My partner complaint about me having male friends triggered him to cheat and that cause a serious problem to the relationship. As I can admit that I befriended a guy when we broke up three years ago and only seeked friendship. Is my partner insecure? Or what could it be?
After our breakup i didnt talk to my ex for 10 days(but i was always online and he can see me. So it’s not like i was totally out of his life for 10 days.). Last night i talked to him online but he still was very cold to me. He left me b/c he wants be single and he doesnt know what he wants. My original plan is cut him off for like a month or 2 but it doesnt seem to be working. Should i still stick to the cut off longer plan? Do u think he’ll ever be back?
PS:we are each other’s 1st love and i believe he’s not gonna find someone else, at least not any time soon(he’s not a ladies’man anyways). I guess he just wants to hang out more with his male friends and doesnt have to put efforts into a relationship. Maybe the grass of being single is very much greener for him right now.
We have only been married 18 months and she is very controlling and abusive. She wants to spend all of her time in the bar. It also doesn’t help that she works in a bar as a bartender. I could handle it at first but now she gets very mean. I tired to get her into counseling a year ago and she refused. For a while, she got a lot better and now she has relapsed again.
Yesterday she worked an eight hour day shift and I showed up right after she was done to pick her up. She wanted to hang out for a while so we ran into some friends and were having a great time. Then our friends left and she demanded that we stay for four hours even though I hadn’t eaten at all that day and it was now after 10pm. Then on the way home, I started getting screamed at and she hit me. She then kept screaming at me to give her the money she had given me and told me under no circumstances was I to give her the money. She was so drunk she fell trying to hit me again and then said "I made her fall".
She has had a rough life and went through things as a baby and child that no kid should have to. She constantly ditches me for the bar. I drink too, but not near as much or as often as she does. I cried my eyes out most of the night and told her today that I wanted to separate. She then asked if we could finally try counseling. I really love her and want to find the woman I love again. She refuses to go to AA and refuses to even acknowledge that there is a problem. If I mention anything, I’m nagging and have to get off her case or get screamed at. Do you think counseling will even help? She is also very jealous and has driven away 90% of my female friends, yet she is allowed to have as many male friends as she wants. She does not drive, so often I am her ride and have to stay at the bar until she is ready to go no matter how tired or hungry I am.She can be very sweet and has had a hard life. I know if I do leave, she will be crushed. What do I do? Sorry for such a long post.
I have an ex, we’ve been broken up for over two months now. The first month she changed her number and wouldn’t have any contact with me. The second month we slept together a few times and were pretty clingy again, and then she withdrew and now we are back to "friends" status it seems. I talk to her everyday and see her everytime she has a day off or I do.
She says there’s too much hurt in our relationship and that i’m too good for her and that I dont really want her, i just want the idea of a relationship
Actually, I’m so in love with her in hurts to not be with her and I find myself missing her every second I’m not talking to her.
She’s not the romantic type and she’s fairly anti social as she’s dealing with her own issues at the moment.
I just want suggestions/ideas on how to get her to fall back in love with me…or ideas on how I can at least try…in the past I’ve always given up on my exes but my heart just won’t let me this time.
I’ve worked on all the issues she had with me. I’m now medicated and in therapy for my anxiety, I use to hate her dog and now i bring him treats and he sleeps with me and i walk him, I use to be jealous of her male friends and now even though she intentionally tries to rile me up, i let it slide off my back and tell her to have a good time….everything she had an issue with, I fixed…now I know it takes time to prove it and I’m working on the time issue….I just want other ideas on how to get her to fall back for me again.
Until both of our issues became problems (her self esteem/eating disorder and my anxiety) we were perfect
*sigh*
If it matters I’m m/27 and she’s f/24. She knows I love her..but she doesnt think i really do..she thinks its not her I love but the idea of her and the idea of being in a relationship…..I don’t think her self esteem lets her think that someone could actually want HER and love HER.
I have told her how much I love her…it seems every couple days I post something in my blog (which only she can read) about how much I want to try again and how much I truely love her with all my heart.
she says "why didnt you see this before"
but the old cliche stands true that you dont know what you have until its gone and I thought that working on all my issues and spending hours in therapy and continuing to go every week would help at least some….but when we started sleeping together she was always telling me she missed me then after we hung out more she went back to friend mode.
Needless to say, I’m seriously confused by this girl
Me and my ex were together for 2 years. We were really in love, and like most couples we had a period where we were off and on. And on one of the "offs" she spent the night with one of her male friends and she kissed him, then she told me about it and she said all that happened was a kiss and i believe her, it hurt but i got over it and i took her back. A few months later i shipped out to the "NAVY" and i cheated on her with a girl that i met while i was in.
When i got out she asked me if i cheated on her while i was in the navy and i denied it . Later on i treated her really badly for alot of reasons i still havent figured out, but it was no worse then how she treated me in the beginning. Then we split for about 10 months and she got into a new relationship 2 weeks after. So we ended up talking on myspace and i told her the truth and now she broke up with her bf but says that she dosent think she can ever love me again, but i noticed that she still acts the same. is there any hope?
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