Get Her Back No Contact

get her back no contactShould I contact her or just wait? Would it be a good idea?

I know I should move on. But its tough. I love the girl in some way. Long story short, she is bulimic, depressed and the works. She broke up with me (disappeared). Dated someone right afterwards, broke up with him. She contacted me last week wanted to go have lunch, I agreed after a week, she said she was working and she would let me know.

Never let me knew. Friday night I get like ten calls from her, she hangs up each time, then sends me text saying “I’m drunk and need you” all I said was “you ok?”. Never heard from her. Next day I texted saying “you alright” “Can’t help you if you call and hang up on me” She said “haha sorry about that”. Haven’t heard from her since. My question; If this girl truly wanted to be with me again, would she make more of an effort?

Would she not want to see me at all costs? What should I do? Keep the No Contact till she contacts me again. What would be the best way to show her I want her back if she has changed and only if she is healthy?

In this situation, it sounds like you’re her last months newspaper, aka … her rebound! It seems that whenever she needs you, she’ll call you up, but she needs you during times when she’s broken up with someone, or she’s doing something stupid to captivate you’re attention. But when she has a boyfriend, or is drunk or something, everything is all good, and she doesn’t need you.

My advice is to let her be, and just ignore her, no offense, because she’s playing mind games with you … and girls like that shouldn’t be tolerated, so it’s time for you to take the inititave and move on, and not to deal with her whatsoever.

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How do i get my ex-girlfriend back? Even when 3 weeks after ending it she found another man?

I was with my ex for nearly a year. However towards the end, we made a stupid mistake and she became pregnant. Due to our age and other circumstances, i knew that it would not have been possible to raise the child. She wanted to keep it though. However for fear of losing me, she went through with the abortion. This made her hate me. She lost all feelings for me and although we tried working through it… she said she couldnt do it anymore. This killed me as we were really in love and already knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.
For comfort, she went to her colleagues house most nights. And one thing led to another and 3 weeks later they were in a relationship. This killed me as i was trying to get her back. However just before they started their relationship we shared an extremely passionate kiss and she said she missed me and if it wasnt for what happened, she would still be with me. She told me she is over what happened and doesnt blame me anymore.

Recently we have become very close friends. She stops over at my house on the way home from her boyfriends for a chat. We are on the same course at university and have lunch together or go out shopping together when uni is finished. She is always wanting to chill with me and everyone says things are looking good for me. However she is still with her boyfriend and i found out they booked to go on holiday in june 2009… they booked this 2 weeks after being together!!

just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can win her back. She calls me all the time and we seem to do everything together that we are allowed to do without cheating… (lots of hugging and kissing on the cheek)… her boyfriend doesnt know she even talks to me let alone meeting up cos he wont allow her to.. She is a girl that needs lots of attention and i have heard from her friends that she is having problems with him cos he wont give her any attention.

Does she really like this guy or is it just a rebound.. and is it looking good for me???



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What can I say to make my ex respect me and want to give me closure?

I’m meeting a mutual friend to get my stuff back, which he just got from my ex boyfriend. My ex broke up with me one and a half months ago and has been rather angry, although sometimes when has has called he has been sounding sad and told me that he misses me and likes me still.

Since the break-up it has been really hard for me, I have been struggling with an illness and I’m not really well yet. However, this illness has nothing to do with my ex and he knows that. Three times he has, on his own initiative, promised to call a certain time but failed to do that. He has told me that we could meet for lunch but then not called me back about it. I am very hurt about this.

The mutual friend is my ex:s best friend. He will ask me about how things are. What should I say to him? My ex still refuses to give me closure, it seems, but I would like to meet my ex and talk about what happened between us. How can I make that happen?



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What can I say to make my ex respect me and want to give me closure?

I’m meeting a mutual friend to get my stuff back, which he just got from my ex boyfriend. My ex broke up with me one and a half months ago and has been rather angry, although sometimes when has has called he has been sounding sad and told me that he misses me and likes me still.

Since the break-up it has been really hard for me, I have been struggling with an illness and I’m not really well yet. However, this illness has nothing to do with my ex and he knows that. Three times he has, on his own initiative, promised to call a certain time but failed to do that. He has told me that we could meet for lunch but then not called me back about it. I am very hurt about this.

The mutual friend is my ex:s best friend. He will ask me about how things are. What should I say to him? My ex still refuses to give me closure, it seems, but I would like to meet my ex and talk about what happened between us. How can I make that happen?



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would you still let your boyfriend back into you life after you fot into an argument and he ran away and never

called you until monday. well actually you guys got into a tight on saturday night, then sunday he left and you couldn’t find him anywhere and he doesnt call you and when you call him a gazillion times he doesnt pick up and sunday comes and you had plans with him but he never bother to call you or even pick up the phone and you still couldn’t find him and then monday comes back to work and THEN finally calls you on his lunch break. then leaves a voicemail saying "i was just wondering how you were doing?, please call me back" then he calls you once more when he goets off of work. I asked him where he stayed all this time, he hung up then called me back and said he got cut off i guess cuz he was clueless on what to say. Then he said "i was here at work waiting in the parking lot in my truck". Would you believe him or would you think he got a hotel or stayed at someone’s house? then calls you back when he gets back to work? and all this time doesnt pick up your calls but expects u 2 pck u
p your calls and then thinks he can take advantage of you. then wants to come back home.But god knows what he was doing these 3 nights. my question, what would you do, let him back into your life because you still have feelings for him or dump him and let him have the rotten poon he proobably was with the last coulple of nights. and how would you feel/think?


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