I don’t need any comments on here telling me anything nasty. I’ve heard it all before and I don’t need anyone to call me names or tell me about my lack of morals. TRUST ME I KNOW. I have been in a relationship with a married man for about 6 months. Well I never intended to stay with him and have tried many times to end the relationship. Well anyways he is married to his wife of 10 yrs and we have discussed that he will never leave her. This I know and am ok with. They have a 2 yr old son and she is currently pregnant again. Well recently we found out that I am also expecting. At first he threatened me with suicide and after I lectured him about maturity and responsibility he came the realization that this is OUR problem and not just mine. He jokes about the baby having more of his genes and talks about how he hopes it’s a girl and everything. Well we recently ended out "relationship" sexually a couple weeks ago since he wants to try and be faithful. This I respect, I am not the first girl he cheated with but I can be the last. Well anyways we still talk on the phone and he tries to get sexual on the phone which always ends up in us having a sexual encounter. I need to leave him alone and move on and find a better man. He is 10 yrs my senior and married…I want to not love him anymore but it is hard. I’m having his baby and I don’t know what that is going to do to his life except ruin it. I need to find a way to stop wanting and needing him. WHAT DO I DO?

I was hanging out with a cute single successful guy that was totally into me, but all I was doing was thinking about my baby daddy and wishing he was there. I even paid someone money to take me to the next state to see him for two days! I have gone on two trips with him, one lasting as long as 18 days! I need help! I have to stop my obsession…what do I do??? Go to therapy? Listing all the things about him that are bad doesn’t help…I feel bad because if I feel the way I do about him, I can’t imagine how his wife feels and I don’t want to take him from her. PLEASE HELP WITH ANY POSITIVE ADVICE!!!

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What about all the online sites that say they’ll perform the spells for you? Some look very valid and what about the money back guarantees? One was even a 110% back guarantee. Or the supposed success rates? Normally I would never think about this sort of solution but I am DESPERATE to get my ex back. He’s dating someone else already and it’s TEARING ME APART. He loved me once and cared for me very much, and I am convinced he would again if I could only figure out how. I want to bring him back more than anything. That’s where the idea of a love spell came in. What do you think? I especially want to hear from people who have had them DONE before, preferably on some of these online sites.

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I want a purity ring……?
My mom says that I should just use any ring but I want one that says something like "True Love Waits" I have just read a great book and all of the book all of the girls were christian and wore purity rings and after a little research I realy want one I have already promised to save myself till marriage (i did a long time ago) I am 13 and have no way to get money but REALY REALY want one I want my friends to ask and me to tell them I am saving myself for marriage How can I get the money for it, and I dont just want it to be there I want to have a special time with god read a few passages and pray do you know of anything I could read or anything I want this to be a special thing between me and God

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Why not ? And doesn’t this make women cheapos I mean its not like it’s the 50’s, men paid cause we made SUBSTANTIAL more money than women now women caught up ALOT. Why cant women pay the second date and pay dates on alternate basis’s in relationships ?

I mean I have no problem taking my girl out and treating her good ( definitly not a cheepo) but if im doing that on a 70 to 30 bais meaning im doing more generosity than my women and she has a job, Im going to drop her like a bad habit.

Ladies dont think for second men do this to be gentlemen or at least most men. They do it because society tells then they HAVE TO. In most of there minds they are thinking " this is BS I have to pay all the time she has a job too, I would like to be treated to also but I have to or chances Im going to get la#$ed will sink like the stock market". Thats what they think and THAT IS SAD GUYS……SAD THAT MOST GUYS GO ALONG WITH IT.

GROW A PAIR, TELL HER YOU LIKE TO BE TREATED TO/ ROMANCED TOO. SHE MIGHT LISTEN AND CHANGE IF NOT DUMP HER…TRUST ME YOU WILL THANK ME. If she actually loves you she might change.

Wheew. What do yall think ? And oh yeah ladies dont be CHEEPOS and men stop being UNITS. Be fair, I see most women as my equal, yall say you want to be equal…… so act equal its not the 50’s anymore. Guys dont take that "BUT GENTLEMAN DOES THIS" excuse please it is pure BS pure manipulation and they are just trying to save money/ being cheepos. Take your girl out but dont be only one doing it

What do yall think ?
And if any of you disagree with my opionion. Bad relationships or future divorces are in your future. Money is a issue most the time in divorce
By the way women rarely ask men out. So the rule "whoever aks pays" is kinda of bs and unfair to men dont you think?

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I admitted to my husband, I slept with someone else and messed up last week after our five month marriage went sour. I told him I still loved him and wanted to save our marriage. He threw me out but then the next day relented and let me move back in on probation. I now have to report everything I do for the next month and sleep on old mattress in the back pantry as a punishment during that time. So I really am suffering, since its old and damp in there but I am willingly to do anything to save my marriage because I love my husband.

I have come to terms I cant fix things with my husband overnight, but whats bad our family is turned against me. His 17 year old brother who lives with us, no longer will talk to me and this morning said he doesn’t respect me at all anymore (it was his friend, who is 16, I slipped and cheated with). Before this ugly mess, me and my brother in law got along really well and were close friends. My mother in law thinks my husband should divorce me and leave me with nothing, and his cousin thinks I am a tramp.

The worst part is my stepdaughter. Shes 6 and she loved me like a mother (her own mother died two years back). My mother in law and brother in law are all feeding her crap that I am no good and she told me at dinner tonight I am icky for kissing another man. So really my family life is crumbling too pieces and I want everything back to normal. I am not ready to throw in the towel and be a 20 year old divorcee’. I am willingly to fight for my family and I need some good kind advice on what to do. Where do I start? How do I work things out?

DO NOT suggest therapy. I don’t believe therapy works and I believe its all a scam to make money off peoples problems. Advice is what I need.

And again no one needs to tell me I am too young to get married. I will report anyone who does and down thumb your answer.

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i looking for a good song?
that i might like! i like songs like:
the spill canvas- all over you
secondhand serenade-fall for you, vulnerable
millionaries- i like money
fabor drive-second chance
john mayer-your body is a wonderland
nickelback-far away,here with out u
the fray-look after you
my chemical romance- teenagers
ashlee simpson-outta my head
avril lavinge-hot
the plain whitte tees- our time now
can u think of any good song kinda like one of these?
thanks alot!!!
^_^
plz no chris brown he sucks and i hate him!!!!!!

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My husband’s ex called him out of the blue 6 months ago- she’s going through a nasty divorce. They have been divorced 20 years!!! We have been married 5.
They have one grown daughter, I have one teenage son who lives with us.
My husband divorced her because she cheated on him many times, and when he finally found out she threw him out of his own house-told police he was abusive (lie) and got a restraining order so she wouldn’t have to leave the home.
We had a happy marriage or so I thought. I loved him, was good wife, kept nice house and romance whenever he wanted because I love it too!

Long story short, found out he is leaving me to go back to her! They have been in touch by emails and texts. The house we live in was mine before marriage. I have been unemployed but looking for 2 years. I have no money of my own. I am devastated. When he leaves I will lose everything and have to file bankruptcy-I have spoken to lawyer. I have no choice. No money to pay anything.
At age 48 I will be living with my son at my parent’s house until I get work. I slaved for years to keep that house as a single mom. Now gone.

What would posess a man to go back to someone who did that to him? The first text I saw she said she would never hurt him again-thanks for the second chance! He never even told me he was unhappy in marriage! I ask and get no answers, no explanations. Nice guy. I told him if he was unhappy he should have come to me first to at least try!

The only thing I can logically think of is that she makes good money and he is tired of scrimping without my pay.
He always hated his father because he walked out when he was a baby and he is doing the same to me. In all honesty, why would he want that tramp that dumped him? She left him for a married man!

He will come to her rescue but leave me with nothing? Anyone ever been through this? I am a good, loving woman. I will not take him back-I have dignity, but part of me wants him to realize someday what a selfish jerk he was to do that to me. My son is crushed.

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My baby was hospitalized for a period of time. At the hospital they supply you with toys etc for your baby. My baby fell in love with a toy that they have stopped making Not for any other reason than they don’t make it anymore. I have looked everywhere. I was going to get one off Craigslist but it was out of state and I was warned by many that was dangerous. Well, I happened to find one brand new, still in the box, never opened 20 minutes from my ex’s house. He lives in a different state. I called him up and asked if he would do this favor and then have him ship it to me and I would reimburse him… He is being an ***. He said tell them you will pay extra for them to ship it. Well no one wants to ship it to me and with good reason. There is no guarantee I am going to get the product and she her money, even though I would send it. He could make this so easy and he is being a d!ck. I found one, the same EXACT one on Amazon for 0. I cannot afford that. He told me I need to buy her that one. I told her if I got child support I might be able to afford it – he does not pay child support – which is not the issue, I just want his help. Am I being unreasonable. He is supposed to call me back tonight when he gets home. What should I say? How should I approach this to get him to do this for me? MY daughter loved this toy and he just laughed that I would go through so much to get it. I know some may not agree but it’s only plus what I will owe her dad in shipping and gas! Please advice. I just want his help! Thanks!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atik7ygIhWdu4Tf6sFFo9yHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090825235446AAVEf7j
I have looked everywhere Ebay everything… I also posted this question in marriage and divorce. I got horrible answers there.. you need to go read what these guys posted.

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My mom says that I should just use any ring but I want one that says something like "True Love Waits" I have just read a great book and all of the book all of the girls were christian and wore purity rings and after a little research I realy want one I have already promised to save myself till marriage (i did a long time ago) I am 13 and have no way to get money but REALY REALY want one I want my friends to ask and me to tell them I am saving myself for marriage How can I get the money for it, and I dont just want it to be there I want to have a special time with god read a few passages and pray do you know of anything I could read or anything I want this to be a special thing between me and God

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ok – back in October I met a guy on an online dating website. About 3 weeks after we started talking, he had to go to the U.K. on business. As soon as he got home from there, we were finally going to meet. However, circumstances arose, and he had to go to Nigeria to be with his mom who was facing a major surgery. He called me up and was very upset. Long story short, I loaned him 00 to help with his moms surgery. One thing lead to the next, and teh next thing you know he said that if I could loan him enough money to come home that he would pay me back everything he owes me. So , then nice and trusting person I try to be, I sent him 00 for a plane ticket to come home. I asked him if he got his plane ticket, and he said he couldn’t get it because he had to pay his cell phone bill and his internet bill before they would let him leave the country – and his bills were totalling more than i sent him. I am starting to believe this is all a scam. I would like to know how I can get my money back and get it back as fast as possible. ANY AND ALL HELP WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. : I have learned my lesson about internet relationships now – so PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS PLEASE !!!!!

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My husband and I have been separated since October 2008 but we are not yet divorced. I filed married but filing separately.

The IRS kept my whole refund because of my husband’s back taxes.

The IRS lady told me (probably after getting upset with me) that they can do anything they want because they are the IRS.

If someone knows if I have recourse, please respond. I need this money to save my house.

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I lent him a lot of money, and he either can’t or just won’t pay me back, is there any way I can make him, maybe in a small claims court or something?

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I’m married and my husband works out of town. We’ve kept a long distant relationship for a long time now. Things seemed to be up and down for awhile and now I can’t get him to even talk to me on the phone. I desperately don’t want to lose him and I’m losing hope of us staying married. I don’t know if there is any hope for us anymore. How can I win him back?
He worked out of town when I met him a few years ago. We got married and he wanted me to quit my job and go to college. So, I did. I spoke to him over 3 weeks ago and he wanted me to get back into a job and so I have been applying with very little luck. He hasn’t been sending enough money for the bills and didn’t give me fair warning of the change of money in the deposits to come. There is a child involved and bills. I am hurt by what he is doing but I understand why he wants me to work to help out on the bills. I just understand why it is happening like this and what I could do to get him to talk to me about this.. I wonder if it is his pride or he is fed up with being in this family.

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I’m calling it "Destiny’s Dance". I’m not sure how relevant it is though. Its about this woman Bronte Ronriquez. She moves to Sacramento so that she can teach at sacramento state. her sister who is always trying to set her up lives there and keeps trying to take her out and introduce her to people. But she is really interested in the next door neighbor. She doesn’t say anything because her sister and he seem to hit it off before she has a chance to take a second glance. Her sister is works as a stripper in a club named Magic City. She has a stalker that has been following her for a while. Because she makes good money she has twenty four hour watch on her apartment and he can never get close enough to even look in the window. Anyway he follows her to her sisters house one day and her sister isn’t home she is somewhere around obviously but not there. He comes in does the regular pic the lock blah blah and rapes and kills her. Her sister finds her the neighbor comforts her and what now?

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My baby was hospitalized for a period of time. At the hospital they supply you with toys etc for your baby. My baby fell in love with a toy that they have stopped making Not for any other reason than they don’t make it anymore. I have looked everywhere. I was going to get one off Craigslist but it was out of state and I was warned by many that was dangerous. Well, I happened to find one brand new, still in the box, never opened 20 minutes from my ex’s house. He lives in a different state. I called him up and asked if he would do this favor and then have him ship it to me and I would reimburse him… He is being an ass. He said tell them you will pay extra for them to ship it. Well no one wants to ship it to me and with good reason. There is no guarantee I am going to get the product and she her money, even though I would send it. He could make this so easy and he is being a d!ck. I found one, the same EXACT one on Amazon for 0. I cannot afford that. He told me I need to buy her that one. I told her if I got child support I might be able to afford it – he does not pay child support – which is not the issue, I just want his help. Am I being unreasonable. He is supposed to call me back tonight when he gets home. What should I say? How should I approach this to get him to do this for me? MY daughter loved this toy and he just laughed that I would go through so much to get it. I know some may not agree but it’s only plus what I will owe her dad in shipping and gas! Please advice. I just want his help! Thanks!

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January 2007 – divorce final. Divorce decree states that my ex has to assume all indebtness to the mortgage debt and that he had 90 days to do it. I call LaSalle and tell them about my decree. They tell me to send them my decree and they can remove my name from the loan – great!

The mortgage gets sold to Citibank. I call Citibank and ask if they have removed my name from the loan. Nope; that little detail is completely gone. They say my ex can assume the mortgage and they faxed me the paperwork. I pass it on to him.

90 days expires and I take him to court for contempt – he is given another 6 months.

6 months expires and I take him to court for contempt again – he is given 10 months

July 2009 he informs me he is late on the payments. I pull my credit. It says foreclosed. I take him back to court for a 3rd contempt. He is sent to jail for 4 days.

Both of us get a 1099-A from CitiMortgage. They have not issued a 1099-C which suggests they want us to pay the 60K loan deficiency. I call my ex and tell him to expect Citibank to take us to court and try to collect the debt. He tells me he doesn’t have the money and doesn’t care if I have to pay the debt.

Anybody else go through this? What did you do?
I’m resending my decree to Citibank again with a letter requesting they correct the 1099-A. I’m assuming at this point in time; all I can do is show up to court when they sue me and the ex for the balance with my story and hope the judge will honor my decree.
Oh when I did pull my credit; it stated it was foreclosed – original balance and current balance was zero; which suggested at the time that my decree was reconigized.

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Just a few months ago it came to my attention that my girlfriend got back in contact with an ex boyfriend of hers that lives out of state, when confronted she claims that he found her on social networking (i.e. Facebook, and/or Myspace, and that there is noting funny going on.Aparently they are back to being friends automatically after we got into an arguement one weekend a few months ago, My girlfriends b-day passed in June, Her Ex has been staying in touch once every so often they would text and talk, One time according to my girlfriend they were on the phone for 3 hours.. They went a while without talking, but its funny whenever my girlfriend gets mad at me he comes back into the talk and texting picture with her.. She had asked me yesterday if we received a package at our PO box that we share, I said I have not seen anything.. She quickly advised me that he ex had sent over a belated b-day gift and it was returned to him RTS (Return to Sender) She asked me if I had rejected delivery.. I DID NOT!!! Now the gift is on the way and I dont quite know how to handle the situation, I did not reject delivery or even see a package come to us, nor will i reject it. She claims she loves me.. and we have and are still having our share of typical relationship issues. I also love her and dont want to lose her. But i feel that this is the top to the lid, As well one week ago he wired 80.00 into her bank account to help her buy college books, I did not have the money to give her so she called him for it. and this really bothered me.. She was able to find some money using another means and I advised her to return it, She supposely did!! She told me last night when I asked her ( why are you still talking to your ex and wanting to accept money and gifts from him) she simply answers" (Its none of your concern what I do or who I am talking to, I can talk to anybody and do whatever I want and you cannot control that.. )

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For our wedding my FH & I must give both of our families 9 months to 1 year notice to book travel and save money ETC… Also we live in the MD/DC area where if you do not book at least a year in advance you will not have a day
My FH sister is getting married in West Africa in August of 2009 since my FH & I have to take time from work in August we decided to make our wedding date in October. My FH dad has since informed me that his son should have known due to health reasons and the temperature in this region, (he is coming from West Africa) he can not travel to America in October he wants us to push the wedding until April.
Also if he were coming in April he could stay for 5 months and visit family etc… The trip is costly so he wants to make it worth while. I really want to get married and live with my husband. Having a civil marriage and a wedding ceremony later on is not an option. I feel the wedding is not about me but the joining of two families so I want our parents there. The hall said we have until Thursday to change the contract and is holding both dates. So would you do October 2009 without his folks or April 2010 with his folks? MY FH and I are posting this to see what outsiders think.

a civil cermony with a renewal of vows is not an option

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well it like this we have been married for 36 yrs,but now there no making love or anything,it seem like i am always the one to approach him ,i am the one who always trying to be romantic,he never show any feeling about it.when i try to talk to him about it,he say it turn him .off,but for the last 15 yrs nothing,he treat me like i am his house keeper or just someone to take care of him,,but there is 20 yr differencece in our ages,,i don’t know if that it or not,but he will tak to me about it,i have try to get us help ,,but he wants nothong ti do with it, and get’s very mad if i suggested it to him,he said i stupid,,to pay money for this kind of help and he don’t need any help.he, have try variety of things and pills but he still show no interest in it what so ever,i even try play dressing up, but ,,he tell me to get dress before some one come to our door,….my husband is 74 yrs old and i am 54 yrs old,i feel like he either don’t care or he do not have the desire any more.i have try to get him to get away for a nice week -end of romance,,but he say thats a waste of money, when he has his own house.so now i don’t know what to do.i know, i took vows with this man,and i know sex is not the most important thing in a reationhip..and i know i am his wife,but this has gone to far,he is very protected,and processive..and he watch me evey where i go and what i do even when i am just in my own yard.,if i go visited some one he times me,he will not go with me, but he time how long i stay at my friend home.he never want to go anywhere just stay home,and most time he sleep..as long as he knows i am inside of the house..,,so i hope you all understand ,i have so much feeling right now and i am human and in need of compassion and passion,and i desire the touch of ones love and to feel that love back when it is giving, but i feel like i am the one giving and recieving nothing back,,i have never mess up on this in all the yrs we have been married,,but some where there got to be a thin line drawn,,i hope you can understand how i feel and try to put yourself in my place,,what would you really do.and how would you really feel about this kind of relationship
please.i don’t wany any one to miss undersand ,i hav a very hight sex drive,,age has nothing to do with mine,and i am not saying we never had sex in 36 yrs,,what i am saying is for the last past 15 yrs,there has been no sex ..or anythingno kissing unless i do the kissing,..and as far as the abuse i have live with that for 36 yrs,..both mentally and physically.but he act like i am his slave not his wife..and i have try to get help..but what good is it if i am the one going and not him??as far as love,,yes i love him,but i am not in love with him any more,to me he more like a room mate not a husband ,we don’t even share the samebed room any more.
please.i don’t wany any one to miss undersand ,i hav a very hight sex drive,,age has nothing to do with mine,and i am not saying we never had sex in 36 yrs,,what i am saying is for the last past 15 yrs,there has been no sex ..or anythingno kissing unless i do the kissing,..and as far as the abuse i have live with that for 36 yrs,..both mentally and physically.but he act like i am his slave not his wife..and i have try to get help..but what good is it if i am the one going and not him??as far as love,,yes i love him,but i am not in love with him any more,to me he more like a room mate not a husband ,we don’t even share the samebed room any more.

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How to get your ex back?

My friend wants some advice to get his ex back.

He got rid of his drinking and drug use. they have a kid together, he wants to be a family again but she just wants to bitch at him.

She says she dosnt want to be with, but she wants him to watch movies with her and hang out at the house. They talk to each other, and even though he is moved out, when ever he tells her he wants to spend money on something she will say “we dont have the money to be spending” but she dosnt want him as a bf or whatever.

What should he do? I’ ve heard a lot about the Second Chance Romance Book and the methods one can use to get back together with an ex, so I think I’ll tell him to give it a try…

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We have only been married 18 months and she is very controlling and abusive. She wants to spend all of her time in the bar. It also doesn’t help that she works in a bar as a bartender. I could handle it at first but now she gets very mean. I tired to get her into counseling a year ago and she refused. For a while, she got a lot better and now she has relapsed again.
Yesterday she worked an eight hour day shift and I showed up right after she was done to pick her up. She wanted to hang out for a while so we ran into some friends and were having a great time. Then our friends left and she demanded that we stay for four hours even though I hadn’t eaten at all that day and it was now after 10pm. Then on the way home, I started getting screamed at and she hit me. She then kept screaming at me to give her the money she had given me and told me under no circumstances was I to give her the money. She was so drunk she fell trying to hit me again and then said "I made her fall".
She has had a rough life and went through things as a baby and child that no kid should have to. She constantly ditches me for the bar. I drink too, but not near as much or as often as she does. I cried my eyes out most of the night and told her today that I wanted to separate. She then asked if we could finally try counseling. I really love her and want to find the woman I love again. She refuses to go to AA and refuses to even acknowledge that there is a problem. If I mention anything, I’m nagging and have to get off her case or get screamed at. Do you think counseling will even help? She is also very jealous and has driven away 90% of my female friends, yet she is allowed to have as many male friends as she wants. She does not drive, so often I am her ride and have to stay at the bar until she is ready to go no matter how tired or hungry I am.She can be very sweet and has had a hard life. I know if I do leave, she will be crushed. What do I do? Sorry for such a long post.

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This is a Challenger brand reverse osmosis (R/O) system; Model "Conqueror II". I bought the 3 required filters and membrane myself but the company who sold us the filtration system wants to charge a high fee to come service it and if they can’t make money off the near 100% mark-up on filters and membranes they supply, they’ll charge me extra for using my own replacement supplies. Can we say "con-artist"? (NO! Not in the Water business!!)

While I’m an able bodied, intelligent adult male who can do many home repairs myself, I’m not a plumber and some of this requires crouching under the sink, working with special wrenches in precarious places. I’ve had one general appliance repairman say he THINKS he can replace these 3 filters and 1 membrane/bladder…but now I’m thinking I might be able to do it myself.

But I wanted to double check with the Yahoo! Answers community first to see if there are any do-it-yourselfers out there or R/O Water Filtration specialists who could advise as to whether I should attempt this on my own.

I’ve searched online for the instructions to replace the filters and membrane for this make and model, but have yet to discover the magic site.

Any advice?

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My husband left me in August 2001/ In January 2002 he suggested tha he file our taxes since he knew I had no money. I agreed especially since it was going to be "seperate" filing. In ay case, a few monts later I got acheck for HIM at MY address! I called and he ran right over to get i! Then he said" Hmm thats weird tha they sent it here." I suggested that I call the accountant about i and he said it was probably the mistake of IRS A week or so later the stae check came fpr him as well. THEN he called to say " Hey YOUR checks came to MY post office box! I will cash them and give you the money when I se you!" I agreed. About a week later he stopped by my ome to give me an envelope of money along with some bills. Turns out he cashed my checks ( in his account of course) then sued the money to pay in full al utility bills and cable bills that had both our names on or just his for my home. After paying the bills he got them placed solely in my name staing hta he could no longer afford to support TWO households. He left and I opened the envelope to find less than 0 !! That , with the bills meant that both my stae and federal only came to about 0! OK>…what did I know ( still was pissed about him deciding how to spend my money)
That september my oldest was enrolling in college I needed copies of my tax return to file for federal aid, etc Afte asking for a few monts my husband dropped off a file and left quickly! I opened it to find that the state return was about 00 and the federal return was almost 00 !! I sat and cried! I called him to say I would press charges nd he begged me to let him repay me. He apologized and said he would make restitution.
It is now almost 7 years and each time I think about pressing charges i feel guilty that he might go to prison, lose his teaching job, etc.
But for the past several years I have been destitute. I haven’t even worked fulltime since 2005!
Can I force him to repay?
I never signed the checks; and he used HIS address and cashe dthem thru an account that was solely in is name.

Now he tells me that since we wer still legaly married at the time he was entiled to cashing and does not have to repay

Any help? Thought? Ideas on placs to go with this??

Thanks!!

Dana

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the night before last i dreamt that i was having an affair with this guy that i new of in highschool who is now married to a friend from childhood that i rarely talk to. it was all lust, but never made it to sealing the deal (which is wierd b/c i never found this guy attractive) we were running around in my old middle school laughing and flirting and stuff. we went out to eat and i was trying to figure out what i wanted, and for some reason i was picking something healthy (salmon) but i didn’t want to spend too much because he didn’t have a lot of money. the thought popped into my head "damn, this sucks. when i’m w/ my husband i don’t have to pay attention to the prices" then i started thinking about my husband and how much i loved him and couldn’t live without him. then his wife (my friend from long ago) showed up calling me a bitch. i pulled her aside and explained that i was just realizing how stupid this was, and that i loved my husband too much to do this. she cried and said thank you and i left.

last night i dreamt that i went on vacation with this guy that i knew way back when (he dated my best friend at the time for a couple of years- again, i never found him attractive) it was a big group of people- a whole bunch of couples. oh by the way, in both dreams the guys were telling me that they loved me even though it had only been going on for a couple of days, i don’t know if that matters. this time it did make it sealing the deal(i think) but we were just doing normal vacation stuff… drinking on the deck, cooking out, swimming but we were very lovey dovey. then a couple days before we were going to leave i started feeling guilty again, and decided to break it off. i was missing my husband and realized how stupid the whole thing was because i could lose my husband forever if he found out. oh and in this dream, for some reason my four month old son kept popping in and out of the dream, but my 4 year old was not in it. (both kids are from my husband)

i have no desire to cheat on my husband in waking hours, we have a very good, honest relationship. we’re best friends. even though it’s just a dream i feel guilty all day long wondering why i’m dreaming about this stuff.

also, i’ve always had this reoccuring dream that i’m back in highschool and i get that anxiety i used to get that i needed to get outta there. then finally i realize i’ve already graduated and i don’t need to be there anymore.

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My girlfriend left me for her ex!?
met her ten years ago. we hit it off. her ex had dumped her for another prior to that. they had been together for 6 months i think but friends for a few years before that. anyway – she and i went out for a year in 2000. then she dumps me for some stupid woman. i let her go.
didnt talk to her for about 3 and a half years. she calls me. we patch things up. we lived together for the last 5 years. 2005 to last week.
then she dumps me for her EX GIRLFRIEND who initially dumped her ten years ago! arrrghgh! are you kidding me?! i moved out quickly and told her to go to hell as any self respecting woman would have. lololo sad thing is this girl will just dump her AGAIN and i told her that as i was leaving. we are in our early 40’s.
what the hell is wrong with these women!!! oh – and this ex dumped her girlfriend at the same time as mine dumped me so they can be together – yet wont move out of her girlfriends house. she makes good money. so no excuse.
i think its pathetic. really bad thing is i know beyond a doubt my girlfriend will call me one day – when this woman dumps her *** yet again. how do you prepare yourself not to get sucked back in – even though you love them still?

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