Is there a “magic” recipe for a happy marriage? Well, the closest you can ever get is to search for the glue that is actually binding you together. That is advice given through the generations and like a lot of comments from older people, it is worth listening to.
Every relationship is different, as unique as the two people involved in it. Your mutual attraction, shared memories and lifestyle will help to keep you together and prevent you becoming yet another statistic. But you cannot afford to just sit back and assume that you will always be happy. Happy marriages take work. Couples need to realize that they must spend time on their relationship as well as time apart in order to stand the best chance of staying together.
People often make the mistake of putting their kids first all the time. While your children are important, the relationship between you their parents is equally so. What better example can you set your children than to have them growing up in a home where everyone is valued and their contribution to family life is appreciated. You want your kids to grow up knowing how to treat other people properly. They learn from example so be sure that the example you are giving them is the one you want them to follow.
In a happy relationship both parties know that the other person will always be there for them. This doesn’t mean that they will always take their side in an argument but that they will not be abusive or disparaging or disrespectful. You need to develop good listening skills – God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason. You need to learn to really listen to your partner and try to appreciate what they are saying to you. Poor communication does not result in you celebrating forty or fifty years of married bliss.
Spend time together – this seems like an obvious one but if you look back over the last month how much time have you two actually spent alone together. Staring at the TV screen every evening doesn’t count. If you have to put a time in the diary but make sure that you spend at least one evening every two weeks together enjoying quality time.
If your intimate relationship needs some work, don’t ignore it. Mutual attraction and lust played a huge part in you getting together in the first place. It is completely natural for the overwhelming urge to jump on each other to wear off but you should still find each other attractive. The good news is that the more you make love, the more your body will want it. Making love releases feel good chemicals and thus your body craves these good feelings. Even if you have to make a huge effort to get into the mood try and soon you may just find that it doesn’t take that much effort anymore!
Finding the right partner to spend the rest of your life with is difficult but it is easy compared to keeping your marriage on the right track. Don’t put your head in the sand. Follow guides like the M3 System and apply some of their teachings. You want a happy marriage? Search and apply the techniques that work for other people and you can be as happy as you wish.
Okay, any opinions on any type of songs about maybe a breakup or something? Missing your ex. wanting someone back. Still being inlove and losing that person forever. About memories. Somethin touchy. could be R&B, Country, Soft rock. anythingggg. Let me knowww, thanks (:
Ok so here in a week is me and my angels anniversary, i want to make a video for her of our memories and good times, i want to use a good song in the background, a song that will show her how much i love her, show her how special she is to me, and tell her my feelings for her, and a song thats sad but will mean alot to her and a song that might make her cry a little just cause she really loves it, something she will keep forever, ty in advance
Three years ago, I went out with a certain boy for about a year. After we finally broke up, we haven’t spoken since. However, I’ve been feeling a desire to talk to him again lately. I found his myspace, sent a friend request, and he added me. Then he sent me a message asking how I’ve been and what’s been going on in my life, if I am single, etc. He also asked for my screen name for AIM so I gave it to him. He i/med me not too shortly after and he was telling me about how he was looking at my pictures and how hott/beautiful I am and how he remembers that I’ve always been that way, and that he would really like to take me out on a date again. However, he also told me that he and his girlfriend of two years just recently broke up about a week ago. But then he also tells me he doesn’t know what he was thinking when he let me go, and that he never did forget about me, and he told me about all of the memories he had with me that he misses so much. There’s only one problem. He also says > "I’ve been trying so very hard to get my recent ex back into my life, but I’m just about over it, and about to just give up completely". I don’t know about that, but ever since I started talking to him again, I’ve been feeling like I really want him back. My question is > How do I get his mind off of his ex, and back onto me after all these years? How do I win him back? HELP!!! (Please be as detailed and descriptive as you possibly can to help)
I guess I need more detail. He said he’s almost over his ex but it’s going to take a while longer because he’s still so hurt from it all. So our whole "date" isn’t going to happen till he can get himself together again. He says we can hang out as friends for now, but he’s going to try not to "touch me" or show any affection or anything, like kissing or cuddling. My problem is, I WANT THAT. Now, how do I get it? How can I speed up the rate of him forgetting about his ex to be a little quicker, so we can pick up where we left off three years ago?
I have a set collection of poems from an ex girlfriend.
I also have a collection of nude photos of her.
she thinks its time for me to let go of the nude photos of her, because her and I aren’t together anymore, and the relationship is totally broken beyond repair. we are in different angles in our life, and the relationship is broken and cannot be fixed. she sees it as obsessive me keeping her photos, especially since I’m going to be dating other girls in the future, but I see it as my memories.
Is there a “magic” recipe for a happy marriage? Well, the closest you can ever get is to search for the glue that is actually binding you together. That is advice given through the generations and like a lot of comments from older people, it is worth listening to.
