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I don’t need any comments on here telling me anything nasty. I’ve heard it all before and I don’t need anyone to call me names or tell me about my lack of morals. TRUST ME I KNOW. I have been in a relationship with a married man for about 6 months. Well I never intended to stay with him and have tried many times to end the relationship. Well anyways he is married to his wife of 10 yrs and we have discussed that he will never leave her. This I know and am ok with. They have a 2 yr old son and she is currently pregnant again. Well recently we found out that I am also expecting. At first he threatened me with suicide and after I lectured him about maturity and responsibility he came the realization that this is OUR problem and not just mine. He jokes about the baby having more of his genes and talks about how he hopes it’s a girl and everything. Well we recently ended out "relationship" sexually a couple weeks ago since he wants to try and be faithful. This I respect, I am not the first girl he cheated with but I can be the last. Well anyways we still talk on the phone and he tries to get sexual on the phone which always ends up in us having a sexual encounter. I need to leave him alone and move on and find a better man. He is 10 yrs my senior and married…I want to not love him anymore but it is hard. I’m having his baby and I don’t know what that is going to do to his life except ruin it. I need to find a way to stop wanting and needing him. WHAT DO I DO?

I was hanging out with a cute single successful guy that was totally into me, but all I was doing was thinking about my baby daddy and wishing he was there. I even paid someone money to take me to the next state to see him for two days! I have gone on two trips with him, one lasting as long as 18 days! I need help! I have to stop my obsession…what do I do??? Go to therapy? Listing all the things about him that are bad doesn’t help…I feel bad because if I feel the way I do about him, I can’t imagine how his wife feels and I don’t want to take him from her. PLEASE HELP WITH ANY POSITIVE ADVICE!!!

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My husband’s ex called him out of the blue 6 months ago- she’s going through a nasty divorce. They have been divorced 20 years!!! We have been married 5.
They have one grown daughter, I have one teenage son who lives with us.
My husband divorced her because she cheated on him many times, and when he finally found out she threw him out of his own house-told police he was abusive (lie) and got a restraining order so she wouldn’t have to leave the home.
We had a happy marriage or so I thought. I loved him, was good wife, kept nice house and romance whenever he wanted because I love it too!

Long story short, found out he is leaving me to go back to her! They have been in touch by emails and texts. The house we live in was mine before marriage. I have been unemployed but looking for 2 years. I have no money of my own. I am devastated. When he leaves I will lose everything and have to file bankruptcy-I have spoken to lawyer. I have no choice. No money to pay anything.
At age 48 I will be living with my son at my parent’s house until I get work. I slaved for years to keep that house as a single mom. Now gone.

What would posess a man to go back to someone who did that to him? The first text I saw she said she would never hurt him again-thanks for the second chance! He never even told me he was unhappy in marriage! I ask and get no answers, no explanations. Nice guy. I told him if he was unhappy he should have come to me first to at least try!

The only thing I can logically think of is that she makes good money and he is tired of scrimping without my pay.
He always hated his father because he walked out when he was a baby and he is doing the same to me. In all honesty, why would he want that tramp that dumped him? She left him for a married man!

He will come to her rescue but leave me with nothing? Anyone ever been through this? I am a good, loving woman. I will not take him back-I have dignity, but part of me wants him to realize someday what a selfish jerk he was to do that to me. My son is crushed.

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I am a historic novelist, and I try to write books which uphold certain standard of morality. I do not believe in sex before marriage, and I try to uphold my beliefs in my works. That is why, I think, I became a target of a low tabloid called "Daily Beacon". They publish scandalous stories and photos, and I ended there as well. It said: "The girls in her historical novels always keep their legs crossed until they’ve got a ring on their fingers. But her private life is rather different." They said that I had a lot of lovers and a "torrid past", hinted that I had countless night stands and sex in my Jacuzzi. "He latest Casanova, so far unnamed, is said to be a married man who’s been seen leaving in the wee small hours." It’s an extremely degrading, humiliating, and misleading article. I don’t have any lovers. I save myself for marriage. This article ruined my reputation and my book sales dropped considerably. What should I do?

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okay, this is probably gonna be really really long. sorry! but bare with me if you’re whiling to help.

but, my boyfriend and i broke up about two weeks ago, and like 3 days ago, i got a text from my best friend, sha. he’s a guy, and we’ve been friends for a really long time. so anyway, he texted me and was like, "hey, i’m really bored, and i’m gonna drive by your house in a little bit, want me and my friend to pick you up?" and i was like, "yeah, come pick me up."

so i snuck out of my window. haha.
and when him and his friend picked me up, it was like, 12?
and i’ve never met matt before,
and when i saw him,
he was really really cute. (:
but then on the way to matts house,
matt pulls over and is like, "i need to tell you something."
and he turned around, and is like, "i’m married, and i have a kid. but my wife don’t care if i cheat."
and i’m like, "oh…umm…okay?"

but when we went to sha’s house,
we all sat on the couch and talked for an hour or so, then…
matt was like, "sha, may i kiss her? she’s just too cute not to kiss."
and i was like, "matt, you’re married!"
and then matt was like, "she don’t care though."
and then sha was like, "yeah, man." and we ended up makin’ out,
and then sha tries to join in!!!
and i stopped right there, because i never done anything like that,
and i’m NOT into that.

so then sha and matt took me home at about 4:30?
and i had to get ready for school,
so i went to school,
and then i get a text from sha that says, "hey, we’re havin’ a party tonight, wanna come?" and i was like, "yeah. pick me up after school."

so, they get me after school,
and when we get there,
matt keeps looking at me and is like, "come here." and i get up and he gets up and walks towards me and gives me a really big hug. and is like, "i wanna apologize for not giving you a hug last night."
and i was like, "awwh, it’s okay…"

so when all of sha and matt’s friends arrive,
matt keeps looking at me,
and when i look back, he turns away really fast.
and he found reasons to touch me,
and he came up once and put his arms around me while i was turned around,
and he whispered in my ear, "follow me."

so i turned around,
and we went in his room,
and he shut and locked the door,
and i was like, "yes?" lol.
he was like, "what? can i not invite you in my room to talk to you?"
so we lay on his bed for a while, and we start talking and stuff,
and i want to turn on the tv, so he hides the remote,
and he starts tickling me,
and then all of a sudden,
we look at each other and start makin’ out.

then we had sex… ):
and i feel really bad,
because i knew he was married,
but it was the heat of the moment,
and i really really like him.
he acts like he likes me too though…

but his wife is NEVER around.
or his baby for that fact…
so could he just be lying to me?
but i’m just so confused.
and last night before i left,
he kept hugging me and stuff,
and i thought he really liked me,
and now i’m really sad…

will someone tell me what to do…IN A NICE WAY?
please don’t leave me any comments saying that i’m a home wrecker or a whore or something.
i know what i did was wrong.

so please,
no mean comments, ok?

btw, he’s 18 and i’m 16.
so he’s not old. lmao.
just so you know.

thank you guys for helping me…
i really need some of your help.
i need to know what to do!
i’m really confused! ):

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Who obviously still loves his wife, but was only playing with you. Didn’t know the jerk was married. Fell for his a**, I poured out my heart to him only to find him leaving me w/o saying anything and later finding out he already has a wife.

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10 months later I STILL HAVE CONCERNS
I had read 6 different books including Michele’s d_busting. We never went to counseling. Back in August 9, 2008 I discovered 100’s of phone calls made from my wife cellular to the manager of the PX supermarket were she used to purchase our groceries. Right after I told her about my discover she asked me for divorce.I starting reading and reading and reading desperate to save my marriage . I extracted everything from 6 different books since not everything applied to our case. I did my investigative work with not too good results. I stoped "interrogating" my wife since she was planning to fleet. We had a mix of miserable and wonderful days together.
10 months later I continue with the investigation and guess what…I found out that I was chasing the wrong OM and I called the "wrong" OMW back in Octuber last year…(sh#!@). I was close but it wasn’t enough.
Today. I know exactly who is the OM. I know the name of the OMW. They have apparently have a "happy" family. Both of them are going thru a second marriage. I told my wife from the begining that she was dealing with a married man. She didn’t believed me. She said the OM told her he was divorced and that he lived alone in an apartment. Guess what…they live in a house 7 miles from our house and the guy is the manager of a local PX supermarket.

My concern: I haven’t prove it yet but I believed they started the telephone convertations after this guy was promoted and transfered from the px supermarket close to our house to a supermarket 20 miles from us in June 2007. I tracked (gps) her once in Octuber last year after the Discovery day and I was able to confirm this. Now, yesterday I confirmed that this guy was transfered to a PX supermarket closer to our house. My wife is totally unaware of this situation. I entered the supermarket and I saw his picture hanging on the wall "store manager". My concern is: my wife sometimes goes to this supermarket. If she discover the guy is there something may happen. So far she hasn’t promise me she will not see this guy again. I’m confuse. Everything in our marriage looks so far so good but I feel unconfortable with this asshole now to close to us. I don’t know if should go to his work place and warn this guy about what could happens if I discover another phone call in my wife cell, or maybe I should treat him to let his wife know everything about his affair with my wife. That could start another problem that I can not afford at this point. I feel like I want "revenge". All the miserable days this guy made me go through but at the same time I realize that if my wife knows that I’m following this guy she may be not too happy. I also discovered that this guy launch his boat at the same marina we launch our boat.
After 10 months of hard work to get to were we are, to a point that it looks like a "permanent" honeymoon. I’m still affraid to blow it. Please somebody help me. I need feedback. For the last 2 days I haven’t been able to sleep well again. I’m having dreams about fighting with this guy. Even when I’m awake I feel like going to his place and tell what a piece a Jerk he is. Even I’m thinking about telling his wife. I know that even tho 10 months has passed it isn’t enough to cool down. I think if I ever get close this guy I will kick his ass or it could even be worse. I still don’t know. I feel unconfortable now that I know the OM is around. Need feedback
After 29 years married it’s difficult to think about divorce. My wife and me dicided not to talk about this anymore an continue we our lives. Actually we are having a better time together, thanks God. I admitted I had some problems and believe me I’m working hard to solve them. We dicided not to divorce. There is only one proble and thatis that my wife does want to answer all my questions. I pray to God every day and I believe he will change her heart and surprisily she will come to me and ask for an appology. Only after that I will be in peace. But I can’t ask for an appology. I think it will take time. I did emotionally abandon her to engage in internet chating. I confesed to her that I wasted a year in this f*&king Internet.

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I didn’t know he was married, thought he was in love with me, but apparently not. Now he’s playing with another woman or two. How do I get back at him for breaking my heart? I want to or want someone to teach him a lesson.

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I just told me self-destructive finance of 2 years that "I will not take your drama into 2009" and ended the relationship right after christmas. I am slowly recovering like the average person, but I when I think about the behaviors I tolerated it makes me so angry that I feel like I’m having a stroke!!!

I often found myself crawled up in my bed with high anxiety because he was always on the path of self destruction and always failing things and calling me to poor out his failures on.

I saw him through Irag and the torment that came with knowing something could happened to him, as well as him calling and telling me of casualties, even crying sometimes. When he got home he saw everybody exept me for 2 months and rationalized it as him trying to stay away from me so that he does not hurt me in anyway due to post-traumatic stress….

He relocated and moved in with another female soldier while I was away in grad school and never told me until I wanted to come down and visit after my semester was over. They both got on the phone and told me they were not together, although he confessed to sleeping with her and she was pregnant with a married man’s child. When I walked away from that situation, he along with his mother begged to give him another chance. I took him back when asked me to marry him, then called the wedding off 1 month before and said that he had financial problems, after I already paid for everything

He would call me all the time after that to say that he was broke and that he was planning on killing himself and that I was the only one he kept him going without suicidal thoughts.

He never knew how to spend the money he made. Most recently, I got a call at work from him saying: "this is it, I’m going to end it!!…the navy just found out that I had been lying on my application and now they are taking me to jail…go on with ya life" 2 weeks later, he called me and said that they decided to drop the charges and that he loves me sooo much.

I have been a strong woman, but this one has broken me down…how can I recover?

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Fell for him and he broke my heart. Turns out he’s happily married. A$$hole. I have a few ideas in my head, but I don’t even think they will do any justice. I just want to hurt or humiliate him like he hurt me. I would tell his wife, but I have no proof to show her either.

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If you are unlikely enough to find yourself in a relationship with a married man, you might be asking yourself the following: “will he really leave her for me?”.

What you need to understand is that men don’t leave their wives.  It’s true, married men rarely leave their wives for their mistresses.  And to be honest, even if he did, why would you want a man who is a cheater?

Woman are compassionate, loving, forgiving, kind, and sometimes very gullible.  You might think he’ll leave his wife because she’s old, fat, mean, stupid, nuts, controlling, etc.  And maybe she is, but the truth is she’s probably none of these things, after all why would he have married her if she was?  It’s much more likely that he’s just bored and you’re a convenient distraction.

Few women would knowingly start a relationship with a married man if he started talking about what a sexy and wonderful person his wife was, so as hard as it is to believe married men will often lie so that you can justify having sex with him.

The reasons men cheat usually come down to the fact that their marriage has gotten stale and one or more of his needs (not just sexually) are not being met to his satisfaction.  That’s the same reason women cheat too.

The problem is that at the end of the day he probably still has feelings for his wife or at least doesn’t want to go through the expense of a divorce.  You also have to take into consideration the way both sides of his family will react, and if there are kids involved most men are unwilling to hurt their own children.

If you are a women who is involved with a married man and want to know why men don’t leave their wives there can be many reasons.  The important thing to remember is that it really doesn’t matter why he won’t leave, it only matters that you know he probably won’t leave his wife and he’s not much of a prize even if he did.

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Question~ "Why is it that Catholic doctrine states the Pope is infallible"

God says "It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in MAN"
Psalm 118:8

"As it is written, There is NONE righteous, NO NOT ONE:"
Romans 3:10

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Question~ "Why does Catholic doctrine state that Peter was the first Pope"

God says "And when Jesus was come into Peter’s house, he saw HIS WIFE’S MOTHER laid, and sick of a fever."
Matthew 8:14

The Bible is very plain here. It easily states that Peter had a wife that had a mother that was ill. Notice the next verse… Matthew 8:15 "And he touched her hand, and the fever left her: and she arose, and ministered unto them." Jesus not only met Peter’s mother-in-law, He HEALED her, so she could cook for Him.

God says "And he arose out of the synagogue, and entered into *Simon’s house. And SIMON’S WIFE’S mother was taken with a great fever; and they besought him for her."
Luke 4:38

*Notice that Simon and Peter are the same person. Matthew 4:18 says… "And Jesus, walking by the sea of Galilee, saw two brethren, Simon called Peter and Andrew his brother…" Jesus was actually the one who gave Simon the name Peter. In Matthew 16:18 Jesus says… "And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it." Simon-Peter was indeed an Apostle of our Lord as well as a married man.

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Question~ "If Peter’s a Pope, than how is it he was married? doesn’t Catholic doctrine forbid marriage?"

God says "A BISHOP then must be blameless, the HUSBAND OF ONE WIFE, vigilant, sober, of good behavior, given to hospitality, apt to teach;"
1Timothy 3:2

According to Strong’s Concordance, A Bishop is defined as an OVERSEER or PASTOR (Strong’s # 1984) Would not the Pope be considered an Overseer or Pastor of the Catholic church? Why then does Catholic doctrine forbid marriage when the Bible states that it is ok to be married, if not preferred.

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Question~ "Why does Catholic doctrine require one to repeat certain prayers while saying the rosary"

God says "But when ye pray, use not VAIN REPETITIONS, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking"
Matthew 6:7

I use to pray the entire rosary every single day. That’s 45 minutes of repeating the same prayers over and over again while meditating on the Lord and His Five Joyful Mysteries… Five Sorrowful Mysteries… and The Five Glorious Mysteries. This is indeed vain repetitions without a doubt.

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Question~ "Why does Catholic doctrine state that Jesus had no brothers and sisters, and that Mary was a virgin until her death"

God says "Is not this the carpenter’s son? is not his mother called Mary? and his BRETHREN, James, and Joses, and Simon, and Judas? And his SISTERS, are they not all with us? Whence then hath this man all these things?"
Matthew 13:55-56

This verse confirms people in Jesus’ home town that watched Jesus grow up from a young man helping His father in his trade as a carpenter, to doing great miracles right before their eyes. They remembered Jesus lived there as well as the fact that He had four brothers. PLUS they still have Jesus’ SISTERS living among them. How many sisters did Jesus have? The Bible doesn’t say. Why are they still living there? Did they get married and settled down in their home town to raise a family? It makes no difference. The fact is the Bible accurately records that Mary had many children.

God says "While he yet talked to the people, behold, his mother and his BRETHREN stood without, desiring to speak with him. Then one said unto him, Behold, thy mother and thy BRETHREN stand without, desiring to speak with thee. But he answered and said unto him that told him, Who is my mother? and who are my BRETHREN? and he stretched forth his hand TOWARD HIS DISCIPLES, and said behold my mother and my BRETHREN!
Matthew 12:46-50

Many teachers of Catholic doctrine believe that Jesus called only those that believed in Him His brethren. Did you notice the statement made to Jesus BEFORE He calls all in the room His brethren. A person comes to Jesus to tell Him that His mother and brethren are out side waiting on Him. Jesus took this opportunity to illustrate to the believers (disciples) and apostles in the room that THEY are considered brethren now because they believe in Him. Jesus actually says in Matthew 19:29 "And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name’s sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life." This verse is for believers that have to deal with unbelievers close to them. Does this verse not show Jesus calling those people that are not believers BRETHREN as well? It is no different than today, people from all walks of life call there fellow man brothers or sisters. What of the term, brothers in crime? And yes, just like back then, we have brothers and sisters in Jesus. Just because Jesus explained that if they believe in Him they become His brethren, does not say that Jesus denied His siblings. He just gained more brethren on this day.

God says "And when they were come in, they went up into an upper room, where abode both Peter, and James, and John, and Andrew, Philip, and Thomas, Bartholomew, and Matthew, James the son of Alphaeus, and Simon Zelotes, and Judas the brother of James. These all continued with one accord in prayer and supplication, with the women, and Mary the mother of Jesus, and WITH HIS BRETHREN.
Acts 1:13-14

These verses are now calling the Apostles by name, and then Mary the mother of Jesus with His brethren are now mentioned. Are not all in the upper room Brethren? Yes they are, it’s just illustrated here that Jesus’ Mother and siblings are in the room as well. What better way to illustrate the fact that Jesus has an earthly family as well as His Church family. Think about it, all the Apostles are mentioned by name, THEN Mary and the BRETHREN of Jesus are mentioned. Is this an attempt to show the two types of brethren? Indeed it is.

God says "After these things Jesus walked in Galilee: for he would not walk in Jewry, because the Jews sought to kill him. Now the Jews’ feast of tabernacles was at hand. His brethren therefore said unto him, Depart hence, and go into Judaea, that thy disciples also may see the works that thou doest. For [there is] no man [that] doeth any thing in secret, and he himself seeketh to be known openly. If thou do these things, shew thyself to the world. For neither did his brethren believe
in him."
John 7:1-5

This I must concede is my favorite verse on this subject. How can it not be realized that "His brethren" here is BLUNTLY speaking of siblings? The argument is mute for those that would claim, "brethren" = "disciple" as well. How? The BRETHREN in this passage are telling Jesus to be on His way and go perform His miracles so that His "DISCIPLES" will see it "For neither did his brethren believe in him."

God says "But other of the apostles saw I none, save James THE LORD’S BROTHER."
Galatians 1:19

How blunt can you get? Is this not an obvious verse? We found earlier in Matthew 13:55 that one of Jesus’ brothers was named James, and here we see James is mentioned again as The Lord’s Brother. By the way, this is the same James that was inspired by God to write the book of James in the New Testament.

God says "And he knew her not till she had brought forth her FIRSTBORN son: and he called his name JESUS."
Matthew 1:25

Did you notice that the Bible calls Jesus the firstborn son of Mary? Why would the infallible Word of God call Jesus the Firstborn if He is supposed to be the last-born, as well as the one and only son of Mary? According to Catholic doctrine this can’t be. But I ask, how can Catholic doctrine call Mary a virgin until death when the Bible states the exact opposite numerous times?

Notice the word "till" in the above verse? The verse preceding this one tells us that "Joseph being raised from sleep did as the angel of the Lord had bidden him, and took unto him his wife: And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son:" [Matthew 1:24,25] It seems rather plain. Joseph went ahead and did as the Angel told him to and married Mary. Then we see the Bible tells us Joseph "waited" to consummate the marriage "till she had brought forth her firstborn son" This easily proves Mary was no virgin. It is easy to say that her "firstborn" actually means she had MORE. And that declares openly that she had children other than Jesus..

On more obvious note to ponder… As blessed and loved as Mary was of God, do you honestly believe that the Almighty would punish her with a barren womb after submitting to His will and having His Son? Remember that it was considered a blessing to have children back then, unlike todays society with their millions of self centered flesh pleasing abortions. PLUS, would it not be considered sin on Mary’s part to DENY Joseph’s carnal desires towards his wife? Is it not written.. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5, "Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency."

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Question~ "Why does Catholic doctrine teach "purgatory -or- limbo" when the bible makes absolutely no mention of it at all"

God says "And beside all this, between us and you there is A GREAT GULF FIXED: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence."
Luke 16:26

The Bible says plainly that there is a Great Gulf Fixed between Heaven and hell. Those in Heaven cannot visit nor even see those in hell. And those in hell can in no way leave from their eternal punishment of death. (More on this later)

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Question~ "Why are there statue’s everywhere of one form or another in the Catholic church"

God says "Thou shalt not make unto thee ANY graven image, or ANY likeness of ANYTHING that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth."

Exodus 20:4 (this also happens to be *COMMANDMENT #2)

God says "I am the Lord: that is my name: and my glory will I not give to another, neither my praise to GRAVEN IMAGES."
Isaiah 42:8

God says "Forasmuch then as we are the offspring of God, we ought not to think that the Godhead is like unto gold, or silver, or stone, GRAVEN by art and man’s device."
Acts 17:29

There is one thing I have noticed since becoming a true child of the One and Only Ever Living God of the ages. Whenever I walk into a Catholic church I see a dead Jesus on the cross, or a see a helpless baby Jesus in the arms of His very much alive human mother. He is depicted as being unable to help us in any situation. But when I see Mary, Joseph, Anthony, or any of the other statues of Saints, they appear very much alive and able to help. (More on this later)

*Notice that Commandment # 2 has actually been deleted from Catholic doctrine, you can find this evidence in the current day text of the Saint Joseph’s Catechism.

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Question~ "Baptism is undergone by BELIEVERS…Why does Catholic doctrine teach to baptize infants when they can make no rational decisions for themselves."

God says "And as they went on their way, they came unto a certain water: and the eunuch said, See here is water; what doth hinder me to be baptized? *And Philip said, IF THOU BELIEVEST with all thine heart, thou mayest. And he answered and said, I BELIEVE that Jesus Christ is the Son of God. And he commanded the chariot to stand still: and THEY went down both into the water, BOTH Philip and the eunuch; and he baptized him."
Acts 8:36-38

*Notice that in the Catholic Bible this verse is missing altogether. Also notice that the Bible records verse number 36… and then skips right to verse 38. Even the number "37" has been removed. The reason the Catholic church removed this verse from their Bible is mainly because this verse proves that a person must first BELIEVE that Jesus is the Son of God BEFORE being baptized. An infant cannot make this statement, so rather than change their doctrine, they try and change the Bible to save face. Didn’t they know that God’s children would find out about this? Obviously not. (More on this later)

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Question~ "How can Catholic doctrine state that people receive the Holy Spirit during confirmation"

God says "Then Peter said unto them, REPENT, and be BAPTIZED every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall RECEIVE the GIFT OF THE HOLY GHOST."
Acts 2:38

Seems rather plain what the order of events are here. REPENT… be BAPTIZED… and then RECEIVE the gift of the Holy Ghost. Now it is true that all Catholic children are baptized at infancy, this is most definitely before confirmation. However, how is it possible for the Catholic receiving confirmation to ever gone into repentance before baptism? An infant cannot do this, plain and simple. It is impossible to effectively baptize a person without their consent, let alone their knowledge. Do you remember being baptized? I don’t remember, nor do I recall repenting before being baptized. So how is it possible for me to receive the gift of the Holy Ghost at confirmation when I didn’t follow the method God’s Word stipulates as the order of events needed for reception?

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Question~ "Why does Catholic doctrine acknowledge confession of sins to a priest"

God says "My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an ADVOCATE with the Father, JESUS CHRIST THE RIGHTEOUS: And HE is the propitation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world."
1John 2:1-2

Jesus is the "propitation for our sins" because by becoming our substitute and assuming our obligations he absolved our guilt, and covered it, by the vicarious, or substituted punishment which He endured for all of us. In others words, Jesus is the reconciliation for our sins.

God says "Why doth this man thus speak blasphemies? who can forgive sins but GOD ONLY?"
Mark 2:7

It is absolutely impossible for man to forgive man for sins committed against God. Think about that for a moment and notice the simplicity of truth in Scripture.

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Question~ "Why does Catholic doctrine state that the priest must sacrifice Jesus daily during the mass"

God says "Who needeth not daily, as those high priests, to offer up sacrifice, first for his own sins, and then for the people’s: for this HE DID ONCE, WHEN HE OFFERED UP HIMSELF."
Hebrews 7:27

God says "When Jesus therefore had received the vinegar, he said, IT IS FINISHED: and he bowed his head, and gave up the ghost."
John 19:30

God says "And every priest standeth daily ministering and offering oftentimes the same sacrifices, which can never take away sins: But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sins for ever, SAT DOWN on the right hand of God;"
Hebrews 10:11-12

When Jesus sat down at the right hand of God, He did something that is easily understood. He FINISHED what He came to do. In continuing with the daily sacrifice of the Catholic mass, the Catholic church is leading their worshippers into believing what Jesus did on the cross was insufficient. Catholic doctrine cannot change what the Scriptures record as the one and only answer to sin. As Hebrews 7:27 mentioned earlier, what Jesus did for us, "HE DID ONCE, WHEN HE OFFERED UP HIMSELF." Thank you Jesus!

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Question~ "Why is it written within Catholic doctrine that Mary is the Bright and Morning Star"

God says "I JESUS have sent mine angel to testify unto you these things in the churches. I am the root and the offspring of David, and the BRIGHT AND MORNING STAR."
Revelations 22,16

This particular doctrine of the Catholic church is one that makes no sense whatsoever. The reason I say that is the Bible actually names Jesus as the Bright and Morning Star in the last book of the Bible. It makes me wonder if there are any priests reading the Bible. This is so easily found to be a false doctrine on the last page of absolutely every Bible on planet earth. See for yourselves.

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Question~ "Why is it that the Catholic bible is the only bible to contain the additional books of the "Apocrypha" located just before the new testament, when not even the original manuscripts of the bible contain such books. PLUS Neither Jesus OR his Disciples EVER quoted from it?"

God says "As we said before, so say I now again, If any man preach ANY other gospel unto you than that ye have received, LET HIM BE ACCURSED."
Galatians 1:9

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Question~ Why is it written on PAGE 346 of the VATICAN II COUNCIL that, "Christ’s Catholic church ALONE which is the ALL EMBRACING MEANS OF SALVATION"

(by the way… this book can be found in your local library!)

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Question~ "Why is it printed on the back of scapular’s…"If the wearer of this scapular shall die, he-or-she shall be SAVED from the eternal flames of hell"

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Question~ "Why does the Catholic doctrine call Mary Co-Redeemer -or- Co-Savior"

God says "Be it known unto you all, and to all the people of Israel, that by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom ye crucified, whom God raised from the dead, even by him doth this man stand here before you whole. Neither is there salvation in ANY other: for there is NONE OTHER NAME under heaven given among men, whereby WE MUST BE SAVED"
Acts 4:10,12

A rather plain and easily un-oppinionated verse, is it not?

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Question~ "Why does Catholic doctrine teach their parishioners to pray to dead saint’s"

God says "Jesus saith unto him, I AM THE WAY, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, BUT BY ME.
John 14:6 (More on this later)

PLEASE!

"Understand, I have not written this document to anger you. I write it because I am convinced, MOST faithful and loyal Roman Catholic’s aren’t aware of these particular FACTS"

FOR, GOD ALSO SAYS…

Now the SPIRIT SPEAKETH EXPRESSLY, that in the LATTER TIMES some shall DEPART FROM THE FAITH, giving heed to SEDUCING SPIRITS, and DOCTRINES OF DEVILS; Speaking LIES in HYPOCRISY; having their conscience seared with a hot iron; FORBIDDING TO MARRY, and COMMANDING TO ABSTAIN FROM MEATS, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which BELIEVE and KNOW THE TRUTH.
1Timothy 4:1-3

Having a FORM of godliness, but DENYING the power thereof: from such TURN AWAY.
1Timothy 3:5

For I bear them record that they HAVE A ZEAL FOR GOD, but NOT according to knowledge. For they being IGNORANT of GOD’S RIGHTEOUSNESS, and going about to establish their OWN RIGHTEOUSNESS, have NOT submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God.
Romans 10:1-3

BEWARE lest any man spoil you through PHILOSOPHY and VAIN DECEIT, after the TRADITION of men, after the rudiments OF THE WORLD, and NOT after Christ.
Colossians 2,8

But in vain they do worship me, teaching FOR doctrines the COMMANDMENTS OF MEN. Let them alone: they be BLIND LEADERS OF THE BLIND, both shall fall into the ditch.
Matthew 15:9,14

And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, COME OUT OF HER, MY PEOPLE, THAT YE BE NOT PARTAKERS OF HER SINS, AND THAT YE RECEIVE NOT OF HER PLAGUES.
Revelations 18:4

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Often, a woman focuses on raising children for a time or a man has a stressful career. Many people take a back seat to their relationship in an effort to focus on the children or career. If you are a married man or woman, what did you do to get back in the groove?

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She left me. What can I do? I am so lonley. I gave up all my mates for this woman, we married at 19, ( now 42) lived together, mostly for each other and Kids, have few married freinds, no singles. I am so lonley at the moment, just want to be loved and to take care of someone. How can I get out of this rut ?. Would love for wife to come back but looks very unlikley at this stage.
I don’t know were I went wrong in the marriage, still have to work that one out. But she left me for another married man, who also left his wife and kids. Hope they don’t last together.

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How do I get over my married lover?

I had an affair with a married man almost 3 yrs. ago that lasted about a year. I fell head over heels in love with him and I told him so.

He was the best thing that has ever happened to me. I told him many times that I loved him and he in return told me he loved me. I told him that I was leaving my husband for him and he told me that I could do whatever I wanted to do, but he was not leaving his wife, he loved her.

I want him back so freakin bad, and I have been trying everything to get him to realize that he loved me.

I even told his wife tht he talks to me and tht we were still seeing each other, but I guess tht didn’t work, because he is still with her. I just want all the stuff that he did with me back. He was so sweet and kind and everything that I wanted in a man.

He told me in Nov. 07 that he didn’t want to see me anymore, and that he didn’t want me to call him again, but I did, several times after my Dad died, I just wanted to see him and get one of his hugs. But, he told me that he didn’t want to see me.

I guess that he does love his wife, because whenever I see them togehter they seem to be very happy and loving.

he knows about the affair,(I told her) but she still is with him. I want him back so bad and will do anything to get him back. How can I make him realize just how much he means to me and how much I love him?

He will not answer any of my calls.

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