First off i Would like to say this is the first time I am posting on this forum site, so i hope that i get this right.
To get started I was injured at my job on Mon. feb 22, 2010. I was lifting a 70 lb. peice of metal and as I was picking it up I sneezed.(I know sneezed but it happened) It hurt like all hell laid on the ground for about half an our let my boss know, who by the way did NOT file an injury report, and woke up the next morning not able to roll out of bed. Then when I was finally able to reach for my phone,3 hours later, called the shop supervise, who is above my boss, and told him what happened asked if i should make a doctors appointment for go to a chiropractor that day so I could get a note. He told me to go the the chiropractor, so I did and it cost me because they did not take insurance…. First mistake I guess… So, she told me that I tweaked my back and to take the rest of the week off. In the mean time I was talking with my parents and they told me to make an appointment with my doctor so I did for the following Tues. and used up all of my holiday pay for those couple of days. Then my doctor tells me that I have severe back spasms and a possible ruptured disc he per scribed me a tone of pills, 4 every 6 hours, but he also told me that I need to talk to the owner and tell him since I was injured at work I have 45 days to file a claim. I talked to the owner the next day on wed. and he told me to go to their doctor on thurs. That doctor told me the exact same thing that my doctor said and they told me to take a bunch more pills, another 4 every 6 hours. So, at one point I was taking upwards of 16 pills a day. So they told me to come back next thurs and I did, they gave me an ex ray and said you still have the severe back spasms and my need an MRI later. Then, my Workman’s comp insurance handler calls me takes my information and tells me that I can not go to their doctor anymore I have to go to another doctor that’s an hour away, verses 10 minutes and by the way they were both the exact same company centegra… ugh… I received a check from the insurance company from the 2/23/10-3/8/10. I continued to see their doctors and they keep telling me that I need physical therapy. Neither my nor the doctors have been able to get a hold of my case manager who never meet her commitment that she said on her voice mail, which was to contact me back by 3:30 the same day i left the messages. In the mean time I moved my motorcycle five feet so i could get my garbage cans out the door and it killed my back. I told my doctor this and she wrote it down and told me not to do it again. So we Finlay hear from Workmans comp that I could start physical therapy on, get this 4/10/2010. Over a month later. So, I have been doing that from now until last week when my Therapist told me that Workman’s comp denied my claim. I called them up and the case manager said that she dined it because if I was well enough to move my bike I was well enough to go back to work. both the therapists and THEIR doctor said that was bs. oh did i mention that I haven’t gotten any money since that first check!!!! I have just recently contacted a lawyer and he is working to get me what they owe me and so i can go back to therapy.
So, in all im broke behind on my rent, car, car insurance, bike insurance, phone bill, utility bills, credit cards, and over drawn on my savings account. I have no idea what my next step is and can I hit these guys so hard that they wont think about discontinuing someones claim before contacting anyone!!!!!!!
Forgot to mention a couple of things I had to drop my dental, short term disability and life insurance because I can not afford the every 2 weeks and can not get them through my work again until next Jan.
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Allrite, here is some advice that may help. Discalimer: Things can be different with every person…..read this story to see how i did it then ill give tips.
Me and my ex were in love and dated 6 months, we drifted apart and she started liking this guy she dated 2 times in the past. She started dating him. He was still the jerk he always was even tho he said he changed and she thought he did. He still plays people cuz hes a heartless jerk. But he cheated on her after like a week and a half. Well after that happened we started talking more and slowly working things out. Well she barely had a connection with me or was attached to me and still kinda liked this Dante kid cuz shes more physically attracted to him than anything. Well she is dome with his crap she tries to stay away from him and shes back with me, we are closer than ever. We are pretending like we didnt break up for a month cuz we dont wanna start over and stuff….But things are pretty good with us. There has been a little drama and its been a little hard at a couple times cuz of Dante and stuff…..this Dante kid has been trying to get her to like him again and hes been a dick to her tho on and off….shes sick of him and basically he is causing drama by talking crap about me and trying to fite me, and she dont wanna see us fite. So she felt in the middle cuz of him….but I told him to back off and stop, shes no longer worried about it. She said she wants to be with me and ework things out with me and that this summer will be way better cuz we wont have to put up with the high school bs and im graduating and shell be in school still, itll make it easier cuz we wont be stuck in the same school with dumb drama. But she loves me again and its going really good and i love her….we learned things we need to change from the past to make it better.
TIPS:Don’t give up, Don’t be too pushy give them some space….in the mean time fix things about yerself like work out lose weight get a job get a car dress better (i did things like this and i feel way better and i lost 20 lbs. She used to feel like I was too needy but Im not anymore I learned to have a little independece), dont depend on her or NEED her, love her, be there for her, even if she doesn’t like you that much just be there for her especially when other people aren’t then shell realize you really care, work on things that maybe bothered her before, let things be on her terms until shes ready to commit, she needs space and she is the only person who can truly control that space so give it to her. Don’t take things too fast when u get back together, have discussion on what things to change and just how u both feel about yer relationship and how you will handle different situations. One last tip, if you violate her space or things start to go wrong then back off and give her time to think (if you dont think about it and try not to care so much and to not worry and most likely things will turn out.)
It took alot of work to get my ex back, but that jerk is out of the picture, she loves me and wants to be with me and trusts me completely….even when things were really bad, they. If you wanna get someone back then dont give up, follow yer heart and u can listen to advice but go truly with what your heart wants you to.
I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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Allrite, here is some advice that may help. Discalimer: Things can be different with every person…..read this story to see how i did it then ill give tips.
Me and my ex were in love and dated 6 months, we drifted apart and she started liking this guy she dated 2 times in the past. She started dating him. He was still the jerk he always was even tho he said he changed and she thought he did. He still plays people cuz hes a heartless jerk. But he cheated on her after like a week and a half. Well after that happened we started talking more and slowly working things out. Well she barely had a connection with me or was attached to me and still kinda liked this Dante kid cuz shes more physically attracted to him than anything. Well she is dome with his crap she tries to stay away from him and shes back with me, we are closer than ever. We are pretending like we didnt break up for a month cuz we dont wanna start over and stuff….But things are pretty good with us. There has been a little drama and its been a little hard at a couple times cuz of Dante and stuff…..this Dante kid has been trying to get her to like him again and hes been a dick to her tho on and off….shes sick of him and basically he is causing drama by talking crap about me and trying to fite me, and she dont wanna see us fite. So she felt in the middle cuz of him….but I told him to back off and stop, shes no longer worried about it. She said she wants to be with me and ework things out with me and that this summer will be way better cuz we wont have to put up with the high school bs and im graduating and shell be in school still, itll make it easier cuz we wont be stuck in the same school with dumb drama. But she loves me again and its going really good and i love her….we learned things we need to change from the past to make it better.
TIPS:Don’t give up, Don’t be too pushy give them some space….in the mean time fix things about yerself like work out lose weight get a job get a car dress better (i did things like this and i feel way better and i lost 20 lbs. She used to feel like I was too needy but Im not anymore I learned to have a little independece), dont depend on her or NEED her, love her, be there for her, even if she doesn’t like you that much just be there for her especially when other people aren’t then shell realize you really care, work on things that maybe bothered her before, let things be on her terms until shes ready to commit, she needs space and she is the only person who can truly control that space so give it to her. Don’t take things too fast when u get back together, have discussion on what things to change and just how u both feel about yer relationship and how you will handle different situations. One last tip, if you violate her space or things start to go wrong then back off and give her time to think (if you dont think about it and try not to care so much and to not worry and most likely things will turn out.)
It took alot of work to get my ex back, but that jerk is out of the picture, she loves me and wants to be with me and trusts me completely….even when things were really bad, they. If you wanna get someone back then dont give up, follow yer heart and u can listen to advice but go truly with what your heart wants you to.
I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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Well my Ex recently asked to be just friends. I have taken advice from several on-line sources and friends that I should cut all communications and phone calls with him. But he still has the idea that we are just friends, so he would still chat, call me and ask me for favors. We still live together, so that’s why this separation has been difficult, i made up my mind to only be there when he’s not there for the sake of our 2 dogs, and live at my mom’s when he’s there. Anyway, after not talking him or seeing him for 2 days, he decides to call me or text me ask me to look for something on the computer while he’s at work, then when I didn’t do it right away, he text back saying never mind, don’t know why i bother. Then he calls me like 4 hours later, I didn’t pick up. I later on text him and said: Listen I need some time, and some space from you. It is very hard if you are still texting me and calling me. I have accepted our breakup, and respect your decision, let’s try to talk again in a month, in the mean time, please leave your bill money, I will come and get it when you’re not there. He quickly responds and says so you found someone, I thought we were going to be cool, I thought you were going to lend me the car if I needed to." So then i replied, that I haven’t found anyone, I think we need to keep our distance b/c I am no longer your girlfriend, and not someone for your to call when you need a favor and nothing else, and would need some time to become your friend again. He replies back, yes he understands and respects that. My question is, what if my ex calls again, and need a favor or just making small talk, what should I really say? and not say? because I still want him back. 
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ok my big issue is my sons mother has left because of anger through out our relationship and how i am as a person she said she has feelings for me and always will but because ihow i am in a relationship she dont think i would change which im trying to prove to her other wise i try telling her she says she dont believe me and that she is talking to 3 other guys one she did something with and another kissed and lies about even talking to guys in general she has my son and is hiding from me wont let me see him and she kissed this one guy in front of my son i also told her i was talking to a couple girls she acted upset and stated its unfair that i can talk to guys but she cantso i know she cares she even says she cares and loves me but not sure about in a relationship she is playing around cause she ahs soo much anger towards me i need to talk to her in person just oncei think and i had inside info but the people are now mad cause i confronted my ex about it which she obvioulsy denied and got off the phone real fast and so she is in a shelter cause she filed a order of protection against me which i have a really good lawyer now but problem is i want my son court is not till feb 22nd and i have hardly seen my son i have not seen him in 3 weeks and she is stating she can non let me have him till court and its BS and now i have not much to go on cause i am basically looking to see how i can get her to come back cause she has thought about it alot she said and she doesnt not think im goingo to change i want to get her to stop talking to other people in the mean time cause she stated i would have to changed in order for her to even think about coming back to me and i am changing so how can i get her to come back and believe me and stop this mess i am willing to forgive her i love her soooo much i need all the help i can get right now
the court order she filed was because i kept on asking her to think about things and just basically harassment as she put it so nothing bad i did not abuse i would never do that and there has been alot going she says i need to see change in you josh before i can think about comeing back to you and i am changing i need to get her to believe me
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