im a libra gal…i like ths scorpio guy,yes been close to him b4 few mths back…few mths back,we got not so good argument,actually its about im telling him tht i might in love to him 
well at tht time actually i just want cheer him up when he’s upset but at the time he got news tht his ex wanna married…he told to his close friends also tht our friendship(me n him) over already,he said the condition totally changed at tht time…
i feel so lost of him at tht time…frm sept to nov i keep remember abt him,im on purpose stop any comm with him,i know also tht the condition already different n not to so nice last time…in his bday,i gave him a special present who made him contacting me back afterward…
i was giving the present through his friend,i dont hv face to faced him at tht time…i was shocking when he said thx to me afterward…
after tht,not so long frm tht time….my dad got stroke…i didnt ask him to visit my dad in hospital but yet he still come even his house really far frm my house area…everytime i remember tht,it bcomes a strength for me to faced on my family problem now…
i got so touching coz he still care on me….yes he said it care as a friend,but i feel so great when i remember tht he still care me…
even not so intense like last time,but now we still communicate again…
now i bcome more careful on the way i behaved…i dun get any miscomm again with him,coz im scared to lost him again for 2nd time…he still want spend time with me again even yes he keep little bit distance….he told me when he got fever,i try to be care n he say thanks…
dear friends in ths forum
y he still giving me 2nd chance to communicate back with him even he really know tht i love him so much…last time when he knew it,i thought he also will forget abt me at all but now he still nice n care also 2 me…now i feel scared with my own feeling…even i meet other guys,but my mind still full of him…
oh god,i still hoping to be with him actually…lol,y God giving me 2nd chance like ths now?? 
actually im asking ths question coz i think if scorpio decide something….it will be fixed….thts y i feel bit wonder y he still gv me 2nd chance…
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…and they break up…Do you think that you need to stop talking to them?
My sister in law was going out with my husband and I’s friend (who was our friend before they got together) for a few mths.only a few mths. They move in together and they broke up after a few weeks of living together..seriously less than a month. …yeah I know. They’ve been broken up for about 3 weeks now.
Anyway….our friend has a little girl a little younger than ours. And he invited us up to his house (she moved out since he paid for the whole place) so the girls could play,we could see his new puppy and so my husband and him could pay some new video game..lol. I took pictures of the girls playing and the puppy and posted them to my myspace. I figured our friend could save the pics of his little girl and his dog and have them too. My sister in law posts a myspace status saying "you never know who will stab you in the back,especially family" then her mood said " betrayed" I can only assume she means her brother and I have "betrayed’ her by visiting our friend.
Now we have tried to remain neutral on this thing. really. How can we tell out friend " No…we can’t hang out with you…because of a break up that has nothing to do with us"
She expects "loyalty" from us when she would always send my husband’s ex g/f messages and saying they were going to hang out and stuff. Did I get pissed? No. Because they were friends before I got on the scene…regardless of my feelings for my husband’s ex!!
Now this has only just happened…but I guarantee you it will snowball into something huge. My mother in law who already hates me will take her side and since that’s where my sister in law lives..we will not be able to go over there.
I said to myself "maybe I shouldn’t post these pictures"..but I thought she would mature enough to understand that my husband and I and our friend have a right to hang out with whoever we want and its not OUR fault things didn’t work out between them….
I’m not taking the pics down…that would show that I thought I did something wrong…and I don’t think I did.
thoughts on this situation?? advice?
No he didn’t abuse her. It was just a fight .
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My husband and I were planning on moving to another state due to his job offer. 2 mths ago he told me that he wasnt n love with me anymore and was trying 2 get da love back 4 me. Then once he moved, bcuz i have to sell da house, he said that he sees us betta off as friends. Recently i found out that he was on myspace as single and he has been emailing other women, before we separated. I could he make a huge decision just like that within a week. I dont understand, i know our marriage werent perfect at times, but it takes hard work. we got married at 19 and have been for 4 years now. i want him back, then again i dont bcuz this is his 2nd time leaving me bcuz he wasnt n love wit me. The difference is, he said that he wanted a divorce this time. I am a good woman and I am graduating next month with a bachelors degree. Everyone is saying that he is going to regret his decision. i wanted our marriag to work, what should i do, how can i get pass this pain and stop feeling sorry for myself?
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She does nt want to try any more because she is went out last weekend and met this guy whom she said she would be happy to see again. Now I know I have messed up in the past. I know the importance of family. I have been separated for nine mths. I dont want to see other people. I want my family back. But she wants to see this guy. I told her today I will do what ever it takes. If she gu=ives it a mth while we stay under the same roof we might work. She told me she does nt want us any more. I meant every word I said to her. I could nt work today thinking about her and the kids. How do I deal with this pain.
I miss the kids when I go to my house. We have also been sleeping together while I have been staying apart. How do i she her that I really want things to work. I really love my family.
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It happened at work- he charmed me to no end, flirted w/ me, interfered w/ my job performance by initiating deep, personal and talk-about-everything conversations. He would follow me around our workplace, turn red when I walked in the room, etc. Though not initially physically attracted to him, I fell hard eventually. About 6 or 7 mths. ago, he began dating another girl at our workplace. He didn’t seem to have any problem going into explicit details about their sexual exploits, seemingly MAKING SURE that I found out. What a scumbag! No class What sealed his fate, though were the tatoos they both got of each other in I’ll-only-let-you-guess-what-places during a "romantic rendezvous" weekend he took her on to a place on the other side of this country. Mind you, the weekend they spent at this locale occurred very quickly after they 1st met indicating to me that it was one in which only immediate pleasures were fulfilled. I will never forgive him, even if he has the tatoos removed
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