We dated for three weeks and something, but we’d been best friends for a while. But the thing is, i’m the "school-clown" kind of girl, and he’s really shy. i felt like we were back in elementary school, to be honest. but anyhow; we just had a lot of problems with the whole shyness thing. and i was about to go to sleep one night and i realized that i didn’t really want to be with him anymore… or so i thought? because the next day when i broke up with him i felt like crap. i couldn’t believe what i did. i spoke to him about a day after; apologizing to him.
But he said he didn’t want me back, and i just told him i could wait for him until he ever changed his mind. =| Last friday.. i guess he "moved on", he’s dating his best friend.
She’s a grade lower than us, and they’d always be hanging out with her when we were dating.
What should i tell him? Should i keep waiting for him?
I know i made a wrong choice.. but i don’t want to keep living in the shadow of my mistake!
I’ve been married for ten years. The last five have been difficult and my husband asked me to date others- after faking a relationship for a year I finally met someone- and our romance grew. After 9 months I thought it was time to leave my marriage but I find that I am holding back from committing with my boyfriend. Now after 3 months of seperation, during which my estranged husband was wonderful and understanding- everything he wasnt when we were together- he has asked for a second chance after he has determined that I have second thoughts about the BF. This is my question. Husband for ten years- knows me the best- wonderful father- excellent provider- who basically gave me away. Boyfriend- excellent lover-positive &socially active as I like to be-with clinginess and maybe not as intelligently inclined as I would like. I care for them both very much. But im thinking of my children and my future. Husband is stable we have a home- boyfriend is a renter and needs to quit smoking.help
I know its weird! Trust me I didnt think he was serious- at first it was a fantasy that later got stronger for the real thing- which is why I faked it for a year that I was with someone else. He now says it was the worst mistake to ever share me. I agree its weird- im not asking you to chose- maybe im asking whats the best way to chose and what I should consider. and you are probably right- maybe I should be alone first and figure out what I need to do for myself before involving other lives.
How could you leave me out on the street?
There’s a knife in my heart a hole cut deep
A hole cut deep like its a million feet
Like a taser gun, baby I’m stunned
Times got tough but running was something I never envisioned
You left me nothing without even so much as a warning
Tried to get you back, but you say I can’t do a thing
Now I’m sitting in the dark looking at our pictures crying
Now that you’re gone I feel lost and a part of me is dying
And I realized how much I miss you by my side.
Now my heart aches for love but just from her
My pain is a river cuz it’s flowing onto this paper
If I only had one wish I use it to bring you back to me
I want everything to go back to the way it used to be
You left me with nothing except heartbreak and pain
You say you can’t trust me but you won’t let me explain
I was lost on the road of love until you showed me the way
So understand you were like my personal guide
You were the reason for me having a great life, but now that you’re gone I wish you a great life
So I beg you to give me another chance
But you say you can’t go through it again
Start my life without you I don’t know where to begin
But I just want you to listen to what I’m saying
Since you left me my life’s been turned around
Like you’re in the sky and I’m stuck here on the ground
I beg you but you won’t give me a second chance
You say you’re not coming back and it’s the end of our romance
With everything in my heart you’re on top of
I just wanna let you know, you taught me how to love
How could I be so blind? You gave me all the signs but I couldn’t understand.
Looking back I realized I made a mistake
If I paid a little more attention you still be by my side.
Say you moved on and found another love and it kills me inside
You’ll never know what’s going on inside of me
If I had a second chance I would use it to give you all my love unconditionally
I know I have to move on and there’s a lot more fish in the sea
But if I don’t got you then I’m just not me
It’s been a while, but I still have pain I can’t deal with yet
Not taking my chances is something I regret
But if you ever change your mind I’ll be there in a heartbeat
As of right now I’m in a battle that I’m losing
I remember when you told me we’d always be together
And like a fool I thought always meant forever
In the real world I guess forever is a fairy tale
And I played the part of Robin Hood very well
Just know my hearts locked up as if it’s in a jail cell
And if you moved on I guess this is farewell
So I beg you to give me another chance
But you say you can’t go through it again
Start my life without you I don’t know where to begin
But I just want you to listen to what I’m saying
Since you left me my life’s been turned around
Like you’re in the sky and I’m stuck here on the ground
I beg you but you won’t give me a second chance
You say you’re not coming back and it’s the end of our romance
With everything in my heart you’re on top of
I just wanna let you know, you taught me how to love
Okay so my ex told me he still has feelings for me, we broke up because i just didnt feel ready to start dating quite yet and he said he understands but he also said he wont wait for me.
Now-months later- he says he still likes me and i told him i really care about him but was to uncomfortable to date yet still.
3-4 months after this hes still being his flirty self with me. We really connect well i thought, i can tell him everything without it turning into a rumor or him holding it against me, we are both pretty open with eachother. I told him i felt ready to start dating, and that if he still wanted to be with me i wanted to be with him……nope he said he got tired of waiting around and he found someone else…
I felt like a made a HUGE mistake cuz he is such a NICE guy!!!! I thought he didnt feel for me anymore.
We went out to a movie with a few friends of ours,we ended up sitting next to each other and thats when it all started, i thought he didnt like me so i leaned away and just stared at the movie,then he pulled the arm rest back(so theatres do this where you dont have to have the arm rests down they push up into the chairs) anyway he pushed it up so there was nothing seperating us and he leaned over really close to grab popcorn from my box in my lap, he lean really close to my face, more focused on my shocked eyes than his hand in the box.
my heart was pounding really fast, he asked me to sit alittle closer so he didnt have to reach so far for the popcorn….after a while he took the box from my hands and set it on the floor and leaned in close to me, pullin me into his arms in a cuddle. i was getting so nervous and my heart was beating so loud i thought the whole theatre could hear it……
after about ten minutes of cuddling and him stroking the back of my hands, he brushed my hair behind my ear and got really close and whispered something i couldnt comprhend, but i didnt really care because he started to lightly kiss under my ear and on my cheek, slowly working his way to my lips…
just as i was turning to meet his lips with mine he pulled away and looked me deep in the eyes for what felt like forever, i wanted to just push myself forward to his lips but the look in his eyes made me feel guilty but for what i dont know….
i was texting him later on that night about what went on in the movie and if he likes me??
He said he was just in a really flirty mood and doesnt like me!!!!! W T F!!!!!
I was so angry!!! But now we are gonna hang out with friends again, i want some tips on how to be eally flirty but not sluty, just make him mad!!!!! I wanna show him what its like to have the bone in front of my face pulled away!!! how would i do that!!!!??! and does he like me??
Matt & i were "talking" because me & Brandon had broken up. I decided to go back to Brandon instead of keeping on with Matt, which i found out was a HUGE mistake that i regretted completely. After i realized this i broke up with Brandon. Matt & i had sort of ‘kept in touch’ so we didn’t start hanging out immediately, but we did after a while. We’ve liked each other for about 3 years, & now he acts kind of different since i went back to Brandon. Matt acts rightin person, & we’ve actually established that we still liked each other. he’s 17 & i’m 15. i think he’s just going through the ‘i can get any girl i want when i want’ stage’. but now i think he’s actually talking to another girl. i honestly can almost say i love him. i’ve told my friends that i’d wait forever for him, because thats how much i care about him, but i don’t think he realizes it. how can i tell him without coming off obsessive/clingy or should i just let it go?
i was in a happy relationship for about a month when my hormones took over and i made the worst mistake of my life – sleeping with my girlfriend’s best friend.
we obviously broke up, but i want to know if there is a way to recover from this. all her friends basically tell me to lay down and die, and most of my friends hate my guts too. sometimes she talks like there is nothing wrong, other times, she really concerns me.
i know what i did is almost unforgivable, and she has every reason to never want to see me again, but i realize the mistake i made and want to try to heal our friendship.
serious answers please
My girlfriend and I broke up for the second time back in January. It was because she needed a break from me and it was to much for her. She had be avoiding me so I pushed to find out why and I guess she thought it was to much and didn’t like where we were. We have not spoken much since. We talked briefly two weeks ago about our weekend and that type of small talk and then she texted me on friday night. It was the usual back and forth talk and then we preceded to mention that she missed sex with me and how amazing it was. and it was. when we had sex it was so good. She we talked so more and agreed that we should do it that night. I was studying that night so i could not go out like she wanted me to so she was drunk when she sent it but had sobered up when we got together. So we had sex and it was great. It wasn’t awkward and we talked a bit after to catch up. It was not weird. I asked about us and if she wanted to get back together and said no. Didn’t really want to talk about it so she made it clear that she does not want to be with me.
So i left and the next day i talked to her and told her that last night was great and wondered if we could do it again and see where we are. She said we could another time if it worked out and such. But it wont be a regular thing that happens. I can control my emotions and i want to do it but I want to be with her.
She is a very stubborn person and when she makes up her mind on something she sticks with it. So no matter what i say about getting back together she didn’t want to talk about it. But it makes me wonder if she dose not want to get back together and dose not feel the same then she would not want to have sex. When we had sex we had it like when we were dating. It was very passionate.
Now I know a lot of you are going to say to move on and she is not worth it but I love her and I know that she feels the same way. She just does not want to get hurt or make the mistake of getting back together and it dosent work out. My view is we try and what’s the worst that can happen? Then it wasn’t meant to be. I have changed a lot since when we broke up. I have had a lot of time to reflect and realize what I did wrong and I want her to know that and take a chance on me again. I just dont know what to do and want this to work.
Thanks everyone for your help!
She left for a coworker now realizes that she made a mistake and wants to work on relationship again. Divorced now with two kids. I’m willing to start over and forgive but will never forget. Do I have a self esteem issues or something because I’m willing to try??? There will be counceling involved and lots of communication and romance!
im just going to do this in a factual time line type format so it might be a little boring but maybe it will keep me from rambling
decemberish 2008 Broke up with my ex girlfriend
april 2009 met and began dating my current girlfriend
april or may 2009 told current girlfriend i was no longer talking to ex
september 2009 ex girlfriend found out about current girlfriend
september 2009 i sent ex girlfriend a message telling her i was sorry and i didn’t want to lose her(my big mistake is i wrote this message very fast to make ex feel better and it ended up sounding more like a love letter than an I want to be friends letter. It was about 5 sentences long.)
september 2009 ex forwarded my letter to my current girlfriend(at this point i confess that i have been talking to her and i had been lying about it)
october through december 2009 fighting constantly usually turns violent.(I never hit her)
jan-feb 2010 fighting goes back and forth sometimes we have a really good time together but more often than not we are fighting
end of feb to beginning of march things level out but get really bad at times
basically things are slowly getting better but as soon as things start to look okay they get worse than before. The main problem is she no longer trust or respects me(which I know i dont deserve and i have to earn) and she is embarrassed by me and sometimes i dont think she likes me anymore. She cant even really look me in the eyes anymore. I know i have to deal with the abuse because she is still hurting so bad because all she thinks about is how bad i hurt her. I know i can handle it Im just scared its never going to better no matter how hard I try. She has told me Im doing a really good job and she just needs time. We almost took a break sometime in february when we were fighting really bad and she told me she had a crush on one of her guy friends and found him very attractive. I stayed very calm through this whole situation and the break was her idea but she ended up begging me to not take the break and said she wanted to keep trying. I dont know what to do. Neither of us can let go but we both hate the current situation. We talk about wanting to get married but i wonder if its just us trying to hang on to something thats gone. And I know this is all my fault and im a scumbag idiot. No need to tell me.
How do I get my ex boyfriend back?
I finished with my bf but now thinking ive made a mistake.
How do i go about trying to get back with him.
Sent him a msg last nite but got no reply (he’s on vacation)
My husband and I have been married for 18 years and just recently I felt a distance and I confronted him about it, come to find out he says he loves me doesn’t want anything to happen to me kind of love wants to still be in the same house for the kids sake tells me he has felt this way for probably 3 years now but is tired of lying to himself and to me he cries says he doesn’t want to hurt me and that he doesn’t want to feel this way but he don’t know how to get it back he says he crings when I touch him and that the only time he feels close to me is when he is horney and we make love but once were through its back to disgust I have noticed that the nights we make love he wakes me up in the middle of night talking to me being intimate telling me he wants and needs me but then when I talk to him about what he did he doesn’t remember it and were back to the distance again he tells me I need to make him fall in love with me all over again. Can anyone help? Its killing me
everyone has to know the reason I say 3 years it was about that time that I cheated on him which I horribly terribly regret because it was a huge mistake he told me he thinks that that is what this is steming from feeling he was 2nd best he took me back and we went on with our lifes he really is sincere in his words when he tells me he doesn’t want to feel this way he wants to love me he wants to be loved he just don’t know how to get back and he don’t know if it will ever come back he wants me to find myself, be happy, don’t push and maybe it will bring the feeling back
and what I don’t understand is the middle of the night intimacy thing, where is that coming from I mean I swear he truly talks to me likes he is awake. Example: This happened last night he told me how badly he wanted me and needed me and that he didn’t want anyone else to ever feel this. I truly believe there is no one else because it seems this is tearing him apart as well and no he doesn’t want to go to counseling he said how is talking to someone going to make him love me again
and just so everyone knows he says its definately not me as far as the way I look actually I have lost so much weight because of this he tells me he can tell me he loves me act like nothing has happened but he says I’m beautiful but he doesn’t want to get me false hope
We dated for almost 6 years. he started seeing someone 2 weeks before we actually broke up and got into a relationship with the other woman soon after. They dated for about 5 months until he decided that she is such a negative person and almost suicidal. He kept in contact with me halfway through their relationship then we finally hung out and he started to feel regret and slowly let her go but she would take drugs and threaten to kill herself if he left her. He had to stick around a bit longer and pretend to be her boyfriend until he could get past her negativity and leave her alone.
It has been almost 7 months since he ended his relationship with the negative girl & we’ve also been talking. We just recently discussed why he cheated and went through that phase. However, I still feel angry and disgusted that he had sex with her even though we weren’t together. I guess it’s because we were each other’s firsts and there was no one else. I don’t know how i’m going to get past this & trust him again.
I want to know why guys cheat after being in a long relationship then all of a sudden go back to us. How do I know he really regrets his mistake? I want to take him back, but not too easily… I just don’t know if what he’s showing me now is worthy of taking him back. How did you get your ex-girlfriend back after you cheated on her?
He gave me 4 promise rings that I wore almost everyday & I gave them back to him when we broke up. He wears one with my name on it everyday on his pinky. It even left a tan line on his finger. I told him that I couldn’t hold on to them for as long as we don’t have a relationship.
He’s taking me out on an official date this thursday to watch Goapele. She sang our song: Closer. I have a feeling that he’s going to ask me to be his girlfriend w/ the rings I gave back to him. As sweet as the setting may be almost perfect, I’m not sure if I am ready…
I dont want to take him back too soon to think that i’m that easy. Is 7 months a long time?
We dated for almost 6 years. he started seeing someone 2 weeks before we actually broke up and got into a relationship with the other woman soon after. They dated for about 5 months until he decided that she is such a negative person and almost suicidal. He kept in contact with me halfway through their relationship then we finally hung out and he started to feel regret and slowly let her go but she would take drugs and threaten to kill herself if he left her. He had to stick around a bit longer and pretend to be her boyfriend until he could get past her negativity and leave her alone.
It has been almost 7 months since he ended his relationship with the negative girl & we’ve also been talking. We just recently discussed why he cheated and went through that phase. However, I still feel angry and disgusted that he had sex with her even though we weren’t together. I guess it’s because we were each other’s firsts and there was no one else. I don’t know how i’m going to get past this & trust him again.
I want to know why guys cheat after being in a long relationship then all of a sudden go back to us. How do I know he really regrets his mistake? I want to take him back, but not too easily… I just don’t know if what he’s showing me now is worthy of taking him back. How did you get your ex-girlfriend back after you cheated on her?
He gave me 4 promise rings that I wore almost everyday & I gave them back to him when we broke up. He wears one with my name on it everyday on his pinky. It even left a tan line on his finger. I told him that I couldn’t hold on to them for as long as we don’t have a relationship.
He’s taking me out on an official date this thursday to watch Goapele. She sang our song: Closer. I have a feeling that he’s going to ask me to be his girlfriend w/ the rings I gave back to him. As sweet as the setting may be almost perfect, I’m not sure if I am ready…
Is this a hint that he’s actually trying?
i desperatley want to know how to find that spark my husband and I once had, he lied to me about texting a friend of mine which was innocent on his side because all he asked her was where was she, i saw the text..but she thought it was more and accused him of wanting to sleep with her..later my friends and I found out she was the one who actually had the crush on him and tried to break us up so she could have him.., i accept that he made a mistake but i cant move on not knowing if he will ever lie to me again..and i hate myself for allowing this person to come between my partner and I. I feel sick and want to vomit thinking if she ever tried to make a move on him and he never has told me, basically im having a hard time believing whats true and whats not??? i know i could never know if it would happen but i really really want to go back to the way we were, free spirits in love and happy around our kids..I need to stop bringing it up, and he is sooo over hearing it and doesnt want to deal with it anymore, but i feel like IM the one picking up the pieces of whats happend…
most importantly need to learn to forgive..how can someone do that!
My husband left me in August 2001/ In January 2002 he suggested tha he file our taxes since he knew I had no money. I agreed especially since it was going to be "seperate" filing. In ay case, a few monts later I got acheck for HIM at MY address! I called and he ran right over to get i! Then he said" Hmm thats weird tha they sent it here." I suggested that I call the accountant about i and he said it was probably the mistake of IRS A week or so later the stae check came fpr him as well. THEN he called to say " Hey YOUR checks came to MY post office box! I will cash them and give you the money when I se you!" I agreed. About a week later he stopped by my ome to give me an envelope of money along with some bills. Turns out he cashed my checks ( in his account of course) then sued the money to pay in full al utility bills and cable bills that had both our names on or just his for my home. After paying the bills he got them placed solely in my name staing hta he could no longer afford to support TWO households. He left and I opened the envelope to find less than 0 !! That , with the bills meant that both my stae and federal only came to about 0! OK>…what did I know ( still was pissed about him deciding how to spend my money)
That september my oldest was enrolling in college I needed copies of my tax return to file for federal aid, etc Afte asking for a few monts my husband dropped off a file and left quickly! I opened it to find that the state return was about 00 and the federal return was almost 00 !! I sat and cried! I called him to say I would press charges nd he begged me to let him repay me. He apologized and said he would make restitution.
It is now almost 7 years and each time I think about pressing charges i feel guilty that he might go to prison, lose his teaching job, etc.
But for the past several years I have been destitute. I haven’t even worked fulltime since 2005!
Can I force him to repay?
I never signed the checks; and he used HIS address and cashe dthem thru an account that was solely in is name.
Now he tells me that since we wer still legaly married at the time he was entiled to cashing and does not have to repay
Any help? Thought? Ideas on placs to go with this??
Thanks!!
Dana
So I meet this girl at the club a few weeks ago. She invites me out one night with her and her girl. So I go out there and her friend is talking to the bar-back because I guess they are F-Buddies and we all decide to go to another bar. While there I’m talking to her friend at the bar and this dude pulls her aside and starts telling my girl that he made a mistake sleeping with her friend and he wants to be with her and he kisses her (I had no clue this was going on). Then she comes back to me and tells me that he told her he made a mistake with the friend, but fails to mention anything else. Anyway her friend and him slept together that night and the next day he tries to pick up my girl again. So that’s the beginning of the drama with her. This is the first night we have hung out since we met.
Well also during that night she tells me that she answered an ad for a housekeeping job and when she got there the 60 year old man (shes 22) who placed the ad told her he wasn’t looking for a housekeeper but a wife. He is loaded and would give her 0,000, pay for her college, buy her cars, blah blah blah. She asked me if I would still be her boyfriend if she married him. I told her that I didn’t know, maybe if it was strictly a business relationship between the two of them.
Well the next day she fills in the huge details that she left out the night before. She tells me that the dude kissed her and she tells me that not only does the old guy want to get married but he wants her to have his kid too. What the hel?
So now shes pressing me on if I want to stay with her. I really don’t know if I should get involved if shes going to be in another relationship. It may be okay now, but what happens when we start seeing each other and I start to love her? I think I will just be setting myself up to get hurt if I do. I told her I need to even see if we are right for each other first so I would make up my mind after we dated a few weeks.
2 days later: She asks me last minute to go to a Halloween party with her since her friend cant go. I tell her I have plans, but she pleads for me to go. So I give in, I go to her place and shes like "Wheres your costume?" even though she didn’t tell me I needed one. Now its this huge deal that everyone HAS to have a costume. All the stores are closed so I agree to go in drag. So we go driving around to all her friends houses to find me clothes. So then I go and meet all her friends at this party dressed up like a chick. It’s embarrassing as hell but I did it as a favor to her. So during the night it came up that I was getting off probation for something minor shortly. Also she asked me something about sex and my ex’s and I told her that I ususally date girls who have a kinky side to them and she cops this attitude and is distant to me the whole night, then she just gets up and leaves me (even though I asked her at the beginning to do me one favor of not leaving me alone at the party). So we get back to her place and shes all distant to me still and says she doesn’t want to have sex with me because I’m a different person than she thought I was. I asked her how and shes like "You seemed like a nice guy when I met you then I find out you date kinky girls and your on probation, why don’t you just go date Rachel (her friend from the beginning of the story)"
What is up with this girl? Why cant I find a decent girl? Or maybe its just me. Did I do something wrong?
Are there any cute sane women in the Tampa area? If so, hit me up 
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We have a 13 week old baby. She left at 8. We have been married for 10 months. I kissed someone in Sept. And I flirted with a few girls that she found out about. Stupid mistakes I never knew how they would effect my son I am only 22. I have admitted everything I have been graceful. How do I explain she can trust me again after all the pain I put her through? We are having one final talk tonight I need all the advice I can Ill never make this mistake again I see how it effects her and our son. Any advice please!!!!
i met this guy the day after i found out i was preg. with my 4th child and we hit it off then he loses his job as a truck driver and over time i decided i would get back with my babies dad because the truck driver lived in another state and i didnt think we would be back together because of a long distant relationship but i made a mistake by getting back with my babies dad and he is no out of the picture and the truck driver and i remained friends and still have dealings like we are in a relationship and i do love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him and he loves me and my kids i want to know how can i get this man back in my life the wqay i want him its like when he’s here i’m complete and when he is not here a part of me is missing please someone help me find an answer on how i can get my one and only true love back all the way
I want to know what guys do when they want their ex back.
Especially if they were the one to brake it off.
and if you know what made you realize it was a mistake to split up, please say
thank you.
oh, and please don’t say the usual "they’re your ex for a reson" s h i t, because you could also get back together for a reason 
xx
My Girlfriend & I have been together for almost a year now & things were (up until recently) going really great. Just yesterday when we had been spending some quality time together, she tells me that she loves me, but she does not want to get into a serious relationship anymore (I understand where she’s coming from because she’s a free-spirited, fun-loving person that can’t be tied down to commitments & I for one will never keep her like a prisoner or some sort of prize. I also know that she’s been through relationships before that really changed her mindset about taking that route or ever finding that perfect love – a guy who will appreciate her & love her for who she is – ever again).
She then says to me that she would only be wasting my time & end up hurting me, so it’s best that we remain good friends. I don’t know if she’s doing this just to protect me, but I don’t believe that she would be wasting my time (as she put it). I realize that maybe she just needed space to think for a while (especially with the stress she had during the past week), but I love her with all of my heart & soul. I have mentioned to her that if ever she needed anything, I will be there for her (& I have done so already, never expecting anything in return because just being able to be there for her makes me happy – she appreciates that & it only makes her love me even more).
I don’t know why she’s changed her mind about us (because I know I haven’t done anything wrong & I know she isn’t anyone else), but it’s not going to change the way I feel about her & it’s not going to stop me from caring. I love her, but I don’t want to lose her.
Is this all it’s ever going to be? Are we nothing more than friends?
I made that mistake once before (& I nearly lost her), I promise that I will do whatever it takes to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
Yes, I AM prepared to wait for her & I know that she needs a little space to breathe, especially after what she’s been through last week (I have thought about everything & I know what I want. I love & adore her & I will be here for her no matter what).
What can I do or say to reassure her of this?
I know that I shouldn’t be asking for too much & I don’t mind our relationship being open-ended with no pressure, no expectations & not being tied down or feeling like a prisoner. I just don’t want to lose her by messing up, that’s all.
I am married and have a 2 yr old. I have been married for 4 years.We decided to separate in Nov. I cheated on him. I was unhappy and he had a very bad anger problem. I felt so low. He found out and wanted to resolve things and I insisted we separate. I started dating this guy pretty soon after. I found out I am pregnant. My lease where I live is ending April 1st and I have to move. Well the plan was to move with the new BF to an apt and have the baby.. But I think I am making a big mistake! I dont love him it was all fun but I want my husband. I love him and my daughter misses him so much! I made an appt for abortion on Sat. I dunno i have two options. Get the abortion and leave the bf or or move in with him and risk it but I would only be forcing myself and pretending. I am only 22. I called my husband and he said he will help me out only if I break up with the bf and stay single, he doesnt know im preggo. I want him back but he says he can’t trust me.Do I wait or take a chance????
Okay to make a long story short I broke up with the guy I lost my virginity to at 18 because I was curious bout what dating other guys was like. we had a rocky break up becuz he was deeply in love with me but I flet back then that I never wanted to be with him. So I started dating around then found a man who I thought was perfect. We dated for 3 years he evetually came to abuse me physically, emotionally, and verbally. Everytime I tried to get away it was like I couldn’t. He would plead beg cry everything. I felt so weak. This man was making me love him so deeply but only becuz I was trying to gain his love back in the same manner I gave to him. He would lie, sneak, I even believe he cheated and right when I left him, I found out i was pregnant. He then kept hitting me and I haven’t talked to him for awhile. He has texted and called a few but I want him out my life. Me and my firsy BF are getting real close he respects me and talks to me everyday and he even says he still loves me. I know I’m pregnant by someone else but I just want my ex back so bad. I just saw him and we had a beautiful time together. he kept saying how could a man treat me like this and how he still thinks im beautiful even tho i’m pregnant and he wishes i was pregnant by him. He opened car doors, fixed my plate everything. I feel like crying becuz I made a huge mistake and I want him back but I’m embarrassed to even say anything an I’m scared the guy I’m pregnant by might try to kill me over this. But I’m sick of trying to make him love me.
I had a boyfriend last year, and I broke up with him after a nine month relationship. I finally broke up with him, he loved me & he told me he cried every night. I didn’t really realize how much I actually liked him. Then over the summer I never thought about him, then school started and it hurt because i knew that he didn’t like me anymore. I realized I still loved him, so I told him, and he asked me out, and that night he broke up with me over text. It really hurt..
I moved on, and i got another boyfriend but i realized i still loved my ex, so i broke up with my boyfriend because i thought it was wrong to have a crush while going out with someone.
My ex always texts me, sends me love forwards and he always says sweet things, but i don’t know what to do, because i don’t want to come right out and tell him i like him again. because we are supposedly "good friends", how can i get him back forever, and keep him and not make the same mistake?
I lost the love of my life a little while ago because (like every guy does at one point) I did something really stupid. I miss her so much and I just wanna be with her and tell her how amazing and special she is to me, but she’s very upset with me and I just want to fix what I did… How on earth do I get her back after a huge mistake?
a few weeks ago i dumped my bf joe..so now i miss him so much..and now i realize that it was a mistake dumping him!…so how should i get him back into likeing me if he doesnt anymore?..how should i get him back making it sound like my age witch is 13? and idc if u think in too young to have a boyfriend…so yeh..lol thankies!
