How would you feel about these things my ex is saying? Is it just honesty?

I broke up with me ex boyfriend we were both 22, virgins and met online, well we were still friends really but just dating getting used to each other. I told him on msn I don’t think it would work out however he didn’t take it very well and started saying things like ‘geez I must be seriously ugly’ I said ‘no your not and you will find a girl who you will fancy way more than me’ He replied ‘Don’t take this the wrong way but when I first saw you I wasn’t so sure but it was your personality I liked’.

He apologized and said he was ‘sorry for acting like an a**hole’ and said that he still wants to talk with me yet is still indirectly insulting me. :/ Like last week he was complaining to me over msn about his life and how girls ignore him etc and how he must be ugly etc I was trying to comfot him and told him he was far from ugly and he will find the right girl and then he replied with ‘well lets be honest, I couldn’t even start with you’. He wanted me to rate on out of 10 he is insecure about his looks. Then went back to talking about his life again. He does compliment me too he said I was more level headed than most girls lol.

He said before I met him that he speaks his mind but is he really just being honest or are these things he says about me something that I shouldn’t have to hear? Is it just me being petty and him being honest? He was nice to me while it lasted but when I broke up with him he posted a thread on a forum we both go on asking for advice saying that he was worried about being very ugly because he met a girl who wasn’t exactly the best of looking (referring to me) and even though he lowered his standards and gave me a chance he still got rejected.

I don’t know what was going on in his head he has apologized since but was he just being honest or was it emotional revenge in a way? Maybe guys would be better answering this..
btw try not to judge me by age its just a number lol Im the first to admit Im immature for my age but I thought breaking up gently was better than leading him on.



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well it was say 6 months ago we broke up and i deleted him of msn and everything and i havent really seen him since
um the other day he was over my friends house his a guy friend and he was talking to me over his msn
and saying his sorry etc and that i should add him again
the thing is his got a girlfriend and his had actually several after me
and the thing is he really really liked me so it kind of surprised me when he dumped me
anyways how could i make him jelous you know with display picture names on my personal message thing etc what coudl i do ??
and plz don’t tell me to move on or whateva just help me with the msn thing
and i would love to become like good friends with him too i guess.
thanks :]
guys answer plz and you haven’t really answerd
i wanna know what to put in display picture me with guys in the photo or just me or me with my girls
or my personal message thing what should i say in it


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Hiya

Right Well Its A Little Complicated. . .

My Ex Bf Broke Up With Me A Week And A Half Ago Because Of College And Apparently He Was Growing Apart From Me. I REALLY Loved/Love Him And He Knew That. He Ended It After 9 Months On MSN :( He Said He Couldn’t Bear Doing It To My Face. Now He’s Saying We Can’t Be Friends Because It Will Be Too Uncomfortable.

I’ve Tried To Get Him Back But He Doesnt Want Me. I Didnt Talk To Him And Vice Versa For A Couple Of Days But Two Days Ago He Popped Up On Msn And Started Saying He Was Horny Etc, He Needs Sex Even If Its Just One Night Etc, I Know I Shouldnt Of But I Said Similar Things Back To Him. I Was Happy For A Day After That Because I Really Love Him And Thought That He Might Want To See Me, Even If It Is Just For Sex :(

Anyway Last Night He Started Talking Again But Was Telling Me About This New Girl In College That He Really Really Likes And Is Really Fit And That They Have So Much In Common, He Said He Is Going To Try And Get With Her. Then He Went On About All The Fit College Girls And How Theres So Many Temptations :(

Im So Upset. I Love Him More Than Anything In The Whole World And I Really Need Him Back. I Can’t Believe How Quickly He Found Someone Else :(

Help Please, What Do I Do, Whats Your Opinion?

Thanks
Oh And He Also Said "Did You Know My Friend Fooled Around With His Ex After They Split For A While, Dont Tell Anyone" Just Completely Randomly Whilst Saying How Horny He Is And What He Would Do To A Girl, He’s Confusing Me, I Don’t Know What He Wants.
Aussie. . . I Know I Do But I Love Him And We Were Together 9 Months, And I Dont Know Whether He Wants Sex Anymore Or He Wouldnt Of Gone On And On About This Other "Fit" Girl.


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I knew a girl 2 years ago, met her through school, got her msn. We talked on webcam more or less everynight until 1 lol. The year , we was both shy, we could talk for hours over msn, but say nothing in person :( .

Then came the second year, we started truth and dare questions on msn, I got good results, yet still did not follow them. She said if she was alone with me for 7 minutes, she would cuddle with me, she asked me back, I said the same , and also kiss you if you let me. She said she wouldnt mind sleeping with me at all, and kissing me as I was her closest friend ever.

Now, when I had the confidence to tell her I liked her, it was too late, we asked each other on dates previously, but couldnt attend either due to personal complications :(

She seemed dead interested in me, always on msn, asking me to the cinema, park etc. But when I told her, she said she wouldnt want to risk a relationship with me as you are my best friend. Skip to the end of high school, school prom. I still liked her, and flirted with her, brushing past her etc, just letting her know I liked her still, then on the way home on the coach, she texted me saying meet me after everyone has gone, although I couldnt as my parents were already there. I was 99% sure she wanted to kiss me, but I messed it all up. Anyway, I had to be with her , I couldnt let her go.

So I took the same course as her ( i also like this course as it helps me in the future also ) , first 3 weeks great, but after then she drifted away from me, not speaking much anymore, not around my house, I felt annoyed by this, asked her not to forget about me etc, we got into a MEGA argument and fell out BADLY. We didnt talk for 7 weeks, and we saw each other EVERYDAY! That was torture, plus other lads were flirting with her and I couldnt take it anymore. But today, it was the last day before Christmas, I wanted to talk to her again, I asked her something, expecting a Wow you decide to talk to me now?

But no, in her soft voice which she only used when speaking to me, she answered me, also i asked her if she had gotten a card/present from anyone at college, she said no. So I gave her one, she said you didn’t have to, I said its only a card :) . Plus I gave her a present earlier.

I THINK i did the right thing, I started conversation again, her body language for the past 3 weeks showed she still liked me, and when I talked, she didnt bite my head off, but was sweet :O

What should I do now? I want to get back with her – BOYFRIEND or Friend again.

Start flirting again? Talking to her more ?

Please help – I thought I did well getting her something when no one else did :)


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Hiya

Right Well Its A Little Complicated. . .

My Ex Bf Broke Up With Me A Week And A Half Ago Because Of College And Apparently He Was Growing Apart From Me. I REALLY Loved/Love Him And He Knew That. He Ended It After 9 Months On MSN :( He Said He Couldn’t Bear Doing It To My Face. Now He’s Saying We Can’t Be Friends Because It Will Be Too Uncomfortable.

I’ve Tried To Get Him Back But He Doesnt Want Me. I Didnt Talk To Him And Vice Versa For A Couple Of Days But Two Days Ago He Popped Up On Msn And Started Saying He Was Horny Etc, He Needs Sex Even If Its Just One Night Etc, I Know I Shouldnt Of But I Said Similar Things Back To Him. I Was Happy For A Day After That Because I Really Love Him And Thought That He Might Want To See Me, Even If It Is Just For Sex :(

Anyway Last Night He Started Talking Again But Was Telling Me About This New Girl In College That He Really Really Likes And Is Really Fit And That They Have So Much In Common, He Said He Is Going To Try And Get With Her. Then He Went On About All The Fit College Girls And How Theres So Many Temptations :(

Im So Upset. I Love Him More Than Anything In The Whole World And I Really Need Him Back. I Can’t Believe How Quickly He Found Someone Else :(

Help Please, What Do I Do, Whats Your Opinion?

Thanks
Also Whilst Saying What He Would Do To A Girl He Randomly Said " Did You Know That My Friend And His Ex Fooled Around After They Split?" Out Of The Blue.

He’s Giving Me Mixed Signals


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