I am in a similar situation as well. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. He is currently looking to buy a house that he has asked me to move into, but to be honest I am really not ready. When we started dating his ex was 7 months pregnant I think. In the beginning things were very ugly but I stuck it through. I never really felt like I was appreciated for that, Im sure I was, but after dealing with that for so long and trying to be there for him through all of it I just felt like I deserved some sort of verbal salutation. But that was 3 years ago. She is now finally doing every other weekend and this is absolutely not easy for me. Im 23 sitting having to do things alone because his daughter is over. He is a wonderful father, Im not saying that at all, I just am not sure that I am at a point in my life to always be the back burner, as one of your posts stated. There are so many things that bother me but everyone thinks it is so cute and funny. She constantly whines but still gets what she wants. She is 3 years old and still does not sleep in her own bed. It is ridiculous. This should have never ever been allowed and I said that before but no one wanted to listen, instead I looked like I was just being the bad guy. Well now he has to pay for it and frankly so do I. I have to sleep in her bed! Just leave her in the room, she will get over it. The more you buy into her and let her sleep with you the harder it is going to be. He will try to put her in her own bed but she wont go to sleep, so he takes her to his bed. Well of course if I knew that if I didnt want to do something and all I had to do was wait long enough I will get daddys bed. It happens every weekend! I have tried to explain that multiple times but it always just turns into a disagreement. I feel like they just want to do the easy way out so they dont have to deal with the repercussions. So what she cries for an hour, thats the way it is. It is only going to get worse. I have never loved someone so much as I love him. I just have a really hard time with this situation as it seems I am not the only one. I am glad I found this forum I think you all will be very helpful at least just being there for me to talk to, I dont have any friends in this similar situation. My boyfriend and I have an open line of communication but I feel like when we talk I either dont explain what I am feeling or he just doesnt get it. This is so hard for me and I feel like it is only going to get worse. I dont want to move in with him if a few days a week I have to sleep not in my bed and not because she is sick but because she is 3 and still sleeps with her parents! No this is not where I pictured my self at 23 and I am a very independent person. I have my own life. I dont rely on him for anything, meaning I could survive on my own. So maybe this is not for me, or maybe it is and there is a way to deal with this and you all can help me. This situation is nothing about not being in love, this truly has nothing to do with us not getting along, him and I have a great relationship, we are just the same age but in different places. I couldnt imagine being with anyone else, I just often wonder if it is just not our time. I am so confused and I have no one to talk to about any of this. Any suggestions?!
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i still love her….. the other day she was writing on my hand…. she’s somewhat cuddling with me…. and she’s been hugging me a lot lately….
we broke up about 80-85 days ago….. there isn’t a day i don’t think about her… we broke up because she said that she had too many things going on…. i thought that would be the right thing to do since it just wasn’t the right time… and i thought i could possibly get back togeather with her when all this stuff is over… but then around 4 weeks later… she starts to go out with her ex b. from washington… who just recently moved here in LA… i guess she’s been having problems with him…. today’s her birthday, but i’ve already done something for her… n e wayz… we’re still friends… i wouldn’t mind making it out to be something more…. but is she giving me the signs that i want her to… or is she just playing around with a friend???
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My girlfriend and I have been dating a really long time. When she achieves someting, I am proud of her. Very proud of her. But I also get Jealous that she is beating me at something. Like for gym class, she scored a 43 in archery and my highest was like 36 or something. And shes soo much smmarter than me. She is always using really big words that I dont understand and I feel very stupid. Also, she knows sooo much about soo many things. When I think I am right she always has to say "no……" and then she tells me the correct answer. It bugs me because I feel less of a person. I feel weak. Idk what to do or how to handle it. Ive told her before how I felt and she said that its weird
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I’m not sure where the best place to live or get on my feet. Because there are too many things to think about I’m looking to start completely over. I’m open to making this the most positive experience in my life because it is the worst thing that has happened in about 20 years.
Thanks so much.
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1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they
always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend
11. When guys want to meet your parents…let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have
one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it
is…drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up…believe me…he will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this
makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know
what…uh…never mind!"would him jump to a conclusion that is far from
what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "um"…or makes any excuses when you’reasking him to do you a favor, he’s actually
saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no",guys hears it as "try again 2morrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of
roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime…he does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve…girls are guy’s weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him
wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty…even for just a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much
pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his
problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get
the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but…her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive…so watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they break up
esp. when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved
with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-
been-busted, never been in-love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl…he really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying
"Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy started to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but
court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure
unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms…no kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be
surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is
about girls.
76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable
decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he jus tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,
they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed on you or he’s criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your
boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your
boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain…when he cries in
front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only
flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intention if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things…not their hair!
97. If someone says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your
relationships
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