My boyfriend just dumped me because, "He doesn’t feel the same about me" we’ve been dating for almost two years. I actully love him, and i just think he is confused. I NEED HELP!
So, it has been three months and the ex gf has moved on, but she still lets me have contact with her daughter whom I love so much.
Recently i had a Myspace and a girl i was seeing for about a week would leave messages. Now the ex has her new love request me and she writes on her myspace how much she loves this person after finding out i had one.. what is that all about?
I denied the request i know its very childesh but im 30 years old and i recently took myspace off. is she jealous? plus if she didnt want anything to do with me she wouldnt let me have contact with her daughter. and she was suppose to change her number never did.
Imean im moving on but what does this all mean. plus she knows i still love her. what the hell is going on with her?????? and how can i get her back really i love her but you knw the old saying let it go and if it loves you it will come back..
Advice anyone???
I have been divorce for three years after three year we started talking again.
The reason for our divorce was I wanted to wait to have children he did not due to the age difference his 14 years older.
My ex- husband know has a child with one night stand. He want to get back together he tells me he is still in love with me.
I don’t know what to do please help…
I ask because he has made NO further attempts to contact her; I gather she is on holiday (at home, and he is working) but as far as I know, he has NOT contacted her. Assume this is the truth.
So – was their meeting last week just coincidence?
History is:
In Feb this year I caught my husband cheating with a woman for a whole year and apparently he was on the verge of leaving me for her but we worked through it. He swore that was it with her. Although he said he had loved her. She sent me all his messages and texts and IMs and in these, he expressed his love for her, said he didn’t want to be with me, I was sexless and cold, but SHE was vibrant, sexy and made him feel loved and able to love again.
After I found out, he cut her off and was horrible to her. He also denied he "meant" what he said in the years’ worth of those messages. BUT –
He went back to her many many times over 6 months, after he promised me that he would cut her out of his life for good – most recently in August when he went to her work, asked the guard to call her down, she got into his van to hear him out ..
The next thing you know, my husband is arrested for ’sexual assault’ in September. He was finally released without charge 2 weeks ago, and that was that, but they have been warned to stay away from each other.
PRESENT DAY:
As some of you know, lately (last 2 weeks) he has watched her from his work van as she walks from her office to the station; he DOES genuinely have jobs in that street but he HAS watched her as opposed to hiding behind a newspaper as he sits in his van/looking away, etc.
This has happened 3 times in 3 weeks, and each time, he has stared, and she has walked on, not stopping.
THIS TIME, SHE STOPPED AND THEY TALKED.
I can’t believe it. If the sexual assault arrest has not made him hate her WHAT THE F*CK WILL???
This is what they talked about, which I know because his partner driver "felt I should know" – he was not there but was nearby -
Admitted to her that he HAD indeed been waiting for her to approach him all those times he was parked near her work, and asked why she had been "running past" him!
Apparently he "forgave" her for having him arrested.
He wished her a happy belated birthday.
He asked how her new house was going.
Oh this is good; he asked why he "could not find her" on Facebook.
He asked her ‘can I trust you now?’ (!!)
He said ‘will you let me wave at you if I drive past you?’
She told him another guy had got obsessed with her lately and he said "See I told you you were dangerous" – what does that mean?
Please can someone decipher the things he said to her,AND tell me why would he give her the time of day?
This was last Monday but even on Tuesday, apparently he passed her in his truck and beeped & waved at her!
I am concerned as to what he plans next.
I’m still very in love with him.
We were together over 20 yrs. After everything was said & done, I realized I did the wrong thing.
My heart is hurting. I miss him. I have asked him back. I hurt him real bad & now he says he doesn’t love me anymore.
I know he does. You don’t just stop loving someone after all those years of being in love.
What do I do?
I was wit my ex for 3 1/2 yrs.One day everything was perfect then the next it came crashing down.It seems like it wasn’t even coming.
I was asking her all week to go see a movie with me and she really wanted to go to the bar i didn’t understand why? why couldn’t we go see a movie instead that’s what i really wanted to do i have alcoholism problems in my family and it seemed like we were going there every weekend so i thought we could spend some quality time out together and see a movie.
We fought about it all day I didn’t understand what was so important at the bar, So i decided to do my own thing wit a friend and she did hers i went to a movie she went to the bar about 11:00 pm i received a text say in how i was unbelievable for being mad i didn’t think i was you were choosing a bar over me.
But at this point i just didn’t want to fight anymore it was our first big fight i mean we had little arguments that 2 Min’s later we were kissing and making up so i went to the bar to tell her i was sorry and lets go home when i got there she was wasted i pulled her up against the wall to tell her that and this old hag said i was going to beat the shit out of her i couldn’t believe that none of that was true i left the bar and went home and texted her and called her all Nite and no replays back i had someone call her house for me in the morning and her father replied by saying she hasn’t come home.
He thought that she spent the night wit me and about 15 Min’s later she called my mom telling her how much she loved me and then called me and told me she couldn’t do it anymore but not to tell my family and dont let anyone get involved that she loved me and just needed time well by then the tears was flowing i begged her not to do it and i didn’t understand why it was a fight.
She called me about four times that day wanting to talk and tell me not to listen to her best friend if she was telling me to move on.She asked me to come up and talk to her and i did she told me she was in love wit me and needed time and that she liked someone remind you the person she liked is about 35 yrs older then her and she is 22 i replied love and like is two different things at the end of the day i am the one that is going to matter She acted like she couldn’t be seen with me and watched every car that drove past like she was scared.
She hugged me and didn’t wanna leave go like she knew it was the last hug she was going to give me.Later on that Nite i went to the bar wit a couple friends i needed to get somethings off my mind and she was there with the person but kept lookin at me all Nite we all got into it and i left and the new person in her life said i needed to get over it she is wit me now i thought within 9 hrs you found someone else that’s bad but the next day she continued to call me and cry saying i was never going to speak to her again n how she loved me and didn’t want me to hate her.
She called me twice and then drove past my house which i caught her to see where i was for 2 months after the fact she continued to check up on me wit friends and stuff but we stopped talkin about a month after we broke up and now she seems to have so much anger with me but wants me to need her or want her.She gets angry if she thinks i am moving on threatens to beat the other person up constantly stares at me but has to run her mouth like she wants the person she is with to believe she is done with me and thats it.
She constantly has to remind herself and other people she is happy and does not regret it but is drunk all the time but went after the girl i was with new years eve and cried and then proceed to punch my window and tells her to get out of the car and fight her and when i said i am not the one who made this choice you are she started to cry and said it wasnt a mistake i dont understand i love her i am inlove with her i dont understand how she can tell ppl she is happy ignore me and cant tell me its really over to my face but can make me the center of her world when i am in the same room as her and her new person is sitting next to her she doesnt kiss that person or barely speak to that person just stares at me i dont get it how do i get her back?
ALRIGHT WEL A WHILE BAK I WAS WIT THIS ONE GUY WICH I FELT IN LOVE WITH =/
THING STARTED GOIN BAD AND WE BOTH JUS GAVE UP…
HOWEVER I LOVE HIM STILL…ITS BEEN A FEW MONTHS BUT I JUS CNT FORGET HIM…I TRIED SO MUCH TO FORGET HIM BUT I JUST CNT =( HE KNOWS I LOVE HIM BUT IDK IF HE WOULD GET BACK WIT ME=? WAT CAN I TEL HIM SO HE WOULD UNDERSTAND N MAYBE GET BACK…I JUS WANT HIM TO REALIZE I LOVE HIM..BUT HOW?PLZ HELP =( I FKN LOVE HIM
We just had a baby last month and next week will be our one year wedding anniversary. I found these emails in his account:
—————– Original Message —————–
Please don’t respond to this because I am married and I don’t want any drama going down because I wrote you but thanks for tha add. If my wife sees that I wrote you there would be major fighting…trust me! You are very beautiful urself, and please stay up with my music and leave comments, and check out the blogs. I’ll be back in Battleboro in July and would love to meet you one day.
and also the two of them have been exchanging emails:
If you don’t write my wife again it’s all good. If u do, I won’t talk to you again. So…what do u want to do?
you will never hear from me again if u write her again. I want to talk to u, but you have to listen to me. do we have a deal? i’m not joking…never again if u write her one more time.
This is another message:
No.
— On Wed, 5/6/09> wrote:
From:
Subject: Re: ………
To: "
Date: Wednesday, May 6, 2009, 10:43 AM
Would you ever leave your wife for me?
— On Wed, 5/6/09, wrote:
From:
Subject: ………
To:
Date: Wednesday, May 6, 2009, 7:12 AM
I blocked you from myspace. I will only write u on here. i can’t stress enough that if u send her another message, i won’t talk to you again. what r u tryin to do.
this is another email:
i just want to let you know…i gonna make you fall in love with me…in every kind of way!
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From:
To:
Sent: Wednesday, May 6, 2009 2:07:52 PM
Subject: !
I’ll chill but i’m not leavin the wife. And if u write her….i’m def not gonna holla at ya anymore. U down with that?
There is a lot more and she even gives him her phone number and she asked first and he told her yes, on myspace she ended up calling a friend of his a cutie and the last email he wrote her was this after she wrote the email about her making him fall inlove with her:
no ur not…especially not calling my friends cutie.
He didn’t stop talking to her because of me he stopped because she wrote his friend and called him cutie.
My husband’s ex called him out of the blue 6 months ago- she’s going through a nasty divorce. They have been divorced 20 years!!! We have been married 5.
They have one grown daughter, I have one teenage son who lives with us.
My husband divorced her because she cheated on him many times, and when he finally found out she threw him out of his own house-told police he was abusive (lie) and got a restraining order so she wouldn’t have to leave the home.
We had a happy marriage or so I thought. I loved him, was good wife, kept nice house and romance whenever he wanted because I love it too!
Long story short, found out he is leaving me to go back to her! They have been in touch by emails and texts. The house we live in was mine before marriage. I have been unemployed but looking for 2 years. I have no money of my own. I am devastated. When he leaves I will lose everything and have to file bankruptcy-I have spoken to lawyer. I have no choice. No money to pay anything.
At age 48 I will be living with my son at my parent’s house until I get work. I slaved for years to keep that house as a single mom. Now gone.
What would posess a man to go back to someone who did that to him? The first text I saw she said she would never hurt him again-thanks for the second chance! He never even told me he was unhappy in marriage! I ask and get no answers, no explanations. Nice guy. I told him if he was unhappy he should have come to me first to at least try!
The only thing I can logically think of is that she makes good money and he is tired of scrimping without my pay.
He always hated his father because he walked out when he was a baby and he is doing the same to me. In all honesty, why would he want that tramp that dumped him? She left him for a married man!
He will come to her rescue but leave me with nothing? Anyone ever been through this? I am a good, loving woman. I will not take him back-I have dignity, but part of me wants him to realize someday what a selfish jerk he was to do that to me. My son is crushed.
My baby was hospitalized for a period of time. At the hospital they supply you with toys etc for your baby. My baby fell in love with a toy that they have stopped making 
Not for any other reason than they don’t make it anymore. I have looked everywhere. I was going to get one off Craigslist but it was out of state and I was warned by many that was dangerous. Well, I happened to find one brand new, still in the box, never opened 20 minutes from my ex’s house. He lives in a different state. I called him up and asked if he would do this favor and then have him ship it to me and I would reimburse him… He is being an ***. He said tell them you will pay extra for them to ship it. Well no one wants to ship it to me and with good reason. There is no guarantee I am going to get the product and she her money, even though I would send it. He could make this so easy and he is being a d!ck. I found one, the same EXACT one on Amazon for 0. I cannot afford that. He told me I need to buy her that one. I told her if I got child support I might be able to afford it – he does not pay child support – which is not the issue, I just want his help. Am I being unreasonable. He is supposed to call me back tonight when he gets home. What should I say? How should I approach this to get him to do this for me? MY daughter loved this toy and he just laughed that I would go through so much to get it. I know some may not agree but it’s only plus what I will owe her dad in shipping and gas! Please advice. I just want his help! Thanks!
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I have looked everywhere Ebay everything… I also posted this question in marriage and divorce. I got horrible answers there.. you need to go read what these guys posted.
You invited a man into your house and everything started to fall apart when your family found out. You cheated yourself, your family and your friends. They really put their trust in you but you abused it. Now that you’re wrong, your family still love you and pick you up instead of throwing you out of the house. Worse still, your siblings stop talking to you. You felt bad and you tried to do whatever means necessary to get your family back.
This explains our whole situation:
I need advice and BIG help please.
My boyfriend broke up with me two days ago. For two weeks I knew something was wrong. The first week, every time I looked in his eyes I saw that he had love for me. But his actions were changing. He didn’t feel as close to me. The second week I wasn’t able to see him because we didn’t have school that whole week. And I was scared because I knew I wouldn’t talk nor see him.
But when he broke up with me, he said loved and that I was perfect. But he doesn’t know whats going on with himself. I even said I could help him and were in a relationship and we get through this. We’ve never had a fight before and I think this situation could be handled. I’m trying to refrain from talking to him, but I can’t help it. I sent him a text, explaining the situation and how I don’t think he should give us up. He didn’t reply and I didn’t persist on bugging him.
He told me that he’s messed up in the head right now and doesn’t know what to do. We’ve only been together four months. And all his relationships lasted at least a month or less but he wasn’t on fault. They broke up with him and I’ve had one other relationship that lasted four years. He’s been my friend for awhile. We weren’t close like best friends, but we were friends. And now being with him was the happiest day of my life. There wasn’t a second I was sad with him and he was the same. He told me that I’m the girl he’s been waiting for and how he’s mad that he didn’t see me sooner. That he’s happy with me and he wants us to last because he loves me. And I wanted the same! I was going to do whatever I could to keep that. Four months sounds short, but it’s longer than you think. I fell for that boy fast. . and I’m sure it’s meant for us to be together. I never had this connection with anyone else before. But ever since he joined the play(He’s usually a techi), but he finally got casted. This is our senior year and I was proud of him. But unfortunately he didn’t have time for me and he was drifting. I have a feeling he’s distracted with school and the play, college, etc. Since our drama teacher takes lives away, until the play is over. Hah.
My friend told me he told her, that he was losing feeling and that he didn’t know what to do. We use to hang out a lot but when the play started I hardly ever saw him. So that changed and I think that’s why it feels different for him.
But how can I get him back?
We had this connection and the break up was out of no where. I’m 18 and I know what I’m talking about for once in my life, I want no one but him and I’m willing to make it work.
Do you think this could be temporary? I want to show him that I want to be with him and that I love him. I don’t want to pretend, I want him to see. But I want to refrain from texting him a lot. . .but show that I can be his friend too. . . Guys! If you broke up with your girl because you’re stressed and you don’t think you have time for her? But she wanted you back and was willing to make it work? What would go through your mind? Do you think if he has these strong feelings for me, that he’ll want me too? I don’t doubt it and I’m not in denial either.
Sorry for making it long! But I need serious help, it sucks.
well he was my first love and my first time
im totally over him…but the way he hurt me
just affects my relationships now…its nearly been a year
and i don’t feel nothing for him anymore no hate…no love
ive been messed around by another boy which affected me
but not as much i managed to
get over him really fast
because the 1st one broke my heart
and i don’t even know if it was repaired…well im moved on now
got this boyfriend who treats me like the world…and i trust him
with all my heart.but the thought of that
scares me..t im trying to stop myself from trusting him because
i know deep down he wont hurt me but its like a brick walls around me
and i trust him but i have doubts about trusting him because
how the others have hurt me….
its like when he goes home…i cry because its like my ex left
my house had what he wanted from me and never came back
i never saw him again…so i feel im never going to see him again
even though he kisses me goodbye….
and i get moody with him when he drops a comment that doesn’t mean
bad but i make it the wrong way in my head,,,,im moody with him when he drops plans
which we arranged….well like today he said well for example: i do suffer with urine infections
which hurts like hell so before we do “anything” i ask him if he would wash hes hand
and i go for a pee after and before..because when ive got them
i cant go to college they stop me from walking they hurt so much
and the results say im getting them from bacteria getting pushed up
so i like to be safe so i can keep up on college… and he dropped a comment like so your going
to make every boy you have sex with in the rest of your life do this…well i know he didn’t mean it
as in im bu.gg.ering off but it made my heart sink..
i know he cares because when i tease him and say something about another boy such as on text he
will put an upset face and he says hes glad were together but that hurt me
, i tryed to never fall deep again
but it just happened and i cant loose him i do trust him so i know
it can work but im messed up a little inside… im OVER my ex
because i wouldn’t be with someone else if i wasn’t that would be wrong
and hes not just for comfort because the one who i wasn’t with
but messed me up recently (about september-october time) was for comfort
because when i found out he was messing me around
i got over him quick and relished i didn’t care….which i wouldn’t do again
because it just doesn’t help at all
but i know i love my boyfriend now
as i get the same strong feelings i just get paranoid what can i do to stop this
because i cant loose him? you really have to go though it yourself
to relies hoe much it affects you
So I broke up with him, because I couldn’t take any more of him ignoring me. Not in the sense of him not answering my calls or anything, but more like no romance. I understand that chivalry is somewhat dead, but even still, I felt nothing from him. I didn’t feel that he wanted me, that he cared about me, that i deserved anything. I try and talk to him about what im feeling, but he brushes me off as "moody" or "making a big deal out of nothing". he understands that we have had a major communication problem for the majority of our relationship, to the point where we would sit for hours with nothing to say. He knows everything about me, my past, my secrets, everything, yet I hardly know anything about him. I’m still struggling to figure out who I am, but he knows me well enough to actually want to care about me. in contrast, i am afraid of going to him when there is a problem, because even though he has told me that he wont do anything to me, im still afraid. i don’t know him.
he wants me to be happy, to the point that i have to tell him everything. i don’t know what i want for breakfast, how am i supposed to know what makes me happy. but still, if i want something, he would get/do it. and that annoys me, because to me, it seems like he doesn’t want to make my life easier by just getting/doing it, but waits until i tell him. everyone knows that all girls presents, yet i have to tell him to get something for me for my birthday, for valentines day. he says he can change and give him a second chance. but know one changes that fast. and why do people have to change to make a relationship work, why is it that people cant fall in love with someone just as they are, with their flaws, and faults, and imperfections. im hurt that he doesn’t understand any of this. but it doesn’t stop it from hurting.
Is it over, is she confused, will she call again.?
Last mounth my gf 4yr broke up with me. Sayin shes scared and dosent feel de same. 2week later she calls wants back. I open my heart again, n start ovr. She tells me how much she loves n missed me and how she didnt see herself with any1 but me.
She then leaves 2 go see her friend. When she left she called leaving messages about how much she loves me and misses me. She then comes back up and the distance is back. On thanksgiven she breakes up with me agian. I call her friday she says she regerts doing this and was trying to see if she chould force her self to love me or something. Now i am left with the pain.
Is she confused? will she call again. Is this garented. i still luv her and would try it again. But why say so much if your not so sure of your self. why talk about marrige and moving in with me and making love to me if you were not even sure.
This is making me sick. she was my first and i just dont know anymore. we never argued. Will she ever talk to me agian. Any addvice b gr8. a
ok i just Finale moved on from a 4yr Relationship & im 19 so i been dating her since i was 15 & its been on a off & on & we broke up in 2008…& a couple days ago my dudes girl friend Hooked me up with Her Friend….& so we met face to face & i made her laugh..& then after all the questions were done it just got plain & stale & quite & im looking around & you know how it is when your watching a Dating show on VH1 take For the Love of Ray J & you know how he trys to make conversation & the girls just sit there that’s How it was & they may say a Few Words.. that’s how it was after a while & my boy & his girl was like Why y’all so quite & i just looked at her…& it seems like there No Connection with me & this new chick now i kinda wanna make this Thing work
& last Night i dreamed about My Ex Girl Friend & im wondering do i still Have Feelings for her
& I Havent talked to my ex since The Day After Thanks Giving, & havent seen her since septemeber since her & her family moved & i havent Texted her Since last month on December 3rd
& on Sum days I’ll Play Chris Brown’s Graffiti Cd & listen to So Cold or I Need this or Crawl
I Need this is About him needing his Space its a Real gud Song
Damn,I want my baby back
It’s so cold without her
Cold without her
She’s gone
Now I’m alone, no one to hold on
Cause she was the only one
And I know I was dead wrong
But if you u u
If you u u
See her sooonn
Ask her will she forgive me
If you ever see her
If you ever meet her
If you ever get a chance to sit down and talk to her
Then tell her it’s so cold
It’s so cold, it’s so cold
Here without her
And tell her I miss her
Tell her I need her
Tell her I want her
I really want her to come back home, back to keep me warm
Tell her I’m sorry, I’m really sorry
Can you forgive me?
Please forgive me
And come back home, keep me safe and warm
I was and still am in love with this girl, she is my best friend. I went four straight months thinking of nothing but her, spending all my time with her and dedicating my whole life to her. She has a boyfriend though of 3 years so i could never make a move. I mean i was IN LOVE! Then over christmas break i hardly talked to her, also her boyfriend was home. But i started talking to this other girl ALL the time, i kinda had feelings for her but not love like my best friend. Well i finally thought that i was over my best friend in the way that it wasnt all i thought about anymore and that i didnt get jelous. But school has started back up i see her everyday and we are about to start spending a lot of time together again because of school activities. I cant fall for her again but i love her so much, What should i do????
Is My Ex Over Me Already, or does she want to be friends in hope we may get back? ?
Broke up with my long term girlfriend almost 3 months ago. We were deeply in love and cared for each other very much.
Unfortunately my girlfriend had a lot of trust issues, baggage and confidence problems stemming from her past. She was cheated on by her lesbian girlfriend whom she loved…who cheated on her with a man…and then two timed by another girlfriend she really liked…and then she was also disowned for a while by her parents when she came out. So as a result, she is quite messed up.
She always loved me and was kind…but when we got deep..she started to get insecure..and her fears of being rejected crept in. She started lying to me and exaggerating her sex past.
She started off lying about her sex past with men..to apparently relate to me ( I am bi)..which she later admitted was stupid. And then she started upping her sexual partner number and things she did with past partners to sound adventurous and experienced ‘in case I may lose interest in her once our honeymoon period was over’
Besides being confused and angry, i was also baffled why she would lie about her past after 2 years of being together. Why she would need to make her past sex life sound good..when our sex life already was good.
To her, she said it was too good to be true. So maybe she thought it would crumble, like everything good had- in her past.
Anyway, unfortunately i started not trusting her, questioned everything..she grew tired even though she knew it was her fault for lying! we both started fighting too much…because trust was broken.
But i still loved her. She lost energy…as did I. But she started having mild depression…feeling guilty ..not understanding her behaviour…she became exhausted. And lost interest in us. Many times I told her good bye.
But she cried and almost begged and i took her back..thinking i could believe in her again.
Anyway, 3 months ago she said she wanted out. She felt she had lost energy and felt it was not working. The argument took its toll…and she fell out of love. BUT still loved and cared for me. Weird concept.
She also said she hopes we can ‘become good friends soon as we shared a lot and were best friends and close”. I saw this as very dodgy! and a nice let down. But she also added that we need to become friends again she hopes…and see where that takes us. And if it leads somewhere..then she is open to it. But can’t promise anything.
I requested distance and she agreed, we both went overseas on our own trips recently…and we communicated briefly on email (friendly).
Anyway we started texting again. I told her I regret losing the one person I truly cared about. And she told me she doesn’t know what to say, but then says she “does miss me”
I asked her what she misses…and she said the “emotional and physical intimacy we had in the first 2 years, before we started arguing. That was something very special”
Anyway…she really wants to rebuild my trust and keen to become friends again considering that was broken
I asked her why now she is wanting to do this when she had that time to before…and she said that she had problems then and was exhausted. She also said she is working on herself and did a lot of soul searching.
Anyway, she does return my text messages very quickly and emails as well…are almost ultra friendly.
I am being very cautious ..because i don’t know what her intentions are.
I understand if we were to ever reconcile, we need to become friends again first. Cos how can u be lovers if u can’t be friends? and rebuild trust. but, do you think she still has feelings for me?
If an ex said to you, after 2 1/2 months that they missed u? and they said they were working on themselves etc and wanted to build your trust again…what would u think?
Is she over me already only after 3 months?
I do still love her and I want to know how to get her back.
I just don’t want to be mislea.
ok so my boyfriend and i semi brokeup, i want to go on a break but he says he doesnt know,
we talk about everything to eachother, we are literaly best friends but this year was his first year in college and its been really hard for him, i know hes never cheated and he never would , (his mom and dad cheated on eachother and he hates the entire concept)
so thats not an issue, but hes having a really hard time at school with all his new friends (who are assholes) and trying to balance school, work, his friends, and me.
i told him i understand and i think we need a break to settle everything and we both still love eachother so i think it will work out.
is there anything i can do to really show him that i care about him, dont want to loose him, but understand how important and hard all of this is to him?
He’s Torn Between Leaving And Staying:
My boyfriend and I broke up less than two days ago. I love him more than anything in the world, but I made our relationship very difficult because of my emotional instabilities.
I will do anything to get him back.
I am going to counseling to deal with my issues (they apply to my life in general, not just to my relationship with him), I’m reading self-help books, and I’m giving him as much space and time as he needs. I’m not forcing him to come back, but I hope more than anything that he does.
There really is no one else for me, and I think that I can really make him happy once I become a better person. But I want to be a better person not just for him, but for myself, for everyone else I love.
How can I convince him to give me another chance? He loves me dearly, I know. He told m yesterday (he sought me out himself) that he’s miserable without me, but the thought of getting back together doesn’t make him happy either, because I hurt him so much. He hugged me for half a minute, kissed me very passionately, told me he loved me, and then said “I shouldn’t have done that.”
He’s torn between leaving and staying, and I just want him to stay, to just give me another chance to make him happy like he made me happy.
I’m leaving him completely alone so that he can make a decision on his own. I’m trying to exemplify the person I’m promising to be in the future by being supremely kind, understanding, and emotionally stable. I’m a determined person, and I really can change. Not just for his happiness, but for my own.
I even wrote a letter to him explaining how committed I am to making us work, how even if he chooses not to stay, I’ll find a way to repay him for the wonderful things he’s done to me, that I’ll love him forever (I haven’t sent it to him yet. Don’t know if I should).
But is there a way to convince him to stay, to give me a chance to make him happy? Am I doing the right thing now? I don’t want to push him, because I want him to be happy and secure in his decision. But can I convince him somehow without pushing him?
Oh and we’ve had some fantastically good times, too. We both know this. He’s just overwhelmed at the moment by the not-so-good ones. All I can think about are the happy times, and how I want to make them happen again.
Any advice for me?
Is it possible to get your ex back once she starts seeing a new guy?
I was going out with my sweet beautiful girl kelly for about 8months, i love her very deeply, she has recently broken up with me and almost immediatly started seeing another guy, my heart is broken and its very painful.
But im losing hope of getting her back since she started seeing this “guy” she was tearful on the breakup, and she feels bad for making me feel this way, but im not sure how to go about getting her to be mine agai.
I REALLY need somebody to help me on the SimPE thing, you knoe its were you can create and recolor furni and all of that. Well Im a HUGE fan of Charmed (T.V. Show on TNT) and I’ve made So many Halliwell Manor on my Sims2 Games (and exp’s) And there all so perfect But the only thing I’m missing on them are those GORGOUSE Stained Galss Windows Like in the front of the house. I have look EVERYWERE on www.thesims2.com.ea, and cannot find not 1. And I know there are some on like Modsims2, and TSR, and other sites but I dont know how 2 d-load them from other sites and put them in my game. I only know how to d-load from thesims2.com. So I really would Love for some one to explain to me How to make Stained glass windows (like on charmedCharmed, or just ANY stained glass window and ill work my way uo from there) on the SimsPE. I know how to do Some things on there like Recolor objects. But everytime I try to make stained glass windows i try to recolor it (theres also an option that says clone, But i have NO CLUE how to clone objects) I can only recolor the Frams of the Window, and not the glass. And please explain it clearly for me, lol, im kinda slow XD explain it like this; this is how i learned how to recolor on it:
Step 1:
The first thing you need to know is the in-game name of the object you want to recolor, for this tutorial I chose a bed, "Colonial Ironwood".
Step 2:
Open up SimsPE and click plugins -> Object Workshop.
* If this is the first time you have opened SimsPE it will take a while to load, as its getting all the object info.
Step 3:
Now you should see a giant list of all the objects in the game. Now start to type the name of the object you want to skin.
Once you have found it, click on it once.
Step 4:
At this point you should see a preview of the object and a few options.
Make sure you have selected "Color Options" & checked “Create Color Extension Package”
Now click start
* You will see a window popup, this breifly explains the software is beta, if your willing to participate click ok.
Step 5:
Now you should see a popup with 2 options, "bedding" & "frame". For this tutorial highlight bedding and press "select".
Step 6:
After SimsPE has done its magic, you will see 3 "file Types" (the only one you have to worry about is "texture image", click this.
Step 7:
Now click the "Plugin View" tab. You should now see a big image of the bed, right click this and go to export.
* It doesnt matter where you save it
Step 8:
Now start editing that image you just saved (I will leave this up to you )
* DON’T CLOSE SIMSPE!
Step 9:
Finished?
Right back to SimsPE, on the same image you clicked before right click it and go to import, point it to the image you just made and then right click again & select "Update All Sizes".
Step 10:
Now in the upper right of the Plugin View tab (right above the image), click “Commit”.
Now its time to save it, on the main menu click file -> save & your done!
To test it in the game place the file in your downloads folder.
Ok so yeah, that is clear and simple (for me XD) I found that on www.TheSimsFiles.com So if anyone knows how to do it or find a tourtial like this explaining it pleeeeease tell me 
Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I really need to know how to get my ex back now!
Me and my now ex boyfriend were madly in love you couldn’t separate us. yeah we had our problems but we managed to sort them out. thursday night we had a huge argument because he thinks ive got another boyfriend on the go and i said something i regretted on face book.
And before i had chance to delete it he read it. i apologized straight after but hes having non of it. we spoke friday during the day and we were perfectly fine and we both said sorry and it seemed we were sorting things out perfectly okay. then saturday night came and he started being weird with me. he was meant to come down tonight so we could sort things out so i text him after he finished work saying im leaving to meet you soon and his mate rang me off his phone and said he says it over now leave him alone.
All i want too do is sort it out with him i hate it.. this happened before a few months back we Split up for 3 weeks and in that time he was getting close to another girl.. im terrified of that happen again i love him so much and don’t want his stubbornness to come between us any more. can u help on any good ways to get him back.
NO SARCASTIC ways please…
I said DID and who ever refured me to a “tramp” grow upp
Who Else Wants the Secret to Getting Your Girlfriend Back To get girlfriend back after a break up is going to require not only effort but a way of showing them how much you love them as well.
Although your break up at the time may seem something tragic, there is nothing more reassuring than the thought of trying to repair what the problem is with them and so win them back.
In this article we offer five steps which you may find useful in order to help you win back your girlfriend.
Step 1 – It is important that after you have initially broken up with your girlfriend give her not only space but time as well. Don’t automatically start contacting her after the breakup, but rather give a month or so and then get in contact with her once more.
Step 2 – Because you were together you are going to be the one who knows more about what she likes and dislikes than anyone else and certainly gives you an advantage over others who know her. Arrange to meet her in locations that she feels comfortable with and try to avoid having yours or her friends with you when you do. If she is unwilling to meet with you then start off by talking to her on the phone, but don’t just turn up unexpectedly in places where she is going to be.
Step 3 – It is important that when you do get together on when talking on the phone you don’t talk up about the break up or the problems that your relationship was having. Rather talk about those things that were positive in it. When …
Whether your ex broke up with you yesterday, last week, or last month, if you want him or her back it can be hard to move on. You replay the breakup over and over in your mind, wishing that things would end differently. You wonder what would have happened if you had just changed a few of your bad habits, or picked up after yourself more often, or listened more when your ex talked to you… maybe the breakup never would have occurred. Does this sound familiar?
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