Saving sex until marriage, how/when should I let a guy I am with know that?

So I’m seventeen, and I’m saving sex for marriage, in case you couldn’t tell from my question.
This seems to be am issue with a lot of guys, so telling them is usually a problem.

My main question is, how/when in a relationship would you recommend telling the guy, especially considering the fact that I’m going to be going off to college soon?

Any help you can give me would be great.


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She even gets angry sometimes when I want to fool around. How do I get her in the mood more often?


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