo answers…no are no help to anyone.
I also want to say that she says she can’t trust me. Which I accept and I am doing everything i can to rebuild that. She has all my passwords, access to every call on my cell (we are on a family plan), I know she loves me and that I have been good to her. and I also have hurt her..that is why i have done all this work. I just wish she would love me for who I have become…not my past…is there any way to fix it? I am in counseling, maybe if she came with, it would help.
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The woman I fell in love with was a simple village girl and a naughty angel. I admit that what i was attracted to was her beauty. but soon I could understand that she was made with everything that i wanted and ever dreamed of in the woman i would like to spend the rest of my life with. But I kept it to myself as she was hiding her feeling for me as well. After 4 years of keeping it within I finally told her and she was like in heaven to hear it as same was her case.
To put it shortly its something like the story of "my best friend’s wedding" and me in Julia Robert’s position. She is another man’s wife today. She tells me she is happy and I pray that she be. But i can’t rid myself of her loss. Will I ever be able to love another woman the same way I loved her? Has any one of you been in this situation and got out of it?
Please help me…I am writing this with a lot of pain in my heart.
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Does he really love the other woman? I want my husband back…?
My husband and I are separated.We both worked through these issues on our own but now he met another girl. I’m due in April with our first child and he came up to the hospital yesterday because I was in preterm labor. His car is broken so he had no other way but to have this girl bring him.
Her daughter came with too and her and her daughter came in for 2 minutes to say hi and then left. I could tell he was really annoyed with her daughter bc shes nuts and he told me he hates the way she parents her daughter. He has told me hes not attracted to her but tells her he loves her?
I think part of it might be to have a place to live, but do you really think he loves her if he says hes not attracted to her and hates the way she parents? When we were leaving she was in her car already and he stopped me and hugged me for like 2-3 minutes and then kissed me on the forehead and when we were in the hospital room, he kept wanting to touch me, whether it was my hand or stomach…
I know this sounds dumb, but do you think he could be considering coming back? I’ve made it clear to him that I’m in this till the end, and that I love him no matter what.
How am I a fool for trying to save a marriage? I said these vows to my husband and I meant them for LIFE through anything and everything! I wonder why so many people are divorced today! You give up too easily!
Um, yes he did stay with me in the hospital… did I not say we walked out together to our cars?
I’m not sure where you’re getting him being there for 2 minutes… he was there the entire time I was at the hospital… which was 5 hours.
I wish I could give several of you best answers. I really appreciate those of you saying that marriage IS worth it and divorce is the LAST resort.
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teach me he does not sexualy use us or rape us for his kingdom. I am not talking with him personaly, but with the breeding marriage and speration in heaven, and the millions lonly killing themselfss because they can not find a mate. As God wipes them with his heavenly wipe and shouts mate for my kingdom, and breed. But for the man that wants to love his wife forever he says no as per the bible and the christian, you have no bodies here in heaven, I just created her to bend over and breed for the world, and you will walk like my beloved angels. As he wipes his droll from his mouth with his lust for worship and breeding us.You will be happy with other things in heaven, now take a woman slave….as the man suffers becausee he is sexual and wants to love a woman…..some christians even put in this man that God is jellous of his desire for a woman, and is mad and says you will worship me in heaaven not be with your wife….which really sounds bad, because he never new God felt that way about him, and now the man has to teach God that he loves God as a God, not as a mate.
so how can this man love God with your faith…..how do I mate and toss like the rest of you and treat sex and our love like dust of the world? How do I find good in a god that slaves us to mate, for it is not good to be lonly, and all I(if there are any we) want is to love her forever, and not be like the stupid angels….???
How do I fight against a God that is all lust?
Earth Angel: true struggle with God as I lose my faith before him….shouting praises to the whore, and father pimp who pimps his children for heaven….or give it to her for me and give life in the world and when I am done slaveing you, you are BLESSED to walk like the angels…..
he is a evil God and I can not stop attacking him. I use to be a good person…I can not let her go and serve a pimp with love. I am to sexual….and I WANT LOVE.
by Shinigami: I can not seem to understand, and I want to be free. You do not know my hate toward God….my eyes are beating with anger at the pimp. I can not stop judging God. He thinks as per the Chrisitans it is ok to marry people and work them for heaven and seperate them…to me it is evil and sexual slavery.
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He lives at the base of a mountain near appalachia I believe. This family comes down to shop in the town. He see a beautiful young woman with long blonde hair shopping with her family. He really likes her. He finds out who she is and goes up the mountain to meet her and ask her father if he can court her. They fall in love and get married and she dies in childbirth giving him a son. He stays with her family to raise the boy. The book has charming stories about mountain folk. A little man has a wife who is so fat she can’t get out the door. When she dies they have to take the wall out of the house to get her out. They bury her in a piano box. He also installs an indoor bathroom for her family when he gets to know them. Can anybody help me please?
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