I ordered a few things from Forever 21 online for my birthday party
The party’s on friday and I ordered on monday night. I ordered it on express so it would get here in time and everything. if you’ve ever ordered from them could you let me know how long the express usually takes. I’m in the Chicago suburbs if that helps location wise.
I dated my ex-girlfriend for a year. I met her parents several times. She was/is the perfect woman in my eyes. The only problem in our relationship was that she had a problem letting me be a part of her life. She would go days at a time without calling me. I didn’t expect her to call me everyday or even every other day. I never said anything when she went days without calling me. The Friday before Thanksgiving my ex-girlfriend sent me a text at 6 pm asking me if I wanted to go to the movies at 10 pm with her sister and brother-in-law if they decided to go. I replied yes, but I never heard from her one way or the other. I didn’t hear from her again until Monday night when she replied to a text message I sent her asking if we could talk. She seemed like she wasn’t in a talking mood. I assumed she was tired from work and I knew she had to get up early so I cut the call short. She didn’t call me back the rest of the Thanksgiving week. It’s Sunday night and I’m feeling ignored or even strung along. I overreacted because I felt hurt and sent her a text message saying I think she is a special person but I feel it would be best if I found someone closer to my own age and that I didn’t think she was at a place in her life where she was ready to be in a serious relationship. I should mention that I’m 32 and she’s 24. The next day I get a reply text stating she wished things could have worked out. I could tell I really hurt her. I immediately realized I made a big mistake by impulsively sending a hurtful break up text instead of calling her and discussing how I really felt about being ignored. I’ve been sending her text messages for a week telling her I love her and I was wrong and begging for a chance to make things right. She want reply to my texts or call me. I really love her and would do anything to get her back. My ex-girlfriend was homeschooled by her parents and still lives with them. She isn’t as independent as most 24 year old women. This could’ve been the reason she had a hard time letting me be a part of her life.
Does anybody have any suggestions on how I can get her back??? Serious responses only. I would really like to hear a woman’s perspective.
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After the gf and i had an awesome summer together, she tells me last sunday night that she is feeling stressed out and smothered. i should also point out that her bff is having a baby and another good friend just got engaged so idk if she is scared or what. She wants to take a step back and just kinda see how things are. then last monday night she tells me its put up or shut up time for her and that her gut says she cant commit to me forever so she has to see what else is out there. She has broken up with me 3 times now, once a year and now that we graduated college i thought things were going smooth. i chased her when she studied abroad in rome but she admitted that didnt help in any way (one of the times we broke up). i dont know what to do, she says she wants to talk about things and last night I texted her last Monday or Tuesday night but got no answer. Last Wednesday night i texted her and it was just a basic chat about how our days were and that work was a distraction for her but she didnt respond to my goodnight. What do i do? I know she is the one and thats part of why she does this, she knows how i feel and she in my opinion has commitment issues about forever she thinks there is something she is missing out on or that she has nothing to compare me too. how do i fix this, how do i get her back when she keeps says it has nothing to do with me?
The gf/ ex gf and I talked tuesday night and she said she loves me and cares about me but she just isnt sure if the love feeling is more then friendship this is after 3 years of going out. She said that she feels i walk on egg shells that i dont want to voice my opinion because im afraid we will break up. She said that she doesnt want to give me false hope but she considers me part of the family. I know she is the one God wants me to be with forever i just have that feeling. i have chased her in the past only for her to chase me when she thought i moved on with someone else. when will she realize the perfect picture is with me and no one else since i feel she thinks she is missing someone who is better or that she is missing out on something???



