i need a quote or a poem about being heartbroken but you’re going to be okay .. or something like that . maybe a song? it’s for my myspace.
all answers are appreciated, but please make them serious .
or quote sites .
March 20th, 2006 I short description about my breakup. ATTENTION! It was a girl’s house I was at, not guys. And no I did not cheat. By the way, I am over him. Also, where I say “he has even blocked me on myspace!” I am not saying that myspace is my life or anything, I just said it because it was the last thing he did. And don’t take it too seriously because I wasn’t being too serious when I said that.
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My husband is in the Marines and stationed over in Japan until April. He just went back in August from leave. Everything was going great and then out of the blue, he started asking me if there was anything I wanted to tell him. I have been completely faithful throughout our four year realtionship but he has cheated three times and constantly lied. We split up for two years and he joined the Marines. We got back together and got married. I never stoped loving him. Well so about a week ago he gets mad about a comment I left on myspace to a friend of mine and it was nothing. He even talked to the friend. (when he left back to duty, he made me move into his dads house, which I only did for my hysbands peace of mind) I do not go out very often and when I do it is with a group of friends. He just would not let the comment I left go. So it got me to thinking. I checked his myspace and low and behold he was feeding his mother a bunch of lies about me. Like I was a bad wife, and only hung out with guys and I didn’t give a damn about him and so on. (He did this in the past but we are married now) I asked him if he said anything bad about me to his mom. I asked him three times and he denined it everytime. Finaly I showed him the IM conversation with his mom (which she told him that he was in the right and he should teach me a lesson, what mother says that?) Anyway, I love him and I want forever with him and says he is going to therophy i am just not sure if I should stick it out. Can we save our marriage? I want both guys and girls to tell me what you think..Please Help
I am also pregnant with his child.
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I dated this girl for over a year. Found out she cheated on me so I broke up with her. She started dating another guy a week after we broke up; she cheated on me with him to. Right before we broke up, she would constantly berate me (she was setting me up for the break-up). Post break up she flaunted her new relationship in my face and treated me like s***. I was nothing but great to her and I was really messed up for months.
A year later I’ve seen moved cities, got an awesome job, met tons of new people, and a new girl who treats me great. I’m having the best time of my life and I couldn’t be happier.
But, I still think about how my ex treated me like s*** and it still angers me. I know she broke up with her boyfriend and her myspace says something about how all men are pigs. I want to send her an email telling her how great my life is without her. I want to make her feel like crap. I think it would make me feel a whole lot better. Should I do it?
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We met on myspace roughly 2 1/2 years ago on the school forum. When we’d decided to meet up and go to a movie, it was really easy to talk to him about nothing, our conversation flowed over a million topics (which is REALLY rare, my closest friend besides him has trouble getting me to talk)
The day after we met, he asked me out and I accepted. For 3 months everything felt fantastic, then one day I woke up and was like…this isn’t right, this isn’t going to work. I broke up with him after figuring out why that feeling came so suddenly. (I’m really not a big fan of commitment, my parents are a fine example of jumping into a commitment too fast)
We didn’t talk for a few months; he’s the kind of guy that attaches and doesn’t let go so I think I broke his heart then. I sent him a message asking how things were going. After a bit we were back to talking like before. For the next two years, I’d thought that we were just friends, that he was over his crush. I’ve always been protective of him, but I figured it was because I didn’t want his easily-hurt feelings messed with. But awhile back he told me that he wasn’t over me, he couldn’t handle me dating, breaking up, and then crying to him that there was nobody out there for me. So he cut off contact again. The next few days were…I didn’t bother getting out of bed, with the exception of using the bathroom. After that, I thought that I was okay. I tried to off myself once, but for another reason. My mom and my friends noticed the difference that I didn’t see, though…I didn’t talk as much, I rarely laughed and if I did it sounded forced.
I didn’t realize how beat up I was over the whole thing until one day I wanted to go sort issues out with someone who showed serious stalker-like tendencies. I had a fight with my mom, and she was like "well maybe he’s just jealous and overprotective" and I said that that seemed to be a problem I had with lots of my guy friends and I started crying a little bit. My brother said in a very rude way "Why the heck are you crying? It’s because your a little Wh*** that attracts perverts right" and I said ‘No, it’s because I miss him you a**hole’ and I just absolutely broke down. That night, he called. When my mom told him how messed up I’d been, he drove over at 1AM on a school night to come comfort me because I’d started crying uncontrollably when I heard his voice on the other line.
We sat in his car for 3 hours just talking. And I’d ended up falling asleep with my head in his lap after he put his jacket over me because I was shivering. I realized that maybe I do have deeper feelings for him…
Now here’s the drama…one day I came over, and I don’t know what happened, I kissed him. And it escalated. He stopped me and said ‘I can’t do this, I have a girlfriend’. I was…devastated. Not only because he’d rejected me, but also because I hadn’t known that he had a girlfriend, and I basically just totally skewered their relationship. The guilt was so great that I’d tried to choke myself while he was downstairs. He pulled the hairties off my neck and held me until I stopped crying. We’ve still gotten closer since then though. He broke up with his ex, and now he’s talking to me about our futures…and how he hopes that they could possibly be combined. I don’t think I deserve him, and I’m horribly afraid to commit to something like that. I’m just so confused…
And I’m just…afraid to hurt him again. He’s the best person someone could know. But my commitment issues are just absolutely out of control, and I’ve been scared of getting into relationships lately. Also; some days he’s attractive to me and others I just see him as my best friend. It’s making me mad, because it’s even more proof that I don’t deserve him.
The summary is:
He liked me, I liked him. I stopped liking him, I dumped him. We didn’t talk for awhile, then we started again. For awhile I thought things were awesome, then he said he was jealous and stopped talking again. I got really down, and he came and made me feel better. The whole thing made me think that maybe I do have feelings for him, my emotions are just crazy around him. I kissed him not knowing he had a girlfriend and he proved how decent he was by stopping me. We’re closer then ever before, but sometimes he’s the guy I’m n love with, other times he’s just my best friend.
And I need to add that when I’m laying next to him on the couch justlounging, I feel so at peace it’s amazing…
Basically I’m asking for advice about what to do, if I should act on it or if I’ll just end up hurting him again..
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