My ex and I had filed for a divorce back in June but it recently got dismissed because we didn’t submit our paperwork. We have talked almost the whole time about wanting to make our marriage work. We have a toddler and I would love to raise him together. Here is the problem…. He said that for us to be together I would have to swallow. This is something I hate doing, and he knows this. Would you do something that makes you unhappy to keep your marriage together?
Five years ago, I got married at the age of 26. I met a woman whom I loved and wanted to change my life for. I did have a problem with commitment, but I wanted to show her I could love her the way she deserved to be love. Unfortunately, I proved to be not ready for such a commitment like marriage. My wife and I split after almost a year of marriage. The split was hard and we still loved each other and spoke everyday, but it’s what I felt I needed. After months and months of separation and heart break, she finally asked me to stop contacting her since I was the one who left the marriage. I did what I was told.
I have always seen my wife as the love of my life, and I knew one day by fate, we would be together again. One of her best friends passed away who was also like a best friend to me. I attended the funeral and reconnected with my wife. We started speaking again in November.
Since then, I have fallen in love all over again with my wife. I have been trying to take everything with her slowly. I want her to see how I have matured and I’m ready to be the man she always saw deep down inside of me.
We have been involved with other people since our separation, but I never had a steady girlfriend because that was not my goal. My wife has been involved with a man for almost a year now. I know she cares for him, but she cannot and will not love him the way she has loved me.
I told her I wanted to get back together. She’s my wife, and I want to make our marriage work. The time I spent apart from her showed me how much I needed her, and with the death of our friend, it has just shown me life is too short to live another day without my wife.
She told me she is now with a man who wants to love her, raise children with her, and be a man for her. She says she deserves love and I was to fearful to love her the right way.
I know she still loves me. We speak every single day. She asks me how and why I miss her. I told her the other day how everyday I think about her carrying my child and giving me the greatest gift, and she started crying. She’s just so angry with me.
Do I let her go or do I fight for her? I was selfish before, but now I just want what will make her happy.
Husband meets and falls in love with someone else the wife decides they need to make their marriage work. Their grown children want their parents back together. The man returns to his wife, going to canceling for the last yr. He calls me the one he was seeing and says he made a mistake and he thought being with his wife was what he was supposed to do but he thinks about me every day and cannot understand after being with someone for that long and falling in love with someone else in just a few months. I am not going to see a married man and won’t. i do care about him but i would be afraid he would do the same thing again. Life is to short for that. His children would never like me. I am just not sure it would ever work. He says they get along alrighte but something is missing. I changed my phone number and now he is sending me cards. I live 2 states away from him. I have not moved on and like i said it has been a year since i have seen him.
Has your spouse ever cheated on you?
If yes, did you go sleep with someone else to get back at them?
What did you do to get back at them? Did you think on that plan long and hard or did you do it right away? My husband cheated on me New Year’s Eve with an ex-fling and he even had unprotected sex with her. We have lots of problems besides this, but I love him dearly.
However, right after it happened I was thinking about finding me somebody to date on the side (not necessarily to have sex with them). I didn’t act on that thought at all, but I quickly reminded myself that two wrongs don’t make a right and if you love somebody you CAN make the marriage work.
I am just curious to hear what others have done.
me and my husband have been together for 9 years now and he told me the other day he wants to be with someone else that is 9 yearsw younger than him we do have 5 kids total i am only 25 and he is 29 we are staying in the same house still and he stays over at her parents house until 5am every morning and he says it is not about sex he cames home to me every day and that is how he wants it he still wants sex with me every day also i give it to him cause i think he will fall back in love with me he says its not you its me i love you but i am not in love with you i dont want a divorce cause that is 200 per child theses are just the things he says to me he is willing to go to marriage counseling just 1 time and i am willing to go to make my marriage work but is it really worth it if this is how it is going to be i love him so much and it is hurting me so bad cause he comes home and holds me and tells me he loves me and still makes me feel good and i allow that please help i need advice
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