My girlfriend false accused again..i love her….but shes hurting me…please read and comment!?

okay please answerr thiss!
i am 17 and my girl is 17
k it all started i met my girlfriend through my other buddy who i was friends with in winnipeg (where i was born)
and i moved to vancouver and he went to school with her
i met her though myspace and we got along very very well ..we had eveything in common and we knew there was somthing special between us.
every summer i go back to winnipeg to se family and freinds so i went back to winnipeg that neext summer and i met her face to face. we had been talking on the phone and online for about 7-8 months prior.
i met her face to face, and it semed like we didnt even have to talk at all, the connection was right there. we already knew eachother and it was truly love at first sight
i spent the month of august in winnipeg with her everyday and everything was awsome
it was my dream come true, i thought i found my girl, the one whome im supposed to be with forever
the month passed and i had to come back home to vancouver so i left and it was really really hard to do. that hardest thing in my life.
i came back and things we different . she false accused me for many things, for cheating and lieing and doing things that are not me
she once fasled accussed me and she found out i was right and she swore never to do it again
but this christmas she was totally convinced i cheated on her beecuase i didnt call her alot (becasue of parents)
she did horrible things to me
she talked dirty to all of my friends, she dleteed my bands myspace, she hacked into my facebook and hotmail and deleted it..she says she loves other guys
she even admited to doing drugs becasue "i made her go crazy"
I DIDNT EVEN DO ANYTHING
she says she would never cheat on me
but when your intoxicated you dont know whats going on
all this becasue when i first started talking to her i said "love ya" to one of my other firends
and she took it as i was cheating and i "loved" other girls
so she took that idea and made the whole story up
she has done everything she can to hurt me and its getting me really badly
i have always been there for her and shes says i never loved her
she even hangs out with this 21 year old guy that she says she "loves"
probly just to make me jelous.
she admited to all the dirty talk to my buds just to make me jelous and she admited to the whole "cheating story"
her mom even called here and pretnded to be one of my freinds, just so i would answer the phone and gett smashed on for nothing that i did
she knows im a good person inside and this has happened before
i guess thats why they say long distance relationships never work
but i found somthing different in this girl
the girl i loved and adored in winnipeg is wayyyy different than the girl i know now
i fell in love with the lovly, smart, loving, caring, joyful, truthful girl
not the mean, abusive, lieing, jelous girl
shes accusing me for nothing that i did
and i think deep down she knows im a good person, but she cant belive that, and everytime we talk, she brings up me cheating
i keep saying "you are the one that made that up"
buts it really hard
we havnt talked since christmas eve when she hung up the phone on me after calling me horrible horrible names
she has hurt me in so many ways
but i still love her very much
i cant let go
but it hurts

please give me your thoughtss!!!!!
i belive she would never cheat on me
i know she wouldn’t go with any other guy and make out or have sex behind my back
i know that
i want to belive that
she says she loves this 21 year old guy, but i know its just to make me jelous for nothing that i did
i know she wouldn’t cheat on me
i know she wouldnt cheat
but why would she false accuse me??
people say shes crazy and im blinded
but it seems like shes kind of bi polar
shes really nice, then she false accuses me
iknow she wouldnt cheat
but why try to make me jelous for nothing that i did?
its really hard to get over, this all happens sooo very suddenly out of NOWHERE
and she takes it out on me harder and harder everytime
the last times she came back saying shes very sorry adn wont do it again
but it did happen again
i realy do love her,
but i dont want to get hurt anymore
she just doesnt realize the things that i have done
i am a good person
i wish she would just see that
i wish she would see the truth


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He treats her way differently than he treated me, no where near as sweet or as kind. His friend told him to date her, because he wants to get to her friend. Whenever they are together and Im near hes always looking at me. He does the little things he used to do to impress me when shes around but he looks at me when he does.

I still love him. But hes not the same man I fell in love with. Hes changed so much, for the worse. He was a MUCH better person with me. Everyone noticed, his family, teachers, he was changed. Now he might not graduate and he gets high every weekend.

Sorry for the long explanation but…what should I do?
Thanks for all the responses!

First off I am not dating this new guy. We were close friends before my ex and I even started dating. We are not dating but do hook up from time to time. I do not love him and he does not love me. He knows I am still in love with my ex.

We also were intimate…a lot lol. So that has nothing to do with it.

My ex has pretty low confidence and this is why he behaves the way he does. Im just not sure of his motives because from previous relationships when guys have critizied me after a break up they later confessed they still loved me and wanted to get back together.


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