what should i do to win my ex girlfriend back?

before you read my long question i would like to say i will answer yours in response to you answering mine!
so i broke up with her on the 15th. i broke her heart after 1 year. she met a guy later that week and he gave her comfort and what i had given her. i know this bc she told me. i went to her house on the 31st and we talked for several hours and she said she cared about me and still liked me if i had came back around the 23 or so we would be back together. so we both cried, hugged and i left.

i visisted her the 4th also , we talked and i let her drive my car home from dairyqueen, (she has never drove it and always has wanted too) we talked i chatted with her mom and everything was good. i left with just a handshake. i figured it would make her want something more or make her mind wonder why no hug.

then today the 5th she came to myhouse we ate dinner and went to my familys house, my ex, my sister and me had a great time and we got close on some occasions and we also ate and drank after eachother, which i know was a good sign. i went to her house and stayed there with my sister for a while, however she was txting someone and i know it might have been that guy. when i left though i hugged her, she wasnt pressured and hugged back and held there not letting go fast.

i know in her room she still has pics of us up and some stuffed animals and trinkets where they always are still in place. so i know she hasnt thrown us completely away. she told me we would be best friends on the 31st and she didnt even think that guy and her would last long, she wouldnt thereticly break up w/ him cuzz she said she never would and it was taste of my own medicine.

now if this guy knew what me and her have been doing the past few days he prob call her a bitc# or sumthing. and i know he doesnt know whats she up too.

Do you think she will ever get back with me or is this guy going to take her away? and yes i know this is a rebound relationship and hes ugly as hell in my opinion. even her sister said so lmao

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also i am like a brother to her youger brother, my sister is best friends to her and my dad is a fatherly figure to her the past year since her dad passed away 3 years ago.
i know we can be best friends , she acts like we could be more i swear but i think she afraid to break the ice again bc of this guyfriend and doesnt want to hurt him now. do you think if i c her on superbowl sunday at her house and kiss her this may spark our relationship back, i know its a long shot but it would either drive us away indefinately or bring us together even more



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before you read my long question i would like to say i will answer yours in response to you answering mine!
so i broke up with her on the 15th. i broke her heart after 1 year. she met a guy later that week and he gave her comfort and what i had given her. i know this bc she told me. i went to her house on the 31st and we talked for several hours and she said she cared about me and still liked me if i had came back around the 23 or so we would be back together. so we both cried, hugged and i left.

i visisted her the 4th also , we talked and i let her drive my car home from dairyqueen, (she has never drove it and always has wanted too) we talked i chatted with her mom and everything was good. i left with just a handshake. i figured it would make her want something more or make her mind wonder why no hug.

then today the 5th she came to myhouse we ate dinner and went to my familys house, my ex, my sister and me had a great time and we got close on some occasions and we also ate and drank after eachother, which i know was a good sign. i went to her house and stayed there with my sister for a while, however she was txting someone and i know it might have been that guy. when i left though i hugged her, she wasnt pressured and hugged back and held there not letting go fast.

i know in her room she still has pics of us up and some stuffed animals and trinkets where they always are still in place. so i know she hasnt thrown us completely away. she told me we would be best friends on the 31st and she didnt even think that guy and her would last long, she wouldnt thereticly break up w/ him cuzz she said she never would and it was taste of my own medicine.

now if this guy knew what me and her have been doing the past few days he prob call her a bitc# or sumthing. and i know he doesnt know whats she up too.

Do you think she will ever get back with me or is this guy going to take her away? and yes i know this is a rebound relationship and hes ugly as hell in my opinion. even her sister said so lmao

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* – 4 days left to answer.

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also i am like a brother to her youger brother, my sister is best friends to her and my dad is a fatherly figure to her the past year since her dad passed away 3 years ago.
i know we can be best friends , she acts like we could be more i swear but i think she afraid to break the ice again bc of this guyfriend and doesnt want to hurt him now. do you think if i c her on superbowl sunday at her house and kiss her this may spark our relationship back, i know its a long shot but it would either drive us away indefinately or bring us together even more



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so i broke up with her on the 15th. i broke her heart after 1 year. she met a guy later that week and he gave her comfort and what i had given her. i know this bc she told me. i went to her house on the 31st and we talked for several hours and she said she cared about me and still liked me if i had came back around the 23 or so we would be back together. so we both cried, hugged and i left.

i visisted her the 4th also , we talked and i let her drive my car home from dairyqueen, (she has never drove it and always has wanted too) we talked i chatted with her mom and everything was good. i left with just a handshake. i figured it would make her want something more or make her mind wonder why no hug.

then today the 5th she came to myhouse we ate dinner and went to my familys house, my ex, my sister and me had a great time and we got close on some occasions and we also ate and drank after eachother, which i know was a good sign. i went to her house and stayed there with my sister for a while, however she was txting someone and i know it might have been that guy. when i left though i hugged her, she wasnt pressured and hugged back and held there not letting go fast.

i know in her room she still has pics of us up and some stuffed animals and trinkets where they always are still in place. so i know she hasnt thrown us completely away. she told me we would be best friends on the 31st and she didnt even think that guy and her would last long, she wouldnt thereticly break up w/ him cuzz she said she never would and it was taste of my own medicine.

now if this guy knew what me and her have been doing the past few days he prob call her a bitc# or sumthing. and i know he doesnt know whats she up too.

Do you think she will ever get back with me or is this guy going to take her away? and yes i know this is a rebound relationship and hes ugly as hell in my opinion. even her sister said so lmao



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Hello, thanks for taking your time to read this. I’ll try to narrow it down as much as I can..

To be brief, we’ve been dating for almost two years. He broke up with my because I wanted more space and mentioned that I wanted to go casual (I know, dumb, you can’t go from serious to casual in a day) but we both didn’t drop it and we ended up "parting ways". I KNEW he was going to come back to me, so I let it be. So my girlfriends introduced me to guys, partied, etc, and I feel like I’m finding myself again. Being single isn’t so bad. I didn’t miss him, and people were worried (how I dealt with is so quickly), but happy that I’m moving on without heartache. To be honest, I’m not that strong.. i just tried to keep myself occupied and tried not to vent it out on people. It went fine for about a week. But lately he’s been contacting me, perhaps because I’m sick. The other day he gave me medicine and offered to go eat out, but I declined. I knew that we would both get touchy-touchy and I knew at the end of the day I’d regret doing it (It would feel like I was leading him on). However, the following day he contacts me telling me to come over, watch a movie, and eat with him.. But I broke it down to him that he can’t just pretend nothing happened even though we’ve only broken up for two weeks..It was truly heartbreaking how upset he sounded, but tried not to show it. The last thing he said to me was: "I’m sorry. It was a mistake."

Long story short, I find it hard to be alone because I miss him. But when I’m out during the weekends, I don’t miss him at all (And I’m guilty of this, because we’ve been going out for so long). I find it hard to get used to not talking to someone everyday at night, or receiving text messages..

He is a great, sensitive nice guy.. That’s all I can say. He’s never ever done anything to hurt me in the past, that why I can’t get over him as quickly as I should (even though he broke up with me). He’s my first true love and we shared the best moments of our life together..

So my question is, should I get back with him even if I don’t know what I want? It’s killing me inside knowing one foot is out the door, and the other one isn’t. I’m somewhere in between.. and I can’t make up my mind. My friends don’t really have any advice for me because they’ve never been in my position before.

Thanks a bunch…
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