My ex boyfriend broke up with me a few years back bc I got clingy with him and he couldn’t take it anymore. We started being "friends with benefits" but I couldn’t take doing that anymore, and then I met another guy. After that, I was out of my ex’s life for 2 years bc I eventually married the new guy. After two and a half years of marriage, I divorced my husband and contacted my ex. We met up again, chatted, became friends, and then ended up having sex, and have been "friends with benefits" for 5 months now.

I’m falling in love with him all over again and so I asked him if he still loved me. He told me that he loves me, cares about me a lot, and doesn’t want me out of his life… but that he is not IN love with me. And he added in that he gets very weak when he’s around me bc he’s very attracted to me, and that out of all the other girls he ever dated, he had the most fun with me, and thinks about all of our good times we had while we were dating. He even told me that he was upset that I moved on with my husband after he broke up with me bc (and I quote) "we would be married right now with two kids if I never left out his life and got married". But how was I supposed to know that he would’ve eventually gotten back together with me???

When I’m with him, I feel like he is IN love with me (and wants to be my boyfriend again) from the way he touches me (very softly and gently), and he lets me spend the night at his place (in the past when we were having casual sex, right after breaking up, he would make me go home after sex). Plus, sometimes, we spend hours on the phone talking and we enjoy each others conversations.

Do you think that later on down the road, through sex alone, that this guy’s mind may change and want to get back together with me? Does he still want me and doesn’t want to let on?

PS. When we were dating, he use to tell me that I was "the one". And he likes the fact that I’ve changed, bc I’m not clingy anymore. I grew up a lot. But he still told me he’s not ready for a relationship right now.

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I am in a happy, stable (semi open) marriage with my man. He allows me to date women. We have been together 10 years. He and I recently met/got to slightly know a woman who is SPECTACULAR! Since the minute we both met her (and each separately the first time) we conected with her on many levels, and she was very flirty with us sep and then together when we met up together. We both got an immediate bi or lesbian vibe from her. But then we found out she was married but yet she continues to exude a flirtatiousness with mostly me the woman. (less with him now) Soon we will be meeting HER husband as well and will be hanging out as a couple. I don’t think they are swingers but I can almost bet SHE is at least bi (or closeted). I am SOOOO attracted to her that I burst out of my skin when I think of her!!! And when she was in my presence those few times, I got the same kind of energy from her that she also loves being in my presence! I am almost certain I am not mistaken with these vibes, I am also pretty sure she knows I am bi bc its openly on my myspace profile as such and we are friends on there. We are going to start hanging out as 2 couples soon, and though I am happy to be ‘just friends’ with the couple, my crush will always shine thru I fear. How, if, or when should I tell or show her I am attracted to her? At some point I don’t mind risking rejection if I do make a move and she declines. Because I know we and I could still be friends even with the humiliation of being rejected lol, but she is SO worth the chance to find out! Last time we hung out with her, she was excited about drinking wine together. If we have wine again, and she continues to be flirty, and I continue to be attracted, should I use the wine to my advantage lol…! And how do I make a move? Ask first or try to be a little affectionate and see what happens? In the meantime, I can’t stop thinking about her. My husband thinks its so cute… I am lucky to have the relationship I have with him and I will never leave my man. But this woman is literally ONE in a million and I would love to nurture whatever special relationship/friendship I can with her. And, where does her hubby fit in all this? Also, I am in my 30s the woman in her late 40s thanks!
Not everyone views marriage as YOU people do. 65% of people cheat on their spouses. I really hoped that someone with an OPEN mind could have answered my question properly instead of judge me. And for the first 2 responders, for your info, we have brought other people in before with nothing but bliss and fun for all… you should try it sometime!

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ok – back in October I met a guy on an online dating website. About 3 weeks after we started talking, he had to go to the U.K. on business. As soon as he got home from there, we were finally going to meet. However, circumstances arose, and he had to go to Nigeria to be with his mom who was facing a major surgery. He called me up and was very upset. Long story short, I loaned him 00 to help with his moms surgery. One thing lead to the next, and teh next thing you know he said that if I could loan him enough money to come home that he would pay me back everything he owes me. So , then nice and trusting person I try to be, I sent him 00 for a plane ticket to come home. I asked him if he got his plane ticket, and he said he couldn’t get it because he had to pay his cell phone bill and his internet bill before they would let him leave the country – and his bills were totalling more than i sent him. I am starting to believe this is all a scam. I would like to know how I can get my money back and get it back as fast as possible. ANY AND ALL HELP WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. : I have learned my lesson about internet relationships now – so PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS PLEASE !!!!!

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I broke up with my one and only boyfriend 5 months ago and now I want him back. I think I realized that I broke up with him for stupid reasons and since he’s the only guy I ever dated, I couldn’t compare him to anyone else…now that I dated a few other guys and they are idiots, I want him back more and more….but it’s been five months! I hurt his feelings when I broke up with him but I don’t know what to do now. I met him on a dating website and I see him on there everyday so I know he’s single. I wanted to e-mail him but I don’t want to sound desperate. I don’t know if I should just ask him how things have been going and see how he responds….

I feel so stupid for breaking up with him now. Sure he had problems but they were so minor that now I really wouldn’t care about that stuff. How do you start communicating with someone after 5 months of not talking???
I’m 21 btw
I dated him for 4 months and got my first kiss from him so I don’t know if it’s because I don’t have experiance with relationships but I still miss him

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I’m married and my husband works out of town. We’ve kept a long distant relationship for a long time now. Things seemed to be up and down for awhile and now I can’t get him to even talk to me on the phone. I desperately don’t want to lose him and I’m losing hope of us staying married. I don’t know if there is any hope for us anymore. How can I win him back?
He worked out of town when I met him a few years ago. We got married and he wanted me to quit my job and go to college. So, I did. I spoke to him over 3 weeks ago and he wanted me to get back into a job and so I have been applying with very little luck. He hasn’t been sending enough money for the bills and didn’t give me fair warning of the change of money in the deposits to come. There is a child involved and bills. I am hurt by what he is doing but I understand why he wants me to work to help out on the bills. I just understand why it is happening like this and what I could do to get him to talk to me about this.. I wonder if it is his pride or he is fed up with being in this family.

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im just going to do this in a factual time line type format so it might be a little boring but maybe it will keep me from rambling
decemberish 2008 Broke up with my ex girlfriend
april 2009 met and began dating my current girlfriend
april or may 2009 told current girlfriend i was no longer talking to ex
september 2009 ex girlfriend found out about current girlfriend
september 2009 i sent ex girlfriend a message telling her i was sorry and i didn’t want to lose her(my big mistake is i wrote this message very fast to make ex feel better and it ended up sounding more like a love letter than an I want to be friends letter. It was about 5 sentences long.)
september 2009 ex forwarded my letter to my current girlfriend(at this point i confess that i have been talking to her and i had been lying about it)
october through december 2009 fighting constantly usually turns violent.(I never hit her)
jan-feb 2010 fighting goes back and forth sometimes we have a really good time together but more often than not we are fighting
end of feb to beginning of march things level out but get really bad at times

basically things are slowly getting better but as soon as things start to look okay they get worse than before. The main problem is she no longer trust or respects me(which I know i dont deserve and i have to earn) and she is embarrassed by me and sometimes i dont think she likes me anymore. She cant even really look me in the eyes anymore. I know i have to deal with the abuse because she is still hurting so bad because all she thinks about is how bad i hurt her. I know i can handle it Im just scared its never going to better no matter how hard I try. She has told me Im doing a really good job and she just needs time. We almost took a break sometime in february when we were fighting really bad and she told me she had a crush on one of her guy friends and found him very attractive. I stayed very calm through this whole situation and the break was her idea but she ended up begging me to not take the break and said she wanted to keep trying. I dont know what to do. Neither of us can let go but we both hate the current situation. We talk about wanting to get married but i wonder if its just us trying to hang on to something thats gone. And I know this is all my fault and im a scumbag idiot. No need to tell me.

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If I never met you, I wouldn’t like you. If I didn’t like you I wouldn’t love you.
If I didn’t love you I wouldn’t miss you, but I did, I do and I will.

It takes a minute to like someone, and hour to love someone, but to forget someone takes a life time.

Hearts live by being wounded
Oscar Wilde

"Moving on is simple, it’s what you leave behind that makes it so difficult"

I dont miss him, I miss who I thought he was

"My heart longs for you, my soul dies for you,
my eyes cry for you, my empty arms reach out for you."

"Don’t Cry Over Someone That Won’t Cry Over You"
"No Guy Is Worth Your Tears & When You Find
The One That Is He Won’t Make You Cry"

"Forget who hurt you yesterday,
But don’t forget who loves you tenderly today."

"Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to who its worth."

"The hardest part of loving someone is knowing when to let go, and knowing when to say goodbye."

"Forget the times he walked by, Forget the times he made you cry,
Forget the times he spoke your name, Remember now your not the same.
Forget the times he held your hand, Forget the sweet things if you can,
Forget the times & Don’t pretend, Remember now he’s just your friend."

"The day you finally decide to love me will be the day after the day I have given up on chasing you"

"I hate to see the one I love happy with somebody
but I surely hate it more to see the one I love unhappy with me…"

"I had a dream and it was about you …
I smiled and recalled the memories we had …
then I noticed a tear fell from my eyes … you know why?
Coz in my dream you kissed me and said goodbye …"

"If in this lifetime, I wont get to have you,
I’ll make sure that if I meet you in my next life
I wont have to think twice on saying that "I waited a lifetime to say I love you…""

"If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it."

"Never be sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours."

"I’m going to smile and make you think I’m happy, I’m going to laugh, so you don’t see me cry,
I’m going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me- I’m going to smile."

‘Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

"The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost."

"The hottest love has the coldest end."

"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go."

" For few love can last a lifetime, but for many not knowing when to let go can hold them back forever. "

You broke me, you broke my heart, you broke everything! You
turned my world upside down and inside out, BUT I know it was worth it for
that one moment of love we had, it’s a shame it went bad…..

"If You Really Love Something Set It Free.
If It Comes Back It’s Yours, If Not It Wasn’t Meant To Be"

"Some Day You’ll Cry For Me Like I Cried For You,
Some Day You’ll Miss Me Like I Missed You,
Some Day You’ll Need Me Like I Needed You,
Some Day You’ll Love Me But I Won’t Love You"

"Time will make you forget me but time will make me love you more than before."

Please tell me how you like this poem!! Yes, of course I wrote this poem!!! If my love and I ever break then this is for him!!! I hope you all like it!!!
Star me if you liked it and it means something to you!!! Thank you all for answering!!

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So this is kinda a long story. Go to the bottom for a synopsis/shorter version if you don’t have the time. I met this girl a couple months ago, from one of my good friends who had just met her as well. We really hit it off because we had so much in common and she lives just down the hall in my apartment. And over the span of a month, we were constantly with each other along with msging/text/calls/etc. At that point, I asked her out on a real date and she said yeah. I ended up taking her to the aquarium which was awesome, and that night held her hand watching a movie. A couple dates later, and one night we got kinda intimate, nothing crazy but still…I asked her if she was looking for a relationship and she said, umm not right at this moment, but maybe sometime soon. Anyways, since that night, for the next couple weeks, things felt a little different, definitely changed from the first month, maybe because things went from harmless to questionable. Still I cared about this girl, and we had already expressed mutual feelings so I went ahead and basically cheesed out a "do you want to be together/be my girlfriend" line. I haven’t had a relationship in college yet, so I’m kinda new at this but she said yes. A couple days later, at dinner, she basically reneged on it, saying she just wasn’t ready and didn’t want to commit 98% to something that should be 100%. And I took it, said it was ok, and I could wait, so we were "dating". Well I could tell something was still off, because she stopped contacting me much over the thanksgiving break, and she seemed to always be busy when I wanted to hang out. So I had another talk with her, and she kinda changed her views again, saying shes not ready, family issues and she doesnt want to be exclusive in that she would only hang out with one person. She had an awful first relationship that ended a few months ago, and for now, she just needs a friend because she’s not sure when she’s ready to get into that again. She also wants to stop the intimate stuff, like holding hands and kissing, because that should be reserved for a relationship (This is a conservative girl). Things moved too fast, and maybe we should take a step backward, get to know each other better. And she added that we could definitely go somewhere, assured me there was no one else (she has a lot of guy friends), and she didn’t want to confirm anything now because it might lead me on and be unfair that I’d have to do most of the work now.
I don’t think this is one of those, "I just want to be friends" kind of thing because she initiated several things that happened. I really do think its a timing problem, maybe I’m wrong. We’re still going on dates and stuff.
I’ve screwed up a lot in this whole thing lol, from being too much of that nice guy who offers to do a lotta stuff to moving too fast and getting too emotionally attached for someone who’s not that type but I do feel like things could still work out.
She said like 5 times she wasn’t "playing the field", so I honestly don’t think it’s someone else, even if she hangs out with a lotta dudes. I hate part of it though, cause you care about someone and you don’t know how they feel back (shes a gamer chick too lol, works at Gamestop) and you try to read what’s going on but that only results in more uncertainty, doubt, and denial…and I’m mostly a confident guy, just at times during this whole thing, I’ve felt kinda insecure, she doesn’t like revealing too much – definitely guarded. She’s told me that her last relationship, she had to do all the work, basically ditch her friends to meet the demands of the guy. And she doesn’t want that right now, even if I tell her I’m not like that. She just wants some time to herself and to do what she wants and if she made that commitment, it might turn out unfair given that I’d prob have to do most of the work at least early on. Well in the past week or so, I’ve made a big effort to try and help with rides/anything she needs/asking to hang out, but she’s mostly come up with excuses, legit or not. And I know I’ve been pushing (me doing all the initiating), it’s just hard not to think about, and I’m overwhelmed with regrets about stupid things I’ve done and said in this whole thing.

Sorry that’s like a damn novel lol.
Basically, I’ve been way too overbearing the last couple of weeks with this girl that I’ve been going on dates with. And the reason why is because we basically became "official" or whatever for a couple days before she said she wasn’t quite ready to be exclusive (only hanging with one person). I’ve made an effort to work on it, and just be there for her but I know I’ve been calling/asking too much. Should I just give up? At this point, I’ve messed up a lot and maybe some things are irreversible. Or is there still a chance this could work out, and if so, what steps should I take? Idk, I’ve either pushed too much and she feels pressured or if we got to a certain place on the brink of a relationship, then certai
*certainly we can get there again

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When we first met, I couldn’t spend enough time with the man. We would sit for hours, and be really cheesy. We both were completely in love, and giddy about it. It seems silly, but everything changed when we got married. I know that responsibility and maturity sank in, but it seems like it sucked the fun right out of both of us. We know that we are right for eachother, but we miss who we used to be to eachother. I would walk in the room, and he would smile. I would lay on him, and he wouldn’t complain about being hot. Just silly things, that made us sparkle. I don’t feel the sparkle anymore, and I know that he misses it too. Any advice to put a fire back to a cold stove??

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i met this guy the day after i found out i was preg. with my 4th child and we hit it off then he loses his job as a truck driver and over time i decided i would get back with my babies dad because the truck driver lived in another state and i didnt think we would be back together because of a long distant relationship but i made a mistake by getting back with my babies dad and he is no out of the picture and the truck driver and i remained friends and still have dealings like we are in a relationship and i do love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him and he loves me and my kids i want to know how can i get this man back in my life the wqay i want him its like when he’s here i’m complete and when he is not here a part of me is missing please someone help me find an answer on how i can get my one and only true love back all the way

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How to get my girl back?

I am from India, and around 8 months back I met a girl online. Her parents contaced me through a matrimonial website. They invited me to come over to their place. I just fell in Love at first sight with that girl, and I assumed that she also liked me.

After few days we start talking on phone, maybe 1-2 times in a week, and chatted online, and then she asked me to add her as a friend on Facebook. And there she saw me talking to other girls, and she just quit talking to me. Her mother told me, that she thinks that either I am a flirt or like other girls from whom I am talking to on Facebook.
She never talked to me again, never received any phone call, I tried few times, then I stopped bothering her, becauase I think Love should be mutual.

It has been 6 months now, but I still dream about that girl…I truely want to get her, but I dont know how?
Now, I live in a different city. Can you guys give me an idea, how to make a new start with her…or should I just forget her?

Please give me some clues, I dont want to call her, because it will show I am very desperate for her and she might ignore me, but any other tactic….
Please give me some advice on this….
Thanks in Advance….

Actually she thinks, I like one of the girl on Facebook that was my friend. Because that girl used to send me flirty messages, and I also use to do the same stuff. So, I think she is right in her way, it’s just she never gave me a chance to explain that I just love her..and everyone else on Facebook is just my friend.

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My girlfriend left me for her ex!?
met her ten years ago. we hit it off. her ex had dumped her for another prior to that. they had been together for 6 months i think but friends for a few years before that. anyway – she and i went out for a year in 2000. then she dumps me for some stupid woman. i let her go.
didnt talk to her for about 3 and a half years. she calls me. we patch things up. we lived together for the last 5 years. 2005 to last week.
then she dumps me for her EX GIRLFRIEND who initially dumped her ten years ago! arrrghgh! are you kidding me?! i moved out quickly and told her to go to hell as any self respecting woman would have. lololo sad thing is this girl will just dump her AGAIN and i told her that as i was leaving. we are in our early 40’s.
what the hell is wrong with these women!!! oh – and this ex dumped her girlfriend at the same time as mine dumped me so they can be together – yet wont move out of her girlfriends house. she makes good money. so no excuse.
i think its pathetic. really bad thing is i know beyond a doubt my girlfriend will call me one day – when this woman dumps her *** yet again. how do you prepare yourself not to get sucked back in – even though you love them still?

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My wife recently found out that I was having an emotional affair with another woman via my blackberry and we are thinking of divorce after 14 years of seemingly a normal up/down marriage.

When she confronted me with this I initially lied but confessed 5 mins later after a wave guilt

Poor decision making on my part as I met the younger woman through my job. We went to lunch three times and shared "how doing" and "whats going with you?" type of text messages over a 3/4 month period. The lunches were 1 group lunch and two lunches by ourselves.

My wife asked why.. and I gave her a very honest response of the different type of attention that I received from this other woman was something new and unexpected. I just liked the attention from this pretty woman and purposely hid this from my wife as I knew it was somewhat wrong.

I was never physical with this other woman but it doesn’t seem to matter to my wife much.. I feel like a total scumbag..

My wife questions my true intentions and doubts that we were not physical..I would doubt the same. .. I’ve lost her trust and friendship an want to try get it back..

Thoughts or ideas would be appreciated from today’s biggest Loser.

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Me and my husband were together for 5 years – we both were 20 when we got married so obviously we had a VERY rocky marriage. He cheated on me, I cheated on him – he was abusive when it happened – I went away on holiday on my own all the time, he chatted up 16 year old girls…and so much more. But I met up with him the other day and he couldn’t stop crying about how much he missed me and what we had. Prior to this he had also asked me back out when I was seeing another guy but then I told him it was not going to work. Now, I really want him back. I miss him so much and even though with all the bad stuff that happened between us I feel like I can’t live without having him near and I know he feels the same way as everytime I speak to him he sounds emotionally drained. Plus he said when we met the last time that he feels like no other girl would compare to me, even tho he had a girl. He slept with me a month ago when we both had other partners but I just want him back?

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At the beginning of the year I met this really sweet, hot guy in my algebra class and he would help me with my math. We would stare at each other all class and flirt alot and he would tickel me. Then I found out he was a Satanist and I’m a Christian so I told him we could only be friends. Then I couldnt stop myself and I told him I still really liked him. Then he told me he loved me (texted this tons of times in a row) then he started saying how he missed me and wanted to kiss me, etc…. then he told me that if we were alone together that he wanted to have sex with me. We never even started dating but I called him a prick and never spoke with him. Well at least till this month a few weeks ago. He still stared at me alot and showed all signs of liking me and I couldnt take it anymore so I e-mailed him saying that I miss him and to email me back. He did saying he hates me and never liked me and that he only opens up to certain people and that id never be one of them. Then I cried so much and emailed him back swearing at him and saying I never wanted to talk to him. He sent one back saying the same thing and to never talk to him again. So the other day I walked past him with my guy cousin to make him jelous because I was hurting so much and a few minutes later someone saw him crying. His friend is friends with me and he told me that the guy was really upset because he saw me walking by with my cousin and he thought it was my bf. Now I feel horrible. The other day I passed by him and his friends and he said "Hey Anna!" The way he used to when we were flirting and stuff (so really friendly) I said Hi back and looked sad. But if he talked to me is this a sign he misses me? the other day he walked up to me and started talking alot but I was on my phone and when I got off he was gone…… Then today he walked up to me and started talking fast and I said What? then he said oh I was just messing around. Im confused Do you think he still loves me?

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Ok. Here it goes. I met my girl after she left a man who is the father of her two kids. She left him because he was abusive with drugs and would beat her up constantly. Well he just got out of jail and says hes cleaned up his act. So she broke up with me (her now ex fiance) to be single she said. She didn’t say she was getting back together just yet with him. But that its too much being a couple with him in the picture seeing the kids.

I’ve seen that there are "how to get your ex back" books out there. But I already agreed to see her today before 12. And she will be here any moment. I’m at a public place without a creditcard and cannot buy any of those ebooks at this time. Please someone who has read those ebooks tell me what to say when I first meet today. Or please send me the book by email. Anything! PLEASE! I know that in order to get an ex back I need to act like I dont need her, and make her jealous. But what else? What is the best thing to say?

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Almost two weeks ago I met this guy on Facebook, ridiculous I know, and even worse it was on one of those stupid apps like Are You Interested. I thought the whole thing was stupid, but this guy and I hit it off. We added each other, and message back and forth, and from the day after we found each other, we have chatted every night.

I didn’t expect to like him at first, honestly, but he honestly has left me stunned. He is pretty much everything I have ever looked for in a guy, we have experienced a lot of the same things in our lives, and seems genuinely interested in getting to know ME. We have asked each other countless questions, and simply love learning about each other. Things have been simply…wonderful. Honestly things have just fallen into place, and while I know I am most definitely infatuated, i truly believe I am falling for him. He is sweet, genuine, adventurous, and better yet when he says something like "how are you?"/"are you okay?"/"How was your day?" he REALLY is interested in the answer unlike so many who say it as a formality.

Things seemed perfect, and on day nine when were talking about our fears and concerns I mentioned how sometimes I worry I will end up alone, and without a family and he said "If you want a family!!.. That is the least of your problems, You are absolutely beautiful inside and out, and anyone who wouldn’t want a family with you is out of their mind!!!.. Not to mention you will always have two for sure people who wouldn’t think twice about it! Ok I’m just basing this on what i know so far, and not saying i’m in love with you.. but i’m getting there(please dont get the wrong impression, i’m just trying to help you out) And your Crazy Ex Boyfriend lol. You won’t end up alone. That’s a guarantee." (The crazy ex thing comes from the fact the guy I was engaged to and dumped nearly four months ago is having trouble accepting that we’re over, and leaving me alone).

He went on to explain that the reason that he added his disclaimer to his "falling for you" statement is that he didn’t want me to think he was a creep stalker type for feeling that way so soon. I feel the same way, so it was fine. Then I found out that he met his last girlfriend the same way that he met me. That bothered me at first, but then I kinda let it go, because I did go out with a guy I met this way before (he wasn’t a stranger, exactly since it turns out we had friends in common). This guy has mentioned a couple things he would like me to do with him, like learn how to dirtbike. Well, he told me to check out a couple of his Notes on his page, and one one was a comment from his ex (he broke up with her around the same time I broke up with my ex) saying how she remembered him teaching her out to dirtbike, and stuff just as he said he wanted to do with me.

I was bothered by that as well, and then I realized that if he came to where I live, I would likely want to take him to a couple of places (my town is pretty awesome) that I took the last I guy I went out with (the one I met the same way as this guy)…Yet how would you feel if this was your situation? I don’t want to let something petty ruin what seems to be the best chance I’ve ever had at being truly happy with someone.

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I know I’ve asked a question about this before, but I want new answers. I really like this guy who broke up with me months ago. He’s four years older than me, while I’m in 8th grade. He told me he loved me, and I know he meant it. He broke up with me because he doesn’t want to hurt me. He’s probably afraid that he’s going to want more from me if he really starts to like me (you know what I mean). He knows I’m not ready for something like that, especially considering my age. But, I trust him, and I love him more than anything. I haven’t gotten over him, though I’ve tried to by looking at other guys, but I can’t get him out of my head. I haven’t gone a single day without thinking about him since I met him last summer. We are friends right now, but I want to be with him again. I’m afraid if I say anything I’ll lose him as a friend if he says no. Whenever I see him, he flirts with me A LOT! I told my mom how he acts, and she says he probably still likes me. I trust what she says, because she’s been through the life of a teenage girl herself once. He acts just like he did the first time I met him. I miss him, I love him, and I want him back, but I don’t know how to get him back. And in case this helps, this boy was my first boyfriend, and my first kiss. We kissed the night of the day we met. He asked for a goodnight kiss because I had to leave the party, and I said yes.
Please help. I love him. I want him back.
I would appreciate serious answers.

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I met my boyfriend back in august through a mutual friend. The mutual happens to be my cousins wife, and my best friend who only wants the best for me. She has known my boyfriend for 20 plus years. They grew up together in a very very small town. Theyre families are very close. My best friend had NOTHING but great things to say about him and how much she thought we would click. AND WE DID!. We remained friends and talked as friends through the phone, text email occasionally.. He had a gf when I met him. But like I said, we were just friends. He texted me around thanksgiving and wanted to say Hi, and see how I was. He told me he had ended his relationship, he found pictures of her with another guy on her computer. And she had also stole money from him. WE started talking daily on the phone, for hours a day. We quickly realized how much we had in common. He then asked (after about two weeks) if he could take me out. I agreed. He sent me a text on his way over saying "I just left, Im on my way, I cant wait. I feel like a little kid waiting for santa to come. I cant wait to spend time with you" This is one of the most amazing men I have ever in my life met. He makes me laugh uncontrolably, he makes me smile just by saying the cutest things, I am for the first time in my 15 years of dating / relationships that I have truly been HAPPY. It is the best feeling ever. BUT. I have been cheated on by every guy I have had a relationship with. So for the last four years I have basicly been just random dating. Hang out a few times, have dinner or drinks, and then I really don’t talk to the guy again. I very quickly lose interest in a man, at max it takes a month or so. I have NEVER once felt like I am losing interest with this guy. He gives me my space, and I give him his. I got to a point where I realized how much I liked him and loved being with him and loved just being happy with someone. I knew it was time to run, or jump. I discussed this with him. He said " I wont let you run, Just jump." He then two days later surprised me with a trip away for the weekend. Full of laughs, shopping, great dining to a fabulous place. He said he needed us to get back on the same page. Things were GREAT. Then following weekend he planned a big ice fishing trip.. Which he knew for me was a BIG STEP. Im not the out doors type. IM always dressed very professional. In heals and dress clothes. I braved it, and like a trooper loved every minute of the 7 hours ice fishing trip he put so m uch into. And I never once complained. It was doing something he enjoyed that made me love it. A few days later out of no where he said "I don’t know if I want to be in a relationship, I feel like I jumped into this so quick. I don’t know if I want to be in a relationship. I care about you so much, but I just got out of a relationship and was hurt. I don’t think im ready for it again" we ended up talking on the phone later, I told him he needed to make sure that was what he wanted. I asked him why he has to build up this wall with me. He said he didn’t know. Basicly over time, we continued to talk on the phone daily.. As if he NEVER said that to me. We did NOT discuss "us" or our relationship for the whole week. Any time I brought it up he said "do we have to talk about this right now, everything is fine" He asked me to dinner that weekend. So I drove over to his apartment (40 miles away) I had dinner with him. We got back to his apartment and I said I was leaving.. Dinner went great, aside from the fact that he could see I was distant due to my mind going a million miles a minute on the way there. He begged me not to leave, he couldn’t believe I drove out there just for dinner and wasn’t going to stay. We finally discussed us and our relationship… He said he is happy, and he just wanted to take it one day at a time.. so we had been. for another month and a half.. NOW AGAIN.. here we are.. He doesn’t know if he wants to be in a relationship.. WHAT IS HE DOING? WHAT SHOULD I DO

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I’ve been dating/talking to this guy for about a month and a half (though I met him a month prior). He’s…wonderful. I know he cares, he doesn’t have his mind on one thing and he really does adore me. I appreciate so many things he does for me & according to him he feels he "should be doing more b/c it’s not enough". Things are goin surprisingly well and since day 1, we’ve always been super comfortable w. each other.

Sooner or later, the "sex" talk was going to be brought up. (I’m actually surprised that he didn’t ask me right away). Thing is, I’m nearing my mid 20’s and i’m still a virgin. I’m not ugly w. a nice personality, nor weird…i’m very protective and picky…it just didn’t happen…didn’t feel right during those times. I’ve done other things BUT "that". I’ve only cared for 3 guys in my life. First boyfriend, i loved him but wasn’t "in love" and there was no chemistry; 2nd guy had too many STD’s and the 3rd…wasn’t "real love"…I just don’t wanna let it go so easily. I’m not ashamed at all yet past experiences have made me be a bit more conscious about it. My virginity was a deal breaker for some guys I’ve dated and as much as i’m "better off", it still kinda hurts. I’ve also dealt w. numerous guys that have only wanted 1 thing but I never let him succeed. With this guy, he’s not like other guys i’ve dated…i actually care about him…alot. So I was very hesistant/nervous/scared/anxious in telling him. So when I did, I got the typcal reaction, "geuninely shocked" and asked if i was really joking/lying "b/c there’s no way a pretty girl like you, would still be a virgin." (as I get fr. alot of guys i’ve dated). I got sensitive to it and just cried. And after he soaked it all in said, "babe, even if you stayed a virgin ’til the day you die, it doesn’t matter…and its okay, don’t worry. I’m not here for that. I want you and that love you give me b/c i’m happy…" The reason I get insecure is b/c guys can say how much they "respect" it and their gone or create their escape plans…i actually care about this guy. He then said, if it was a problem to him, the rest of the conversation would be awkward and we still stayed on the phone for another 2 hrs. He’s still normal around me and to make me feel better, he suggested to stop w. the "sex talk" and if I feel okay to talk it out, then we would another time. He admitted that for him as a guy, his # of women (who he slept w.) is considered "low" for a guy. I asked if he was relived hearing about me and he said, "a bit but it really doesn’t matter". Anyhoo, things are fine but I can’t helpt but feel insecure…

I’m not pressured to do anything w. him….but opening up that virgin confeeision made me get insecure. How can I rebound back and stop being insecure about it?
He’s a "shy guy" type btw…if that helps…and the # of girls he’s slept w? you can count in one hand and it’s been w. his serious, long term gf’s…i’ve got a good guy

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I’ve been dating/talking to this guy for about a month and a half (though I met him a month prior). He’s…wonderful. I know he cares, he doesn’t have his mind on one thing and he really does adore me. I appreciate so many things he does for me & according to him he feels he "should be doing more b/c it’s not enough". Things are goin surprisingly well and since day 1, we’ve always been super comfortable w. each other.

Sooner or later, the "sex" talk was going to be brought up. (I’m actually surprised that he didn’t ask me right away). Thing is, I’m nearing my mid 20’s and i’m still a virgin. I’m not ugly w. a nice personality, nor weird…i’m very protective and picky…it just didn’t happen…didn’t feel right during those times. I’ve done other things BUT "that". I’ve only cared for 3 guys in my life. First boyfriend, i loved him but wasn’t "in love" and there was no chemistry; 2nd guy had too many STD’s and the 3rd…wasn’t "real love"…I just don’t wanna let it go so easily. I’m not ashamed at all yet past experiences have made me be a bit more conscious about it. My virginity was a deal breaker for some guys I’ve dated and as much as i’m "better off", it still kinda hurts. I’ve also dealt w. numerous guys that have only wanted 1 thing but I never let him succeed. With this guy, he’s not like other guys i’ve dated…i actually care about him…alot. So I was very hesistant/nervous/scared/anxious in telling him. So when I did, I got the typcal reaction, "geuninely shocked" and asked if i was really joking/lying "b/c there’s no way a pretty girl like you, would still be a virgin." (as I get fr. alot of guys i’ve dated). I got sensitive to it and just cried. And after he soaked it all in said, "babe, even if you stayed a virgin ’til the day you die, it doesn’t matter…and its okay, don’t worry. I’m not here for that. I want you and that love you give me b/c i’m happy…" The reason I get insecure is b/c guys can say how much they "respect" it and their gone or create their escape plans…i actually care about this guy. He then said, if it was a problem to him, the rest of the conversation would be awkward and we still stayed on the phone for another 2 hrs. He’s still normal around me and to make me feel better, he suggested to stop w. the "sex talk" and if I feel okay to talk it out, then we would another time. He admitted that for him as a guy, his # of women (who he slept w.) is considered "low" for a guy. I asked if he was relived hearing about me and he said, "a bit but it really doesn’t matter". Anyhoo, things are fine but I can’t helpt but feel insecure…

I’m not pressured to do anything w. him….but opening up that virgin confeeision made me get insecure. How can I rebound back and stop being insecure about it?
(Also i’m scared things may change or he may look at me differently….)

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Hello, I wish somebody can help me out… I met a girl at work and we were talking for two days and then she showed me her picture and showed interest, then I asked her for her number and we spent lots of the time talking in the phone (around 3-4 hours) daily. One day she her land line rings and she told me that it was her friend so I suggested she answer the phone and she told me I’ll get back to you when I get done. I waited for an hour and she didn’t call I called her and she didn’t answer…then I called again and the phone was busy. That kinda get me upset because I was waiting for her to call me back…after another hour or so she sent me a message saying that she feels sleepy and good night… I called her and told that I was waiting and ended the call. She called me to apologize and I told her that I’m not mad but I’m upset about it and let it go. The following day I texted her and explain why I was upset and she didn’t comment. After work that day I called her and she didn’t answer, I kept calling her, then she answered me saying this is annoying I’m trying to take a nap, I’ll call you when I wake up. I waited for 4 hours then I called her twice and she didn’t answer. The next morning I went to her office and gave her a note that I wrote "How could you do this to me?” She didn’t comment/ no message/ no e-mail. I went to her office again and asked her is there anything wrong, why you are not talking to me? She said I don’t want you to get upset but you’re annoying. I then sent her a message to apologize and explained that I was trying to call her cuz I missed her. After lunch time in the same day I went to her office and she were smiling and I asked her if everything is okay and she said yes. At the end of the day I asked her if I can call her she said yes…I then asked after 20 min? She said yes. I called her after 20min, 30 min and at night she didn’t answer any of my calls. This was last Wednesday and she didn’t get back to me yet. She were saying that I’m very attractive to her and that she likes me and like how I look and how I dress she even said that she likes the way I look at her and that my eyes is killing her. Can you please explain to me what is going on?

Thanks
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I Asked the above question earilier and some of you guys answered me and i’m very thankful to those of you who answered. The answers were; give the girl some time and space….ignore her for a while and maybe she’ll call…..some also said that she is palying…not intersted…change her mind…..

What is important to me now …. What is the best i can do to get her back (if possible)? Knowing that she works in th same company she is in fornt of my unit but i’m usually out so i can see her and i can disapper.

Please let me know what you think ….. i gald i can get your help

Thank you all

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– As you read this I agree that this is a drama. I dont plan to contact her but want to find out her motivation for certain things – i.e. why did she text me from her hospital bed right after losing her baby, why does she always say dont call, write or visit me, and will she call again

–I met a lady in Aug 08 and we saw each other once a week pretty casual till about March 09.

–March 09 she said I am perfect for her, she loves me etc. But then told me about a roommate she has. Since I first met her she had been upfront about having two daughters (5/9). She is divorced, after she got divorced she met a guy, They moved into together after 2 months. She got pregnant and lost the baby at 6 months (this was all before I met her). She said they continued to live together in separate rooms as roommates for finances and her daughters liked him. She says I helped her through the lost baby (even tho I didnt even know about it) because I was nice to her and listened to her.

–March 09 she says she is leaving roommate as soon as lease ends. March to Oct she says she loves me, best ever, etc.

–Early Oct she tells her daughters they are getting a new place. Oldest daughter gets upset and says she hates her Mom. I get a text saying "I dont want a future with you, let me go, dont call me or visit me".

–Well I call and say you cant break up with a text, lets meet in person to say good-bye. We meet she tells me real reason for break-up – that she wants to show her daughter that she will give the roommate one more try. She said she would try for 3 months and if didnt work out would call me.

–I leave, dont make any contact. 3 weeks later she texts that she misses me. We speak and she says she is moving out from roommate and wants to be with me. She says she needs me in order to feel happy.

– We see each other for about a 10 days. Then another text "I thought it was right to be with you, but I dont want to be with you, good-bye, dont call me or visit me, I promise to return your key next week".

–Of course I call and say whats up – she says that she is getting married to roommate because she got pregnant in the past month when we were broken up. She went on about how this is wrong, she doesnt love him, doesnt want a baby etc. She said her roomate threatened to go to court and take the baby if she left him

– I say good bye and best wishes. 6 weeks later I text and tell her that I hope she is Ok and that I felt badly because I never properly said good bye to her and that I wish her well and that I may get a job cross country. She writes back when are you going, will you come back, I worry about you. I tell her I will leave in Jul. She writes back that she may lose her baby, same problem as last time. I write and tell her I wish her good health.

–Few days later on Christmas she texts Merry Christmas hope your wishes come true.

–Mid-Jan I write to her and tell her I need my key back as I am moving in Jul and ask her to mail it to me. She writes back that I can pick it up the following week, that I put a magic spell on her as she misses me very much and that it would be a pity if I moved cross country and never came back.

–I see her the next week to get key. We spoke for about 1.5 hours. She said it was first time in 3 months she was happy, I asked why she never gave key back – she said "I kept it because I knew you would have to write to me to get it and come see me at some point and by not returning it I knew that you would be thinking of me". She said that she is not getting married, still having problems with pregnancy and that things not good at all with roommate – her brother told her "you dont love this roommate, follow your heart". She asked me why I didnt hate her. I told her that she did not get pregnant as a way to hurt me, that I saw her as sad and confused with her situation, and that it is not proper to hate some one or say bad things about them especially when they are feeling down.

–She asked if sometime I could bring her the pictures that I had of her. I said no problem. The next week I text and tell her I got her copies of the pictures, she wrote back asking to get them the next day.

– The next day she texts "sorry I cant today" – this was a Tuesday – no word till Fri – I text hey know you are busy just let me know a good time to give you the pictures. — By the next Thursday no word – so I figure Ok maybe she has second thoughts and realizes its best to stay with roommate. I so I text I havent heard from you so I figure that you dont want the photos and dont want to contact me. I understand and that is OK – I wish you all the best.

– Later at like 9:15 pm I get a text – I dont want the photos, I am in the hospital, and that she lost her baby, dont call me or visit me please. I write that I am sorry for her and is there anything she needs, she says thanks, I need nothing. I write I wish her good health.The next day I write that I hope she slept O

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–I met a lady in Aug 08 and we saw each other once a week pretty casual till about March 09.

–March 09 she said I am perfect for her, she loves me etc. But then told me about a roommate she has. Since I first met her she had been upfront about having two daughters (5/9). She is divorced, after she got divorced she met a guy, They moved into together after 2 months. She got pregnant and lost the baby at 6 months (this was all before I met her). She said they continued to live together in separate rooms as roommates for finances and her daughters liked him. She says I helped her through the lost baby (even tho I didnt even know about it) because I was nice to her and listened to her.

–March 09 she says she is leaving roommate as soon as lease ends. March to Oct she says she loves me, best ever, etc.

–Early Oct she tells her daughters they are getting a new place. Oldest daughter gets upset and says she hates her Mom. I get a text saying "I dont want a future with you, let me go, dont call me or visit me".

–Well I call and say you cant break up with a text, lets meet in person to say good-bye. We meet she tells me real reason for break-up – that she wants to show her daughter that she will give the roommate one more try. She said she would try for 3 months and if didnt work out would call me.

–I leave, dont make any contact. 3 weeks later she texts that she misses me. We speak and she says she is moving out from roommate and wants to be with me. She says she needs me in order to feel happy.

– We see each other for about a 10 days. Then another text "I thought it was right to be with you, but I dont want to be with you, good-bye, dont call me or visit me, I promise to return your key next week".

–Of course I call and say whats up – she says that she is getting married to roommate because she got pregnant in the past month when we were broken up. She went on about how this is wrong, she doesnt love him, doesnt want a baby etc. She said her roomate threatened to go to court and take the baby if she left him

– I say good bye and best wishes. 6 weeks later I text and tell her that I hope she is Ok and that I felt badly because I never properly said good bye to her and that I wish her well and that I may get a job cross country. She writes back when are you going, will you come back, I worry about you. I tell her I will leave in Jul. She writes back that she may lose her baby, same problem as last time. I write and tell her I wish her good health.

–Few days later on Christmas she texts Merry Christmas hope your wishes come true.

–Mid-Jan I write to her and tell her I need my key back as I am moving in Jul and ask her to mail it to me. She writes back that I can pick it up the following week, that I put a magic spell on her as she misses me very much and that it would be a pity if I moved cross country and never came back.

–I see her the next week to get key. We spoke for about 1.5 hours. She said it was first time in 3 months she was happy, I asked why she never gave key back – she said "I kept it because I knew you would have to write to me to get it and come see me at some point and by not returning it I knew that you would be thinking of me". She said that she is not getting married, still having problems with pregnancy and that things not good at all with roommate – her brother told her "you dont love this roommate, follow your heart".

–She asked if sometime I could bring her the pictures that I had of her. I said no problem. The next week I text and tell her I got her copies of the pictures, she wrote back asking to get them the next day.

– The next day she texts "sorry I cant today" – this was a Tuesday – no word till Fri – I text hey know you are busy just let me know a good time to give you the pictures.

– By the next Thursday no word – so I figure Ok maybe she has second thoughts and realizes its best to stay with roommate. I so I text I havent heard from you so I figure that you dont want the photos and dont want to contact me. I understand and that is OK – I wish you all the best.

– Later at like 9:15 pm I get a text – I dont want the photos, I am in the hospital, and that she lost her baby, dont call me or visit me please. I write that I am sorry for her and is there anything she needs, she says thanks, I need nothing. I write I wish her good health.The next day I write that I hope she slept OK, I will respect her wishes and not contact her, and I wish her well.

–I dont plan to contact her as she is clear she does not want me to – why would she text me just after losing her baby then say never contact her???

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My ex and I were together for almost a year. It would have been a year on March 1st. He will be 24 next month and im 18. We met when he was 22 and I was 17 When he first met me I was depressed because my moms health and devoice and having to move her out of her house. The first few months were AMAZING. After 4 months I decided to move in with him. Everything was good but because I was still in a senior in high school and he was already out of college working a 9-5 job and I never got home till 7 or 8ish every night because after school I had to go take care of my mom. Well because of everything going on I had no motivation in life and I really didn’t care about anything tho I did care about him more then he knew.
Well things went good for awhile but once every 4 months we would have a giant fight over the same thing. Me not having a job, and me not being motivated. The last fight we had he said “this is the last straw” But as much as I tried to change I just couldn’t find it in myself. This was 3 months before what im about to tell you
Well last weekend my best friend came over and we all drank a lil, keep in mind everything with him and I were perfect since the last fight. Well I got sick and fell asleep in the bathroom, when I got up I could hear him and her making out on the room next to me. But I was still to messed up to get up so I went back to sleep. When I was finally ok to get up I went out there and acted like everything was ok. They were sitting on the couch just joking around. Well I told him “im going to bed” and after laying in bed for a lil I wondered why he wasn’t coming to bed. So I went out there and asked him “When are you coming to bed?” and he yelled at me saying “this is my fucking apartment I can sleep wherever the fuck I want leave me alone” So I went and sat next to him on the couch and was like “What is your problem are you pissed that I passed out or what?” and he just kept yelling so I went back in the bedroom and tried to sleep when next thing I know my friend gets in bed with me telling me shes sorry. I told her leave me alone im trying to sleep. And figured I figure stuff out in the morning when hes not so drunk.
So when we all got up I went out in the room by b/f was in and watched tv and he woke up, I asked him if he remeberd anything and he said not really, but he acted really distant. Well then hes like “I need to get ready for my moms.” (him and I were supposed to go to his moms this day) So he went and started to get stuff to take a shower, and I went and got some clothes together and hes like “Are you sure you want to go” and I said “yeah” and he said “well you will have to use the tomtom to get there because you need to take your friend home” and I said “ok”
Well he went and got in the shower and when he got out I went in there to give him a hug and he looked at me and said “you know you don’t have to come today” and I said “I know but I want to and i want to see your mom" and he said “well im starting to realize something’s and remember stuff from last night.” And I said “ok” then he said “well I think we should go our seprate ways today” and I asked him why and he said “do you really need to ask?” and then he started to head out the door and I was like “well give me a hug” and while he was hugging me I told him “I love you” and he hesitated and said “I love you too” and left.

Well I took my friend home and came back to the apartment around 11. He was sitting on the couch and said “hi” like he always did not distant. And that’s all he said the rest of the night. When I went in the bed he scooted away.
The next morning we got up like normal and he made breakfast then he said “We need to talk about Friday” and then continued to say he couldn’t deal with me not being motivated anymore and he cant deal with my stress and that I’m more like a child then a girlfriend and that I needed to be out by the end of the day. And I fought with him begging him for another chance and he said no.
After that I went to my friends and I have been couch hoping, but I went over there on Tuesday and everything was normal again, we cuddle in the same bed and everything was perfect. And we have been talking everyday since it happened on the phone or texting.
Well yesterday I wrote him and said “hey tomorrow when I go to get some stuff can I make some food?” and he said “ya. You know we cant keep doing this right” and I said “I know, ive been meaning to talk to you about this but I wanted to talk to you in person”(I was going to ask him if I get my shit together if we can be together again” then he said “I thought I made everything clear on Sunday” and I said “you did I just have something on my mind” and about ten mins later he wrote be back and said “we are not getting back together” and I said “I know” and we havnt talked since then
I go over there tonight to get some stuff and take him to a event (hes a DJ) but I want him back sooooooo bad I cant deal with this and I cant d

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