Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months now and i really love her, last night we got into a major argument over her ex, things got bit ruff and i started to yell at her on the phone. her mom saw her crying and told her not to see my again… i visited her the same day to talk to her in person when she came in the car she told me that her mom wouldnt allow for her to talk to me…. after the arguement i triend to explain my self… over the phone but her mom told me that no guy ever made her cry and be down and that she has also dated guys and no one has made her this sad… and im a horrible person< i wanted to tell her mom that she prb never treated her boyfriend like her daughter has treated me but i didnt say it regarding respect. her mom hanged up on me and now her parents are ignoring my calls ( only called twice) … and they think that their daughter bf< me is a very bad boyfriend when they dont even know the whole story… today is second day, yesterday i saw her at college, and i told her i care about her and wish her luck we went away with strong emotions.. towards each other…now im confused on what to do .. i cant really move on without her. i have litterally spend each day seeing her… and i feel like iv lost some really close to me ? i need an advice on if i should move on ? how? if i should try to get back with her? how? how can i fix things with her parent? please i need help!!!
like he broke up with me a couple of months ago
but recently my feelings for him
are comming back.
like on friday, i was with him and he was was trying to annoy me >.<
by spitting at me , i told him not to cause i wasn’t in the mood and some one in my family had passed away :’(.
so he gave me a really close hug , and his face was like near mine , like he wanted to kiss me or something :S
and then he started to be all touchy.
But then my two best friends were talking , saying i should get back with him , blah blah blah!
and one of my best mates said " if she is getting into him again im going to F**ken slap her ".
yeash i did get into my ex more than once.
i miss seeing him
help me !
Charlotte xxx
oh !
sorry this is long
I dated my ex for 2 months and slept with each other after a month of dating. He was my first(I was 21), now I’m 22 and I wanted to do it and get it over with and I was really attracted to him and we knew each other for 4 months until I decided to sleep with him. We had a lot of complications during our relationship, I would usually dump him after he does something I don’t like and he would talk me out of it or ask me to take him back. I said things to him I shouldn’t have and he broke it off. After a month of broken up, we started talking again as friends. At first he tried the typical booty call and I yelled at him. I said I will never give in to what you want and until you get that to your head then we can have a platonic relationship. After I said that to him we’ve hanged out and it got to his head that i’ll never be his booty call, we went hiking on Vday (he asked me) and asked me to go to a beach party this past weekend, but I couldn’t go. Now I miss being with him. I would never have sex with anyone unless were emotionally attached. I still have feelings for him, but I’m trying this friendship thing with him and I don’t want to ruin it. I guess deep down I want him to make the first move, it seems like he still likes me. I’m pushing it to him that we’re just friends now, so it doesn’t look like i’m longing for him desperately and being clingy. He was the only I had sex with. Should I just tell him how i feel or wouldn’t that push him away?
I don’t know if he still likes me, i think he does. I was looking at his past mood and status on myspace. I saw after I talked to him on the phone (friday night) before we went hiking on Vday that he put "<3" "I’m out of it". During the whole conversation, he would flirt with me and he would stare at me when we went hiking.
I have 4 scripts that make up a basic login system with registration. Everything works except logout.php. It gets this error:
Parse error: syntax error, unexpected T_VARIABLE in /home/a9161210/public_html/logout.php on line 1
LOGOUT.PHP:
<?php
$past = time() – 100;
//this makes the time in the past to destroy the cookie
setcookie(ID_my_site, gone, $past);
setcookie(Key_my_site, gone, $past);
header("Location: login.php");
?>
Login.php:
<?php
mysql_connect("mysql3.000webhost.com", "a9161210_login", "dualpower1") or die(mysql_error());
mysql_select_db("a9161210_login") or die(mysql_error());
//Checks if there is a login cookie
if(isset($_COOKIE['ID_my_site']))
//if there is, it logs you in and directes you to the members page
{
$username = $_COOKIE['ID_my_site'];
$pass = $_COOKIE['Key_my_site'];
$check = mysql_query("SELECT * FROM users WHERE username = ‘$username’")or die(mysql_error());
while($info = mysql_fetch_array( $check ))
{
if ($pass != $info['password'])
{
}
else
{
header("Location: members.php");
}
}
}
//if the login form is submitted
if (isset($_POST['submit'])) {
// makes sure they filled it in
if(!$_POST['username'] | !$_POST['pass']) {
die(’You did not fill in a required field.’);
}
// checks it against the database
if (!get_magic_quotes_gpc()) {
$_POST['email'] = addslashes($_POST['email']);
}
$check = mysql_query("SELECT * FROM users WHERE username = ‘".$_POST['username']."’")or die(mysql_error());
//Gives error if user dosen’t exist
$check2 = mysql_num_rows($check);
if ($check2 == 0) {
die(’An error occured please try again, or <a href="register.php">Click Here to Register</a> ‘);
}
while($info = mysql_fetch_array( $check ))
{
$_POST['pass'] = stripslashes($_POST['pass']);
$info['password'] = stripslashes($info['password']);
$_POST['pass'] = md5($_POST['pass']);
//gives error if the password is wrong
if ($_POST['pass'] != $info['password']) {
die(’An error occured please try again, or <a href="register.php">Click Here to Register</a> ‘);
}
else
{
// if login is ok then we add a cookie
$_POST['username'] = stripslashes($_POST['username']);
$hour = time() + 3600;
setcookie(ID_my_site, $_POST['username'], $hour);
setcookie(Key_my_site, $_POST['pass'], $hour);
//then redirect them to the members area
header("Location: members.php");
}
}
}
else
{
// if they are not logged in
?>
<form action="<?php echo $_SERVER['PHP_SELF']?>" method="post">
<table border="0">
<tr><td colspan=2><h1>Login</h1></td></tr>
<tr><td>Username:</td><td>
<input type="text" name="username" maxlength="40">
</td></tr>
<tr><td>Password:</td><td>
<input type="password" name="pass" maxlength="50">
</td></tr>
<tr><td colspan="2" align="right">
<input type="submit" name="submit" value="Login">
</td></tr>
</table>
</form>
<?php
}
?>
Register.php:
<?php
// Connects to your Database
mysql_connect("mysql3.000webhost.com", "a9161210_login", "dualpower1") or die(mysql_error());
mysql_select_db("a9161210_login") or die(mysql_error());
//This code runs if the form has been submitted
if (isset($_POST['submit'])) {
//This makes sure they did not leave any fields blank
if (!$_POST['username'] | !$_POST['pass'] | !$_POST['pass2'] ) {
die(’You did not complete all of the required fields’);
}
// checks if the username is in use
if (!get_magic_quotes_gpc()) {
$_POST['username'] = addslashes($_POST['username']);
}
$usercheck = $_POST['username'];
$check = mysql_query("SELECT username FROM users WHERE username = ‘$usercheck’")
or die(mysql_error());
$check2 = mysql_num_rows($check);
//if the name exists it gives an error
if ($check2 != 0) {
die(’Sorry, the username ‘.$_POST['username'].’ is already in use.’);
}
// this makes sure both passwords entered match
if ($_POST['pass'] != $_POST['pass2']) {
die(’Your passwords did not match. ‘);
}
// here we encrypt the password and add slashes if needed
$_POST['pass'] = md5($_POST['pass']);
if (!get_magic_quotes_gpc()) {
$_POST['pass'] = addslashes($_POST['pass']);
$_POST['username'] = addslashes($_POST['username']);
}
// now we insert it into the database
$insert = "INSERT INTO users (username, password)
VALUES (’".$_POST['username']."’, ‘".$_POST['pass']."’)";
$add_member = mysql_query($insert);
?>
<h1>Registered</h1>
<p>Thank you, you have registered – you may now login</a>.</p>
<?php
}
else
{
?>
<form action="<?php echo $_SERVER['PHP_SELF']; ?>" method="post">
<table border="0">
<tr><td>Username:</td><td>
<input type="text" name="username" maxlength="60">
</td></tr>
<tr><td>Password:</td><td>
<input type="password" name="pass" maxlength="10">
</td></tr>
<tr><td>Confirm Password:</td><td>
<input type="password" name="pass2" maxlength="10">
</td></tr>
<tr><th colspan=2><input type="submit" name="submit" value="Register"></th></tr> </table>
</form>
<?php
}
?>
members.php:
<?php
mysql
K well like many out there i got stupid a year ago & had to take a Payday loan out to Survive, Well now im paying for it big time. Now i got several payday loans…& i cant keep this up.
I learned my lesson But now i need to find a way to free myself.
Im reacently Married & this has become a burden on both of us, If you read some of my Other questions you can see my Marriage is breaking apart, & the biggest cause are the fact we have few reasorces because of these Payday loans.
Now I have already tooken many Steps:
#1 I have already Closed my Old bank account to keep then from Withdrawing fees.
#2 i have changed my cellphone number to stop them from duing the annoying calls BUT i still try to keep in touch to update.
#3 I have TRIED to takeout a Loan with my Bank to pay these off but BOTH my wifes AND my Credit are Crap.
#4 i have repetedly Called them trying to set up a payment plan With them but there Refusing to work with me or AT LEAST work with my budget.
#5 i have basiclly completely Defualted on at LEAST 3 of them. so i can TRY to pay the others but our Budget STILL wont let me pay MORE then the fee’s & charges.
#6 we have set a budget & sold EVERYTHING we can afford to sell or can sell<including painfully enough pawning our Wedding rings.>
#7 We BOTH have tried looking for a 2nd job but neather of us can find one. to make things worse our current jobs have DRASTICLY cut our pay AND hours back.
#8 we both live in Texas, & i have TRIED to Reaserch texas laws but i dont understand all of it.
#9 I WAS thinking of Bankruptcy, Because we do NOT own a car or a house We rent from her In-laws, We have NO kids, Were both young in are 20’s, Her Parents WILL NOT help us & I my Family gone…
If i do file Bankruptcy i want to do it in a way that will NOT involve my wife in any way!….If i can. Mostly i dont know how to nor do i have the money to File Bankruptcy.
can ANYONE help us consolidate? or know a way we can conslidate these loans?….Im so lost & WE NEED help….I knwo what i did was stupid in the past, I have learned my lesoon about payday loans, Now i Just want to escape & get a chance. PLEASE HELP..any Adivce wil lbe helpful.
Please i dont need ANYMORE payday loans, I need help Do not Answer this if your solution is another payday loan!! or a loan that i cant get. Again i have crap Credit
>>This is a serious 2-part question targeted to people who have studied Sociology and Government.<<
I’m trying to develop a system of government for a guild on an MMORPG. We have 3 levels — Admirals [High Admiral, Admirals, and Vice Admirals], Officers [Captains and Commanders], and finally our memberbase.
The Admirals are the administration of the guild who over watch guild activity, schedule guild events, and deal with disciplinary actions. The Admiral runs with a dictatorship style and has complete rule over the other Admirals — who act as his advisors.
The 5 Captains are leaders of 5 separate divisions within the guild. Each one is responsible for monitoring and recruiting for his or her own division. The commander helps the captain with their duties and if the captain is either inactive or ineligible, they take the space as captain for the regiment. Regular members are divided into the 5 divisions.
The main question is how can I improve this system? How can I make it so that there is not a constant struggle for power or a possibility of one branch just growing off from the rest of the guild?
Other information: Currently we have each division divided up to class type. We have 5 of them: Melee DPS, Ranged DPS, Magic Healing, Magic DPS, and Support — each essential to a working guild. We NEED to have all 5 class types working together to succeed and when 1 fails, we all fail.
Im just recovering from a long relationship we broke up 3 days ago and i was so attached to him like seen him everyday.
Anyways yes i admit i am desperate i feel like i need to TALK to a guy that is some how interested in getting to know me. BUt these three days all the guys i met…….well….. look guys this is how we GURLs know u just want to mess around
-we chat a lil (in person) then get our number, then call us and only talk about "when are we going to hang out?" "when am i going to see u again?"
or
-"im not really a phone person"
-"where did i meet u again?"
some get right to the pont —r u down to mess around ??
my god where are the decent guys please judge me tell me how can i attract a decent guy? is there any?
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or comment oh ill put another pic i know not everyone has myspace
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yes i am i feel i also feel like i need to talk to someone in order to keep me from getting back w my ex. and also i was in a relationship but he started treating me like if i was just this gurl he is dating
sk8ter how old r u?
I know this is yucky, but I have back acne..and I hate it! It makes me feel so gross :[ Anyway, I’m going to my boyfriend’s formal with him in a couple weeks, and I have this really pretty blue, open back dress to wear, and I really need to clear this up by then! Does anyone have any homemade, normal remedies? Items that I may actually have lol. I don’t have any money :[
Thanks in advance guys! <3
-Kelly.
The world it’s set in is almost exactly like the America in the early 1930s, but with a few major differences. One of these is that ‘magic’ exists. Okay, so it’s nothing like the magic you’re used to in fantasy. In order to gain any sort of supernatural power, a person (It could be a person of any age, but there’s a higher chance of survival the younger you are) goes to a priest who performs certain complicated rituals, and subsequently throws the power-seeker into a fire. You see, to gain magic in this world you have to make a sacrifice to gain the power. For example, the fire would entirely burn off a person’s legs but leave the rest of their body unharmed, and after a while the person would discover and begin to train their new self-levitation ability. Make sense? How this magic system works:
<> Person willingly sacrifices part of their body to gain powers.
<> It isn’t always a body part- sometimes a person could lose their sight or hearing or their ability to see beauty.
<> The sacrifices are random, depending on the movement of the flames. They don’t get to choose what they give up.
<> And neither to they get to choose the gained power. Sometimes it will be something almost useless, sometimes it will be something incredibly destructive or amazingly useful.
<> There is a slight chance that the “fire bath” necessary to gain magic powers will kill, and the chances of this happening increase with age.
<> When powers are used they either drain a persons energy or a tiny bit of a person’s life span depending on the destructiveness/potency/usefullness/power of the spell.
I wanted to try to come up with a way of magic working that has never been used before, and I need enough disadvantage caused by magic so that not many people in my world would want it. How does this sound?
It’s a very odd story, and the main character is actually the villian.
The world it’s set in is almost exactly like the America in the early 1930s, but with a few major differences. One of these is that ‘magic’ exists. Okay, so it’s nothing like the magic you’re used to in fantasy. In order to gain any sort of supernatural power, a person (It could be a person of any age, but there’s a higher chance of survival the younger you are) goes to a priest who performs certain complicated rituals, and subsequently throws the power-seeker into a fire. You see, to gain magic in this world you have to make a sacrifice to gain the power. For example, the fire would entirely burn off a person’s legs but leave the rest of their body unharmed, and after a while the person would discover and begin to train their new self-levitation ability. Make sense? How this magic system works:
<> Person willingly sacrifices part of their body to gain powers.
<> It isn’t always a body part- sometimes a person could lose their sight or hearing or their ability to see beauty.
<> The sacrifices are random, depending on the movement of the flames. They don’t get to choose what they give up.
<> And neither to they get to choose the gained power. Sometimes it will be something almost useless, sometimes it will be something incredibly destructive or amazingly useful.
<> There is a slight chance that the “fire bath” necessary to gain magic powers will kill, and the chances of this happening increase with age.
<> When powers are used they either drain a persons energy or a tiny bit of a person’s life span depending on the destructiveness/potency/usefullness/powe… of the spell.
I wanted to try to come up with a way of magic working that has never been used before, and I need enough disadvantage caused by magic so that not many people in my world would want it. How does this sound?
Yes, it’s an odd story. The main character is the villian.
Ha, I LOVE Fullmetal Alchemist. Maybe I was subconciously inspired. I didn’t think of that.
How Do I Win My Ex Girlfriend Back?
THIS IS A MAD LONG STORY – SORRY BROS
who ever reads and answers this though, I <3 you
My ex girlfriend and i broke up a few months ago. we were going out for over a year. And i really do care about her, and i still love her even though i have tryed everything. During the seperation, i tryed ignoring/blocking all communications withher.
It surprisingly worked, until 3 weeks ago. For some reason, I just started missing her all over again. Everytime I see her, I feel sick. I just want her and I miss that feeling of being happy with her. Not to sound gay, but she was my complete everything. I did everything for her, just to see her smile. Anywho, because I don’t have her I started smoking.
And, the only reason why I do it because it copes with my depression. I am just not me anymore. When I was with her, I never thought for a single second of trying it. Now without her, I am just a different person. I don’t care at all about life anymore, without her. I know I sound desperate or pathetic, but its just whats going on right now. She was the only thing that made me happy. I am also barely passing school, my grades are mad low because of this shit. Again, its because I do not care at all what so ever. When ever I walk around in the halls, shes always looking at me for some reason.
Also, when I am with my friends, she usually steps in and starts talking about her new boyfriend with her friends. Like on the spot, if I come in to talk to my homies, she’ll immediately start talking about Jimmy(Her New Boyfriend). And I am sick of it! I cant stand it, I hate that kid so much and I just want to bash his face in. He claims hes going to fight me, which he wont. He doesn’t even look at me when I stare at him and he wont fight me because my ex keeps telling him not to.
I don’t get it at all! I want to completely ANNIHILATE him, but I’d just be happy if I stole my ex from him. Also, if I am walking in the halls and if she sees him, she’ll be completely all over him like in a second. Its crazy, at my dance I was slow dancing with this one chick. And I saw her with her boyfriend, and she looked at me. Then immediately started making out with him. Like WTF.
just love her so much, and I do miss her. I want her back, but I don’t know what steps to do. I tried standing at the end of her street where her house is [I was high] waiting for her to come and talk to me. I want to tell her how I feel, but I don’t know if I should. Instead, she started crying and said she’ll call the cops. I want to fight Jimmy, Jimmy doesn’t but he says he does. And she doesn’t want us to fight. A week ago, I walked over to him and her and started talking to Jimmy.
I apologized for our fighting [ as a joke ] and reached my hand out. Instead he tried acting all tough telling me to apologise to my ex for going to her house. I immediately said no I will not, and he started yelling telling me that I will. So I said no I fucking wont and I walked off. And as the big man he is, he screamed at the end of the hall that Im walking away as usual and said F you to me. So I said it back and called him a pu$$y.
This sucks, I want to fight him but I want her back. He’s 2 years older than me and my ex by the way. She always looks at me and tries to talk to me. But I don’t know what to do. She kept asking me today what was it I wanted to tell her. But I just replied with a “oh nothing.” My friends say that she is probably just trying to make me jealous and will ask me out soon, but I just don’t know and I waited for too long. I want her back now, so I can be happy and so I can change completely for her.
The reason why we broke up was because we were both insanely jealous from each other talking to different sexes. I just didn’t want to lose her, and I guess she didn’t either. She kept thinking I would cheat on her, yet I would never do that.
Can anyone tell me how to get her back, and end this whole stress nightmare once and for all.
THANKS <3
Hi my name is Zoie me and Kyle went out alot but i still LOVE him like mad in LOVE what should i do to get him back to go out with me tips: (HE HATES ME NOW)<i need advice what should i doo?>
My ex and my friend keep saying my ex isn’t over me, and my friend keeps trying to get us back together when I told her no. I gave him 6 chances, and he ruined them all. I like this guy, and this guy likes me. We dated for one week, but something went wrong, but he just realized it wasn’t my fault. <*you don’t understand..* he said in about a week or so we’ll get back together so we’re ready again. But my friend keeps on annoying me saying "PLEASE TEXT *ex bf* BECAUSE HE REALLY LOVES YOU." And she wont shut up. "No Kendra, YOU don’t understand. He love’s you." I keep saying "I don’t care, I like *crush* and *crush* likes me. So Idc." *I know he likes me, he said I was beautiful, and he likes me.* What do I do?
I try stop hanging around her, but she follows me.
Chocolate Barbie, read the question again. I don’t think you got it. We’re talking about 2 boys, one friend.
i really love this boy and we were together for 8 months and we recently broke up well about three months ago and im still not over him, is there a way i can find a love spell to get him back to me. i cant talk to him because he hates me </3
he hates me bcuz his cousin is putting stuff in his head. and i just want a spell to make him really , realize how much i love him ….
i broke up with him b.c i felt BOTH of us wernt happy with each other,im not gunna go into detail and he still doesnt know the reason why.and i know both of us liked being independent,and we were not ready for that type of commitment
i liked each other for 10 months and went out for 2 weeks (wow i know)
its been 2 months since we talked but he shows alot of signs that he still likes me <3
he purposely walks by me and looks at me
he looks at me ALOT
hes starting/trying to be friends with my friends (probley to get closer to me) but whenever he talks to them its always about me
this meant alot to me when wanted his dad to see me and he also invited me over for dinner when we were still goin out
and he quit drugs for me but then started using after we broke up (my friend said i was a good influence on him)
he said he’ll wait years! for me to be ready for sex,the farthest we went was makeout
but he told my friend he doesnt want to be friends!!
he might not be the best boyfriend but hes a good friend
why do you think he doesnt wantt to be my friend!?
im really sure he still has feelings for me
i know i screwed up,i really want to make it up to him…but how!?
im sure i hurt his feelings,i thought when we broke up…we would be friends and everything would be ok
please help me 
i like long anwers
He started going to a Apostolic Pentecostal church a couple years ago and its brainwashed him. How do I bring him back to the Catholic Church? How do I get him out of that brainwashing church?
CATHOLICS ANSWER ONLY, PLEASE.
How do you get someone to come to the church after being this?
<b>Apostolic Pentecostalism; The Cult of Christianity</b><br>Not all religions are cults but when emotional manipulation is used to recruit members it definitely starts to fall into that category. You can read here the methods the Apostolic Pentecostal use to build their cult empires.<br><a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/221631/apostolic_pentecostalism_the_cult_of.html">http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/221631/apostolic_pentecostalism_the_cult_of.html</a>
My ex boyfriend is acting like such a Prick
- he is starting fights with my friends
- i told him to stop , ill talk to her ( trying to sort things out etc..)
- then he yells at me for trying to sort things out , between him and her
- delets me as a friend off bebo
- i think he has deleted and blocked me off msn too
but how can i get my twilight dvd off him
if he wont anwser to me >.<
well we broke up 3 days ago because she told me she wants me to find someone betetr then her since she doesnt spend a lot of time with me. she is a busy lady but i do love her and feel as if she loves me deep down and doesnt want to show it. i asked her twice if she really did mean it when i said that why she broke up with me and she said the same thing. i was wondering what sign’s are in it and how to get her back as soon as possible. here is what im doing so far. we talk on aim and txt, she got sad when i deleted her number, she actually txted me when i said if you want to talk just txt me. she keeps putting things with 5 letters such as this im booooored. my named has 5 letters which is Jacob obviously. she is currently ignoring me or watching tv. she checks me out in school becuz when she txts me this morning she said what shirt r u wearing and i said a black one and she said yea but are u wearing the * same shirt as me* <- didnt say that but she ment the same shirt lol. i didnt notice her too depressed. please i need advice how to get her back i dont want her to try and find someone when that someone is right here waiting for you.
You can read my story if you want, Its the first question I’ve ever written on Yahoo Answers. I just need some advice for people who’ve gone through it that’s all. It’s been really hard for me lately not to feel sorry for myself, but i’m trying to get over this so i won’t be so consumed in all this..
Thanks Guys
<3
Well Be &nd My Bf Just Broke Up..&nd I Still Like Him &nd I Want Him Back.I Heard He Dumped Me For One Of My Friends.&nd Now Their Going Out.He Tells My Best Friend He Still Loves Me.But Idk If To Believe Him.Should I Try To Get Him Backk Or Just Forget About Him?I Still Love Him.Alot<33
