We dated for over 2.5 years and then she broke up with me. It seemed sudden to me because i thought things were going great. She told me she just wasnt having fun with me, and shes been hanging out with this other guy that she says she has fun with. Its been about a month and a half since we broke up. For the last two weeks shes been calling me every day.
We still talk like we are in a relationship, we joke around with each other and she still flirts with me. She will call me when she is having a bad day or if she has something bothering her. She tells me that she doesn’t know if it will work with this guy.
I try to be as good of a friend as I can. The other night she called and we talked for two hours. She told me she misses talking to me and I’m her best friend. I would do anything to get her back. Do u think shes starting to rethink what she did and does she actually miss me? Is there anything i can do to try and get her back? Your help is really appreciated.
It is possible that she does really like you again. I would try and get her back. By her saying she misses talking to you maybe she’s trying to hint that she likes you.
And if she’s calling you everyday and says she misses you then she must really miss you. I think you should tell her how you feel even if she does turn you down. You have to be willing to wear your heart on your sleeve to prove to her that you really o love her and wanna be with her.
Okay, well I had a boyfriend over the summer. I had liked him for about 6 months before we went out. We went out for a month and a half. (I’m 13 and he’s 14) So we got in trouble in our neighborhood and he had to move. Since he had to move, I broke up with him because I didn’t know how much I would see him. When we broke up he cried. I felt really bad. but I didn’t know if I could trust him. I still talk to him a lot. I miss him, and I want him back. I was texting him the other day and I told him I missed him, and we needed to hang out and he said he missed me too, and we did need to hang out. He sent me the song "Fall For You" bye Secondhand Serenade. My uncle [my ex met my whole family. He went with me on Fathers Day to my uncles moms house.] was telling me about how I could have my ex back like ‘that’. And I do want him back, I miss him. What should I do? Do I have a chance?
I’ll give everyone some details to better answer my question. I am twenty, "he" is twenty-two, and we have zero contact. I met him through my husband (separated) in 2008. My husband came home one night and asked if "he" could move in because "he" needed to "get on his feet". I had met him a few times before and even went on double dates with him and his girlfriend. He was at my wedding. He moved in about a month and a half after my husband and I married. "He" and I became friends. My husband fucked up REALLY BAD and ended up moving out for a while. "He" and I became very close. He even moved into my room (we lived in a one-bedroom apartment) and slept in the same bed as me. We NEVER did ANYTHING past a friendship though. I HATE facing people when I sleep, so when he came to bed I would turn over. He would sigh, or laugh at me, or something. We would cuddle. He told me to touch him once, lol, but I refused. We then got into a discussion about how neither of us would make the first move. I found out I was pregnant (my husband’s of course) and I updated my status on MySpace (my husband and I had been trying to get pregnant for a long time before my marriage crashed). My status said "our baby". In a message "he" sent me, "he" said "When I saw that status I wished you were talking about me and you". Well…lets skip ahead. We rented a new apartment and my husband moved back in. "He" also got back with his ex-girlfriend (on again off again always). We drifted apart. I remained separated from my husband. One night, we were drinking and "he" kept sticking his face in mine (after he pulled me into the hall to talk) and I kissed him. "He" left with a friend and texted me while he was gone. I think "he" said "he" missed me but I am NOT positive. Well "he" has been saying "I love you" since the second double date (always in a text) so that is nothing new. Well we came close to having sex twice. The first time I think "he" muttered something like "I don’t know if this is right" and "he" went to the bathroom (we had been drinking…we did that a lot…lol). The second time "he" said "I love you" out loud like five or six times but then "he" passed out. So I covered him and went to bed in my own room. "He" ran down every guy I showed interest in. Yet, I wasn’t allowed to get jealous. "He" went through my phone numerous times. "He" found a text from my husband that had a picture of him and our son that read "This is what you have" and another text that had a picture of "him" and my son that read "Not this". "He" sent the same picture text of him holding my son that read "I want this" and he chose my ring tone "I stay in love" to send with it. My friend asked why he would send that and he said he was kidding. I told him I was in love with him and he said "I can’t love you like you love me, only love you deeply" then he said "I’m not saying I can’t get that way with you, but I feel I never had a chance when you had *****(husband) and ****** (son)" Then he said "Well, you showed me you loved me the other night because you were ready to have sex and you only do that with people you love, I know you, and I was ready and probably would have had I not passed out and I only do that with people I love" (CONFUSING!!!) If I would get distant he would bitch, but if I tried to get closer he would push me away, etc. Like if I never texted, he would bitch but when I texted he made me feel like a pain in the ass. Once he brought a friend home and I said "I love your’ accent!" and once his friend went to the bathroom, he goes "I love your’ accent!" ( mocking me ) He always did shit like that, push me away then bitch I was close, get jealous but hate when I did, but then sending texts saying I love you and talking about sex but then AHHHHH!!! I am going insane!!!!!! Well, recently he got angry that I made a picture collage and passed it to every friend at the party. He freaked!!! He said he was mad I put so many pictures of him passed out drunk on it and basically went psychotic on me. I said I was sorry and it was just a joke that EVERYONE was having fun with. Well then a LOT of bullshit came out. He said he had been miserable living with us since the fourth month (at this point we had lived together over a year AND like three of those months were just us – no husband), I was lazy and he did everything cleaning-wise (he never cleaned!!!), his friends "see right through me", I lost my chance a long time ago, ETC ETC ETC. Well then we worked everything out and were on civil terms, but I was still hurt. Well then another fight happened (I have no idea how this time) and he moved out. He came to get some things, my husband asked for his keys, he said no and said horrible things to my husband, then my husband chased him down and punched him like eight times, now my husband has court, and he HATES me. He told me to lose his number, refuses to talk to me, and told me to stay out of his life. He posts statuses about loving being "free", yet he a
also replies to MY statuses through his (why is he on my profile? he deleted me after that fight…). So…what the hell? Did he love me? Why is he being like this? He admitted through a text I am paying for my husband’s actions. I don’t deserve this!!! Why is he doing this? Why?!?! A friend called me and said she asked him if we ever did anything and he said "No that stupid bitch was on top of me kissing me and I told her to go away". Well I was on top of him and kissing him and he did excuse himself to end it, but he did NOT push me away or even excuse himself til deep into it. I sent him a text "No that stupid bitch was on top of me kissing me and I told her to go away? Want me to forward the texts saying "And I almost slept with you but I never hurt you like ***** (husband)?" He didn’t reply. He sent a text bitching the other day how my smoking was horrible and wrong I wouldn’t even quit for my own son and blah blah blah. I replied "…and shut the fuck up about my smoking! Its MY
choice and more like I wouldn’t quit for YOU. See? Never were worth it." And he stopped replying and got silent again. WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH HIM???????!!!!!!!!!!!!! just met, friends, VERY close friends, fling?, HATES ME?!?!? Are you fucking kidding? This sucks! Please help!!!
Me and my ex went out for almost a year. and we broke up about a month and a half ago. we had a great relationship of course we had our fights but we would always make up and get along great. I was so in love with him. i had never loved anyone as much as i loved him, not even my parents.
About 2 weeks before our relationship completely ended he randomly said that he needed a break because he hated how he never saw me and that its “killing him” he said we would take a break for 3 days. but the next day he texted me and was liek i can’t wait any longer. im sorry, lets try to make this work one more time. and so we did. but 2 or 3 times within the 2 weeks he would pretty much break up with me but we would talk it out. he blew me off twice within 3 days. and then at the end of the 2 weeks he just ended it. all he said was that it wasn’t working. and that the magic was gone. and that he still wanted to be friends.
Its been a month and a half we talk occasionally. but early last week we were talking for a couple days. which is abnornmal because before that we would just text to see how eachother were then stop. and this time we were actually talking and having full conversations for about 2 or 3 days. and then we just stopped but a couple days later i was just tired of hearing all these things he was saying about me so i finally just asked him straight up. and we talked everything out. it turns out none of it was true. but i heard that he was going to go out with this one girl that i had mat a couple times before. and i asked him and he never gave me a straight answer and finally he just said that he liked someone else. but of course he wouldn’t tell me who it was.
Then i asked him if he was over me. and he said idk. i asked him what he meant. and he said well i miss you but i dont want to go back out. then i asked if he would ever want to go back out, and he said well honestly i dont think so. after that he stopped texting me and i stopped texting him. i deleted his numbers from my phone and i deleted him from my facebook. i was so angry and i didnt really have a reason to be. but i woke up this morning and i just burst out into tears and i’ve been crying all day.
I really really really really miss him. like its so hard to not be talking to him anymore. but i really want to be over him at the same time. but then again all i do is want him back.
is there anyway to get him back?? or is it just hopeless.. and if there pretty much is no way to get him back how can i get over him..
I’ve tried everything but it doesnt seem to be working.
If your a guy and you were in his position would you take me back
If your a girl share some experiences, any advice that would help.
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Anyways, i went out the other night with one of my friends, we hung out and he helped me study so while i was in town i called another friend of ours who is a friend of my ex gf’s also, anyways i had’nt seen her in like a month and a half and still was feeling the same i was just had more to occupy my time, so i tried to call my friend and he didnt answer his phone so we went to his house and there sitting in the street was my ex gf’s car they were hanging out and i got angry and almost broke a window in his house, but they came out it was the first time they hung out, and i was upset i dont think either of them have ever seen me that mad i left her alone and now she does this? my friend there told me he didnt plan on it and that she said she liked him so im agrivated betrayed and hurt all in one visit, i treated her great and she said there was no spark for now and i dont know how id get it back, i dont think she cared about anything honestly. i dont know anything anymore.
Whats the best way to try and get my ex back?
