My and my ex where together for like 3 years when we got together she had a 3 year old son and is 8 now. By the time of the break up he was calling me his step dad, and the kid really loves me. Well i cheated on my ex and we broke up, crushed his heart that i wasnt there all the time, but i still saw him not as much as i should but i was there. Well now that i have more free time i can see him more. I pick him up once a week from school and take him back to my house and we do his home work, cook dinner, watch tv, play games and talk. Normally its jus me and him, my new girlfriend usaully leaves wheile he is there and has never meet him out of respect, she never wanted him to feel weird. Well i talk to him about her, and she even bought him his own spider man plate for when he comes over, well he asked to meet her. So yesterday she stayed home with me and was there with him. He had a great time, she even went and bought monolpy for us all to play since i dont have any board games for him… They talked and he really liked her, when me and him were jus in the store he pointed to a chcocalte heart and said "why dont you buy this for your girlfriend i think she should will like it"…. So i’m driving him home like cool they both had a great time he was so happy he was like next week i’m beating both of you in monolpoy.. Well when i tell his mom that she was there she got MAD. She said that i disrespected her, she said i should of told her first and let her decide.. Like decide what?? You know i’m a good father figure( better that his real dad but thats another story) but she is second guessing my descion. I know the only reason she does not want her around is cause i cheated with her. They also got into a fight 3 years ago, my ex showed up at me and my girlfriends place and started a fight with her… I jus want peace is she wrong for not waitning her around isn’t this childish??? He loves me i love him, he has a good positive time with me and thats whats important right?? Shouldnt we do whats best for the kid not what makes her boar float??? Side note i don’t smoke in the house when he is there, i barley curse in front of him i dont drink beers in front of him, like some people(her) but yet she says she has to decide how she is gonna proceed with this, lol…. HELP
I’m 23, live in nyc w/ my G/F. My dad is 63, normal, he lives with my 30 yr old mentally retarded sister and my mom, 61, who has had dementure since June ‘03. She is in stage 6 of 7 (severe cognitive dementure). Next stage she will lose ability to move or even swallow.
She developed it from a thyroid problem which was rooted to a smoking habit. I noticed it VERY mildly at first, didn’t think anything of it. But when it took significance it literally happened OVERNIGHT. It is so cruel what God did to her. The home has never been the same since and I hate that she wasn’t there to see all I’ve been through the past 5 yrs. Its kinda like she’s already dead cuz it doesn’t matter what u tell her or what she sees, she won’t hear it or see it as my mom would.
Imagine God made someone u love unconscious for the rest of their life, in a limbo state, until they die INSTEAD of getting hurt or whatever and immediately dying. That’s what this is like and it pisses me off so much. It sucks I can’t tell her anything, she can’t know my future wife as a person, she can’t even meet my future kids.
She used to tell me she would watch over my kids while I go out with my girl on a special date. And I looked forward to that. I hate she has to go down like this, "slowly" dying. Picture getting shot and living w/ a bullet in u for 5 yrs, getting worse and worse. Its so wrong.
My dad can’t afford to put her in nursing home, not even for a few hrs a day, and there’s no room for a house aide. So I guess she will never know me again right? Or my wife or kids or when I make it in film business. Right?
I don’t want my dad to come back at all.. He was kicked out of our house by CPS from leaving bruises on us, yet he still has a chance at coming back. I honestly dont want him back. My mom never sticks up for us anymore, and i dont know what to do.
I want a purity ring……?
My mom says that I should just use any ring but I want one that says something like "True Love Waits" I have just read a great book and all of the book all of the girls were christian and wore purity rings and after a little research I realy want one I have already promised to save myself till marriage (i did a long time ago) I am 13 and have no way to get money but REALY REALY want one I want my friends to ask and me to tell them I am saving myself for marriage How can I get the money for it, and I dont just want it to be there I want to have a special time with god read a few passages and pray do you know of anything I could read or anything I want this to be a special thing between me and God
My ex boyfriend stole my dog. How do I get her back?
ok, so here goes.. ill try and make it as short as possible:
My exboyfriend, and I broke up about a year and a half ago. While we were together, we bought a dog from the humane society for me. (He had a dog too and i wanted one i could call mine) He paid for her up front (in his name) and I paid him back in cash (no record). I had no clue what that horrible decision would lead to. So, a year and a half ago we broke up and i moved out (we were living together in his home).. i took my dog, Kaili, with me and she has been with me ever since… i have been taking very good care of her… im not sure if you have a dog, but my dog to me is like a real daughter, a best friend, a sister. She means everything to me. I even have a perscription from my psycologist for her so that my apartment complex would let me keep her. .. along with a pet deposit and everything.. so what i am saying is that there is proof that Kaili has been my dog for the past year and a half. ….
A few months ago, __ and i started hanging out again as friends. I would let him take Kaili on his own when i worked doubles so that Kaili had the other dog to play with and __ just lost his job, and she makes him happy. On February 15th, I took a trip to the keys where brad was, and didnt hang out with him, so he got his feelings hurt. Ever since, I have been dealing with his psycotic behavior. He started harassing and threatening all kinds of things (including taking my dog away from me) in text messages and emails. He has been doing the same to about 5 of my friends, my sister, my mom, my dad and my dad’s girlfriend. He even wrote a long letter pretending to be one of my friends to my dad’s girlfriend and it made her throw up. I have emails of him pretending to be me writing them. Each of my friends and family members have received over 50 text messages each. And thats not where it gets bad. I was told I should have filed a restraining order right away, and i didnt, and i still haven’t. I figured his behavior would die down and that by me ignoring him, that he would stop. But, it just got worse. About a week ago, I was working a double at work so on my break i took Kaili to my moms to watch her. after i got out of work, i picked kaili up from my moms house and brought her home to my apartment.. as i was walking to my front door (which is in the back of the apartment building) ___ came out of nowhere, running fast at me, wripped the dog’s leash from my hand and kept running with my dog! I had no clue what to do so i called the police. Basically they told me that this was a "civil thing" and that a dog is "personal property" and if the dog is in ___’s name, that he can do what he did. I explained to them that i felt assaulted and scared, that ___ literally could have been waiting hours for me in the dark b/c i get out of work at all different hours so he couldnt have known an exact time.. they told me the most they could do is escort me to his apartment or a place i know where he is and they can try to reason with him but they cant just take the dog back. I kept asking them "how is this not a crime?" "how did he not just assault me?" and they basically told me to take it to court or let him have the dog. They also told me that they couldnt do anything to me if i stole the dog right back.
SO… here i am now. i just got all the paperwork from my vets and i can come up with all the proof she has been MY dog.. but im guessing i need to go to court… i can use any advice on what to do next… there are two issues here, my dog and my safety.. do i go file a restraining order now? and then take him to court later? what do i do?? i am so lost and i feel so hopeless… I am not in the wrong in this situation but i feel like nobody cares to take on this matter. again, she is my daughter, i need her back. Please help me with whatever you can… maybe you know a good lawyer i can use??
any information can help. I would also like to stress the fact that i don’t have a lot of money.. i am not a dependent on anyone (including my parents) i am a single waitress with my own apartment so im not the richest person.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. Since we started dating his mother always warned him that I’d "trap" him into staying with me. We now have a 15 month old daughter together and his mother totally denies her grandchild. She wants me to get a paternity test because we are not married so she’s just so sure that my daughter is in no way related to her son, even though she looks like all of her children. My daughter never got a Christmas or birthday present from her. Also, his mother treats him like he’s 14. He is 26! For example, he is "not allowed" to have a cell phone. Seriously? So, I’ve agreed to get this test done because nothing would make me more satisfied than to shove the results in her face. She told my mom that she should have dragged me by my hair to "take care of" my pregnancy instead of letting me trap her son. What? I’m 24 years old. I’ve been with her son for 5 years. I love him and he loves me. How do I tell this crazed woman off without making her loathe me even more? I need to tell her that I’m an adult and I insist on her treating me that way. I’d also like to tell her to cut the cord already. Her son now has a family of his own, she can’t be breathing down his back forever. Right?
Um.. I’m sorry but it’s 2009. Not 1950. Having a child out of wedlock isn’t really socially unacceptable anymore. I mean sure, for some religious views it is, and that’s fine. I promise you I wont burn in Hell though because I had a child with someone I love. I did not just "spread my legs". That being said, my boyfriend’s father just got up and left one day, and got remarried without telling ANYONE. Including his children. So I feel that his mom has some abandonment issues and that’s why she’s holding onto her kids for dear life. I dont want to yell at her and make her feel bad, I just want her to know I dont appreciate the way she treats me. My boyfriend is only just realizing that she’s irrational and he’s about to burst himself. If she starts to say bad things about me to my face I have no right to tell her to back off?
I was wit my ex for 3 1/2 yrs.One day everything was perfect then the next it came crashing down.It seems like it wasn’t even coming.
I was asking her all week to go see a movie with me and she really wanted to go to the bar i didn’t understand why? why couldn’t we go see a movie instead that’s what i really wanted to do i have alcoholism problems in my family and it seemed like we were going there every weekend so i thought we could spend some quality time out together and see a movie.
We fought about it all day I didn’t understand what was so important at the bar, So i decided to do my own thing wit a friend and she did hers i went to a movie she went to the bar about 11:00 pm i received a text say in how i was unbelievable for being mad i didn’t think i was you were choosing a bar over me.
But at this point i just didn’t want to fight anymore it was our first big fight i mean we had little arguments that 2 Min’s later we were kissing and making up so i went to the bar to tell her i was sorry and lets go home when i got there she was wasted i pulled her up against the wall to tell her that and this old hag said i was going to beat the shit out of her i couldn’t believe that none of that was true i left the bar and went home and texted her and called her all Nite and no replays back i had someone call her house for me in the morning and her father replied by saying she hasn’t come home.
He thought that she spent the night wit me and about 15 Min’s later she called my mom telling her how much she loved me and then called me and told me she couldn’t do it anymore but not to tell my family and dont let anyone get involved that she loved me and just needed time well by then the tears was flowing i begged her not to do it and i didn’t understand why it was a fight.
She called me about four times that day wanting to talk and tell me not to listen to her best friend if she was telling me to move on.She asked me to come up and talk to her and i did she told me she was in love wit me and needed time and that she liked someone remind you the person she liked is about 35 yrs older then her and she is 22 i replied love and like is two different things at the end of the day i am the one that is going to matter She acted like she couldn’t be seen with me and watched every car that drove past like she was scared.
She hugged me and didn’t wanna leave go like she knew it was the last hug she was going to give me.Later on that Nite i went to the bar wit a couple friends i needed to get somethings off my mind and she was there with the person but kept lookin at me all Nite we all got into it and i left and the new person in her life said i needed to get over it she is wit me now i thought within 9 hrs you found someone else that’s bad but the next day she continued to call me and cry saying i was never going to speak to her again n how she loved me and didn’t want me to hate her.
She called me twice and then drove past my house which i caught her to see where i was for 2 months after the fact she continued to check up on me wit friends and stuff but we stopped talkin about a month after we broke up and now she seems to have so much anger with me but wants me to need her or want her.She gets angry if she thinks i am moving on threatens to beat the other person up constantly stares at me but has to run her mouth like she wants the person she is with to believe she is done with me and thats it.
She constantly has to remind herself and other people she is happy and does not regret it but is drunk all the time but went after the girl i was with new years eve and cried and then proceed to punch my window and tells her to get out of the car and fight her and when i said i am not the one who made this choice you are she started to cry and said it wasnt a mistake i dont understand i love her i am inlove with her i dont understand how she can tell ppl she is happy ignore me and cant tell me its really over to my face but can make me the center of her world when i am in the same room as her and her new person is sitting next to her she doesnt kiss that person or barely speak to that person just stares at me i dont get it how do i get her back?
I’m an 18 year old guy. Here’s the story…
During most of my young childhood, I had a wonderful, loving relationship with my mom. But then it seemed, over a fairly short amount of time, that we had grown extremely far apart. My parents had a trouble marriage. At one point my mom cheated on my dad and it got to the point that they were fighting and screaming at each other every night. Then when I was about 13 years old, my mom had a near death experience with a ruptured appendix. She said that God saved her. After that, she became extremely religious and changed in many ways from her old self. For example, she used to tell me there is nothing wrong with homosexuality, but now she says that homosexuals are an abomination. By that time, my mom had quit her job and instead got up every morning and read the bible. She went to a some kind of class, like a life-coach therapeutic class. Then she said that she started to remember things from her childhood, like her dad molesting her as a girl. I’ve talked to my uncles and my grandmother about it and they said that all they remember is that my grandfather did check to see if her "cherry was broken." She then got angry with every single person in her family and cut all ties with them, even though they seemed close. Finally my parents said that they were getting a divorce. But, my mom wanted custody of me and my brother. It was a lengthy, dreadful, and expensive divorce. What pushed me over the edge was when me and my mom got into a horrible fight. We were yelling at each other and she kept getting in my face and screaming at me because I said she was acting crazy. Then she said that maybe it’s me that’s crazy and just snapped and lost all control. I picked up a picture frame and slammed it down on a chair. Then I went into her room and destroyed everything I could find. She called the police, and they arrested me because a tiny shard of glass cut my mom’s leg from the picture frame. I was 15 years old. After that, we just stopped talking. She kept saying it was my fault that I went to jail. She wasn’t completely cold however. She would cry because I wouldn’t call her. But I just couldn’t take the hurt that she brought anymore. My dad got custody of me and all charges of domestic violence was dropped. I made a few attempts to see her, but she would talked about is how wonderful God and Jesus are. Now we don’t talk. I called her on Christmas but she didn’t answer. She lives a mile away from me, and it’s so sad. I don’t cry anymore and I have more or less moved on, but it just kills me because it almost feels like my mother is dead.
I’m sorry I ranted, but this is also just helping me get it off my chest. Do you think I am being a horrible son for not talking to her? What should I do?
My mom says that I should just use any ring but I want one that says something like "True Love Waits" I have just read a great book and all of the book all of the girls were christian and wore purity rings and after a little research I realy want one I have already promised to save myself till marriage (i did a long time ago) I am 13 and have no way to get money but REALY REALY want one I want my friends to ask and me to tell them I am saving myself for marriage How can I get the money for it, and I dont just want it to be there I want to have a special time with god read a few passages and pray do you know of anything I could read or anything I want this to be a special thing between me and God
ok so my boyfriend and i semi brokeup, i want to go on a break but he says he doesnt know,
we talk about everything to eachother, we are literaly best friends but this year was his first year in college and its been really hard for him, i know hes never cheated and he never would , (his mom and dad cheated on eachother and he hates the entire concept)
so thats not an issue, but hes having a really hard time at school with all his new friends (who are assholes) and trying to balance school, work, his friends, and me.
i told him i understand and i think we need a break to settle everything and we both still love eachother so i think it will work out.
is there anything i can do to really show him that i care about him, dont want to loose him, but understand how important and hard all of this is to him?
ok – back in October I met a guy on an online dating website. About 3 weeks after we started talking, he had to go to the U.K. on business. As soon as he got home from there, we were finally going to meet. However, circumstances arose, and he had to go to Nigeria to be with his mom who was facing a major surgery. He called me up and was very upset. Long story short, I loaned him 00 to help with his moms surgery. One thing lead to the next, and teh next thing you know he said that if I could loan him enough money to come home that he would pay me back everything he owes me. So , then nice and trusting person I try to be, I sent him 00 for a plane ticket to come home. I asked him if he got his plane ticket, and he said he couldn’t get it because he had to pay his cell phone bill and his internet bill before they would let him leave the country – and his bills were totalling more than i sent him. I am starting to believe this is all a scam. I would like to know how I can get my money back and get it back as fast as possible. ANY AND ALL HELP WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S. : I have learned my lesson about internet relationships now – so PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS PLEASE !!!!!
i have a confession i had a affair on my wife well shes not really my wife but 6yrs and kids shes my wife.i have not been home for 2 month and 7 days and all i think about is going home.i did go home a couple of times and i did stay the night and it felt so good to just be there with her and the kids.i havent been in my house sence her mom got there on feb 14 her mom and we do not see eye to eye.she lived wiht us 2 different times.it was hard on our relationship haveing her there then and to have her there now i fill i dont have a chance to get her back.i try to show her and tell her how sorry i am an i will never do anything to hurt her or betray her love again,she tells me i dont know what i want she tells me i need time and i wonder if its time for her to get over what i did or to get over me and as a man im not scared to say im scared of loseing her.i love this women more than anything in the world and if i could only turn back the hands of time i would have done alot of things different.i hope there someone that can tell me how to get her to forgive me and let us be as one again for the rest of my life at least. thanks
We were together for over a year now. Since the last 3 months she has been coming up with problems everyday. One day she says her family is very rich and things wont work between us, i console her and she is ok. Next day she says her mom and bro are against this relatyionship and dont like me (P.S – they havent even seen and met me although i wanted to meet but she told me not to), then one day she says what if teh society objects to our relationship, i console her again. Next day she says her mom n bro like me but somehow her mom says our marraige wont work in future and again i have to console her. Every morning she breaks up with me and i console her and she comes back to me and within a few hours she breaks up with a new problem . This has been happening for 3 weeks everyday now. Finally she broke off yesterday saying she will never come back.I love her truly and ready to accept her but now I am confused guys if she really loved me or what….
What can I do to get him running back!?
I miss him?
I know this is long, but please bear with me! lol i needed to explain all of it so you get the whole picture! ok so, Billy and i have been together on and off (but mostly on) for the past year. Hes 36 years old (I am 24), he has a good job but hes living in his parents basement right now.
He has a 4 year old son and just went through a nasty divorce. it had nothing to do with me! we got together after the fact. i love him so much, we share soo much in common. his son loves me to death and we are very close. things with Bill got really good for a while, he wanted me to commit but i wanted to make sure things were going to stay good before i completely jumped in with both feet.
But he adores me, told me i am “stunningly beautiful” and that he feels soo lucky to have such a catch and that he cant believe that he didnt see all my great qualities before, when things were rocky! i felt so good and excited. ive gotten into modeling and have been independent for over 5 years. but to my dismay, he started acting really distant out of nowhere about 2 weeks ago.
He wasnt really saying i love you and just didnt seem as into me. he randomly started giving me this BS that he didnt want to be committed, and wanted to be able to see other people! ouch! it devatstated me, how do you just change that fast!!? i went to go visit my mom in florida last week. i was only there for 6 days! he didnt even call me once while i was away and didnt even return the 3 calls i made to him. it ruined my trip cuz i was so upset and confused. he did come to pick me up from the airport this saturday with his son, he ended up telling me after i asked what was going on and he told me he met someone else…
..and that its not serious with her and he doesnt want to be committed to her (or anyone) he said he doesnt know what he wants right now. i cried but i didnt beg or freak out and i havent called or seen him since he carried my suitcase upstairs to my place and said im sorry, gave me a long hug (that i didnt return) and said be strong please! then he left. since then no word!! its killing me!!
But i will NOT call him and be rejected and look pathetic and desperate. i dont want to push him away further! but i want him to realize what a huge mistake this is and come back to me like he was before. what should i do!? will he come back with his tail between his legs?
I dont want to totally give up either!
thanks guys!
Ok well my daddy works for Delta Airlines as a pilot and every time he goes on a trip I get so completely freaked out. Before Delta he was in the Air Force so he has been in and out my whole life. The leaving isn’t new to me, so why am I now having all these problems? I have to be awake when he gets home, if its at 4 in the morning it doesn’t matter. I stay awake until I hear him come in. Now I even make him call my school to let me know he is home. If he is so much as an hour late I have trouble breathing, can’t move, and start thinking terrible thoughts. I don’t know what to do. My mom says I’ll get over it, but I’m not sure. Like I said he has been leaving and coming back forever and it just started to bug me the past year. Am I going crazy or something?
I’ve never really been a daddy’s girl, and we arent extremely close either. Just father and daughter.
We were together for over a year now. Since the last 3 months she has been coming up with problems everyday. One day she says her family is very rich and things wont work between us, i console her and she is ok. Next day she says her mom and bro are against this relatyionship and dont like me (P.S – they havent even seen and met me although i wanted to meet but she told me not to), then one day she says what if teh society objects to our relationship, i console her again. Next day she says her mom n bro like me but somehow her mom says our marraige wont work in future and again i have to console her. Every morning she breaks up with me and i console her and she comes back to me and within a few hours she breaks up with a new problem . This has been happening for 3 weeks everyday now. Finally she broke off yesterday saying she will never come back.I love her truly and ready to accept her but now I am confused guys if she really loved me or what….
We were together for over a year now. Since the last 3 months she has been coming up with problems everyday. One day she says her family is very rich and things wont work between us, i console her and she is ok. Next day she says her mom and bro are against this relatyionship and dont like me (P.S – they havent even seen and met me although i wanted to meet but she told me not to), then one day she says what if teh society objects to our relationship, i console her again. Next day she says her mom n bro like me but somehow her mom says our marraige wont work in future and again i have to console her. Every morning she breaks up with me and i console her and she comes back to me and within a few hours she breaks up with a new problem . This has been happening for 3 weeks everyday now. Finally she broke off yesterday saying she will never come back.I love her truly and ready to accept her but now I am confused guys if she really loved me or what….
this guy…soooooooo chweet was my bf…we loved eachother SO MUCH….he couldnt live without me for even a day..it was a long dstnce relationship…we swore to love eachother always….in december when he returned..we met for the first time..n kiss 
later in feb he broke up giving contradicting reasons…i asked many questions..his reply was ‘i dont know’…
he broke up…we kept emailing eachother after that..i was v rude to him..n so was he..any way, he finally go SO annoyed that he put me in his ignore list..then surprisingly later on removed me..i havnt spoken to him since then..
he promised to love me till eternity…he was sooooo intoxicating when we met..so gentle….so hypnotising.,..
i cant believe the guy i loved so much has turned so rude…i am v emotional…i trust people ONLY when i knw they wont break it..
i trusted him too…after he broke me…i hv lost interest in life…in everything…mom is worried too…so r my pals..unlike my frnds..i still havnt started crushing on other guys after the breakup…
i fear trusting poeple….i fear to fall in love again….coz if all this repeats i ll die…seriously…i dont want to get married ever….mom knows everything. she is v supportive…i hv my frnds…i hv my family…yet d sense of loss of losing him is still there…i cant get him out of my heart…i hgave so many reasons to hate him..yet i cant…i know things r over yet i pretend he’s still with me…i dont know why…i feel like hugging him soooo tight..and crying…n not letting him go any where…
i dont want to be like this forver…this is amperin my performnce in school…and my disposition…
i chat a LOT…u ll want to zip my mouth!!! bt thats no longer there…mom says…i stay alone all the time…lost in his thoughts…
i really want to have him right next to me…i love him…BUT i want to forget him…what should i do?! will i re,main like this forver??! will i ever love someone again?!? what will i do when he comes to indis this november?!? (he’s abroad fer studies) v r 16..
its 6 months now…
i dont seem to like any guy…not that there rnt good 1z..derz this popular guy in my skool whom grls r head over heels for..2 b honest..he looks way better than my ex..BUT…i dont find hm AS good as my ex was..:(
not only him bt all guys!! X(
Okay, so I posted a question a little while ago (maybe a few weeks) that was asking if my writing was good – It was a romance scene on a beach between two people named Jak and Erin.
Well, I was writing, (at 3 in the morning, again!!!) and so here’s the second romance scene between them. I just want to know if it feels real to you. Thanks for the help!
“Inexcusable!” Erin’s mom, Erica, said to Erin and Jak. “I was worried sick! We had no idea where you were, and you didn’t answer your cell phone any of the times I called you! Where were you all of this time?”
“I was…” Erin glanced at Jak for a solution.
“At the beach, Mrs. Whittier,” Jak said, a smile on his face.
“Um…yeah!” Erin said, thanking Jak silently for saving her. “We were…uh… swimming and lost track of time. My cell phone was in my shorts.”
“Didn’t you hear it ringing?” Erin’s mom asked, skeptical.
“We were in the ocean, Mrs. Whittier,” Jak said.
“Plus…um…it was on vibrate. I swear!” Erin exclaimed as her mom held out her hand for Erin’s cell phone to check if it was on vibrate or not.
Please, please, please, let it be on vibrate! Erin silently prayed, crossing her fingers behind her back. It was. Thank God! Erin yelled in her mind.
“I believe you, Erin, because you’ve never given me a reason to doubt you before, but know that trust can be lost in a split second, and it is much harder to gain it back. But if this ever happens again,” Mrs. Whittier paused, glaring at both Jak and Erin with the same murderous stare that Erin could imitate so well, “Erin you’re grounded for a week. That means no cell phone, no computer, and no going out of the house.”
“Okay mom,” Erin said, relieved that her mother was giving her a second chance.
“We’re really sorry,” Jak added.
“Okay. Jak,” she turned to him, “you should probably be getting home now. Your parents are probably very worried about you!”
“Yes, Mrs. Whittier,” he glanced at Erin, mouthed the word, window, and walked out the front door.
“Erin, get to bed. It’s very late.”
“Okay mom,” Erin said, giving her mother a kiss goodnight. Erin walked towards her room. Thank god it’s on the ground floor! Erin thought. She was about to walk into her room, but on second thought, she took the time to brush her teeth and comb her long brown hair, getting all of the tangles out from the breeze on the beach. Then, she walked into her room and found Jak sitting on her bed.
“Hey, stranger,” she whispered, closing the door behind her.
“Hey,” Jak said back, looked at her, into her intense green eyes, and decided to just say what he was going to say. “I’m sorry about what we did on the beac–” but Erin cut him off, sitting down on the bed next to him.
“I don’t regret what we did,” Erin said, reaching for his hand and grasping it, intertwining her fingers with his. “Look, I really like you,” she paused and blushed, “and I just didn’t realize it before because we were such good friends and all.”
“I like you too,” Jak replied, smiling, excited. “But what are we going to do about this? Us?” he clarified.
“We could start with this,” Erin said in a low whisper, looking at him, shy, for the first time. Jak found himself wandering in Erin’s eyes, looking for approval of what they were about to do. He found it.
Their heads came close, but this time, they were less hesitant. Then, as their lips met, Erin felt a whole new sensation from the one she felt on the beach. On the beach, the kiss seemed dangerous and daring, but now, it was familiar, as if it was needed. The kiss was full of yearning to learn more about each other and, in a way, to learn more about themselves.
Jak’s lips were gentle on hers, moving slowly, but surely, asking and pleading that this was still okay with her. Jak somehow sensed her willingness to move forward, and he became more enthusiastic. He wrapped his arms around her, smelling her raspberry scent, seeing her vulnerability, seeing her true self for the first time. Jak suddenly realized that he needed Erin. She was the only one who understood him, his only good friend. Now, he needed her more than ever because he could never forget.
They kept on kissing, and it was full of magic and wonder. Neither would let go and they were holding each other for what seemed like decades, but really no time had passed at all. Because time was now irrelevant, as they had finally found each other.
They both broke away and opened their eyes. Jak’s black eyes gorged into Erin’s green ones forever searching inside of her, inside of her heart, never wanting to leave but also knowing that he must. He grabbed her hands and whispered, “I have to go.” Erin nodded, tears coming fast. Jak squeezed her hands, hugged her, and gave her one last kiss before he climbed out of the window and sprinted across the wet lawn back to his house.
Erin laid down on her bed and silently cried, pulling her comforter close to her, smelling the balmy beach air blowing through her still open window. She cried for no reason and yet she cried for every reason. She just cried. It seemed like days. She finally cried herself to sleep.
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hey anyone who answers this question: please tell others to answer because i really need as much input as possible! Thanks so much!
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months now and i really love her, last night we got into a major argument over her ex, things got bit ruff and i started to yell at her on the phone. her mom saw her crying and told her not to see my again… i visited her the same day to talk to her in person when she came in the car she told me that her mom wouldnt allow for her to talk to me…. after the arguement i triend to explain my self… over the phone but her mom told me that no guy ever made her cry and be down and that she has also dated guys and no one has made her this sad… and im a horrible person< i wanted to tell her mom that she prb never treated her boyfriend like her daughter has treated me but i didnt say it regarding respect. her mom hanged up on me and now her parents are ignoring my calls ( only called twice) … and they think that their daughter bf< me is a very bad boyfriend when they dont even know the whole story… today is second day, yesterday i saw her at college, and i told her i care about her and wish her luck we went away with strong emotions.. towards each other…now im confused on what to do .. i cant really move on without her. i have litterally spend each day seeing her… and i feel like iv lost some really close to me ? i need an advice on if i should move on ? how? if i should try to get back with her? how? how can i fix things with her parent? please i need help!!!
Well me and this girl became best friends in 7th grade. She was my teacher’s daughter. me and her did everything together. i never had such a best friend in my whole entire life. she even slept over my house on school dayys and my mom would never let anybody else do that. i could name 100 things that we did together. then all of a sudden she had to move to a diffrent school and things had to change.she never had time for me anymore. she was making up all the reasons she could for not being friends anymore. she said that i would only stick up for her when she was around and then when she wasnt i laughed at the people who were talking about her. i was like thats a lie i never laughed at people who were talking crap about u and then i was like till this dayy i still stick up for u even if were not friends. i mean she was my best friend. and then she said i turned into a prep and i didnt want to be her friend and that was also a complete lie and so on. so what is there to do?
so is there anything i can do to try and become friends again with her?
well i know i deserve better than this. but its rly hard to move i miss her wayy to much. she has been with me through the rough and happy times. if u give me a great awnser that will help me out you will get 10 pts. and 5 stars.
I have a son son who is eleven months old. I missed out on alot in pregnancy and birth due to his extreme prematurity. I *think* I would like to have more children, but I’m scared about another preemie. I also worry that I would be having another child to try to "make up" for what we missed. So I have weighed the pros and cons of having more children very hard. I always thought I wanted lots of kids…but…being a mom is hard work and I want to make sure I do it right everytime, and I can’t be a SAHM forever, I went to college to work doing what I love. I worry about my son being an only child too…is that fair to him??? Oh geeze..I’m rambling again. My question is, in your opinion, what is the perfect number of children to have? Please don’t answer unless you are willing to say why you think your answer is correct, a simple number doesn’t help me process this. Thanks all.
I know this is long, but please bear with me! lol i needed to explain all of it so you get the whole picture! ok so, Billy and i have been together on and off (but mostly on) for the past year. hes 36 years old (I am 24), he has a good job but hes living in his parents basement right now. he has a 4 year old son and just went through a nasty divorce. it had nothing to do with me! we got together after the fact. i love him so much, we share soo much in common. his son loves me to death and we are very close. things with Bill got really good for a while, he wanted me to commit but i wanted to make sure things were going to stay good before i completely jumped in with both feet. but he adores me, told me i am "stunningly beautiful" and that he feels soo lucky to have such a catch and that he cant believe that he didnt see all my great qualities before, when things were rocky! i felt so good and excited. ive gotten into modeling and have been independent for over 5 years. but to my dismay, he started acting really distant out of nowhere about 2 weeks ago. he wasnt really saying i love you and just didnt seem as into me. he randomly started giving me this BS that he didnt want to be committed, and wanted to be able to see other people! ouch! it devatstated me, how do you just change that fast!!? i went to go visit my mom in florida last week. i was only there for 6 days! he didnt even call me once while i was away and didnt even return the 3 calls i made to him. it ruined my trip cuz i was so upset and confused. he did come to pick me up from the airport this saturday with his son, he ended up telling me after i asked what was going on and he told me he met someone else. and that its not serious with her and he doesnt want to be committed to her (or anyone) he said he doesnt know what he wants right now. i cried but i didnt beg or freak out and i havent called or seen him since he carried my suitcase upstairs to my place and said im sorry, gave me a long hug (that i didnt return) and said be strong please! then he left. since then no word!! its killing me!! but i will NOT call him and be rejected and look pathetic and desperate. i dont want to push him away further! but i want him to realize what a huge mistake this is and come back to me like he was before. what should i do!? will he come back with his tail between his legs? i dont want to totally give up either! thanks guys!
Me and my ex dated near three years, we had rough patches like any relationship and he started having hard time at home after losing his mom and became less interested in ‘us’ he even told me he wasn’t sure he wanted a relationship at the current time, nor was he sure he still loved me. So I broke up with him and we pretty much stopped talking for six months but then suddenly he started emailing me again like first time was on my b-day (which he has a offal memory for dates) so it was odd of him. then started iming me leaving offline messages like "Hey just dropping you a line and hoping your doing well" He has done that three or four times and now has been making casual convo with me over the last month two or three times. Not to mention at one time like three days after we broke up he said he was going to appear offline to me and not bother talking to me anymore but yet here he is talking to me. So does this mean he still has a interest in me near a year later, and want me back? Please help me out on this one because i still care about him perhaps even love him. So wondering if any of you guys have done the same or would do the same and girls if you have been in the same situation? Thanks a lot for the answers.
I’m 16 right now and would like to tone my body. I’m interested in mainly losing fat, which requires a restriction on my diet (and active lifestyle, I know I know). But the thing is my mom will NOT let me eat anything than a FULL plate at dinner. I make my own breakfast, eat lunch at school, but at home I am forced to eat since my mom thinks I’m too skinny. How do I get her off of my back and let me eat what I want?
Trust me I am NOT anorexic. I’m a 160 lb male with pretty decently sized muscles lol
