How To Get a Boyfriend?

skills to get a boyfriendHow to get a boyfriend you ask? Did you know it takes a little luck and some skills? If you are anything like I was, a somewhat shy and a bit of a wallflower, you have felt the hurt and pain because you were ignored by a boy or man you really liked. And chances are your peers, may have laughed a little, just because you didn’t have the necessary skills to develop a relationship with this person.

Now here is some good news, it’s really not difficult to develop the knowledge to stop being a wallflower and so shy that men don’t pay any attention to you. The fact is once you have acquired the basic skills, you will realize how simple it is. A little motivation and a few ideas should be able put you on the right track.

Now before we get into this discussion in full, please understand I’m not trying to beat you down nor the men that have ignored you. Because there is a good chance you both have to shoulder a little of the blame. You because you haven’t taken the time nor the interest to develop your skills and the men because they don’t take the time to see you for who you really are.

Your close friends and family really know you are a caring and giving person, underneath your shyness. However, unfortunately many men only go by the first impression, and they often times interpret shyness as you being cold and unapproachable. But with practice you can quickly work around this problem.

Let’s take a look at a few things you may need to think about.

* Body language

When meeting or talking with someone do you stand with your arms crossed in front of your chest? If you do chances are you are conveying an “unapproachable” attitude. In other words, ‘don’t invade my space and I have no interest in you’ type of thing. Wow! That is a big turnoff to anyone, much less the man you are interested in.

What you should do when meeting someone is have your arms and hands down by your side or at least if you have them crossed do so below your waist. This indicates to the man or anyone, you are open and interested in them. Making a conscience decision to do this in all conversations and you will soon develop the habit of doing so unconsciously.

* Eye contact

It’s well known that most shy people have difficulty in having direct eye contact. A great many men have been taught from when they were young boys, that you should maintain eye contact during conversations. Consequently, if you don’t maintain eye contact, they feel you are ignoring them and have little if any interest in them at all. Therefore make a conscience decision to maintain eye contact as much as possible.

Keep doing this until it becomes an unconscious habit for you. Once you have reached the habit stage, it will be a major stepping stone to you being seen as open an approachable.

* Smile

Did you know a sincere smile, that not only shows on your lips, but travels to your eyes, will light up your whole face and body. It’s true! When a person is smiling they convey a sense of confidence, trust and openness. And men love a beautiful smile. It always causes them to take a second look.

As you can see, with a little practice, you really can develop the skills to get a boyfriend quickly. Not only will you get the man of your dreams, you will be able to keep him.


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Broken Heart Sayings – 5 Ways to Use Them!

how to get over a broken heartBroken heart sayings can be a good way to accelerate through the sad part of getting over a break up. Although it is not good to dwell on the negative for too long, you can use broken heart sayings to get over your ex as quickly as possible. Although there are several ways to do it, there are 5 great ways to use broken heart sayings.

As Motivation

Some people like to use quotes sad and broken heart quotes as motivation. They do not like to feel bad for themselves. When they see a constant reminder of this sad feeling, they become angry. Use the broken heart quotes around your home as motivation. If you do not like to see them, you can use them to get you into a more positive state of mind.

Status

Like Social Media is about to update your status. Sometimes you want to change your status to reflect how you feel. IT can also help others to fully understand how you feel about your situation. You can use broken heart quotes for your multiple social media status.

As a small reminder

It can be easy to take your mind off of what you are dealing with. When you have a busy day, you can ignore your feelings. While this may make things easier to handle in the short term it may make it harder for you in the long run. Use the broken heart quotes like little reminders in your day. They can make you sad, but they will force you to deal with what has happened. Eventually they will help you get over it.

Take up Time

Persons who have been through a break up, will often have a lot of time on their hands. The first few days should be about feeling sad. You can use broken heart quotes to help you take up time. They will help you manage your emotions, and will give you something to do.

Inspiration for Writing Poem

People who enjoy music often uses situations such as break ups as a reason to write songs. Use the broken heart quotes as inspiration for lyrics. Writing is a good deal of emotion, and these quotes will help you to use that outlet.


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Am I insane, I don’t know what to do.?

I think way too much into detail. I worry possibly a paranoia problem. My mind is racing all the time on how to improve what I am doing. Right now as I’m typing I’m enjoying the satisfying clicks of each button. It’s soothing to hear myself tap away at the keyboard. That might mean I’m also a narcissist. I do look in the mirror a lot. I don’t know why I do. I’m not much of a sight to see. I constantly think about the lines from a song called Time by Pink Floyd. The lyrics are: Ticking away the moments that make up a dull day
You fritter and waste the hours in an off hand way
Kicking around on a piece of ground in your home town
Waiting for someone or something to show you the way

Tired of lying in the sunshine staying home to watch the rain
You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today
And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun

And you run and you run to catch up with the sun, but its sinking
And racing around to come up behind you again
The sun is the same in the relative way, but youre older
Shorter of breath and one day closer to death

Every year is getting shorter, never seem to find the time
Plans that either come to naught or half a page of scribbled lines
Hanging on in quiet desperation is the english way
The time is gone, the song is over, thought Id something more to say

Home, home again
I like to be here when I can
And when I come home cold and tired
Its good to warm my bones beside the fire
Far away across the field
The tolling of the iron bell
Calls the faithful to their knees
To hear the softly spoken magic spells.
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These lyrics make so much sense and I feel like this is my life. I always try to catch up with sun…or anything but it always sinks. My motivation always sinks into a pit of despair and dullness with the doldrums of life. "How do I tackle this?" I am constantly asking. I was smoking weed one day and came home fell asleep the next day I felt dizzy and completely out of it. I was reading and studying things in this state and I enjoyed it. I wasn’t high but I felt relaxed and somewhat happy. For some reason though I wrote this in my notes: "People question other peoples motives and thirst for knowledge. I question why it matters to them. Maybe their the ones who should be questioned. They need to look inside and question their own motives. Maybe the people who are put down do what they do because they need to. Maybe it’s not because they want to do the things they do, maybe it’s because they have to. What’s wrong with saying black if someone else wants white. What’s wrong with saying: ‘No I will not conform.’? I’m glad a lot of people admit their problems or know them. But that’s not enough. They still question. They need to stop. Listen, look at the world. Then they need to see after they look. Then when they see they will realize. Upon realization they will understand and once they understand… Their need for questions will subside. And when they have a question they will first ask themselves this: ‘Am I not like them? And should it matter?"

See I right really weird things. I don’t know what to do. Now I feel like I’m trying to be insane. Maybe I’m conforming by posting this on the internet. Maybe I’m pathetic because I can’t fix myself without help. But I just can’t do it. The sun is sinking and I don’t know how to catch it. Am I doing this because I have nothing better to do? Do I really have no life? Am I saying all of this to get the image I’m insane? What the hell am I doing. I don’t wanna make people less of me. I hate that. I don’t want you to judge me please don’t. I don’t want to judge you. So am I fucked up? Please help…Just help.


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Help with something I percieve as addiction?

First of all, I like playing mmorpg’s alot. Runescape, Runes of Magic, Rose online, maplestory, etc. I stopped playing all of them but I started runes of magic. ITs like WoW as people say, but i never played WoW and i dont plan on doing so.

I am not a game addict, but i regard myself as one. The only time i play games (mmorpg’s) is at night from 11:00p.m to 2:00p.m. If i were home alone, I would probably play all day. I’m sick and tired of this dumb habit. I understand that mmorpg’s like WoW and others mentioend above are a total waste of life. These games give absolutly nothing except for messing up peoples lives. I want to stop playing mmorpg’s totally. Playing these games is sort of what i do in my free time. 3 hours everyday. Its summer, so thats probably normal for most people. But for me its the same thing as playing 24/7. Can anyone help me, give advice, or motivation to stop playing games. I am going to make the first move by un-installing all games on my computer. I did this two times before but I downloaded other mmorpg’s after 6 months or so. Now I want to stop 100% and I am willing to do whatever it takes.

One thing I want someone to clearly explain to me is the point of playing these games. I want to know what good I gain from these games. I always ask myself, "why do I play this game?" I jsut want to stop for the rest of my life and I don’t want this habit to stick with me when I am in college.

Things I have been doing to stop this addiction is

"driving training". MY goal is to finish it as soon as possible and start driving with friends. Takes my mind of games.

Music- listening to music relaxes me. I only like listening to music when I am doing nothing, so this helps.

Reading stuff online (general knowledge/stuff i’m itnerested in: biology) news. I’m going to start reading about car parts so I can fix my own car.

Recently got a program called blender. (Not a game) I want to make small animations like Ice Age. You can make games with it, but i do not want to.

Working out: I can’t go to the gym, can’t drive yet, so i’m creating a workout plan for home: pushups, sit-ups, crunches, leglifts, weights, etc.

Is this a good start to get away from addiction to games?
Please help me in any way.


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I will break this up into parts, how can I beef it up and make this sound ‘snazzy’…it has to do with many the levels of conciousness on Earth. My system is based on the Kabalah, but actually falls in line with modern theory called Spiral Dynamics, if anyone’s heard of it:

Aspirant-Level (corresponding to Blue Meme)

This is the first level where people are beginning to understand the nature of self-less Love. Aspirants have advanced jobs, have good credit own their homes- as well as create outreach programs and systems of law to help the evolution of society because for the first time, their motivation is to live in peace with their fellow Man. However, Aspirants are still heavily chained to their emotions so they are easily seduced and do not feel truly alive unless they are living ‘life to fullest.’ This can be seen, as their family often serves as their highest commitment in Life. Countries that have their government based in Democracy are Aspirant level people. When everyone reaches this level, we will have worldpeace

Disciple-Level (corresponding to Orange and Green Meme)

This is the disgruntled, spiritual-seaking level of Humanity. They travel from workshop to workshop thinking they are a ‘on a mission’ and are driven by the need to KNOW. Spiritual Zealots abound here: Im an angel, E.T. abductees, indigo children and the like. Others become succesful businessman, inventors, dualists, globalists, environmental advocates or even politicians. This level is also the beginning of psychic development. Studies in aura reading, past lives, yoga, magic, telepathy channeling, and the like become the accepted way of life for the Disciple.


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