I have been ttc for 8 months now. 12 dpo, 1 day away from expected af , and BFN this morning. I have no pregnancy symptoms or signs of AF showing but I know she is on her way. My DH and I are getting so discouraged and just feel like it’s never going to happen. Everytime I go on the pregnancy forum, I see questions about abortion and it just breaks my heart. I am already blessed with two boy’s, 9 and 10 years old from my previous marriage so I am thankful but I am soooo wanting number 3. I really wanted a girl but at this point, I don’t care what sex the baby would be, I just want another child so bad. Why is this so hard. My first child was unexpected, I was on bc…hence the first marriage and I went to get on bc again after my first child because the ex was cheating and guess what, I was pregnant. So even though I got a divorce while I was pregnant, I am so glad I conceived my two boys but I just don’t get it, why is it so hard this time around. My dh was checked and his sperm count is great and all of my test came back good, so I am at a loss. I’m sorry, I guess I am just extremely frustrated and looking for some words of encouragement. And god bless you ladies who have been trying for a year and more. My heart goes out to you, I don’t know how you deal with the disappointment of not conceiving month after month.
Congratulations emma’s mommy…twins, you must be so excited:)
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I’ve been married to my wife for 27 years and we have 6 kids together (25, 22, 20 – twins, 16 and 13) and two months we learned that she was pregnant again with our seventh child. She is 45 and me 47. I’ve become more worried about her lately… she seems to be over stressed. I wait on her hand and foot but, I constantly find her in crying fits.
Were roman catholic and don’t believe in birth control (no judgment). I’ll admit it has been tough this time around, I think we both thought we were done with diapers and cribs. I’m worried she may not love the baby? We have the money to care for it. Is there anything I can do to bring her out of this funk? I just want a happy pregnancy and mommy.
All the other kids are supportive, although I think our 25 year old is a little freaked out. Is she just overly worried about the baby? The doctor said there is a higher risk for complications but, so far everything seems normal. I try to ask her what’s wrong and she just says, "nothing" and that its hormones. I want to help more but I’m not a woman.
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My wife has just left me for her ex. They were together for 7 years and have 2 children. Me and her JUST got married. We been together for about one and a half years. She had her kids calling me daddy. He has been a dead beat father to them. He’s hit them, neglected them on his weekends, and not payed any child support. I am in the Marines. He has nothing to offer her. Yeah me and her had problems but nothing to big to work a marriage. She has done this before and left me but came back to me. But last time she left me for another Marine and he just wanted her for one thing. I’m hurting now. She has always said how she will never go back to him. He is a dead beat and has absolutely nothing to offer her. He even still lives with Mommy at 26. What should I do? She even went as far as serving me for divorce. I posted this question earlier and got alot of "just leave hers" yes I know! But I want to know if she’ll come back to me. What do I do to get her back to me? I know she loves me and I know she’s confused. WHAT DO I DO? Any marriage can be saved!!!
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How did he know every time I wondered lifting the porcelain doll in the air. I held it close, admiring every inch of it, even how the light reflected off the tiny glass eyes almost making it seem alive. I smiled and set the doll down next to me on top of the layer of shredded wrapping paper that covered the floor. I love Christmas. I love the smell. I love the anticipation. I love taking those beautifully wrapped presents and shredding them apart wildly to see whatever treasure lie inside. Oh, and I really like candy canes. But what I really loved most was the safe feeling I got when my mom and dad wrap me up and read to me in front of the fire and don’t even complain if I eat more than one cookie.
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Mommy and Daddy don’t lie. I asked them one time. I asked specifically at dinner. I remember because it was over spaghetti with tomato sauce which is my favorite meal. After taking a really long time to chew Mommy looked me right in the eyes and said We might not tell you things the things you’re not ready to hear, but we promise we won’t lie to you. I didn’t understand that first part. What could I not be ready for? I know mostly everything already. I know most of the abc’s and I know which ones are vowels. I know that the difference between red and read is that one is a color and I’m only in kindergarten. But I guess that there are some things that I don’t know too. I don’t know why daddy leaves sometimes and why it makes mommy cry and grandma come over with wine and popcorn and old movies to make her feel better. I asked mommy why she was crying one time and she said it wasn’t daddys fault. I asked again. She shooed me away. I guess I’m not ready yet. There are some other things too. Like how come that one time last year on Christmas Eve when I took my sleeping bag downstairs and hid underneath the dining room table I never saw Santa come down the chimney even though I kept my eyes open until I saw the sun peeking through the clouds even though the moon was still out. I remember falling asleep under that table and trying to ignore the burning of tears that was stinging my throat and eyes. But when I woke up there were so many presents. And I remember being so happy that I started to cry again, but this time happy. And I remember brushing tears away with my hand and then noticing the smudge on my hand where the tears had mixed with the ink that said You can’t catch magic. Love, Santa.
Well its for school and Ive got to make it a mystery so I was gonna have her try and find out who santa really was.
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when I was 14 I got pregnant with, my son brenden, I couldnt take care of him bc I was only 14, my brother was my gaurdian to me and my other brothers, my boyfriend got scared and broke up with me, and I was alone. I decided to pick out a family for my son, with the help of my brother of course, we found a very nice family, a mom (ann) and dad (mike) with a good job, house, everything to give him a good life, and they have, recently ann contacted the agency hoping to be able talk to me. She said that they have been having problems with bredens behavior (kno age 5) about me, like "wheres my mommy", "is she coming to get me soon", and stuff like that, i told her that she should just talk to him bout me and stuff like that. Brenden is apparently nothin like me cause he was smart enough to find my phone number that ann had called and figure out it was me, and call me. He said "mommy I miss u, plz i wanna come home, i love u" he started crying and then I herd ann come in and take the phone and hang up. I love my son and REALLY REALLY want him back, I mean I can support him now, Im married I have a job so does my husband, we have a nice house, good cars, I just had a baby, im pregnant now, better than before, He wants to come home and I want him to come home and I can legally take him back right? (im in america and isnt that the only area u person can take ther child back) but I dont wanna hurt ann and mikes feelings looseing a child they had for 5 years. They already have 2 other childeren of there own also. I mean Brenden loves the family hes in, but now that he nows I can take him back I want him back.
what should i do?
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