Ever notice when the marriage ends men take little from the house, in some cases just their clothes?

I understand in some cases the woman and kids remain in the home so you wouldn’t take or divide material possessions. Excluding this situation, I’ve seen many men just leave cheerished belongings & everything and just walk.

A) Do men do it because they don’t want painful reminders?

B) They are conditioned to give everything over to the woman?

C) The man is shattered by the system, by failure & feels unworthy?

Not looking for sympathy at all, just raising awareness, because I feel men’s issues lack major understanding & support. I also think there’s a link between this and why children are fatherless.

At the rate we’re going if nothing changes children will eventually have one parent.
* Maybe the 37" plasma TV his prize prossession at one time. The Bedroom set. the couch, etc.
****** Some call men Losers, They don’t see there kids.

Women don’t admit they worked vindictively hard to remove the Father from the childs life.

With all the claims, he was an abusive husband it a miracle Father’s have any rights period.
Jude: In a generalized way you portray women as Victims & Men as Abusers.
Women leave and divorce and break up the family at a much higher rate than men.
You have all been indoctrinated by focused interest groups, by their advertising & propaganda to believe one thing.

Women are innocent victims & Men are oppressive abusers.
George: It sounds like your saying There’s a political agenda to elliminate the role of father.
Reducing men to Sperm & ATM machines.

George, where are Men & father’s in the Movement? Is it just starting to gain strength? Where can I be of best help? I know men are become active as have received the short end one too many times.


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ever since i found out about St. Rita, i have not been able to shake her from my mind. I lost my faith in God many years ago, I haven’t been religious in very long. i am 23 yrs old now. I have spent the past 4 years in a ring of bad relationships with two men. I never left them because i had endless patience and hope in them. I have forgiven one of their cheating, turned the other cheek, one of their drug addiction, However, they treated me awfully and blamed the failure of the relationships on me. they also led me to do bad things, including an abortion in my last relationship. I haven’t been able to forgive myself for it, even though i got rid of it because the father didn’t want it.

I have prayed through difficult times, often the rosary. But when I have felt extremely hopeless i ask St Rita to help me. recently in the past month, my ex bf refused to speak to me, refuses to talk to me, refused to forgive me, although i have forgiven him. told me awful things, even tho i continually told him not to …that i loved him…that he was hurting me…he continued his abuse. today….he finally spoke with me on the phone, and was extremely evil to me.

i was in so much despair, and i fell upon st rita once more. this is the second time ive asked her to help me. i asked for a prayer on a forum for st rita. not even an hour later, my ex bf had written me back an email…telling me he appreciated the last email i sent him asking him for forgiveness….he said he hoped he could forgive me someday…but that time wouldnt be soon. he said he wished me the best in my school, life and love and family.

i believe it was a miracle because he hadnt been respectful to me since we’d been together.

do you think so?



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Wasting
Current mood: savage
Category: Romance and Relationships
Wasting away on promises lost. I am too tired to care. Words are meaningless when they are used as a smoke screen. I waste away waiting for moments that never come. Heart wrenching seconds that stretch into a lifetime of memories. Actions that do not match the rules of the game. I am tired of playing with a busted hand. I should fold but continue to bet the shattered pieces of my heart. I play with another that cheats at the cards. I am going to lose but the gamble will pay off. I lie to myself and hope for a miracle that I know will never come. The waiting is endless and tears at the fibers of my soul. Wearing me down until I am waiting to die from the confusion. Hatred for each breath, each heartbeat burns as the flame of my existence. Questions answered with indifference and humor. Never given a chance to build a solid base. Wanting the violence of the end. I fear to walk to the edge of the cliff and leap. I wait and waste away with the slow-burning pain. The hands that push me kicking and screaming are attached to the one that I hoped would love me. A blinding anger builds and rises until I fear my demise. I hope will come sooner rather than later. Thrown onto the razor’s edge by a cancer-ridden ghost of a past I had hoped would be better forgotten. Games being played and I am the pawn, the one that is taken out first without hesitation by the victor. Shall I tell the king he has won as I breathe my last?
The poem is about the way I feel about the situation with the relationship that I am ending. There is a background history here. Lighthealer stated it best, the issue lies with me. He has an ex-girlfriend that is living with him that has cancer. It has been going on for the past 2 1/2 months that she has been living there. His whole behaviour has changed and I understand that I need to face the reality of losing what I truly loved. I craved the affection that he brought in rarely. Light, you understand what I am saying. You are right, I should have said affection. I wrote this because the hurt and pain was overwhelming my life and I had to get it out on paper or on screen. I wrote this to heal myself a little. Get the anger and with a keyboard, cut it out. I wield a pen far better than I do my heart.
All my love,
Rashell


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Now I know that happiness goes on
Thats where you found me
When you put your arms around me
I havent been there for the longest time

Oh, oh, oh
For the longest time
Oh, oh, oh
For the longest
Im that voice youre hearing in the hall
And the greatest miracle of all
Is how I need you
And how you needed me too
That hasnt happened for the longest time

Maybe this wont last very long
But you feel so right
And I could be wrong
Maybe Ive been hoping too hard
But Ive gone this far
And its more than I hoped for

Who knows how much further well go on
Maybe Ill be sorry when youre gone
Ill take my chances
I forgot how nice romance is
I havent been there for the longest time

I had second thoughts at the start
I said to myself
Hold on to your heart
Now I know the woman that you are
Youre wonderful so far
And its more than I hoped for

I dont care what consequence it brings
I have been a fool for lesser things
I want you so bad
I think you ought to know that
I intend to hold you for the longest time

its september tomorrow =)
this is Billy Joel – The Longest Time btw,…..
perhalps….
because…its kinda an inside thingy….its an inside joke that goes with another inside joke =)
its Vietnam btw and its kinda an odd reason….. I did it for John Lennon alrighty…. seeing as tomorrs the first of september and that means he will be back soon….


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There would still be music left to write
What else could I do
I’m so inspired by you
That hasn’t happened for the longest time
Once I thought my innocence was gone
Now I know that happiness goes on
That’s where you found me
When you put your arms around me
I haven’t been there for the longest time
I’m that voice you’re hearing in the hall
And the greatest miracle of all
Is how I need you
And how you needed me too
That hasn’t happened for the longest time
Maybe this won’t last very long
But you feel so right
And I could be wrong
Maybe I’ve been hoping too hard
But I’ve gone this far
And it’s more than I hoped for
Who knows how much further we’ll go on
Maybe I’ll be sorry when you’re gone
I’ll take my chances
I forgot how nice romance is
I haven’t been there for the longest time
I had second thoughts at the start
I said to myself
Hold on to your heart
Now I know the woman that you are
You’re wonderful so far
And it’s more than I hoped for
I don’t care what


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