I was always good to my ex. Gave him anything he asked for, never cheated on him, and gave him two beautiful girls. Yet, he cheated on me with a girl that has three kids with three different men. Her husband left her because he caught her cheating with another man during their daughters birthday party. She has slept with my ex cousin and brother, and now he is living with her. Why would a man leave a woman that has been there for him through thick and thin, that he swears he loves and wants to be with, only to be with a woman that is no good and never will be. I don’t want him back and wouldn’t take him back, that is not the issue, I just want someone that can explain to me what is running through his head. He lives with this girl but everyday calls and txt (which I ignore) saying how much he loves me and wants me back. Why are men suck a**holes?
I saw a movie once where a guy died and then came back as a woman, got pregnant and then died. He/She ended up having a little girl. At the end of the movie the little girl is in the cemetery with her "dad" and you can hear the man that died and God talking and God asks him if he wanted to be a man or a woman in the film. That’s all I remember about it. If anyone knows the title of the film, I would be really grateful! Thanks!
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I’m not asking for advice on how to make a man come back or anything, I’m just asking, if you truly love somone, what would cause you to leave them, and then try to come back later? Shouldn’t you have just stayed there to begin with?
(I guess, think of this question and how it pertains to people in their twenties who are in long term/committed relationships with their partners)
Thanks in advance for any feedback ![]()



