My husband says that he is not attracted to me anymore, because I became fat and flobby, and I don’t have that firm and fit body that I had four years ago when whe got married. I became fat, and I didn’t take care of my looks because I had to work, go to school, cook, clean, wash, manage bills and monetary issues, and on top of all these I got sick. I got diagnosed with Grave’s disease, then I had my thyroid gland destroyed, so I started gaining weight like a nothing you’ve ever seen. Then, my husband told me that he was not attracted to me anymore, and the spark was not there anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I thought when you get married, it’s supposed to be a standing by through thick and thin, bad and good. O.K. I think I got all these four years hard work of mine was not worth anything. Well, I don’t blame him at all. He couldn’t work, because he didn’t have a permission to work, He is a Belgian citizen (European), and had come here with a student visa. I had to work hard, and go to school, therefore I couldn’t afford to get a lawyer to take care fo his paperwork. Anyways, I don’t know what to think, what to say. I am just stunned. I have lost ten pounds in a month now, and I am going to start exercising like I used to, and I hope he falls in love with me again. I still LOVE MY HUSBAND DEARLY, and I WANT HIM BACK. I want him to love me like he used to, so romantically, so delicately. I am crazy about him. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM. How can I get him back?
