bascially my ex partner has been beating me up, and i had him arrested on 4th may 2009, he drove off with our child in the car without a car seat at a stupid speed and left me all beaten and bruised. he then text me to tell me i wouldnt be getting my child back.
he was arrested and bailed pending court on 20th may.
the police brought my little boy back to me and told me that giles would be bailed to our joint tenacy rent house.
i had to move into a 1 bedroom bungalow with my mum as his bail conditions say he cannot be near me, i cannot go home.
thing is this isnt ideal, and i want to go home.
how can i get him out of the house so me and my little boy can move back in.
surely as the sole carer of my child i have the right to live in my own home. he beat me up, and i have to move out????
also when i went to collect the mail whilst he was at work, i opened the door to find some random girl and her child livnig at my house.
She claimed to be a family friend come to stay for a few days, but im not too sure to be honest.
where do i stand??? i want to move back into my home, but i dont know how to do it.
my domestic violence officer isnt answering his phone, and my solicitor is out of the office until next week…..
can i also add that this a 3 bedroom home, which is full of all my belongings.. he moved into a ready made home, and hes having his cake and eating it.
i was advised to post this in this part of the forum, hope its ok
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I am continuing to get reply cards to my PO Box. Should I send them via mail to him? He doesn’t want to talk; he wants to have space b/c "part of him wants to end the relationship and part of him wants to try again". The last time we spoke it was over the phone and very brief. He wanted his phone charger back. I found out that some of my mail got delivered to his house, and he brought it to the post office as "wrong address" instead of sending or giving it to me. He wants things distant and sounds irritated when he calls me, so is mailing them the best idea?
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me and my ex girlfriend were together for 7 and a half years with all of the ups and down but we were still in love with one another before and somewhat after three children. we both wanted to get married and i wonder if we waited too long we only got as far as getting the marriage license and then everything went all bad and now she is in a relationship with a friend that she would date when ever we were having problems but over the course of our relationship this friend has been in jail for five or six years now and they have been communicating wit each other through mail and visits every since. I even had to deal with finding all of the letters that this man was sending to my house only to never being able to stop it but also moving out and being away from my kids behind all of this. The new guy gets outta jail in august and from what i hear they plan to be together. Maybe i should just leave it alone. Im kinda worried but not really, i just know that we should be together and that she is about to make a mistake thinking she wants to be with a younger man who is eager to get out and catch back up with the fun instead of being how and where she know she belongs. im confused.
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We both reside in California and I’m just waiting on the Judge’s signed Final Divorce Decree to come to me in the mail.
I have been advised that if I file a Chapter 7 bankruptcy, that it would prevent creditors from collecting or harassing me for things not related to me.
But is/are there other options for me to consider or is this really the only one? I only ask because the advice I received is motivated with me paying them money to file the BK, so I question that it is my only option.
I am fully aware of what having a BK on my credit does and that is stays on there for 10 years. It’s better than contiually getting wage garnished for my ex’s crap for eternity! Right? I just want him completely out of my life.
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I am not talking about joint accounts. They are HIS debts, but they attached to me when we married. So now his debtors are collecting from me because he can’t hold a job. THEY don’t care who they get it from.
TO LAUREN F.:
That was helpful information and concise. I am correcting and disputing this, but in the meantime I’m literally paying his debts not happy about it as you can imagine.
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me and my ex girlfriend were together for 7 and a half years with all of the ups and down but we were still in love with one another before and somewhat after three children. we both wanted to get married and i wonder if we waited too long we only got as far as getting the marriage license and then everything went all bad and now she is in a relationship with a friend that she would date when ever we were having problems but over the course of our relationship this friend has been in jail for five or six years now and they have been communicating wit each other through mail and visits every since. I even had to deal with finding all of the letters that this man was sending to my house only to never being able to stop it but also moving out and being away from my kids behind all of this. The new guy gets outta jail in august and from what i hear they plan to be together. Maybe i should just leave it alone. Im kinda worried but not really, i just know that we should be together and that she is about to make a mistake thinking she wants to be with a younger man who is eager to get out and catch back up with the fun instead of being how and where she know she belongs. im confused.
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